At the moment i'm still in college, not working, but looking for work, and doing SL 5x5.

I'm not trying to say there is no point in getting my life sorted in regards to career and housing and hobbies and shit like that, but i'm trying to understand how getting all that stuff in check makes me interact better with women.

Will it make me more confident with them? If so, how? Or does it just make me care less about what they think of me?

I'd like to hear from any guys who became good with women by getting the rest of their life together. I see PUA's living from their friend's sofas pulling women and it baffles me.