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Also, have a few tricks up your sleeve to pull girls. Would you mind elaborating?
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 03:16 PM
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I always use a deep slow, steady paced tone, but yeah inside i do feel a bit nervous, especially when I think a girl is into me.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:38 PM
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I'm selective. Perfect. We had a bunch of Romanian guys as temps at work the other day. One walked up to me and started talking to me in his language. I'm not Italian, but without exaggerating, I've been called Indian, Chinese, Italian, Spanish, Mexican, Brazilian, Pakistani, Iranian, Turkish. The list goes on. But seriously, I read somewhere on TRP a while back, that hand gestures should be kept below the waist. Is that something you subscribe to?
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:06 PM
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How many do you recommend and what type? Long or girthy?
/r/askTRP11/03/18 09:08 PM
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It's how i respond to them thats the problem, if i ignore them, she might think i don't like her, if i respond with horny replies, she might think im just some beta schmuck desperate for pussy.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 07:55 PM
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Yeah i definitely think I am too invested in her. Scarcity mindset. She is back down for easter, if she wants to come, she will. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 01:04 AM
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Lesson learnt
/r/askTRP10/03/18 06:21 PM
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It's scarcity mindset for me at the moment, trying to break into abundance but still live at home with mom at 26, and still have that internal feeling of not being "enough". I'll crack it soon.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:54 PM
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Yeah soft next it is. I failed and broke frame a little bit, asked her again and even said I'll walk her home. Now I feel stupid.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:52 PM
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Make it know to who? The employer? Are you saying I should go in and just seem really really keen? because the truth is, right now I just want any job. bar work, retail. And I can;t fake passion for any of them.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:41 PM
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So you got a job now?
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:40 PM
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I always stumble when I get asked "Why do you think you should work for us" question. I hate trying to blow my trumpet. How do you answer without sounding cliche?
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:40 PM
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How did you manage to ask her for a kiss without coming off as beta? "Can i kiss you?" Doesn't that go against what we are learning here?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 03:21 AM
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How low exactly were your test levels to be prescribed test? I know modern doctors advised average is a huge bracket. its like saying "The average human adult male is between 3 and 7ft tall."
/r/askTRP24/08/17 04:13 PM
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This rings with me. I still live my mum at 25. She was overly nurturing and compassionate, and I can see the damage it's done to me, only after having discovered the Redpill. I avoid any sort of situation which could escalate into a fight or conflict, and have submissive fetishes. Realizing what's wrong is the first step right?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 03:42 AM
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You are worrying too much about what potential women think of you. That needs to stop I agree. But I can't just flick a switch.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:57 PM
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I am aware of that, no idea how to get rid ofthis desire though.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:56 PM
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Idon;t watch TV, I just browse reddit, watch good shows like GoT, breaking bad, better call saul etc. Music Is heavy metal mainly.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:55 PM
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Thanks for the in depth response. Do you mind telling me what you was like before you started all this? As you said, I am more aware of the social dynamics, hypergamy etc. But I'm still wondering how to break my old mindset of fearing the approach, how i am percieved, if I will upset anyone trying to act"cocky funny" etc. I keep telling myself that I should try and become a cocky, aloof, teasing asshole, but i still fear being rejected, being noticed by AMOGS and potentially embarassed or threat…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:55 PM
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Will remember.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 12:53 PM
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Ok thanks dude.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 12:53 PM
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I hear that it's all a mental game, and i agree after lifting, i feel less submissive, more cocky, out going etc. it's when I;m sat at my computer doing some work, or just generally in my head, that it crops up
/r/askTRP16/04/17 09:50 PM
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I like that solution thanks man.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 05:22 AM
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Bulking at the moment, cut is definitely in the pipeline, a long way down the pipeline mind. Looks and money are easy enough to work on, but what about status? I've been thinking about trying to forget about what to say with women to attract them, and focusing on mastering connections with guys first. Do you think this is a viable strategy? I read somewhere if you can master relating with men, gaming women becomes easier.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 03:24 PM
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currently lifting 3x a week, getting hair cuts, drumming in a metal band, studying accounting at college. Does saying i'm studying in college increase my SMV? I just feel like everything I say just doesn't really matter, but if a trendy guy with a good jaw line says the same thing, people will pay attention.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 03:15 PM
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But how do you flirt and game them properly without saying much? When you first start talking to a woman you want to fuck, you need to express things about yourself. This requires talking. Do I start off saying more than her, and get her talking more once rapport is built and she's (more) comfortable?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 02:28 AM
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You answered a question I was about to ask, when we were flirting we were in a small kitchen with a lot of people about, obviously a bad idea to go for the kiss with all those people around, i know i should isolate her.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 08:02 PM
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I did, we had a few conversations, but then i went to socialize with the others. I teased, asked her about herself, trying to get her to qualify to me, something i still struggle with. I have a genuine thing for women with nice eyebrows, so i said i liked hers, which i did. Been told to only compliment if it's genuine. At the end of the night, as I was leaving, i got her number, when i had it, i said "see you later" as I put my arm on her shoulder, smiled, and walked off. Anywhere i went wrong, …
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:51 PM
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Right?
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:49 PM
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My last text to her was "I believe in you" (being sarcastic obviously) her response was "glad someone does" I havent responded and its been 4 days.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:48 PM
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She is English, and she teaches English, to English kids. Literature and stuff.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:47 PM
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But you shouldn't care about what a girl wants, you should care about being the best guy possible. The girls will come as a byproduct. This leads to my previous post, where I asked how "getting my shit together" will improve my game. I don;t see how become better at life makes girls want you more, theres always those who have all the money, the house, and the car, but still can;t pull for shit, or if they do, it's just because they have all of those.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:47 PM
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So even if they don't want to gobble your mushroom after like roughly half an hour of flirting, it could still be "on"?
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:45 PM
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I'm definitely gonna pursue, maybe send her a text on saturday see if she is able to come. But it seems to reinforce my neediness if i get rejected.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:44 PM
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Right thanks man.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 02:39 PM
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I do put the pussy on a pedestal in a way, i don;t shower them with compliments or do favours for them, but the second I realise that i fucked up and they don't want to fuck me, i go no contact with them.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 02:34 PM
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So focus on getting laid and then focus on getting my career together right?
/r/askTRP17/11/16 02:32 PM
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Question: Does this apply to gaming women? Is'nt just asking questions and seeming really interested iin them a way to turn them off? I heard of a report that said on dates, men do better when they act aloof and shit.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 12:11 AM
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Ok cheers.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 09:01 AM
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Right i'll remember that, thanks man.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 09:01 AM
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Alright I take your advice on board, can you tell me what I should have said instead?
/r/askTRP30/10/16 03:10 AM
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I disagree, I was playful enough, if you're on about the bit where i tell her I want a yes or no, i've already explained why I said that. You reckon I should have been more playful when I asked her to meet a second time?
/r/askTRP30/10/16 02:08 AM
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it might be difficult to fit with your frame/SMV Yeah, i made out like i've had loads of tinder dates and matches, when in reality i haven't. fake it until you make it right?
/r/askTRP29/10/16 08:09 PM
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I've been using "you look like a sexy chipmunk" if they have pronounced cheeks when they smile or a little overbite. Got a few good responses, but it's not an offensive opener per se. 2: Ok 3: Not getting a huge amount of matches to be honest, still struggling to do cold approaches. I only go for it if they're alone. 4: Should I have asked for her number, and then asked her on a date (well not ASK her) over text instead? Does it make a difference?
/r/askTRP29/10/16 07:56 PM
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yeah the Brad Pitt rule or whatever it's called was running through my head. So you're saying that when I asked her to make a decision, it was too forceful? I should have just gently asked her something like "So you coming on thursday?"
/r/askTRP29/10/16 07:53 PM
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I could open funny, but how do get her to qualify herself without sounding like a sperg? Also, I'm not sure what I can humble brag about to be honest.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 07:48 PM
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Posted above
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:56 PM
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Deadlift - 115Kg 3x5 Squats 112Kg 3x5 Bench 77.5Kg 5x5 Ohp 47.5Kg 5x5
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:56 PM
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I appreciate the advice. Regards to what you said, they need a signature from her or some bullshit, even though i'm on the birth certificate. She refuses to give it.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 09:51 PM
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The court order does state i am to have him fridays until sundays, at certain times, but we switch it about to suit us better. The nursery is free, because all kids that age get free child care in our country.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 09:41 PM
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UPDATE: Went to the doctors, i've been given a ticket to get a blood test done, which will measure my testosterone. Progress is good.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 09:59 AM
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All makes sense. hormones affecting our behavior and it being a horrible cycle etc. I'm gonna plowthrough some maledom even though i'll be craving femdom. One last question if you don't mind; You say you relapsed recently, did you become more submissive again after relapsing to femdom?
/r/askTRP15/09/16 05:47 PM
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This is a good response, but can you ellaborate on how to imrpove my "shortness of breath"? I find I have this when talking, the end of my sentences, my throat feels like its contracting.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 08:47 PM
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Update: Still havent seen doctor, keep having to change the date of appointment because of work.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 06:48 PM
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So sort of condition myself to not like femdom? I've thought about this before, but i thought that these femdom tendencies have been so far ingrained in me from since i was young, getting bullied, trying to please people, never wanting to offend. Do you honestly think I can reverse my semi-beta nature by jacking off to maledom? It sucks you relapsed mate, i relapsed 2 days ago, but im going to wait 5 days and give what you said a go. You say you felt more alpha ona 30day streak off of femdom, an…
/r/askTRP11/09/16 06:48 PM
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Booked appointment now, it's triage so they said they'd get back to me.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 09:15 AM
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Thanks, and keep fighting the good fight.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 06:22 PM
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This yohimbe appeals to me. I do believe mine is mostly psychological, my cardio is shit, but after every gym session doing SL 5x5, im pissing sweat out of every pore.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 06:21 PM
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I'll mention those things, and not specifically mention testosterone, hopefully they'll get my drift.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 07:36 PM
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I'm not fat really, about 18% body fat, no double chin.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:52 PM
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Full hormonal will cover testosterone right? I'll be able to see how much T i have? Doctors get a bit pissy when you mention testosterone
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:51 PM
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I'm gonna stick it out this time.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:51 PM
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Day 20, i'm counting down the days.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:50 PM
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I only work out 3 times a week though, heavy lifting that is. surely the rest days i have are enough?
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:50 PM
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Well i will definitely be looking at low T, i'm kind of hoping that will be the answer to all my problems.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:50 PM
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I don't like my preferences. They make me feel weak and emasculated.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:49 PM
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Got me some goat weed and maca but not noticing any difference yet. This normal? I've been taking it for 2 weeks.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:48 PM
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will do, been busy working 5 days straight so havenmt had time for the doctors.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:48 PM
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Lot of stigma about asking doctors about Low T in England, My last doctor literally scoffed at me when i said i had concerns and i;d like to get my testosterone checked.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:47 PM
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I'm gonna ride this flatline out, it's just weird having started working at a new place, flirting with lots of women, and having them be more responsive, but knowing my dick doesn't or probably won't work yet.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:47 PM
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All good advice here, thanks dude.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 07:59 PM
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Yeah everytime I've tried nofap before, I would get these mood swings after like a week, get anxiety and shit and then just wank like 4/5 times in one day. I've finally found employment so I won't have enough time to wank I hope.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 07:59 PM
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Cheers pal.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 07:58 PM
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Aye i'm doing sl 5x5 with accessories, upping the weight everytime I go.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 07:15 PM
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I'm in England so i can hit my doctor up for free. I've been putting it off thinking nofap and time will start giving me erections again, but i'll follow through this time. Thanks.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 07:09 PM
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I understand that, and I'm aware that their is obviously some psychological explanation as to why I prefer submission to being dominant, possibly your explanation. Any other ways of getting rid of this besides NoFap?
/r/askTRP27/08/16 07:07 PM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 06:44 PM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 06:44 PM
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I think i;m gonna give it a miss after what the guy above said.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 06:44 PM
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I thought my time would be better spent reading something else, thanks.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 06:43 PM
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Push/pull is still something I struggle with. I can tease, but pulling just seems like supplicating to me. I''ll read more posts on it.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:14 PM
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That is essentially the break down and subtext of what is going on. Perfect.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 04:23 PM
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I totally disagree. You can always develop abundance mentality even without fucking. Interesting perspective. Never thought of it that way. I'll remember that.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 04:22 PM
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I can't have an abundance mentality if i keep fucking up when they're on my bed. If she is putting up LMR, and i mention that I like her, that could either make her feel at ease, and fuck me, or turn her off, and then she won't fuck me. I can't develop an abundance mentality if I'm not fucking. Grammar EDIT
/r/askTRP08/08/16 02:48 PM
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I see what you are trying to say here. I know it's not a big deal, but as TRP has taught me, women are smarter than they look. It seems like its not that big of a deal to me, but to her, could it change her mind as to weather she would fuck me or not?
/r/askTRP08/08/16 02:34 PM
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I see, so only say it AFTER sex, and NEVER when I feel like i'm saying it just to keep her around? They call it "The Game" for a reason, and if I tell her I like her before we fuck, to break her LMR, I lose right?
/r/askTRP08/08/16 02:33 PM
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That's a well written response. I definitely don't want any of that shit that happened to you. I know I said I want to learn it for street fights, but it's mainly for confidence. I'm not some jacked up testosterone fueled fake-alpha meat head who's way of flirting is punching another guy in front of the bird i want to shag. I'm aware social skills and that trumps all. My lack of confidence in my fighting ability though affects stupid things, like me saying sorry all the time for no reason, or av…
/r/askTRP12/06/16 01:34 PM
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Well I appreciate your advice, but I don't think what works for you would work for me. It's a whole different ball game for you i'd say.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 07:53 PM
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With all due respect, I am looking at your post history. Are you a F to M transgender?
/r/askTRP08/06/16 11:09 AM
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I believe you're right, she hasn't got in touch since last time.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:43 PM
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She had A glass of wine, which was left over from my previous date, which also went tits up.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:43 PM
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It's something I read on seddit I think. If you can;t find a good opportunity to kiss her, get her talking, then as she is talking just go for it. How would I go about making form the intention to fuck me then? Say she's on my bed, watching a movie with me, and we're chit chatting.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:42 PM
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What do I tilt the subject to in order for me to make a move on her?
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:40 PM
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Thanks man.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:40 PM
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Kissing doesn't mean she wants to fuck me. In my head, if she kisses back, then she wants me to fuck her, I just need to make her feel comfortable about it. I think I am overestimating what's in a kiss. Hyping it up to be more than it is.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:39 PM
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By de-escalate, you mean just disengage right? Freeze out?
/r/askTRP06/06/16 08:22 PM
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I like your take on dates. I live with my mother still, so i dont have as many options as you, but I can see myself learning to cook and then having her over. I didn't feel butthurt when she left, just disappointed with myself. I know it's my fault as a man to take responsibility. I didn't turn her on enough, or make her not feel like a slut. Although I am getting a lot more interest and dates, i am still telling myself i NEED to kiss them no matter what, because if I don't then i seem like a ne…
/r/askTRP06/06/16 08:19 PM
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This strategy appeals to me. Can you elaborate more on how to make "opportunities"? And have any of these 2nd dates resulted in you doing as you say? Sending them home because they didn't want to make out with you?
/r/askTRP06/06/16 08:00 PM
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Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 01:33 PM
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Yeah chose pub.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 01:32 PM
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AHh thats good. So i explain to her i'll be doing something with someone that day, weather she comes or not.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 01:32 PM
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Ok update, here's the text transcript: Me: Come for a drink with me next thrusday. Her: Who is this? I don't have your number saved. Me: I've got you saved as "eye brows" (context: she liked me eyebrows, I liked hers, so i saved her as that in my phone) Her: Oh my god :) do you even remember me or?? Me: Remember enough to want to have a drink with you (beta? needy?) Her:I finish work on thursday at 9 though. Me: Next time i'm free is monday, can you make then Her: Sure, what time and where? Me: …
/r/askTRP06/06/16 01:31 PM
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But won't it seem weird if i'm just implying i'm going to the pub or the cinema alone? I can;t think of an activity I could do alone that she could join me on. If i were to go to the pub with friends or something, then it wouldn't seem so weird, but that defeats the whole object of isolating her.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 02:05 PM
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Cheers. I'll update when i message her.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 02:04 PM
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Gotcha
/r/askTRP05/06/16 02:03 PM
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Yeah this one sounds better, tell her i'm doing something, and that she can come along. But if i say im doing something on friday, then it has to be something that i COULD do alone. If i said for example "im off to the pub on friday, you can come if you want", won't i seem even weirder for implying i'd be going to the pub alone?
/r/askTRP05/06/16 02:03 PM
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I read an article by gay lube oil I think, where he says that you shouldn't put question marks or any sort of punctuation into text messages, can;t remember why though.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 12:23 PM
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All good ideas, i'm going to go with arranging a meetup straightaway.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 12:22 PM
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Yeah people on nofap seem a bit cultish, and get over excited when a girl just "Looks" at them for a bit longer than they are used to. I'll do my best to give up the porn. It's whenever I feel anxious that i'm more likely to do it, not when i'm horny.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 10:47 AM
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I get that lots of women have body issues as well. This girl in my post kept saying her tits were too small and she is chubby. One thing that TRP has done to me though is instill the concept that, if she doesn't fuck me on the first date, she is not into me and just wants to string me along to be her little beta. Then I end up going cold on them. If she liked me, she would fuck me on the first date right?
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:44 PM
1

Will do. I'm getting loads more interest like I said, but not being able to capitalise on it makes me feel even worse.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:42 PM
1

I keep having 2 week streaks, then get drunk and give in the next day. What has your experience with no fap been like.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:41 PM
1

Still trying to internalize this, I can attract and get women invested in me, but when I usually try moves they aren't very receptive. I don't think i;m a very good kisser, and since they aren't getting all fired up and moany when i'm making out with them, I think they're not into me.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:29 PM
1

I've been told this over and over again but I can't absorb it. I've got this fucked up cuckold and femdom porn fetish and i keep mind fucking myself by saying I'm not a real man and don't deserve to fuck a woman good because of the weird porn im into.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:27 PM
1

Well I was eating like shit to be honest. I'll remember that response for next time.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:26 PM
1

Well done.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 11:17 PM
2

Yeah i'm 24, wish i knew what i wanted to do at 16, imagine where I would be now. But hindsight is a cunt. How did you get your accounting job? I'm going to try and become an assistant accountant or something once I get my level 2 in AAT
/r/askTRP25/05/16 03:01 PM
2

This is what i am looking forward to. I also enjoy accounting, as sad as it sounds. Just making numebrs move and balancing and shit is good fun for me, and the feeling of learning a new process or technique. I don;t need any more responses, this has solidified my ambition, thank you.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 08:56 AM
1

Thats one of the things i've been thinking of, what to say when they ask what I do. I could give cocky funny answers but after a while of it they will just assume i have a shit job, or no job.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 07:45 PM
1

Did it, it worked, wednesday I said we're doing "something". Haven't decided what yet.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 10:15 PM
1

That is cheesy as fuck, but I like it. We are meeting up on wednesday. I'll use something similar to this line with her person. How do I pull it off without her rolling her eyes at me?
/r/askTRP19/05/16 10:14 PM
1

So what you're saying is DON'T focus on making her come, just enjoy her body.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:08 AM
0

I actually genuinely love eating pussy. Having a womans thighs wrapped around your head is such a fucking turn on for me. Do I have to move to fingering though? or can I just use my tongue to make her come.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:06 AM
1

Yeah man i don't under estimate deads. I tweaked SL 5x5 so i do deads alot more.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 09:50 PM
1

Yeah the guy above doesn't seem to get it either. I;m not autistic, i gauged her sense of humour and responded appropriately.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 08:45 PM
1

Are you being serious. I did it because i gauged her type of humour, we were on about this stuff previously in the conversation. You just sound a bit over zealous here dude.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 08:44 PM
1

Drop sets are something i've heard of but never toyed with. I might just add them to my stronglift workouts, but im scared of over doing it.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 05:18 PM
1

Seems to work for you then, thanks for the tips. Going to meal prep tomorrow i think.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 06:29 PM
1

I've got chocolate fudge flavour protein powder, so that might be why then! I also just bang veggies rice and meat into the over and on the stove twice a day, dontc ount the calories though, that should be healthy enough for me.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 05:30 PM
0

Yeah those peanut butter oat and milk potions make me want to vomit but i still chug em down.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 05:08 PM
3

Thats good to hear because i am doing sl _ acessories 3 times a week. Is 3 times still enough to get big providing i go balls out and eat like a pig?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 05:07 PM
6

What is the best routine for bulking?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 04:52 PM
2

For what it's worth, I feel for you mate.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 10:29 PM
1

Looking at ice cream now, such an odd routine, never seen anything similar to this.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 09:47 PM
1

Thanks mate.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 09:44 PM
2

Thank you for your time.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 09:44 PM
1

Roger.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 09:25 PM
1

My form is good, I remember to give form priority over just banging the reps out. 5 x 5 is definitely going to be part of my workout. Maybe with some tweaks
/r/askTRP11/05/16 09:20 PM
1

I'm going to work on a diet plan right after i've crafted a workout program. My main concern is hitting my compounds hard enough, but giving enough rest to each muscle group so that i;m not hindering my lifts in the next workout.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 08:15 PM
1

Stronglifts seems to be the general consensus at the moment
/r/askTRP11/05/16 08:13 PM
1

If you are referring to my one rep max for 1.25 bodyweight bench and double bodyweight deadlift, then yeah i fall into your beginner category.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 08:12 PM
1

Ahh. Makes sense i guess. I like this now. One more concern though. I don't see any accessory exercises. Will I still gain quite a bit of size if I'm a beginner (sort of)?
/r/askTRP11/05/16 08:07 PM
1

I've bought a bathmate but heard bad things about jelqing and such. Definitely interested in hearing your routine for that. I might find a way to reduce squatting to every 2 workouts, instead of absolutely everyone.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 07:32 PM
2

Maybe i'm being pedantic but 3 days seems just shy of enough for me. I know rest days are important but i'll be making sure i eat and sleep enough to make it count. I like the last set as many reps as possible though. Does that apply to the deadlift? Also, why is the deadlift only 1x 5?
/r/askTRP11/05/16 07:20 PM
1

Your suggestion appeals the most to me. Find it strange that I have squats the same day as OHP and bench though. Won't my legs be fucked for when i deadlift the following day?
/r/askTRP11/05/16 07:13 PM
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Squatting every workout just seems wrong to me. Like I don't want huge monster legs. I know it works all other areas of the body. This may sound weird but I don;t want huge legs because my dick is only 5.5 inches. Larger thighs will just hinder me during sex even more.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 07:10 PM
1

Thats sort of what my old workouts consisted of, but i was going 6 times a week then. Thanks.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 07:09 PM
5

What are the side affects you are or have been experiencing?
/r/askTRP27/04/16 03:53 PM
3

I suffer from this too. I made a post a few months ago,, some guy gave me great advice, but i'm still stuck in a mental rut and haven't tried it yet. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/438eay/is_there_a_surefire_way_of_getting_rid_of_a/
/r/askTRP26/04/16 06:49 PM
1

Did you do AAT? I'm on level 2 now man. Fucking loving it for some reason. Just hard to find energy to revise after a day at work.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 05:42 PM
1

Yeah she always took the piss out of him and said he was creepy. Funny thing is, now that i've split up with her, her and him are engaged. He's bought her a house and car.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 04:02 PM
1

That is some high level dread there.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 04:02 PM
1

Yeah will do.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 04:01 PM
1

I'm not with her anymore, this was years ago. It's just that i've started seeing this new girl, and the collossal failure of how i dealt with my ex "The one this post is about" sprang to mind. I told myself, i'm not going to fuck up next time, and here I am seeking redpill wisdom. Majority of people are saying what you said, so thanks.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 04:01 PM
1

Yeah makes sense. Thanks.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 03:59 PM
1

That is some next level shit right there. I imagine he is haunted by that to this day.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 03:58 PM
1

That's a good way i guess but she will obviously say i'm being unfair and tell all her friends i'm "controlling" Fucking hate that word, just gets thrown about when they don't like something we do.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 03:57 PM
0

So you're telling me your dick started out as 5 inches long? What was it's girth?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 06:32 PM
1

That's beautiful. Shows i don't care, and is quite intimidating at the same time.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 05:05 PM
1

Yeah guy below said the same, thanks.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 05:00 PM
2

Alright but what if I see her deliberately sending flirty texts back to him? Or should I never have to see them, because by following your advice, I would never have to?
/r/askTRP18/04/16 05:00 PM
1

But the response is a good one.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 04:47 PM
12

Do I think she has a conscious plan to make me jealous? Yes, I do.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 04:47 PM
1

Yeah he talks about combating her bullshit with love and lack of taking it seriously. I've never tried it that way so i guess i'm skeptical, I always fought fire with fire or blatant ignoring.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 03:02 PM
2

Yeah I keep forgetting that I can just cut my losses. If they're being disrespectful, just fucl them off and find another. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 04:38 PM
1

But isn't hugging and kissing her after that obvious attempt at starting shit seen as "rewarding" her for her shit behavior? Shouldn't he be punishing her ?
/r/askTRP07/04/16 02:17 PM
1

Thats good advice, even the dumbest women should be able to follow that. What exactly did your wife think was awful?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 12:29 AM
1

I tried doggystyle once and just couldn't get it in. It was really embarrassing for me and the LTR at the time never wanted me to try again. She said "we tried before, it didn't work remember?" This got me thinking i am too small for doggystyle. I'm 5.5 inches, apparently average, but this shook my confidence so much I never tried doggy again. Anyone who is a similar size to mine have any advice?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 06:28 PM
1

Sound advice, thanks.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 07:01 PM
1

What was your first monk mode like, and have you had more success with women since then?
/r/askTRP25/03/16 04:57 PM
1

What can I do to raise my self esteem besides working out, eating right, and working hard at my career?
/r/askTRP25/03/16 04:09 PM
1

It seems silly. But if it works, it works.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 04:07 PM
1

It seems silly. But if it works, it works.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 04:07 PM
1

Well put. I assume yours is the typical "nerdy loser to hard working fit socialite" story?
/r/askTRP25/03/16 03:37 PM
0

I see meditation thrown around here a lot, is it really worth it, and does it work?
/r/askTRP24/03/16 06:37 PM
1

I get you.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 06:36 PM
1

She sent me a text saying she will be in town tomorrow and would like to meet. I won't be so passive this time.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 06:06 PM
1

Yeah i can understand that. Assume that she wants to all the time, right?
/r/askTRP23/03/16 06:58 PM
1

Well let's be honest, you don;t know for sure that's what she meant. Could have been. I'm still in scarcity mentality as I have only bedded 3 women. Naturally i think she was more inclined to not liking me.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 05:16 PM
1

Got ya, thanks man.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 01:32 PM
1

Haha that's wishful thinking right there.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 01:31 PM
1

We are civil, I see my son every 2 weekends. All is good thank you.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 09:07 PM
2

Mate, i can tell you, i've been there, your body is fucking with you. Sunken cost fallacy. You've spent so long on her that you don;t want to give her up. She cheated on you, Leave her. Don't talk to her. Act amused if she forces conversation. If I could go back to when my ex cheated on me, I would have left her there and then, instead of hanging around for another year and getting her pregnant. Cut your losses, feel shit for a bit, then move on.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 08:23 PM
1

I side with you on this one.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 08:11 PM
2

I thought it was too much of a coincidence, of all the italian songs she has on her phone, she chose this one.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 08:11 PM
1

And if she goes "I don't want you to.", I smirk, and don't give a fuck right? What do I do for the remainder of the date?
/r/askTRP21/03/16 08:06 PM
1

Is telling a girl you;re going to kiss her not seen as weird? Asking to kiss her would obviously be, but to me it's a blurred line.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 07:47 PM
1

Your advice is straight to the point. I have it in my head that I need to be able to have every girl I date want to fuck the shit out of me and think so highly of me that she would let me shit in her mouth and ask for seconds. Have you ever gone for a kiss, and the girl has declined or moved away? How did you respond? Did it affect your confidence in the long run?
/r/askTRP21/03/16 07:46 PM
1

Yeah that makes sense. I'm looking at this upside down I guess.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 07:39 PM
1

How would I transition into the kiss then? I know you;re meant to wait for the right "moment", but if she wouldn't hold hands with me, i don;t see why she would kiss me.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 07:36 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/seduction19/03/16 05:54 PM
1

his is a strange recommendation, what will this achieve in the long term? stop me thinking about it, or stop me worrying about it when i think about it?
/r/seduction17/03/16 11:21 PM
1

I've heard meditation recommended to me many times, but it still just seems like a waste of time to. I know i shouldn't knock it until i have tried it, but it just doesn't feel right.
/r/seduction17/03/16 11:20 PM
1

I'll get to work on myself then. Thanks.
/r/seduction17/03/16 08:18 PM
1

Thanks you, fuck it if it ever worries me again ill think of this post.
/r/seduction17/03/16 07:23 PM
1

Ok.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 11:27 AM
1

I approached her. She gave me her number. What does that mean then?
/r/askTRP17/03/16 11:24 AM
3

Penis size, does it matter? Women are attracted to testosterone, and testosterone causes growth of the penis. Bigger dick = more testosterone. How do I deal with only have a 5.4 inch dick when every woman who has had at least 3 partners has probably had someone bigger?
/r/seduction16/03/16 08:48 PM
1

Cold approach.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:54 PM
2

I think I am still bitter that some men never had to deal with the kind of rejection i will probably face, but if that's the only way for me, i guess i'll have to smash through it, thanks.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 11:22 AM
1

Good examples, if that were a guy I were talking too i wouldn't feel pressure to perform and would probably have come up with something like that.
/r/seduction15/03/16 11:21 AM
1

Thanks for the solid advice.
/r/seduction14/03/16 11:42 PM
1

Yeah that makes sense. I'll need some routines for the topics of relationships and difference between the sexes.
/r/seduction14/03/16 11:14 PM
1

Is it ok to ask her one question, and the expand upon what she says, then after we are done talking about that topic, ask another question?
/r/seduction14/03/16 10:39 PM
1

Thank you, thats what i wanted to hear. Off to do some push ups now.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 09:19 PM
1

nah just something I plan on doing when i have money.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 08:49 PM
1

3, I'm 24. Edit Grammar
/r/askTRP14/03/16 07:00 PM
1

Part of me knew this but having it told to me specifically makes it seem more palpable. Thanks
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:33 PM
1

Thanks man.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 05:29 PM
1

I'll suck it up, thanks.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 05:29 PM
1

This addresses what i needed. As I am in the process of building myself to a reasonable level at the moment, do you think trying to game women would actually damage my game at this point? I heard somewhere on here that you should go monk mode for a bit before constantly engaging women so you don't have your confidence crushed. I get the train once every week into the nearest city for my college course, and am contemplating starting a conversation or two with women there. EDIT spelling
/r/askTRP14/03/16 04:19 PM
1

it's the start of the conversation I would still struggle with. Can;t just open her with "I went to germany last year and spent my time partying with people in a hostel" I want to hear of guys who've gone from feeling anxious starting a conversation to comfortable talking about themselves due to their accomplishments.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 04:00 PM
1

I can't even imagine having a possible answer to everything someone has to say. Thanks.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 06:28 PM
1

SO by building exposure you would advise approaching women even if I'm not %100 sure what i'm doing?
/r/askTRP12/03/16 05:20 PM
1

Seems paradoxical though as I am the one approaching them.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 11:45 AM
1

If you just do one cycle, won't you go to having lower testosterone levels than before you started?
/r/askTRP11/03/16 07:23 PM
1

I remember feeling it once or twice when I was hammered. But you are right, i'm no way near having it yet. How would I acquire it? Besides form lifting of course. What else supplements it?
/r/askTRP11/03/16 06:09 PM
1

How much does it cost you per month?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 03:27 PM
1

Question: If you come off testosterone supplementation, don;t you go to lower levels than before you started? Thats the only thing stopping me doing it.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 03:13 PM
8

I've already split up wit her, this was years ago. If I had TRP back then, i'd have done EXACTLY what you just said.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 10:31 PM
7

So it really is true when people say women can't tell 8 inches from 8 miles.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 10:30 PM
3

Media and porn have me thinking I need like at least 6.5 to be able to keep women coming back for more. Thanks for this, hope it's right.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 07:37 PM
16

I don't even know what to think of that shit.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 06:48 PM
27

This post has given me hope, because out of all TRP articles I've read, this resonates with me the most. I went through the same apologetic phase you went through, where they make you think you're the cunt for wanting respect from them. I went through the tears aswell. So thanks for that. This ED that you had, was it because of your size, which resulted in a lack of confidence? I'm 5.4 inches, and like most guys I worry if it's too small. My LTR of 2 years once said, when I asked her if I was hu…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 06:38 PM
1

Thanks for the responses. Some good content in this comment section.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:11 PM
1

I am aware that I jack off especially when I'm feeling bummed out. It's an instant release though, whereas becoming dominant takes time. That's my problem. Something I need to work on
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:10 PM
1

Many people are echoing what you said, thanks for the response.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:09 PM
2

Aye, lifting is definitely part of the remedy.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:09 PM
1

I hear constantly that repressing only causes more harm, so that's why I'm trying to find a way to eliminate these fetishes, not repress. What you are saying is it might be genetic though, which I hope it is not. I'm 5 ft 10, can pull my weight and have a normal conversation, and have alot of good solid friends with their own successful lives. Hopefully it's not too late for me.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:08 PM
2

You got it, that's the point I'm trying to get across.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:06 PM
1

Holy shit, this is good stuff. TRP preaches that every man can be Alpha, but some men are more alpha than others. I'd be content with becoming in control of my urges, and having a plate or two at a time. I'm going to save the reply you just made into my phone and glance at it whenever I feel like jacking off or feel like shit. Thanks.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:05 PM
1

This is a good response. I guess i'll just stick this out with the noporn thing then. It's better than how I am now
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:02 PM
2

Saw it a while back.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:01 PM
1

By having a fetish where a woman (pussy) is there to humiliate, abuse and control you, the pussy does control me. I'm trying to break free by NOT wanting it to be this way.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 12:20 PM
0

I see what you are getting at. Did you say "Id like to think a lot of the most masculine dominating men like a finger in their but every once in a while" because that's something you would enjoy?
/r/askTRP29/01/16 12:16 PM
1

Glad you asked, because I should have mentioned. I asked my doctor (UK) if he would check them for me. He was stubborn and insisted "Everything is ok". Basically fobbed me off, as I assume they don't want me thinking of taking steroids. So no, i haven't got them checked. I'm worried if they come back as being low, then no amount of lifting or eating right is going to bring my testosterone up to a point where I don't desire these fetishes, and instead enjoy dominating a woman. I have tried to be …
/r/askTRP29/01/16 12:14 PM
1

Thanks, few questions now though: Did you stop masturbating and watching porn after this horrible relationship? Where as you developed these fetishes during your relationship, the femdom one was the first thing i masturbated to. Cuckolding came later. So do you think I will be able to get rid of the cuckolding fetish, but not the femdom? When i stop masturbating and watching porn for about 6 days, I start worrying that my sex drive will evaporate, so that's usually what triggers me into jacking …
/r/askTRP29/01/16 12:08 PM
1

That's what i feared. I get your analogy but think of the dissonance here. TRP gives you the tools to become a better, more dominant male. Not a better or more dominant female. I don't think what works for an A-typical woman will work for an A-typical man. Men have biological traits that make them men, and women have biological traits that make them women. What is good for one is not necessarily good for the other. It probably is a fantasy, but when I imagine myself visiting a dominatrix or havi…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 11:59 AM
1

To answer your question, I am looking to get rid of my desires, not find a woman who accommodates them.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 11:51 AM
1

I don't want to. Having these desires is more than a minor inconvenience to me. It affects my confidence with women AND in social environments. Your response didn't answer my question.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 11:47 AM
1

Deep down I know she meant no harm, it's how i reacted to it. I felt that if I did the same thing for my band, I'd feel like everyone I approached would want me to fuck off. It's like when you're walking down the high street and those charity people come and are trying to have a chat with you. You know their end game is to get some money off of you.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 07:15 PM
5

Possibly. I don;t think much of myself to be honest, but then again I don;t see any reason why I should hate myself. I'm not getting my dick sucked by 10/10 super models every time I want to, but I don't see why I would hate myself for that.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 11:06 PM
11

I get turned on by cuckolding, and I can tell you that I FUCKING hate it. Here I am trying to better myself with the gym, studies, game and everything else, but my mind tells me "How could you ever be something and satisfy a woman if you're into watching another man bang your "partner"?" I have no idea why I'm into this, ye I've been cheated on but I was into this before i got cheated on. EDIT; Spelling and grammar.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 08:25 PM
1

I run my life.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 02:13 AM
1

I fucked her plenty. Even got a DNA test to assuage my worries. My Mum and Dad divorced when I was 8. I saw my dad alot though. I was bullied up until 9th grade, when I learnt to defend myself and made lots of solid friends who I still see today. What is the 10 on the list then, I;m no good at taking hints.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 11:46 PM
2

I'm aware that it's going to take a while. Lots of little victories everyday. This loser mentality has been with me most of my life though. I'm into femdom and cuckolding, and it fucking sickens me. I have the dissonance of wanting to be a masculine, easy going confident man, but at the same time wanting a woman to boss me about and call me names. What the fuck? My hope is that as i become more confident, that the urges for such desires deteriorate, if not then i class myself as fucked.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 06:46 PM
1

Danke kamarad
/r/askTRP09/11/15 06:42 PM
1

My social skills are alright at the moment, won't monk mode diminish them?
/r/askTRP09/11/15 06:33 PM
1

But when I jack off, i lose all motivation to seek a new fuck buddy or partner. It makes sense, if i'm at home spanking the monkey, why should I do anything like lifting or eating right or learning game in order to find a new woman?
/r/askTRP09/11/15 06:33 PM
1

I brushed off your comment as a troll at first, but at this point i'm willing to try anythning. I've never touched drugs in my entire life, but if it's just the once, and it does what you say it does, then i'm up for it. Just need to find some LSD now
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:27 PM
1

I've got a lot more going on though, in my head. I can't just meet women, from all this masturbating I do, and the fact that my penis isnt large, when i start talking to them i actually fear succeeding, because that would mean getting i bed with them, which gives me a chance to fail ( no boner, not making her cum)
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:53 PM
1

How will hallucinating help me?
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:51 PM
1

Good advice. I made the list large because when i actually have some free time to myself, thats when i'm more likely to sit in bed, with my laptop on my chest jacking off to porn or her. If I give myself just one or two things to do in a day, then i run the risk of becoming bored and reverting to my old vices
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:50 PM
1

Like the guy below said, a penis pump. Lots of people have said consistent use has increased the size of their dick.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:47 PM
2

I should have mentioned. I have a child with her, who I see every two weekends. So i can't cut contact with her. I blocked her on facebook, but the photo i used can be accessed by anyone, it was her profile picture.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 05:41 AM
1

Nice
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:29 AM
1

Im always conflicted between direct and indirect I get what you're saying.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:29 AM
1

I'll give it a go then.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:28 AM
1

Cheers pal.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:28 AM
1

She added me on facebook, is that the same as getting her digits? Can I use that instead?
/r/askTRP31/10/15 02:11 AM
1

Nice. Need to find a way to make calling her boring relevant now.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 11:45 PM
1

on day 3 now, i'll stick to it.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 01:10 PM
1

When the 5 weeks are up i will be working as many hours as is reasonable. I will try for 40.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 05:37 PM
1

That's purely because the CSA will take my first 5 weeks wages as my average and work out how much i pay from that. I am keeping my hours down to avoid being over charged
/r/askTRP11/10/15 05:11 PM
2

I've never really gave advice on TRP because I feel i'm not there on my journey to be able to give any worthwhile advice. Obviously, wait until you are ready to have kids and have them when you're older. I'm 24, 21 when i had my kid, should have wrapped up. I was so BP back then it makes me cringe. One thing I would have done would be to not go fucking mental and be butthurt that she cheated on me and fioudn another guy. How I acted then i thik has directly affected how she treats me now. If I j…
/r/askTRP11/10/15 05:11 PM
1

Thing is she is actually pretty good towards me in regard to letting me see my son. I explained that to her but i guess she just sees it as me coming up with any excuse to not pay through CSA. Starting a cash business sounds good but i dont know where to begin with that.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 04:31 PM
0

She wouldn't want my dick, i went full bluepill on her before we split. im working 14 hours a week and start college next week. The money they will be wanting will leave me with fuck all to live on. Can't get on with my life if they take all my money
/r/askTRP11/10/15 03:17 PM
1

Ill try once a week. Thanks again.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 11:31 PM
1

You've convinced me, i'm going to give it a go. If i'm jacking off to my imagination and cuckold themes start creeping in, should i immediately stop or try and plow through?
/r/askTRP08/10/15 10:54 PM
2

If it worked for you then it should work for me. Did you find that your old desires went away completely, or are they still sort of there, in the back of your mind.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 10:27 PM
1

It's probably going to come to that, I am just seeing if there is another way before i try that.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 09:33 PM
1

Have you personally done this yourself?
/r/askTRP08/10/15 09:32 PM
1

It's both. Humiliation also turns me on.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 09:31 PM
2

I've heard it's born from an inferiority complex.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 09:31 PM
0

I've read accounts that they have bit i find them hard to believe.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 09:30 PM
0

This. I'v tried nofap, an although i feel my confidence rising and my game improving, after about 7 days i get frustrated that i don't have a plate or hoe yet, and end up jacking off to more fucked up shit. Then i feel shit for doing it, and the rest of my life starts to unwind.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 09:30 PM
1

I fear it will just push it to the back of my mind and not actually deplete it.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 12:13 PM
6

I don't want to. It's not masculine and affects my confidence with hoes.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 12:13 PM
1

Cheers kamarad
/r/seduction03/10/15 09:19 PM
1

I've gone ahead and done it, just started sending stupid non outcome dependant openers like "I like butts" and things like that. If anythiong I can get used to being rejected,
/r/seduction01/10/15 03:13 PM
1

Thansk for the advice, i went ahead and made a profile. What resource did you use to enhance your text game? Any openers i should be using?
/r/seduction01/10/15 03:11 PM
1

Yeah that's what i originally thought.
/r/seduction29/09/15 04:49 PM
1

I'm torn between what you said and what the other guy said now.
/r/seduction29/09/15 03:30 PM
2

Interesting standpoint. I just went into my local shopping centre and didn't even approach one girl, if doing POF dates will just cement my lack of approaching then its definitely a no.
/r/seduction29/09/15 03:05 PM
1

Thanks. All the best to you too.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 03:04 PM
1

Now I understand, thanks.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 09:24 AM
1

Text just for meetups. Got it.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 05:15 PM
1

I'll be less thirsty next time then, thanks for your help.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 03:48 PM
1

I learn best from examples, so stuff like this helps me alot. Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 03:47 PM
1

I'm done texting her. I want to know where I went wrong so I don't fuck up the next time. I am aware now that she is bad juju. Edit. Spelling
/r/askTRP28/09/15 03:14 PM
-1

practicing on a chick with kids is fucking pointless other than for wasting your time Look mate I'm not trying to wind you up or anything here, but you're still not giving me a reason why it's fucking pointless. Thats what I want to know.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 03:13 PM
1

I feel that because I'm not chad thundercock, I can't get away with being subtle, and not expressing too much interest. How can I express sexual interest to her without coming off as needy? Are there any lines or things I can do?
/r/askTRP28/09/15 03:10 PM
-1

I'm open to all advice if it's backed up with a reason. I'm not discounting what you say, I'm just after a reason as to why it's bad to practice game on her.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 03:02 PM
-1

If you say so mate. I don't know whats so bad about practising on her though. She's still succeptible to tingles.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 03:00 PM
1

Yeah I don't know what I was thinking, even as I was typing I was aware I shouldn't be doing it.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 02:58 PM
1

I'm staying away now, I can see that she is a bad decision. But in terms of my text game, what should I have done differently IF I wanted to plate her.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 02:57 PM
2

She's 21, close.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 02:56 PM
-1

I've read the sidebar. So are you saying I shouldn't have asked how she'd been? When she started talking about her ex, and hypothetically IF I wanted to pursue her, what should I have said? I'm here to improve my game, I get that she is not plateable now and has too many red flags.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 02:56 PM
1

Fair point. Thanks
/r/askTRP28/09/15 02:51 PM
3

Gotcha.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 02:50 PM
3

What do you mean for something else? You mean someone? Yeah she has another kid on the way too now. She was fit though and I just wanted to plate her. What other red flags are there? Edit: Spelling.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 02:41 PM
1

In America i've heard it's much worse, and from what you are saying I can see that's true. But bend over and take it is such a shit attitude to take. I say be cunning and try and find a way to fight it. If there is absoloutely nothing else you can do, and you have to pay that ridiculous amount to her, then I have no idea how you cope. Well done
/r/askTRP25/09/15 03:03 PM
1

That sucks. My mum took on my brother, who has a different mum, when she married my dad. She didn't complain. I think women find it easier to take on another woman's child than men do taking on another man's. The thing is i actually get on quite well with his mum now. I just don't understand why she goes through to the CSA instead of just coming to me or the money. I used to give her £180 a month in my old job, but then she took me to the CSA, who actually worked out I should be giving her LESS,…
/r/askTRP25/09/15 03:02 PM
2

I re-read what he said and now I see what he is saying.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 07:26 AM
1

I forgot to mention I am working to become an accountant, start a college course in October.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 07:25 AM
1

I get what you and the other guy are trying to say. but Nuzz has apoint, just accepting thats how things are can also be seen as a pushover approach.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 06:57 AM
1

Being saddled with child support is the same thing. You can't stop it. You can just mitigate (make more money). But the bitterness and depression only hurt YOU. Not your ex. I understand this but i still can't make it follow in my head that it shouldn't bother me. The more I earn. the more money she gets and I don;t know it's going on my son.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 06:56 AM
1

I don't think this alligns with other RP principles. Deliberately holding myself back so she gets less money? I'll end up with less money too.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 06:52 AM
1

I have heard and occaisionaly practice some voice deepening exercises, the one where you raise your throat and say "ding dong ping pong ting tong". I think you are right and this is a good chance to practice my voice. My biggest struggle with my voice is my breath though. I find even after a few words I am constantly runnig out of wind and it makes my voice "tighten" up towards the end of my sentences. Do you think cardio and proper head posture would make me better at this? drunk gay dudes invi…
/r/askTRP24/09/15 05:45 AM
1

Haha, not sure if you're kidding or not, do you mean because I just have a job people will think more of me?
/r/askTRP24/09/15 05:28 AM
1

I'll keep looking for better jobs, but i'm still at the point with my frame where I would feel like i'm letting the staff members at McDonalds down by agreeing to work for them then leaving like a month later. It's weak I know, just something I have to get used to doing, letting people down in order for my needs first.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 05:27 AM
1

Good advice, thanks.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 05:19 AM
2

I'll just do my best to keep my mouth shut.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 05:19 AM
1

I'll take my time before i react to anything.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 05:17 AM
2

Will do thanks.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 05:17 AM
1

Try to drown out those thoughts by being "louder" than them. You could suddenly do something physical like blasting music and doing pushups at home, or forcefully repeating something positive again and again. I like the sound of this. If i get an urge to wank, i'll give this a go. Kratom sounds too good to be true. But I'm at a stage where i'll try anything. I've been considering doing TRT aswell.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 12:27 AM
1

I agree with you, these fetishes are definitely something I want to rid myself of. However, I think they are now so ingrained in me that I cannot rid myself of them. It's something I'm born with I think, a natural hard wiring. Nature over nurture. If there was a way to rid myself of them, I would, but science hasn't found a way yet.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 12:10 AM
1

Yeah nice and in depth just as I like. How can I keep sight of the future benefits though? I get to like 4 days in to self improvement, no fap and all that jazz, and then I just think "This isn't doing anything" and cave in."
/r/askTRP04/09/15 03:02 AM
1

This is something i am dealing with too. It's just a shortcut for dopamine that our body and mind is un-willing to give up without a fight.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 02:10 AM
1

A mentality I would one day like to emulate, or even hold myself.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 01:26 AM
1

It sounds like you're working on yourself so this doesn't apply completely to you, but: if someone feels they are worthless, but doesn't do anything to become worth something, how could they expect that feeling to change? I was going to make a new post addressing this issue, but you seem like you know what you're talking about, so I'll ask you. I begin working on myself for short periods of time, but then a thought pops into my head, something similar to this: "You're making your Nth healthy mea…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 01:25 AM
2

Do you know what you're going for I want to be able to shrug off what other people think of me, but at the same time be valued and respected by strangers after meeting them and speaking to them for a few minutes. What is the state of your self-esteem? Low-average. I think I have low tesosterone or something because i've never really been competitive and have no drive. I'm also into femdom and cuckolding and that majorly affects my self esteem. you must FLIP THE EQUATION to "Is she the best woman…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 01:14 AM
1

It sounds like a good trade off yes, it's just something I will have to internalize somehow.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 01:06 AM
1

As soon as you realise this, things will change. Your attention will feel important In my head, i rationalise that it's Chad's attention they want, not mine. Have you yourself ever done 50+ sets a week? What's your experience with it?
/r/askTRP01/09/15 11:09 PM
1

Understood.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 10:16 PM
1

I've just come back from the gym and at the moment I feel like I could approach and smile/shrug off a rejection. The specific night that made me write this post I hadn't been to the gym. I can only assume this is because the increase in testosterone in my body. Would you recommend TRT to help me become nonchalant towards rejection?
/r/askTRP01/09/15 10:15 PM
1

Just playing Devils advocate here, but if i say to myself "men are better than women.", I could then say "better men than me are out there, why would she want me?" Have you ever sought validation or is it just something you've never had to correct?
/r/askTRP01/09/15 10:04 PM
2

King Shit of Fuckoff Mountain Love it. Work on yourself. Work on yourself more. And then do it some more. Roger.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 10:01 PM
1

Will do, thanks again.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 10:00 PM
1

I like that idea. I'm assuming one can;t just "become" a promoter, there's got to be some experience in a certain field.
/r/seduction01/09/15 09:58 PM
1

Makes sense.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 09:57 PM
2

The issue being with other people just seems to me like a way of hamstering my own faults away. I'm going to take on board what you have said though, and next time I get stung I'll remember those words.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 09:57 PM
1

Nice analogy. How do you handle rejection?
/r/askTRP01/09/15 06:57 PM
1

Just heard about the German woman in the bikini. What he's saying makes sense. But I think i'll just end up forgetting about it when i'm in the field.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 06:56 PM
1

I'll watch the last part then, thank you.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 06:51 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 06:48 PM
1

Can you ellaborate.
/r/seduction01/09/15 06:47 PM
1

I'll strongly consider it on my next night out.
/r/seduction01/09/15 06:45 PM
1

But that feels like i'd be kidding myself. You say you go talk to a girl because she looks "interesting". Are you genuinely just wanting to talk to her to find out what shes like, or are you doing that so you can possibly get laid with her? I can't fool myself by saying I just want to get to know a girl, and MAYBE end up bonking her. In my head at the moment it's all so she will let me fuck her.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 06:43 PM
1

But as social animals, other peoples opinions of me can affect my way of life. In RP terms, if I fuck up an approach on one girl, she could tell her friends about that "weirdo" and bam. Suddenly i've no chance with them either. Word spreads.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 06:40 PM
2

I've read all the comments, Thanks for all your time and advice. I'm going to not focus on women for a while, try get my career and life on track, and see how that goes.
/r/seduction01/09/15 02:50 AM
1

Right, thanks for your input.
/r/seduction01/09/15 02:49 AM
2

The way you explained it here makes sense to me now yeah, thanks. I understand pattern interrupts too now.
/r/seduction01/09/15 02:47 AM
1

What kind of validation are you seeking from others and why? Sexual validation from women, and friendship and acceptance as "one of the lads" by men. Why? I'm not sure. I hate conflict and don;t like getting into situations which could put me near it. How can I find that through myself? Not sure what you mean by this.
/r/seduction01/09/15 02:04 AM
1

I know that, and it sill seems EVERYONE knows EVERYONE.
/r/seduction01/09/15 01:41 AM
1

So to get validation from myself I need to work on my life in areas other than pursuing women, is that essentially what you are saying?
/r/seduction01/09/15 01:41 AM
1

I've fucked up by clicking reply prematurely twice here. What is your opinion on the difference between pick up in america and pick up in england? If you watch RSD videos like me, you'll know how different american nightlife seems to british nightlife.
/r/seduction01/09/15 01:39 AM
1

This might be a fantasy thing rather than a sexual preference. Guys who have a lot of sexual shame use fantasies and porn to enter a trance-like state in order to suppress their sexual shame for long enough to get off. The things that you like in porn and fantasy aren't necessarily the things you want or need in sex, unless you need some element of fantasy in sex to facilitate the suppression of your shame. The shame itself is the core issue that needs to be addressed. Never heard of this before…
/r/seduction01/09/15 01:29 AM
1

Is that a bad thing? Are you ashamed of your desires? Do you feel that you are unworthy of having your needs met or that you don't deserve a normal adult relationship? No, it's not. But I imagine her and her friends laughing if i crash and burn, telling all her guy friends i'm a creep.
/r/seduction01/09/15 01:28 AM
1

"my hand hurts because of fire and I don't want to cook anymore." This speaks to me. take up martial arts because black belts tend to be psychologically strong. Just any social situation where you are surrounded by strong people I don't see how becoming good at martial arts and spending time with mentally strong people will stop me from thinking i'm going to fuck up when i talk to women. I dont fully understand this pattern interrupt concept. I just want to get laid more often. I'm not closed to…
/r/seduction01/09/15 01:25 AM
1

The horrible feeling i get after rejection seems to undo any logical deconstruction of my interactions for the benefit of learning how to do better next time, if you get what I mean. As for relationships, I don't want a relationship. I just want sex and validation. Been burned too hard in the past to put myself in that position again.
/r/seduction01/09/15 01:10 AM
1

Day game is something i'm not fond of in my small town, as I'm worried fucking it up with one girl will make all her friends off limits.
/r/seduction01/09/15 01:01 AM
1

Not very well I guess. But still, he has the validation which i currently seek, an attractive woman who wants the D. I know its petty but this is just the way I feel.
/r/seduction01/09/15 01:00 AM
1

Yes and no. When just talking with guys and chatting shit, i'm funny and keep the mood high. With women I worry about doing the wrong thing and them having a bad reaction to me, telling all their friends, and being labelled as that weird guy who is obviously just trying to get laid. The phallacy is all guys on a night out are trying to get laid. I don;t have much value to myself, because i'm no good with women.
/r/seduction31/08/15 09:36 PM
1

I'm starting accounting in October, but i don't see how that is going to help me with my relationships. I also see guys who have no job, like me, low level drug takers who are always scoring on a night out.
/r/seduction31/08/15 09:27 PM
1

I can't even pick up stoner chicks because I don't do weed. Will you tell me what your first approach was like?
/r/seduction31/08/15 09:22 PM
2

So are you essentially saying if I get the rest of my life together, I will be more likely to not give a fuck about approaching a woman, or if she rejects me or not?
/r/seduction31/08/15 09:20 PM
1

What you say makes sense, but when i'm on a night out, the women i am/would be approaching have no idea about my background or lifestyle, and so in my head i don;t see how improving my life outside clubbing and nightgame will have any impact on how i do when attracting women.
/r/seduction31/08/15 08:27 PM
1

If you've a phone in your bedroom you have to expend willpower to sleep. I often find myself watching youtube an hour after I've hit the sack. I'm off to my room now then, thanks again. Going to read a bit of Mark Manson's models.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 09:01 PM
2

I take it you are something like a therapist or lifecoach. Can you first explain what you mean by "focus on lowering restraint willpower" please. I like the idea of setting the strict bed times. It is quarter to ten in my country now, and having only woken up at 3:30 today, i'm going to struggle to get to sleep after only being awake for 6.5 hours. Should i stay up all night tonight so i can reset my body clock tomorrow? I appreciate your help, and I will message you after a month with my progre…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 08:46 PM
1

How is not jacking off working out for you?
/r/askTRP25/08/15 08:41 PM
1

My friends do not shame me when I am improving myself, but they are not exactly role models to aspire to. I don't think I could get rid of my friends as it would do more harm than good.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 08:40 PM
1

Well done.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 02:31 AM
1

This person in question is actually a woman. I made a joke about how I'm a feminist because i believe men and women are equal, and women should pay half on dates.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 02:29 AM
1

My brother is 10 years older than me so he was never allowed to fight with me. On nights out when there are large groups of people my fear is amped up, as drunken cunts are 10 times more dangerous than sober cunts. How did you deal with this "shame" afterwards? that is also partly what I fear, the shame of possibly being embarrassed in front of a large group of people
/r/askTRP11/08/15 11:33 PM
1

After these confrontations did you feel better about yourself for standing up to them? or worse after getting beaten the fuck up?
/r/askTRP11/08/15 12:49 PM
1

What about boxing, don;t think there are any BJJ classes nearby
/r/askTRP11/08/15 12:48 PM
1

Have you ever been nearly smacked down?
/r/askTRP11/08/15 12:40 PM
1

I have a good set of male friends, some quite Alpha, and one or two complete Betas. My gym buddy is quite assertive, and I've always been a friendly guy who smiles too much (This is being addressed). Do you think "getting my arse whooped" will make me less likely to back down from disrespectful behavior towards me?
/r/askTRP11/08/15 01:07 AM
1

Short sentences. Brief. Terse. To the point. Makes sense. Thanks.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 08:57 PM
1

Cursing loudly? That goes against RP principles doesnt it? I thought we were meant to remain stoic and not care about shit like that. The rest of what you say appeals to me though.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 11:26 PM
1

Another year in this god forsaken hell hole. Thanks though
/r/askTRP04/06/15 11:09 PM
1

Morbid but to the point.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 10:55 PM
1

It probably is, but having had such a static frame of my mind for so long, there's bound to be difficulty shrugging it off.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 10:48 PM
2

Ha, thanks.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 04:33 PM
1

Easier said than done, but I get what you mean
/r/askTRP04/06/15 04:23 PM
1

Thanks i'll take a look.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 04:23 PM
1

Is that what most women refer to when they say prick?
/r/askTRP04/06/15 04:23 PM
1

Yeah i definitely don't do that.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 10:15 PM
1

lol
/r/askTRP01/06/15 10:14 PM
2

It's on it's way from Amazon, cheers.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 10:46 PM
1

What did you think of the book overall, how did it change the way you see things?
/r/askTRP30/05/15 01:34 PM
1

So you're ALL basically saying to not give a fuck. That's something I shall have to work on. It makes sense how people will see her as a "Whacko" if i just ignore or laugh at her. Anyone have any tips on developing an IDGAF attitude?
/r/askTRP30/05/15 01:24 PM
0

Well I would probably take it personally and try responding to her insults and accusations with reasons why they are not true. I'd do this because if she was saying these things loudly in a public domain, I want the people who hear it to know I deny it. If I just laughed it off, wouldn't people assume she was right?
/r/askTRP30/05/15 12:50 AM
1

I'm not sure what you mean.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 08:43 PM
1

Nice and in detail, thanks. Do you have any better examples though?
/r/askTRP06/04/15 08:42 PM
1

Alright i'll delete this then
/r/askTRP02/03/15 03:04 PM
1

Right.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 03:04 PM
2

Thanks guys, update. Went well, been on 2 dates, kiss closed both times. Cheers.
/r/seduction02/03/15 02:12 PM
2

I can't imagine many women will be pleased. I reckon its a big turn off, as women are generally submissive. They want a man to take charge. I feel that no matter how dominant and leading i am socially, once it comes to the bedroom, they will not be pleased. How exactly would i screen for this anyway? i don't think there is a subtle way of finding out if they would like to dominate me.
/r/seduction23/01/15 10:15 PM
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i didn't even do it while i was logged in, i just googled her name.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 10:22 PM
1

Thanks. Rock bottom only has one way up i guess.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 01:06 PM
1

Tell me more about how you got involved in PUA
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 12:01 AM
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This is inspiring stuff. PUA to me just feels so forced and well, not me. All the routines like the best friends test and The cube make me feel weird. Even though i've heard it works great on women.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 11:59 PM
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Hmm interesting i like the sound of that. Thing is with my ex wanting child support, they take 15 percent of my wages no matter what. With a job like bartending i cant imagine th money is any good
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 11:56 PM
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Did bartending really help you socialise then?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 05:24 PM
1

Im hoping that's the case with my son. Sorry to hear about your dad. Can't imagine my lift without him at the moment.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 05:23 PM
1

I've tried this before but just give up on day 6
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 05:21 PM
1

Hate to burst your bubble but you are quite wrong on that, i met her 10 months before i joined, she was my first true love, and I hers. None of the guys in my division knew her, we were from all over the place and she was from back home. I met her at a friends new years party back home. Yeah tell me about her trying it on with you, just because i fancy a good dit at the moment. It's fucked up when bad shit happens to good sailors. There are always one or two guys who don't go on patrol because t…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 03:39 AM
1

I imagine your physique changed quite a bit between photos.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 02:10 AM
1

Fair point. You seem to know what you're talking about, what's your take on cold approach?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 02:08 AM
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I guess it's the same as all these "girl power" articles in fucking cosmo and things like that.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 02:05 AM
2

I am strongly considering this. I want to be a completely different person. I want to speak up in conversations, be more expressive, be quicker at thinking about what to say in social situations, be stronger, smile more. I live in the UK, America is where i picture myself, working on a ranch or something. Just lifting shit every day for hours. The only hard thing would be not seeing my son. It's sopmething i'll look into. thank you
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 02:04 AM
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I realise it's fucked up. It;s my wish to just be rid of it and be turned on by normal things. Normal things to turn me on. just not as much. I used to have vanilla sex with my ex and that went ok.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:58 AM
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I'm in the Navy myself, leaving soon though because i want to spend more time with him. I was doing well with no contacting her, i've been lifting for three weeks now and am happy with my meager results, but i just sat down at 11 pm my time, had an urge to wank, and then i just ended up bringing up her facebook. Did your Mum tell you a load of shit about your dad then? How did that affect you? what did you say about it? This is another of my concerns
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:57 AM
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I guess other guys do have it worse but it doesn't uplift me.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:54 AM
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This is something i have thought about strongly. I dream about moving to another country for a while, but my son is just in his developing stages and i don;t want him to grow up without me at all. Even just 3 months makes me wonder how much or relationship would be affected.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:54 AM
1

I like your approach on this. Regarding rejection, whats the worse rejection you've had?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:40 AM
1

I will try the mirror affirmations. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:37 AM
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I'll get back into drumming. These motivational videos you speak of, I think they are good and all that, but In my head i end up thinking "A lot of guys don't need these videos. By using these I am saying that i am different from all the rest, and that will have an adverse affect on my behavior" Doesn't it feel corny or cheesy when you listen to them whilst there are loads of people around you?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:36 AM
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I am aware of this. I want to know how i become that man. I can't just flick a magic switch.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:27 AM
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Straight to the point, thanks. You been through a similar situation? Also, how can i no contact her when i need to see her eventually when i pick up my son and that?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 12:41 AM
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I've started with the gym. Whats your story? Were you what you consider "average"?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 12:26 AM
1

I've only had sex with 2 different women and had 5 girlfriends, how am i meant to adopt this abundance mentality
/r/askTRP10/12/14 12:14 AM
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Thank you. As with the post above, i wish i could internalise this and have it act like a magic pill that i can just take whenever i start feeling shit about her
/r/askTRP10/12/14 12:10 AM
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Thank you. I wish i could just internalise this post.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 12:08 AM
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Relating to women? How do you mean? Emotionally? that's not something i want is it?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 11:58 PM
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Thanks for the in depth response. I'll continue lifting heavy, eating right, and just taking the piss out of women that i meet.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 03:09 PM
1

So you reckon i should just pretend im not submissive until i have her roped in?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 03:05 PM
1

So you just switched your tendencies that easily?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 03:05 PM
1

So lifting weights and eating right, right?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 03:04 PM
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That sounds like it might not work. Is this a guess or have you heard of this working?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 03:04 PM
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But i daren't approach women unless im pissed as a fart, BECAUSE of my fetishes.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 03:03 PM
1

This wasa reply to the guy who mentioned nofap. He deleted his comments but i think my response might be relevant. The first thing i ever fapped to was a dominatrix on some pornsite when i was 13. I'm not some weedy acne infested sperglord, I'm 5 foot 10, not skinny but not muscular either, always been sociable. Used to get bullied up until i was 12, when i started taking Taekwondo classes and basically kicked my bully unconscious. After that School went well. Lots of friends, good grades, and a…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 03:03 PM
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Yeah again not what i'm after, i want to not want a dominatrix basically.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 02:53 PM
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That's all well and good but is there anyway i can become more dominant and WANT to dominate her?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 02:59 AM
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No i don;t think i made myself clear. I don;t want to feel this way. I want to get more pleasure out of dominating rather than being dominated.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 02:58 AM
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I'm still internalizing all of theredpill at the moment, and even i know that you should no contact her completely, It's going to look weird now because i assume you've carried on like this for a while. I still yearn for my ex, she cheated on me too. I don't know why.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 12:26 AM
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Or not, since this works for you.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 01:25 AM
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A level of success i both envy and want to replicate. What was/is your approach to women? Do you do any day game or is it purely at night clubs?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:53 AM
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Yeah i felt my hand movements weren't matching what i was saying, my posture declined aswell as i started to feel like the correct posture was making me tense and appear uptight
/r/askTRP18/10/14 10:51 PM
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Yes i felt my hand movements weren't really matching what i was saying, i struggled to maintain good posture throughout, i felt like i was looking all tense when i have correct posture
/r/askTRP18/10/14 10:50 PM
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Comprehensive guide. Thanks mate. I got a new date with someone else on sunday, ill try and remember this shit
/r/askTRP16/10/14 06:42 PM
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Good stuff. Still feel like im being a twat when i say cocky shit like that, she works as a bar maid and said she deals with rowdy gits all the time though, perhaps thats just her nature.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 06:39 PM
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Cheers bud
/r/askTRP16/10/14 06:36 PM
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Roger
/r/askTRP16/10/14 06:35 PM
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Yeah changed subject straight away.
/r/askTRP12/10/14 03:01 PM
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Felt right in the moment. I've done it with all my exes and it sends them wild. Not on the first date though.
/r/askTRP12/10/14 01:24 PM
1

Ok, few things this leads me to ask: Compliments. I genuinely liked her jacket and hair. so i complimented them. Is this beta, does this work against me? I did a lot of touching and playtful teasing when emphasizing a point like you said, but she never really touched back, just smiled. I think i didn't make her feel comfortable with me enough, how do i go about this?
/r/askTRP12/10/14 01:24 PM
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Roger. One more thing i have to ask. I;ve gotten to the point where i am extremely critical about what i say and do, always wondering if i will go down well. For instance, during the date, i couldn't tell what color her eyes were, and so i grabbed her hair by the roots, made a fist and and moved her head so i could see. She smiled but didn't really warm up after that. I'm looking back now and thinking its not the best thing to have done.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 11:46 PM
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Ok.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 11:24 PM
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I find with redpill game there is a lot of contradictory but understandable things i need to do In this instance, i read asking questions is dull and boring, and statements should be made instead. But at the same time i know i have to ask her questions to get her talking. Any tips on getting the balance right?
/r/askTRP11/10/14 11:24 PM
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Helped with the nerves but ok.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 11:22 PM
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That is my current stance, not bothered if i don't see her again.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 11:22 PM
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grammar sucks still drunk.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 10:15 PM
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That's good i'll do that with the next one. Since I didn;t K close, and she didn't kino me back,m do you think it's even worth trying for a second date?
/r/askTRP11/10/14 10:13 PM
1

What does this convey to prospectful women?
/r/askTRP03/10/14 10:59 AM
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Just googled him that's one satisfied bastard. Thanks
/r/askTRP02/10/14 08:47 PM
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This just puts me in a harder situation, i'm about to start my journey into self improvement, and these are the two paths to walk. i read alot of stuff in The Game like the routines, canned openers, and games/tricks/magic routines they run on women, and can;t imagine myself doing any of them without cringing internally. is this because i;m not used to it, or it's my gut telling me it isn't who i should be?
/r/askTRP02/10/14 08:42 PM
1

Thanks, i'm gonna give smirking a try.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 08:38 PM
1

I have heard of the power of the smirk, i'm not used to it so it feels Un-natural. I've had girls in the past say i have a nice smile, so i keep reverting to that. Should i only smile when i feel like it?
/r/askTRP02/10/14 08:37 PM
1

Wait, so what do I do if she starts asking me random questions. I met a bird on a night out, we made out, but couldn't fuck close because of logistics. So the next day i text her if shes free next weekend, she says yes, and asks if i had a good night last night. I've been reading so much Redpill that whenever i'm asked a question about my self, i think it's a test or some shit, so i give vague non descriptive answers. Is that the right thing to if my goal is to lay her?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 08:16 PM
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i find it hard to imagine that because i've never really been charming in a way to make them feel like that. I've got a prospective plate coming over next week. I'll just go for it
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 02:18 PM
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Very good in depth post, i am currently reading sex god method and it all makes sense to me. But guys, my dick is 5.4 inches by 4.75. I find that the last time i tried doggy i couldn't get it in, and thats led me be afraid of trying it again. Also i don't feel my size is enough to make her scream. Do any of you guys have a dick size similar to mine? If so, do you manage awesome sex?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 01:14 PM
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Right thanks everyone, looked at all the comments, especially the two clips. It makes sense to me now that it's not exactly beta to tell these things, but alpha in that you are being beta and not giving a fuck. But i don't know of any stories or things that happened to me being vulnerable that i can talk about. I went through a fucking hell of a battle to get visitation rights to my son, but i'd just feel like i was whining if i divulged this informaton with a woman
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 05:18 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP22/09/14 09:38 PM
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And is disagree and amplify good enough?
/r/askTRP22/09/14 09:38 PM
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Nice.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 09:37 PM
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So essentially, she is asking something of me. When i respond with a yes, i'm giving her something for nothing. If i get her to do something fo me, it's an equal exchange?
/r/askTRP22/09/14 09:37 PM
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Never thought of it like that.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 07:45 PM
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Shit man.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 07:44 PM
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I drum, played in a band when i was 15. I will try sinking alot of time into that, see if that gives me any value and confidence in myself.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 06:41 PM
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But i got a kid man, i don't feel like a real bachelor.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 06:31 PM
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Thanks for your time gents, read every comment, i think it is best that i focus on myself more, gonna start working out like a mad dog, and improving myself. I need to realise she is just another woman, but because she is my only serious relationship, i dont think ill be able to
/r/askTRP20/09/14 06:30 PM
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Empathy, something we men are capable of, and i'm feeling that right now for you. You think the working on yourself religiously helped you out with dealing with her?
/r/askTRP20/09/14 06:26 PM
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Since the breakup, i've been working in a job i hate, im in the Navy, live 7 hours away from home, and i've been playing computer games, seeing my friends a bit, and socialising every two weeks or so. I've had to take her through court in order to see my son, i know get to see him every two weeks, but she never comes out of the car, it's her new boyfriend who drops my son off. ( for the record, he is mega beta, he asked her out 6 times in the past 5 years, and she only got with him after it ende…
/r/askTRP20/09/14 06:24 PM
1

Can you elaborate, how long was you strung up on said girl?
/r/askTRP20/09/14 08:22 AM
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Thanks man that was really descriptive
/r/askTRP13/09/14 02:02 AM
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By couldn't get it in, I mean her pussy was facing downwards, and I just couldn't bend my dick up there. No excess skin we're both slim. I''ve never heard of it i'll give it a look
/r/askTRP12/09/14 12:32 PM
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She's an ex, but it still makes sense.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 01:10 AM
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Good idea, thanks
/r/askTRP12/09/14 12:47 AM
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i'm 5"10 shes 5"1.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 12:46 AM
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I thought i could have had more effort on her part to be fair.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 12:44 AM
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That will solve one aspect of my life, but the sexual side would remain in tatters
/r/askTRP31/08/14 09:20 PM
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Do you jack off to cuckolding? I can't take myself seriously when im dominant in bed, because i just end up thinking about how turned on i would be if a guy started fucking her and she started humiliating me. I'm finding it hard to even type this myfetish embarrasses me so much
/r/askTRP31/08/14 09:19 PM
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A therapist is out of the question, i am embarrassed by my fetish too much
/r/askTRP31/08/14 09:17 PM
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Tried. Many times. Like i said it's a cycle. I do it for a week or so, see i havent gotten anywhere with getting a new woman, and jack off because i dont think ill find another one soon.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 09:17 PM
1

But the desire for femdom will always be there.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 09:16 PM
1

Thank you everyone, i have read all your comments, and i appreciate the time.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 06:56 PM
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I do watch too much porn and i know i am addicted. But the thing is, the first porn i ever jacked off to was femdom porn. So i couldn't have become addicted to femdom, i was just born with the natural desire for it right?
/r/askTRP13/08/14 10:52 PM
1

I've always wanted to not be into these things, but i just assumed that it's my genes that determine my kinks. I was never really good at sports, i had a lot of friends, but i never stood up for myself until i was 15. My mother was very attentive to me and practically did everything for me. I wonder if this process, if it is a process, is reversible?
/r/askTRP13/08/14 10:47 PM
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I saw it in an adv thread on 4 chan, saw the link and opened it just expecting to read a few pages, because i've been cheated on before.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 10:08 PM
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Yeah i didn't know what to think about that.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 10:06 PM
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I guess the entire pdf could be summed up in that one sentence, im on page 89 and thats all it sums to so far
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 03:24 PM
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I'm angered by the way that a woman rationalizes cheating is portrayed in this book, like that's how things are meant to be and its just natural fora woman to want to cheat on her husband.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 02:30 PM
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I should add this little snippet though from the book "Although most were not sexually attracted to their husbands, desire was temporarily rekindled when they suspected their husbands were unfaithful, were contemplat- ing infidelity, or when their husbands showed signs of moving on"
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 02:27 PM
1

I don't understand how that's agreeing with her though. Agree and amplify means to basically agree with what she is saying, but make it sound ridiculous?
/r/askTRP29/07/14 01:48 PM
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Haha, i see what you're getting at. Because you're my bitch, not vice versa.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 12:53 PM
1

Right so my previous rsponse would be classed as a pass. I think i'm getting it now. If she throws out bullshit explanation on why she needs flowers, like "Oh well thats what men are meant to do!", then I'll just ignore her from there. These hypothetical situations and examples are really helping me, thanks guys
/r/askTRP29/07/14 12:43 PM
1

SO i shouldn't worry about being non responsive then?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 12:39 PM
1

Fuck man, just fuck. I don't even have any words. I went through court to get to see my son. In England we don't get charged half as much as you yanks though, i'm paying like %12 of my wages. One thing i will say. At the beginning, bitch goes crazy, stop you seein g the kid. But over time, they come round a bit more.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 11:54 AM
1

Is that classed as a pressure flip?
/r/askTRP28/07/14 11:29 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 11:29 PM
1

I like that. You're right, it's not important, because it's a shit test. Shit tests aren't important to me. I thought if i said something like "Why do i have to buy you flowers?" that would set her off more. If i answered with that, would i have passed or failed the shit test?
/r/askTRP28/07/14 11:29 PM
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Can someone go into more depth of what they mean by "Responsiveness"?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 11:27 AM
1

It's a valid question. Most Alphas have larger than average dicks, this gives them a confidence boost, which in turn gets them more women, which in turns increases their confidence.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 12:50 AM
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OP, how big is your dick? I want to be able to run straight back in the game, but years of being with that one girl makes me wonder if 5.5 inches is enough for others.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 06:56 PM
1

I guess so, but its a cache 22, need to feel good to get girls, cant get girls because of not feeling good
/r/seduction09/07/14 04:05 PM
2

Cheers man, one last question, did you try this PUA stuff in your hometown? I heard if you try it too much you can build a reputation as a weirdo
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 07:31 PM
1

so i geuss you've made a fool of yourself in front of women many times?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 07:16 PM
1

It's harder than that though mate, i'm currently fighting to see my son on a regular basis, and have to see her in court and shit.
/r/seduction26/06/14 06:13 PM
1

Would you mind telling me how you used to be before the redpill? I'm currently stuck in a lack of motivation, fear of rejection, not thinking my 5.4 inch penis is enough for her mindset.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 05:56 PM
1

So just focus on getting my shit together, even when everytime i fuck up i see her face? Just power though it?
/r/seduction21/06/14 02:36 PM
1

Another thing that shatters my confidence is my dick size. The women i have slept with always reacted best when i performed oral on them. I'm 5.4 inches, and i'm penetrating, i feel like they just want something bigger, and that no matter how many times i make a woman come from oral or with my fingers, she will always just want a big fat dick to fuck her raw. Something i can't give her
/r/seduction21/06/14 02:32 PM
1

Thanks man, liked your post. All makes sense. Just about motivation for me really.
/r/seduction21/06/14 02:23 PM
1

Yeah no photos of her now, it was her twitter i looked at.
/r/seduction20/06/14 11:15 PM
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This is a strange one, because although she has been for lack of a better phrase, a complete bitch to me regarding seeing my son and how she broke up with me, i still want her back, but i'd never, EVER take her back. I still think i would like to be with her after all she's done to me, but at the same time would never forgive myself about it.
/r/seduction20/06/14 11:14 PM
1

I'm just generally apathetic to it all. I think to myself "If she didn't want to stay with me, why would any other woman?" And i realise it's stupid, but it still bothers me. EVERY time i fuck up in a conversation or do something i think is weak, i imagine her face, just staring at me, saying "I told you you're no good" This is the main thing that gets me down, how do i deal with this?
/r/seduction20/06/14 11:12 PM
1

i really don't know what does give me confidence. All i do when i have spare time is play computer games or drink with my friends. My friends are sound people, so i'm glad i have them. i have a drum kit, and i'm pretty good at playing them, but i wouldn't say it gives me confidence, it's just something fun to do to pass the time.
/r/seduction20/06/14 11:08 PM
1

I guess you're right man. I'll just do my best to live a normal sex life, i doubt it's something many women would dig anyway.
/r/seduction20/06/14 11:02 PM
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My thoughts exactly, except i already have bred.
/r/seduction20/06/14 11:00 PM
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Just got back, thanks for the great response everyone. Gonna read through in a bit when i have some time.
/r/seduction20/06/14 07:40 PM
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