I read somewhere that asking questions when trying to create attraction is "boring", and girls will just label you as some obviously boring guy who can;t spice up a conversation.
I was waiting for a train the other day, and 20 ish year old girl sat on the same bench as me. She looked cute, 7/10 in my eyes. I;m 24 btw.
So I thought "Fuck it, may as well open" I started with:
Me: Alright? (english greeting basically means hello)
Her: Yes thanks, are you?
Me: Good thanks
I look around the train station quickly.
Me: You;re a student aren't you?
Her: Yeah
Me: Let me guess, psychology.
Her: Yeah!
Then i ask some benign question about if they still study a certain topic i studied when I did psychology.
After that, I had no fucking idea how to take the conversation forward. She looked kind of nervous. I think I fucked up by seeming like a bog standard boring guy.
How do I keep girls interest in conversations, instead of resorting to boring questions?
I've just stared with this pick up stuff, so if my post comes off as a bit obsessive, I just want some specific advice to set me off on my way.
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