Does living in a small town spell doom?

JinkiesGangAClue · 2018-09-17T17:11:51+00:00

Less people = less people to have sex with

If your sole/major priority in life is to get laid then yes, a small town isn’t helping you in the slightest.

CainPrice · 2018-09-17T17:36:37+00:00

It's time to get a girlfriend. At least while you live there. If you're in a small town of 12k, only a small fraction of those people are going to be female, age-appropriate, single(ish), and down with casual sex.

And no girl in the next closest city (and 100k isn't that big for a city) is going to drive 30 minutes for a hook-up.

Chad1738 · 2018-09-17T18:15:51+00:00

Currently in this situation bro. (10,000k people, 35 min drive to closest city) Almost close to impossible to meet women where I live but I make it work. What I do is:

-Cold approach when possible, I work full time and hit the gym so it limits my time that I can meet girls. (grocery store and walmart are basically the two options I have to possible meet someone.) Also there are girls at the gym, but I don't want to shit where I eat because I don't want to ruin my gym experience.

-Tinder/Bumble and set the search radius to the max and swipe.

-You are going to have to get good at picking up girls the same night and banging when you do decide to go to a big city

-If you do bang them, make sure to bang them good so they want to meet again. These girls can turn into plates that you bang anytime you are in their city. When I go to their city and I fail at picking up a girl that night, ill hit them up after and bang.

-Girls I meet on apps I will try to get them to meet me but if they don't want to come all the way (its too far) I will compromise and meet in the middle. Ill get a cheap hotel which we can alternate paying or you work out it out however. Or I will setup a meetup in their city when I know I am going there anyway.

-Make connections with other guys in your town and they can introduce you to new girls.

Its all about just working with what you have and having fun bro. I don't plan on living in this small town for much longer so I trying out new things just for the sake of an experience. Try out shit and if you think its not worth the time, then just don't do it again.

chachaChad · 2018-09-17T17:48:39+00:00

You are if you think you are. You need to get out and make connections. No one is knocking on your door to blow you.

RunawayGrain · 2018-09-17T18:12:25+00:00

Im about half an hours drive from the closest city of 100000.

So go over to the city to find girls. Like everything the house projects status, so set it up as a country manor as it were. How much land are we talking here?

TheTrenTrannyTrain · 2018-09-17T18:37:36+00:00

Lived both in a city of 1,200 and 7 millions, the difference is night and day.

SenorSwole · 2018-09-17T19:08:35+00:00

Pretty much. I lived in a small retirement town pretty much the only thing to do there was smoke weed and drive around.

Delirious911 · 2018-09-17T18:19:55+00:00

Women are lazy. If you're looking to get as much action as possible, you're at a disadvantage buying in the smaller city. Many of them will see your location and move on. 30 minutes to them is like 3 hours to us.

GrimTRP · 2018-09-18T14:06:56+00:00

12,000. Bro my town is 1500 people and I still get pussy.

Avskygod0 · 2018-09-17T22:00:09+00:00

Depends on demographics. In a normal time it would be easier, but thanks to negative birth rates it's probably all old people

Title	Does living in a small town spell doom?
Author	Unclejimbo2
Upvotes	7
Comments	20
Date	September 17, 2018 5:04 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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