Alright quick context, been BP'ed for atleast 1/2 of my relationship but have begun establishing dominance and showing abundance. Obviously very hard work when she already has seen me as beta.

Now purely sexual, she is a little bit shy/introverted. I opened her up to kinky sex and she likes it real hard now. After beginning to slowly reclaim my frame, she has begun saying "You fuck like a pussy" when I fuck her, because she knows it triggers my animal instinct and I go all savage on her ass after that. Sex is improving, so is dominance. She likes me slapping her, choking her and spanking her to the point of leaving marks for the next 4 hours.

However, she still has a pretty bad fucking hamster going for herself, so whenever she doesn't get what she wants, she turns into what you all know. One big fucking hamster. This is obviously because she was used to it back when I was BP (smoking weed everyday, didn't bother arguing). I usually just obliged and everything was good. Now this has changed since I ignore her BS and she eventually comes around. However, she has begun saying really personal disrespectful stuff like:

"Fuck you, I don't need you and your tiny penis"

"Why would I want you? You fuck like a faggot"

"Fucking pussy"

"Fucking gay ass faggot"

Shit like that you know. It really deep down hurts my ego alot to be honest, but of course I cannot show her this which I dont. I realize it might the point, to hurt my ego. But I can't keep wondering about this....

How much of it does she actually mean? Is it solely for tearing down my frame/ego that she says specific things like this, or is the fact that she is saying things like this actually her subconscious beliefs? (Just like the truths come out when you're drunk)

Is she spewing what she is actually thinking, or is it just BS to try and touch my frame?

Pls let me hear your opinions.