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1

lmao yup
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:30 PM
2

context?
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:24 PM
1

watched on mute. as soon as the slapping began I knew it wasn’t in america
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/18 07:05 PM
1

gym
/r/askTRP02/07/18 02:28 PM
1

you don’t say it or tell her, you just ghost
/r/askTRP01/07/18 09:53 PM
8

you read the sidebar. You go bang other women. You stop caring about your crush aka oneitis.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 09:13 PM
9

those are called ez-curl bars
/r/askTRP09/06/18 12:17 AM
5

don’t shit where you eat
/r/askTRP08/06/18 03:08 PM
2

I see it as raising the red flags for you well in advance. She's telling you not to get attached, so don't.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 10:01 PM
1

I think that's a good idea, man
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:18 PM
1

that's how I'd play it. A lot of people here saying "NEXT" or "GHOST". I had a similar situation where a woman was extremely late for a date I planned. I didn't next her or ghost her, I acted like an adult and said "hey listen, don't do this again without giving me a heads up. I don't appreciate people wasting my time, and I won't put up with it again." She took it seriously and always gave me a heads up when she was running late, which was often. you have a point though, with her being 17. I've…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:17 PM
1

I dont know why I am expected to drop it off, I will add I said I would when we broke up but that was a while ago and it's like she's trying to boss me around even while we aren't dating anymore. you said you'd drop it off, so do it. Don't make it an issue. You work 5 min from her place, just drop it off before work and text her that it's on her porch. If you want your bag of clothes, tell her to bring them to your work. If you don't, just forget em.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 08:59 PM
1

what the fuck? I've overslept naps before. She apologized profusely. Had she not, then it's a next. However in this case, this is a great opportunity to say "I'll let you make it up to me... ;) dinner at my place, you're cooking". If she declines, then adios.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 08:45 PM
1

take yourself less seriously and you'll be able to come up with witty remarks on the spot
/r/askTRP31/05/18 06:27 PM
5

you're doing it right. She's reaching out between dates because she's into you & wants your attention. You're keeping it brief and ending the exchange correctly and getting back to your life. You can end the convo with a "see you on (next date), looking forward to it" so she knows you're still into her. That's part of why she reaches out too.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 03:31 PM
3

if she’s the kind of chick who posts shit like that publicly, do yourself a favor and find somebody else
/r/askTRP27/05/18 03:30 AM
6

so many salty fucks in this thread. Some people beg to find networking opportunities to meet with likeminded men. This sounds like a good one.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 08:44 PM
3

sounds like a kink, as others have suggested. Sounds to me like an overt preselection fantasy.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 06:21 PM
1

anybody have an archived version of this?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 05:01 PM
6

I read the contextual explanation and yes, you did the right thing.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 02:41 PM
2

Offer value. Compliment people on their strengths. Provide good times create good memories/stories to tell in the future.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:28 PM
5

first, is this a fuck buddy or LTR? second, a soft next is no contact for a predetermined (by you) amount of time. You pulled a bs drama move by texting her saying "we need to talk". You sent her hamster into fucking turbo mode. You got a reaction, and now it's an overt situation rather than covert one and you gotta do unnecessary damage control. Had you actually soft nexted for a day or two, she would have been thinking "I wonder if everything is ok.. maybe it's not, but it probably is... but w…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:28 PM
3

Been there. Dude didn't really consider me a priority even though we'd been friends for a long time. He'd ignore my texts, bail on plans etc. Wouldn't give me a straight answer. All I could do was take the hint and stop reaching out.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:57 PM
2

change your habits and stick with them. See a therapist. Create a schedule for yourself and stick to it. Develop integrity in your word. Set a strict sleep schedule. Shave every morning. Get yourself moving and on SOME kind of track, and your brain will follow. All the shit you typed: now wonder you’re depressed dude! When I do those things I feel like absolute shit about myself. When I start to get myself back on schedule I balance back out. When I force myself to wake up early my brain literal…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 01:07 AM
1

because they’re agreeable
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:47 PM
1

if my girl spoke to me like that she wouldn’t be my girl anymore
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:36 PM
1

you should sit down and break up with her before, and face this like a man. Is this how you plan on handling all of your future issues? Don't puss out and be a little boy about it.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 07:31 PM
6

Spinning plates means actively having other irons in the fire. Contrary to what many say here, you don't have to be banging them. Rollo explicitly states this in The Rational Male (I wonder sometimes how many men here have actually read the damn book). Women spin plates naturally with their orbiters. That's the whole point of this - to level the playing field.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 07:26 PM
1

you thought you were over, therefore your integrity is not compromised. Your frame, however, is compromised. You should stick with your initial belief.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 07:23 PM
4

it's a good mindset to have for many things in life: job, any material possessions, etc. Live and enjoy it while you got it
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 07:13 PM
1

https://therationalmale.com/2012/08/27/girls-night-out/comment-page-2/
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 07:11 PM
12

yeah, it's tough to digest. Can't enjoy it much anymore. Enjoy Last Man Standing though, Tim Allen's character is great.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:26 PM
6

By telling her parents, I'm winning 100% I don't think so dude. Sounds fishy, and by telling her parents you made it clear how powerless you are in this situation. Get your nuts back and find yourself a new girl. Looking forward to the conclusion.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 06:02 PM
9

this is retarded. I’d dump her ass for not wanting to file a report. Sounds like BS
/r/askTRP18/05/18 11:21 AM
1

“go on...” or “i approve” or “nice”
/r/askTRP18/05/18 09:24 AM
1

hard no from me. I especially don’t hold purses. If women give me shit I say “that doesn’t match my shoes” or “I’m trying to quit.”
/r/askTRP17/05/18 01:00 PM
5

if she’s actually a friend then treat her like one of your friends. “what’s up, you seem pissed. everything good?”
/r/askTRP16/05/18 11:28 AM
1

yeah I don’t get this either
/r/askTRP16/05/18 01:53 AM
0

lol
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:50 AM
2

no one else can make you follow through. Punish and reward yourself strategically for following through or breaking your agreements with yourself. If you make an agreement with yourself, do it. If you fail to do it, you lose credibility and faith in your word. Begin again. Outside pressure is great, however do not accrue additional debt to apply pressure to a situation that you already lack the discipline and self-control to handle properly. That is financial suicide.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 01:39 PM
1

I start to wonder how many people have actually read "The Rational Male"
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 11:15 PM
1

this has to be a joke
/r/askTRP13/05/18 10:06 PM
3

if you stayed with her you would regret not banging all the hot ass you can get now.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:27 PM
2

no
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:25 PM
1

that guy could have 20 women in his house, he's fucking up
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 08:23 PM
1

takes time. you will learn to accept your true nature and her true nature.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:44 PM
2

with no reschedule that's a hard no from her. "ok some other time." Then hit her up a week later. If on the second attempt she gives the same answer or doesn't make plans then next her, she's not interested.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:43 PM
4

doesn't matter. You'll never get the real answer anyway. Hyper sluts will have exaggeratedly selfish world views and display similarly selfish behaviors. When or if the time comes, judge her by her ability to care for you and others.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:40 PM
5

do what you want dude. If it gets you off to get her off go for it.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 01:38 PM
-18

dude mustve been a major bitch
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/18 06:25 PM
2

if you want to go for it. Doesn't matter what she wants. If you're into it, do it. Alternatively, break out of her weak ass knots and destroy dat puss
/r/askTRP10/05/18 03:05 AM
15

simply, it helps you stand out. 97% of the shmucks out there text girls non stop, which signifies to many women that you don't have a life. It makes you mysterious to her. She imagines what you are up to. She wonders if you are with other women. Then she reaches out. Then you make plans. you cannot build attraction via text. Be busy with your life. Text to make plans, and then live the plans.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 01:08 AM
5

4 years is a long ass time dude
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:27 PM
1

it depends on the context, and given the context I'd say don't do it man.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:23 PM
2

totally understand that feeling. I'll still get that feeling occasionally before I send a risky message. Go with it.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:20 PM
1

she'll slow you down bro, say no thanks
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:18 PM
14

wtf
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:15 PM
1

I won’t do it
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:48 PM
6

good response dude
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:08 AM
3

try using one of those condoms that has a slight numbing agent. For lolz, turn it inside out
/r/askTRP07/05/18 04:58 PM
2

cut her loose, boss. No other way for me.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:33 AM
6

How would being too available show up in person? And is there a part of you that does think you're manipulating her or faking it? If so kill that part and understand that you are allowed to be whoever the fuck you want to be. I think you're on the right track and you should disregard. This is likely her way of trying to gain control and see if you will bend or go into beta-mode. Don't let it shake you. Don't defend, explain, or rationalize - keep doing your thing. Plates fall and break occasiona…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 10:02 PM
40

I'm not really doing anything crazy to her besides just being really busy with school, sports, hobbies, the gym, and other plates so I don't have much time for her. I take hours to respond to her messages if I do even respond to them at all. Texting strictly for logistics as well. I never go to her place and she always comes to mine. She's threatened to leave once or twice and I've welcomed her to leave if she wants to. It would make a small difference to me whether or not she is in my life. it …
/r/askTRP04/05/18 09:44 PM
2

"don't worry I can't read, I just like the pictures"
/r/askTRP04/05/18 09:02 PM
5

you must have a Comanche to fit a fat bish in the back
/r/askTRP04/05/18 04:46 PM
1

People will lie to save themselves without thinking twice. Maybe she's telling the truth. Maybe not. Maybe she had an assload of orbiters on there that she would flirt with to keep them spinning. Maybe she was sending nudes. Maybe she actually physically cheated on you. Who knows? The point is you can choose to trust her or trust your gut. Do not confront. She will lie until you have hard evidence to prove otherwise. Then you'd get the answer in small trickle truth pieces.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 04:00 PM
3

read the Rational Male
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:39 PM
346

"We are just... disposable". Ah, to live the life of a man.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 11:37 PM
2

"this shit really sucks..." there's your fucking insight. Go with your gut. Make your own decision.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 11:13 PM
7

I'd suggest The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 10:07 PM
2

audiobooks for me. Taking notes in conjunction with listening has been helpful for retention.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 10:06 PM
3

getting back up after you fail and trying again. Confidence is knowing that no matter what happens, you can handle it.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 10:04 PM
4

"I want you to show me your stamp collection" or something relevant to part of your convo with her. Maybe she has a dog. "I want to talk to your dog about a modeling job", literally anything
/r/askTRP02/05/18 09:40 PM
1

go with your gut. Don't cut her off, just stop initiating convo. Leave the door open and spin her when she reaches out
/r/askTRP02/05/18 06:23 PM
2

In The Rational Male, Tomassi explicitly states that being upfront about it is the best way to spin plates. That said, you got nothing to feel bad about.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 03:14 PM
1

have you read The Rational Male?
/r/askTRP28/04/18 10:51 AM
3

how the fuck should we know?
/r/askTRP28/04/18 02:35 AM
14

got it. Are you banging her? I'd just respond "furious. but I'll let you make it up to me"
/r/askTRP27/04/18 08:16 PM
12

need context
/r/askTRP27/04/18 04:27 PM
1

you don't. she hits you up. find more women to bang and you won't be asking this questions
/r/askTRP27/04/18 02:25 PM
1

wtf
/r/askTRP27/04/18 12:00 PM
2

on top of lawyering up, take 100% responsibility for your choices throughout this relationship. She didn't make you do anything you didn't want to do. You chose to do it. You chose to follow her rules instead of your own.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 11:59 AM
1

yes, just treat her like a bro. Don’t do something for her that you wouldn’t do for your bros. And don’t put up with bullshit. You’ve already got your attraction to her in front of you, keep it there.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 01:21 AM
4

100% serious. Game 101
/r/askTRP20/04/18 02:22 AM
16

... treat women like your bratty little sister
/r/askTRP19/04/18 04:42 PM
20

you're letting her get under your skin. Stop taking her seriously, at all. Reframe it. Consider that she's earning herself a spanking and respond appropriately. A&A is the right choice IMO. How would you respond if it was one of your best friends saying it to you? Don't copy him he isn't good at math: "the answer is 69" You can't read a watch: "yeah it's about half-past suckmyballs"
/r/askTRP17/04/18 10:55 PM
1

straight up pop
/r/askTRP07/04/18 01:54 AM
4

why are you living together?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:33 PM
1

~40/45+
/r/askTRP26/03/18 06:32 PM
1

lol wow
/r/askTRP23/03/18 09:58 AM
3

eh, I still plan on having children and raising them right.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:07 PM
4

depends on your schedule my man. I do dinner at my place at 6pm, so that's when I invite women over to cook dinner. I go to sleep at 9:30pm so that's when I call it a night. Weeknights are best, as they are time constricted.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:28 PM
2

“lift, you little bitch”
/r/askTRP19/03/18 01:12 AM
4

nah, i’m my experience if they’re into it and attracted to you they’ll be keen to hang very soon
/r/askTRP18/03/18 12:59 AM
2

say "hey siri how do I unmatch on tinder"
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:11 AM
1

doesn’t matter what I think
/r/askTRP16/03/18 02:54 AM
1

I like throwing these at the end of my deadlift days as an accessory. Great functional exercise.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 06:48 PM
2

yes, and it was worth it. Helped me more in hindsight than I realized at the time. I carried a lot of childhood BS into my adult life. I still do a lot of self-work to process it when it comes up. Life-long process, I'm sure.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:04 PM
7

I can relate. Get into therapy for it and unpack it. Helped me out. Could be deeper issues at work (abandonment, boundaries, self-validation, mommy issues, etc.) Or it could just be that you're going for women you don't actually want, and you don't realize it until you have them.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 03:57 PM
0

thx dad
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:15 PM
1

yes
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:14 PM
-9

disagree
/r/askTRP12/03/18 05:17 PM
-7

take the necklace back, bro. Don't ask for it back, take it back
/r/askTRP12/03/18 03:38 PM
1

no. Just don’t change your behavior while there, shoot down any girlfriend comments from your friends with A&A
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:09 PM
1

what
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:05 AM
5

right, so OP should be single
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/18 02:28 AM
4

sounds like she wants to fuck
/r/askTRP10/03/18 02:06 AM
3

because OP finds her boyfriend’s friends more attractive
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/18 01:18 AM
1

nah this is good
/r/askTRP09/03/18 03:51 PM
5

"I haven't decided yet"
/r/askTRP09/03/18 03:51 PM
2

that's a shit place to be mentally, bro. go to therapy and discuss the relationship you have with your mom and other female figures in your life.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 07:47 PM
1

ignore it, change the subject, act as if they didn’t say anything, or leave the chat
/r/askTRP08/03/18 02:27 PM
3

yes. Do the “breaking free” exercises.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 02:23 PM
17

"I'm going to x-place at x oclock, come with" ignore it and set up the date if you want to hang out with her. The best response is the one that moves the interaction toward the goal post
/r/askTRP07/03/18 08:21 PM
3

Some women will prefer taller men. That's ok. They're not the right women for you.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 05:24 PM
2

wtf dude
/r/askTRP07/03/18 04:12 AM
4

hook her up with your friend, take the L, and be cool about it. Maybe she’s got hot friends.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 12:43 PM
2

go to your doc and ask for a Cialis sample pack, no joke. Helped me with performance anxiety
/r/askTRP06/03/18 02:29 AM
1

bro, just DM her and set up a date. Be direct. She flakes? you’ll have your answer. Don’t follow her on IG, just DM, set it up, and let it play out.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 02:27 AM
5

if you can ditch the oneitis, keep banging her when she’s home. She is not worthy of an LTR or your energy beyond fucking.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 02:10 AM
1

count to 10. Let her come up with something to say
/r/askTRP06/03/18 12:44 AM
3

Ended on bad terms? Her fault? Oneitis? Fuck yeah, cut her out. I used to believe that was the only way to do it. Ended on good terms? I see no reason to block/ignore/cut them out of my life.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:29 PM
1

get an ashtray
/r/askTRP05/03/18 01:13 AM
4

want to do this and need a smartphone for work, don’t want two phones
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 12:35 PM
1

good shit, thanks for posting this
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 12:35 PM
1

he’s short and has erectile issues lol who gave you that info. Yeah just ignore dude.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 04:52 PM
1

“Go on...” “I approve”
/r/askTRP02/03/18 04:44 PM
1

wear whatever the fuck you want and own it. If it works for you, great. If not, recalibrate.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 04:43 PM
1

you move forward like any other situation. It’s on her to turn you down.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 04:39 PM
2

go with your gut
/r/askTRP02/03/18 04:36 PM
1

my reading comp skills aren’t my strongest suit, so I’m having trouble getting through it. Love his delivery in videos/audio- very engaging. He’s verbose and not as direct as I’d like in the book. Difficult to read more than 10 pages in a sitting. I hear him speaking it to me in his voice in my head though, so that’s cool. Anyway, decent so far.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 02:58 AM
1

set up a date if you want, then get off the phone and do your thing.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 01:32 PM
8

this is the right answer
/r/askTRP01/03/18 10:54 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BtWdPY2PHvw
/r/askTRP28/02/18 09:01 PM
3

gay
/r/askTRP28/02/18 09:00 PM
5

she’s prob pissed you didn’t make a move
/r/askTRP27/02/18 07:00 PM
2

lol if that’s how they respond then they aren’t interested bro. On to the next one
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:35 AM
1

you gotta respond with nonsense. Logic is a no-no. Say the most absurd shit you can think of that amuses you. Don’t take her seriously. Agree and amplify. “ok let’s meet in a dark alleyway instead” “don’t worry, I’m allergic to sex” “my van is all out of candy” “the a/c in my rape dungeon went out so it would be way too hot”
/r/askTRP26/02/18 07:09 PM
1

the same way. Post your “busy life” on your snap stories. Show, don’t tell. Do cool shit, for yourself. Do things you enjoy and share it with the world
/r/askTRP26/02/18 07:00 PM
3

assume that she wants to see you. if she hits you up for anything, make plans to hang out. If she declines, say “sounds like you’re busy, we’ll do it some other time” and then “I gotta run, keep in touch”.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 02:16 PM
8

an amazing amount of resistance to this idea shot through me when I read it. Worth noting this.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 05:18 PM
1

a strong, driven, trustworthy and commanding leader
/r/askTRP24/02/18 04:52 AM
4

it’s actually not about you at all. All about her, 100%. Not disrespect, not a shit test, she probably didn’t acknowledge your existence. 100% in her own world which revolves 100% around her
/r/askTRP24/02/18 02:35 AM
3

ideally you’re prepared to answer these questions in the moment with something cocky and funny. Don’t get stuck in your head, say whatever would amuse you. ie “must’ve been a stud” or “you must have good taste”
/r/askTRP23/02/18 05:15 PM
8

since you already made other plans you’re good. I wouldn’t reply at all. You said you were down to hang, and she didn’t respond with “sorry kid I was busy, but ok I’m down!”. she may have been busy, sure, and she didn’t reply with a desire to hang. If she reaches out again, follow one of the other comments here and say “what’s up! I’m going to x place on x day at x o’clock, come with”
/r/askTRP23/02/18 05:08 PM
1

break it down and own it for yourself. Not what other people might be afraid of. What are you afraid of in that situation? What would it mean about you as a man if you found yourself in that situation? Answer with your gut. Break down whatever conclusions you come to.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 04:57 PM
2

get out of your head dude. Sounds like a weirdly immature situation. If I were you and that happened I’d say “get a room” or “hey me next bro” and if they kept going I’d leave what’s your main concern/belief about yourself here though? what’s so bad about that happening?
/r/askTRP23/02/18 01:28 PM
1

nobody knows except her. Lots of assumptions being tossed around in this thread. It doesn’t matter why, just accept it and better yourself.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 11:46 AM
1

Epic! good shit man.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 03:01 AM
2

common mistake. When I transitioned from NG to normal dude, the pendulum swung too far. I was inconsiderate, flat out rude, and disrespectful. It worked for some women (mentally/emotionally unhealthy ones). I recognized the social feedbac, and personal internal feedback, and tried to balance it out so that my goal was to become a good hearted, fun loving, giving person who doesn't let people walk all over them.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 07:04 PM
1

I gotcha. Hey man, if firm works for you, do it up. You know your worth.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:57 PM
2

honestly man, firm sounds good on paper and when we’re here discussing options with bros, and unless you’re willing to walk/kick her out immediately if she doesn’t take you seriously, you run the risk of coming off very butthurt. Been there. Did not go as planned. Serious isn’t fun. Imagine you’re having a good time with this chick - vibing , teasing, flirting and escalating. All fun. Then she whips out her phone and you get stern with her. Boom. Suddenly you’re not the fun guy she was just with…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 01:52 PM
3

You say you ignore it, and you don't. It's eating up your mental energy. Maybe she's trying to make you jealous. Maybe she's addicted to her phone. Who knows, who cares? Even though i know she sees other guys and am totally fine with it, i actually prefer it, shes just a plate afterall. It still fucks with my head when she does this with her phone mainly because i dont know how to react and deal with it. Sounds like you care, and you're trying to convince yourself that you don't. If you didn't c…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 12:47 PM
2

I stopped reading at “has a kid”. Seee ya!
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:40 AM
9

dude, what? she's a plate. You straight up said "I'm going to be seeing other women from time to time." And you expected her to not do the same? As for your move, you're already bent out of shape about it, so you gotta accept that this is part of the deal. You bang other women, she bangs other men, neither of you are exclusive. Accept it. She's one in your rotation. No need to "shake" her. No need to let her know that you can walk. That's for you to know and believe.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 02:27 PM
1

gotta reward good behavior
/r/askTRP20/02/18 12:47 PM
2

if you want to bang her set something up. Damn.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 11:57 PM
8

own your opinions and beliefs and be outspoken about them
/r/askTRP19/02/18 07:41 PM
2

shouldn't have let them into the party if they didn't follow the rules
/r/askTRP19/02/18 03:21 PM
7

if she was giving you a bad blow job it is your duty to tell her and guide her closer to what you want
/r/askTRP17/02/18 05:37 PM
8

need more context. Usually would just say withdraw attention without being butt hurt. Grab a book, do dishes, do something that needs to get done or play a game or some shit. Text a friend. Be unphased.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 03:55 AM
2

aight man, you fucked up. Me: what you doing this weekend? Her: im working why? Me: wanted to invite you out to this spot we going to tonight. Her: oh ok Indirect invite on your part, and zero interest on hers. Me: what time do you get off of work? Her: at 7 Me: oh thats not so late. i’ll pick you up, after you get out. Her: what are you doing right now Notice the deflection. She didn't say "ok awesome" or "sounds good". Should have stopped responding right there. All the rest is unnecessary. Me…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 11:49 PM
1

not a test
/r/askTRP16/02/18 11:33 PM
8

Also... In my mind I sometimes think what a disgusting slut she is. Might not be healthiest but it helps... worked for me once. I was slamming it from behind and thought “this nasty bitch doesn’t deserve my seed.” Made me go even harder and didn’t bust for a while. It was interesting
/r/askTRP16/02/18 09:04 PM
4

great post. Moderation is key for most things
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 01:28 PM
1

go bang her as planned, and then send her on her way. Then go out with your boys or a woman, whoever, and have a good night. Don't check in, don't text her while you're out, ghost for the night unless she hits you up to bang later.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 01:21 PM
0

nah, he's R all day. Supports Trump 100%
/r/askTRP16/02/18 10:13 AM
2

I definitely have some narcissistic traits. Didn’t become aware of them until 5 or 6 years ago. Not enough to have a personality disorder. The positives are solid - already had a strong sense of entitlement, but the self-hatred underneath runs deep. Still bucket that shit out from time to time when I fail. Anyway, here I am talking about me
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:47 AM
51

just do you, man. I was with a chick once and said “hello” to a stranger walking by when we made eye contact. She was shocked. Said “it’s not even christmas.” As if that’s the only time of year you’re supposed to interact with strangers. Gotta learn to drop that shit though, don’t carry that sourpuss’s attitude with you all day. Living rent-free in your head
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:41 AM
7

Got turned on to Peterson via the Joe Rogan podcast about gender pronouns and the dominance hierarchy and I was hooked. Devoured his YouTube content. I found his biblical lectures to be incredibly profound, Very stimulating, for me, and got me thinking about a lot of shit. I’ve always felt a pull to ancient stories of the Bible, so to be able to view them through a modern psychological lens is interesting. Same with his personality lectures. Good shit. I don’t follow or seek his relationship adv…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:36 AM
12

"only one way to find out"
/r/askTRP15/02/18 06:20 PM
3

I feel you man. The advice I gave worked for me. I'll clarify: "stop thinking, and just do." I mean I spent way too much time in my head, essentially in a nihilistic state of existential dread. Nothing makes sense when I'm in that place. I had to give up on those questions because I was miserable. I had to refocus my thoughts on what mattered to me here and now, and what will matter to me in 10 years, in 30 years, and in 50 years. From your post, it sounds like you are generally in a comfortable…
/r/askTRP15/02/18 02:50 PM
1

go to therapy and sort yourself out, no one here is going to give you the answer
/r/askTRP15/02/18 02:35 PM
2

had an anxiety issue that did this to me. Doc gave me a cialis sample pack and it boosted my comfort and confidence. Worked for a little while. However, I discovered I wasn't THAT attracted to the woman in question. I've been with a 7 who made me hard as a rock and a 7 who I'd get boner ADD with. Both good looking girls. Part of it is subconscious. I started listening to my boner instead of my brain. That said, does the girl really do it for you attraction wise?
/r/askTRP15/02/18 01:52 PM
3

get out of your head, my man. Stop thinking, and just do. Become grounded in the reality in front of you and take action.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 01:47 PM
1

nudes > foods
/r/askTRP15/02/18 04:10 AM
7

I think the best piece I got from NMMNG was to make decisions solely based on what I want. Not what my Dad wants. Not what my Mom wants. Not what a girl wants. What I want. Over time I became more confident and certain that it was OK to want what I wanted. edit: I think he says something to the effect of "decisions are easier to make when you don't have a whole committee trying to make them". When making decisions, ask ONLY "what do I want?"
/r/askTRP15/02/18 02:49 AM
3

what is your question?
/r/askTRP14/02/18 08:55 PM
250

replace the word “but” with “and”. Clears that shit right up. “But” creates doubt. “And” adds useful additional info. “And” creates an opportunity for ownership & more possibilities vs “but”. “I don’t want to break up with you, BUT I want to bang other women.” (either/or) vs “I don’t want to break up with you, AND I want to bang other women.” (both/and)
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 02:20 PM
1

amen
/r/askTRP14/02/18 02:19 PM
2

yeah that text was gay. Didn’t have to be awkward but you made it so. Forget that it happened and set up the next smash date.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 02:14 PM
1

yo dude - just say “hey, that doesn’t work for me. Hit me up if you change your mind.” and then don’t respond to anything else from her unless it’s a “hey, I changed my mind.” She already knows you find her attractive, she already knows you like and want her, and she has shut you down. She’s not a 10/10 and she’s not into you. Best thing you can do is hold that line and walk away.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 02:11 PM
3

anger was your crutch. Develop internal discipline. Motivation is fleeting, and while temporarily effective, when it leaves you it leaves you fast. That’s where discipline comes in.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 12:45 PM
1

how are you defining frame? starts with beliefs, IMO
/r/askTRP14/02/18 12:42 PM
4

I think it’s more “covert” than passive, speaking their language
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 01:33 AM
2

forever
/r/askTRP13/02/18 11:45 PM
1

go for it then, just be willing to walk if she she denies you
/r/askTRP13/02/18 09:14 PM
1

your dick isn't a question mark, it's an exclamation point. go exclaim what you want.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 09:13 PM
1

forget about how you "should" feel and get honest about how you actually do feel. Own it, and make a decision from there. How old are you? How old is she? What do you do for work?
/r/askTRP13/02/18 09:12 PM
1

don't change your stance.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 08:34 PM
-1

just be direct. Also, ask yourself "how would the most confident and certain version of myself handle this" and then do that.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 08:32 PM
5

and do the Breaking Free exercises
/r/askTRP13/02/18 08:23 PM
3

You def didn't come off as mean. Lose that idea. No follow up needed dude. Can we get some more context? Can't give more feedback without that. Were you two banging? From her text, and your post, all I can infer is that things moved too quickly and you were really into her, and she wasn't as into you
/r/askTRP13/02/18 07:19 PM
3

Agreed with the other posts here. Arguing is pointless. You let her know where you stand on the issue, so withdraw attention until she comes around as planned. If you’d rather not go with her and you paid for the trip, take a friend instead. Tell your girl you need some time to think and ghost over the weekend
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:41 PM
4

Good call. That’s tough. If you need to, take a few days and process it without her around. Spend time with family. Just tell her you need to support your fam for a few days and you’ll hit her up when you can hang. Whatever you do, don’t make her your support or let her be a shoulder to cry on, even if she offers. That should be your family and friends handling that with you. Sorry to hear about your Uncle
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:34 PM
2

budget your time (schedule your day) and money and be strict with it. Develop and practice self-discipline. Everydollar.com or YNAB (You Need A Budget).
/r/askTRP13/02/18 03:37 PM
2

stop looking at porn, and instead force yourself to acknowledge whatever inner issues you’re avoiding. Worked wonders for me. I was medicating anxiety, loneliness, and unhappiness with porn and jacking off all the time. When I stopped, I had to get real and face myself and the things I hated about myself. Trying to get a girl without first addressing the inner issues will likely lead to unnecessary suffering
/r/askTRP13/02/18 03:35 PM
6

Personally I’d keep doing what you’re doing. CCW’s advice works. Stay busy and focused on yourself, and when she reaches out again, make the date.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 03:32 PM
5

“future ex wife” “someone who will shave my back” never a serious answer
/r/askTRP13/02/18 11:21 AM
4

r/niceguys is that way srs man. Read this book.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 12:50 AM
1

I broke up with him So am I technically single?!?!? ??
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 12:45 AM
2

“very. #”
/r/askTRP12/02/18 10:04 PM
2

didn’t need to read your post beyond the title to say “fuck yes you made the right decision.”
/r/askTRP12/02/18 01:47 PM
3

“my fridge is already full of body parts but I can rearrange some things. #” “I don’t kill until the 3rd date so you’re gonna have to be patient. #” “you’re not my type. I prefer (redheads, blondes, whatever she’s not) for my scalp collection. #” agree and amplify, and get the number
/r/askTRP12/02/18 12:50 AM
18

wtf? where is your self respect? kick her ass to the curb and don’t look back
/r/askTRP11/02/18 03:59 PM
30

bag of skittles, half eaten
/r/askTRP11/02/18 02:11 PM
29

all good, I understand
/r/askTRP11/02/18 02:51 AM
2

Threesome
/r/askTRP11/02/18 12:29 AM
1

yes
/r/askTRP11/02/18 12:25 AM
7

the point is to not give a fuck. Sounds like you give a fuck. Change that. Girl gives me a “maybe” or “I’ll let you know”? I say “all good, some other time. Keep in touch” and move on with my life. Girl flakes last minute? “All good, some other time. Keep in touch” and move on with my life. I don’t care what she thinks after I say that. If she wants to hang at a later date, she can reach out. If not? DGAF
/r/askTRP10/02/18 05:12 PM
57

“all good, I understand” and that’s it. None of this “good luck” or “k” bullshit. That sounds passive aggressive and butthurt to me
/r/askTRP10/02/18 05:08 PM
2

this is the correct response.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 03:46 AM
4

this took me a while to learn. You gotta be the man and control the interaction. Like others are saying, whip it out and tell her you want her to suck your dick. Don’t wait around for shit to happen, that’s passive. And it makes you a passive aggressive bitch. Make shit happen.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 03:33 AM
3

budget your time. Write down what you’re spending your time doing. Then trim the fat. Same way you budget money. Write down where it goes and you will have better control of it. I have a note pad on to work desk. I tally every time I reach for or access my phone to check social media or some other bullshit that I know I shouldn’t be wasting time on. Then I look at the tally total from the previous day and shoot to hit a lower number. Measurable results = better progress.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 03:03 AM
1

I personally don’t like it, different strokes. If she’s gonna pick you up, have her come in for a minute and on your way out say “gimme the keys, I want to drive”
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:59 AM
1

I let it fly during the winter bulk and trim during summer cut. What you think is the only opinion that matters. Some women love it, some like it, some hate it. Don’t care.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 01:00 PM
12

to answer your title Q, yes. Good job telling her what you want and not being a bitch. Sounds like she’s got some issues to work through. Keep doing you
/r/askTRP09/02/18 12:56 PM
33

what a loser. You sound like a good dude. Glad this guy will be out of your life
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 12:54 PM
2

too much talking. Get the number and make a date. You had it at “...test it for yourself”
/r/askTRP09/02/18 11:50 AM
2

what are your beliefs about your parents divorce? (aka what is your frame?) what are you afraid of in terms of this girl knowing about your parents divorce?
/r/askTRP09/02/18 04:11 AM
1

escalate. Prepare for LMR and shit tests about her ex-LTR, not being ready
/r/askTRP08/02/18 04:20 PM
1

sounds like some good insight on the childhood abandonment issues. I’d dig deeper on that. I’m surprised, though, that you’re having this reaction while banging 5. Sounds like your abundance isn’t internalized
/r/askTRP08/02/18 04:17 PM
1

without more context, it sounds like you’re failing comfort tests. If she’s fucking you and you’re in a relationship, listening to her means sitting there and saying “tell me more” and “I hear you” while not trying to fix whatever her issue is. If she’s NOT fucking you and you do this, you are an emotional tampon. Take this to Married RP for better answers
/r/askTRP08/02/18 01:54 PM
7

color by number paint my toenails anything that isn’t serious
/r/askTRP07/02/18 02:47 PM
7

Go find a mirror, stare yourself square in the eye and say "you are going to die one day" until it fucking hits you. No idea when I'm gonna die. But it's gonna happen. If I'm lucky it'll be fast and painless and unexpected. God willing, at the moment of my death, I won't have time to sit and think about how much time I wasted.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 12:00 PM
12

Great advice, great channel. Always advocates putting yourself first as a man, focusing on your purpose instead of women, cultivating self-respect and not putting up with BS/disrespect.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 08:04 PM
16

dude, she’s making date plans with another dude. Beach ride? fuck that. “I’ve been doing some thinking and I’ve decided I need to focus on myself right now. Would love to stay in touch and keep hanging out, but not in the context of a relationship.” or if you don’t want to keep her around as a potential plate, just “hey babe this isn’t working for me, it was a good run. Thanks.” And then ghost. Either way you gotta hold your decision firmly.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 04:47 PM
13

Overthinking it dude. Means nothing, or means they think you’re cute. “I know” is the response I’d go with and move on. Keeping frame means not letting shit like this get to you. Take a deeper look at why it bothers you and fix that. As soon as you get shaken up and go into serious mode, it’s game over.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 02:02 AM
25

a love for drama, liberal, feminist, promiscuity, drug/alcohol issues, etc.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 01:51 AM
4

It’s his fault for getting into an LTR with a woman whose values aren’t aligned with his own
/r/askTRP06/02/18 12:21 AM
14

Hard next dude. The damage is done. She sounds like she sucks. If I were you, I’d say “it’s become apparent that our values don’t match and we’re not a good fit. It’s best if we stop seeing each other,” and fucking mean it.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 12:17 AM
1

What did you say when she said “this will lead to sex”? Without more context, sounds like you did it right. Two steps forward, one step back, til she made a hard stop.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 12:10 AM
40

I won’t date actresses, there are patterns I’ve noticed in that community. So nah, wouldn’t get into it in the first place.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 12:08 AM
2

“oh well, on to the next one” - your ideal mindset
/r/askTRP06/02/18 12:04 AM
2

make plans to hang out and say "hey bring my gameboy"
/r/askTRP05/02/18 05:42 PM
0

vet her for two more months at minimum. Continue to bang. Trust your gut. If she brings up commitment before then, deflect and observe her actions (read up on good responses to the “what are we?” question)
/r/askTRP05/02/18 05:30 PM
3

very true - this is a solid test, especially early on
/r/askTRP04/02/18 09:04 PM
4

call the police/urgent line and tell them your (ex) gf is threatening suicide and you are worried about her
/r/askTRP04/02/18 09:01 PM
5

if a woman ever gives you a "maybe/let me check" just say "we'll do it some other time. keep in touch" and forget about her until she hits you up.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 03:46 PM
4

look up the nofap flatline stage
/r/askTRP04/02/18 02:58 AM
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