Does n count have the same effect on guys?

trpchecker · 2018-10-31T06:51:05+00:00

I have fairly high n count. After a while sex just feels like me masturbating into a hole. No butterflies and crazy endorphin rush as when you have low or zero n count. Even after a long dry spell.

I don't know how guys just fuck forever and not get bored of it. Men are wired to prosper and excel in healthy relationships through commitment. Cutting it out as redpill recommends is not fulfilling. It is however happier than being in a bad relationship.

I think lot of guys that say sex is everything are people who have very low n count. Just like poor people thinking money brings happiness because they don't have it when it does not actually from a perspective of a rich person.

I feel more happy winging for my friend and helping him nail down a girl than me nailing a girl for myself.

I went on a tangent there. But to answer your question, men's ability to pair bond with a good girl increases with your n count.

[deleted] · 2018-10-31T01:34:21+00:00

i mean yeah it does decrease your ability to fall for one chick. but around here we call that "abundance mentality"

Dontneedflashbro · 2018-10-31T04:22:20+00:00

Why are you asking random guys if you're losing the bonding spark? Search deep down inside yourself and find the answer.

LoLDamo · 2018-10-31T05:32:09+00:00

100% another down side is you’ll realise how shit most girls are in bed

oldredder · 2018-10-31T06:48:17+00:00

Ya it has the same effect on guys.

Women just desire men more who are more aloof so it is reinforcing. It's still happening.

Bruchibre · 2018-10-31T03:22:59+00:00

3 * 0 = 0

I do believe it affects our pair bonding ability too but in a less negative way.

RunawayGrain · 2018-10-31T15:15:14+00:00

"You can tie a dozen mares to one post, but you can't tie a dozen posts to one mare."

RedSkeller · 2018-10-31T01:24:41+00:00

I'm a realist and always have been, had some great adventures in life so far. I never really cared about my number but the last couple years been relentlessly banging anything within reason and went from a meager double digit to just shy of 50, and truly, I stopped keeping count. Even my ex unicorn came back a couple times in the mix and it was laughable how average she appeared now, that I had been through so many. I feel almost next to nothing with women and while it sounds sad, it's actually quite liberating as it's no longer a real concern and in reality, it isn't.

Musicgoon · 2018-10-31T01:44:28+00:00

Why do you want to pair bond?

Been there done that and it sucks.

Relationships = no freedom.

FlyingSexistPig · 2018-10-31T01:26:25+00:00

Title	Does n count have the same effect on guys?
Author	redhotspicyjoe44
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Date	October 31, 2018 1:00 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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