Does reading all this shit actually help?

MrAgamemnon · 2019-03-02T00:57:08+00:00

I've had barely any success.

Stop reading and start doing.

como10 · 2019-03-02T01:14:13+00:00

You sound really young. I'd guess still in high school. While TRP principals hold true at all ages, it's especially prominent the older you get. You will differentiate yourself by being more successful (in high school, everyone is more or less at the same level of success), in better shape (while other people your age are getting fat or sloppy), and holding a strong frame. At your age, the main differentiator is "game". Work on your game. That's likely where you're lacking.

moontripper1246 · 2019-03-02T03:52:27+00:00

Nope, putting it into practice does.

Read all you want, if you never leave your room you won't improve. Likewise you could know nothing about this space and the advice but if you take the same action you will improve.

It's not about knowing, it's about doing. But somewhere along the way in our lives we were never shown properly so we had to search on our own. All up to you bruh, no one else's fault if you're not where you wanna be

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What your seeing is probably congruence. They genuinely believe that that's how you get chicks: buy them drinks, stick to one, don't need to lift etc. and in doing those things that gives them confidence which is what women are really attracted to. And you are trying out this new thing that you are actively unsure of, so when you go out and do it you are obviously less seated in yourself.

Look it all works, if you think it doesn't oh well me and my best friends are living proof of that fact. You just need more time in it and probably some other friends that are going through the same thing. Hard to relate to a dude who thinks it's genuinely the right thing to do when he buys girls a drink.

TrendingBargains · 2019-03-02T02:51:59+00:00

Cold approach on the street is quite possibly the most thirsty thing tbh & I guess it's good if you just wanna bang everything and have a rapid fire AK47 strategy rather than a precise sniper one. I see TRP usually used by people going after the thots of society which they claim to hate but also aim to get. Although I'm generally what would be considered as 'nice guy' (just being good to people), I don't give looks based compliments, text all day, hit on women needily, let people walk over me etc (beta shit). Neither am I aggressive/rude, do over the top things to get attention from women like get and mustang a rev the shit out of it (flawed alpha mindset)..

I'm not like stereotypical model material. I'd probably rate my looks 6.5 on a bad day & 7 if I try. Don't gym & my body is far from chiseled like hercules. I let gorgeous intellectual women approach me by taking the long term route of acquaintanceship. The more I study marketing, the more I see flaws in much which is obsessed about in red pill theory. No matter how you want to put it, in TRP the woman is always the prize and it's about obsessively creating a blueprint to win her whether its LTR or a bang. But when you flip the script and become the prize instead you shall become woke and you shall awaken their inner desire..

It's not much about money anyway as is usually pointed, although if I was like Dan Bilzerian it would be 100000X easier. I'm usually a broke student, don't wear designer shit. Social circle long term game is 1000x stronger than cold approach. For example, I join a social meetup group like art and just be normal. Don't even talk to girls until after 3 weeks, although I give a smile. They notice my art skill and become interested striking up the conversation. I don't unnaturally try initiate anything. Over time we go from seeing only in class to going to galleries together, then she gets comfortable and conversations switch from formal to "Sup boo boo, pull up to my crib let's get lit"..

At this point she's infatuated with me so I don't have to do much. We cuddle in bed, then have an intense moment of connection as we're both into each other on a deeper level. Meaningful shit. I do have my form of currency though which is artistic skill (drawing/painting), easy dry humour, the ability to encourage/keep positive vibes & help them find their inner flame and I guess women's intuition suggests my long term value so they gravitate towards me. I don't try hard, they just all want to spend time with me. And I'm naturally reserved, so that increases their drive to get my attention as they see it as non needy when I turn down meetups, spend time in solitude and treat them like a normal person..

I am mysterious to them. They like mystery and want to discover more. It's like finding an easter egg which keeps teleporting to different locations once you catch a glimpse. Trust me I literally sleep all day and have girls constantly messaging me to hang out. Quite a few have shown signs of obsession like double messaging to switch the conversation topic when I don't reply within 10 minutes, multiple 4 hour initiated phone & video calls to talk about random shit which they mostly kept alive, asking to hang out everyday. I've even been proposed to by an 8 I had a thing with, when we were drunk. I've been the only guy in the midst of 6 female friends at the club multiple times. All 7's and 8's & that helps 100000x if you want to pull a random chick at the club lol. Just be the most chill most non needy dude, as your neediness can be sensed a mile away..

Well they do stop trying after a while from frustration, but I'm fine with that as I like time alone. I have lonely moments by my own will. Have an abundant mindset and be realistic about the types of girls that would likely be into you (factor in looks, personality, interests, social class). I personally get the cute hippie freeminded chicks as I'm quite hippie myself & can't deal with any other type..

TLDR- Treat people who deserve it with respect, but don't be an idiot who gets walked over and you shall go far..

HumanSockPuppet · 2019-03-02T03:19:59+00:00

Hey Snowflake, the reason you don't fully believe it is because you're reading it and not doing it. We get fifteen guys just like you asking this exact question every week.

Get out there and put the shit into practice over and over until you see the results for yourself.

resnine · 2019-03-02T04:48:35+00:00

These other guys still have something I don't.

And what is that?

Title	Does reading all this shit actually help?
Author	Plebbitnoob
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	March 2, 2019 12:49 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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