Hey guys

I have no trouble getting girls, heres how I do it:

A&A, nukes, teasing, banter, social proof.

But my brothers (one has an ltr, other has wife) recommend throwing romance into the mix. Some examples:

Normal situation with normal me:

Girl - Hey AFTSOV I was a model once

AFTSOV - Yeah, a neck model

Girl - Panties get wet Stfu you douche!!

What they recommend:

Girl - My grades are failing!

Other Aftsov - Your grades may have changed, but your incredible beauty has not.

Girl - ???

My gut instinct tells me that this "romance" type of talking only works in LTR's and not good for beginning flirting and spinning plates.

At the same time, as much as I enjoy talking shit to my girls, I wish I could throw in a bit of sweetness in there. I do sometimes, but I notice it makes them pull back until I tease them again. Maybe I'm not being romantic in the right way?

What are ya'lls opinons?

EDIT: Possible important notes, I'm 18 in college, my brothers are 25 and 30 each