I'm a dark skinned Indian, 4'11, as ugly as the caricature of what an ugly Indian looks like, and work at an elementary school in a janitorial position. 5 years on tinder and I have gotten 5 matches total, all of which went nowhere. I have done about 500 cold approaches in the last year, but haven't gotten any lays. My style is good, I lift, and I am naturally extroverted. What am I doing wrong?