There's something very intriguing that has happened to me ever since I started lifting. Before lifting I was the typical tall skinny kid that only ugly girls and fatties would hit on. My face was good, but nothing special. I started lifting and taking care of my style as well as my grooming habits. I went from being an average looking dude to almost always being the most good looking guy in the room/bus/train wagon.

Girls started noticing me, and the bigger I got the more attractive girls would make eye contact with me in the street, public transport, bars, clubs...But there's something that bothers me and I can't explain. My body, face or style don't change from day to day, not even from week to week, but for some reason that I cannot explain, while some days and weeks I see girls staring at me left and right, some other days and weeks I seem to be invisible to every girl and none looks at me at all. Gay guys on the other hand, while less prevalent than girls, always stare at me.

To me that is fascinating. How is it possible that I can go from being the center of attention of the bus to being invisible from one day to another? Does this happen to any of you? Some of my bodybuilder friends report the same. This is obviously not affecting my self-esteem, but I wanna find out why this happens and figure out a way to always stand out and get female attention. Nofap seems to affect this, but I don't see enough of a pattern for me to conclude that not masturbating is what draws their attention and that masturbating makes me invisible the next 2 days.