I’m talking about the alpha that the red pill community describes: the one who ignores girls, constantly teases them, and basically ruins their confidence, without crossing the line E.g. being disrespectful.

I’ve been a nice guy, bad guy, alpha guy, beta guy, you name it.

The outcome is always the same: ask many women out, fail with most of them, win some of them. Interactions flow well with some and worse with others.

Then, the relationship ends up reaching an end.

And I was watching a dating show, and the guy who was alpha and cocky and was constantly making jokes was getting rejected, whereas the normal guy who barely had game was doing just fine.

I’m only 20 years old so I’m wondering if I should continue being alpha and getting rejected or just be the alpha which denotes strength, responsibility etc.

I feel as if the alpha Male we try to be here only works with fuck buddies and these party type of girls, not long term relationship type of girls.