Hello,

Quit new here,

I have been with my gf for now about 2 years. Due to the lockdown and the covid, she is really tensed or depressed.

However i do have the feeling that i may be not attrative to her anymore as she nag all the time (i usualy dont put ut with it or ignore it) and seems to not respect me, always doubting my decisions etc but apologing after (mostly when i am tired and let my anger flow).

I try to become more assertive as i were at the begining but it does not seems to work as my decision are never the good one and i seem to have lost my frame for good. Sexe is less and less frequent, let aside blowjobs...

So a lot of red flags. The last ones are the nights with a male acquitance, a "friend" and the girl nights. Even this night.

So How can i have hard evidence of that? It will relly help me to take my decision because i am in denial even with all these hints.

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TLTR ; suspect my gf to cheat on me but dont have any hard evidence. Any advice to find one ? (It would help me to make my decision)

PS : i think i am in the denial phase of the red pill and sorry for the long post