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| -1 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.But if the guy has 100 plus dates with women in a year or two. It’s not statically likely for any one of those women to land him. 1 will… 99 won’t. On the flip side, if he wants a relationship, he has near a 100% chance of finding one…. IF he wants one. And, there’s not much bragging rights for women to say they got a one night stand with a rich guy. I mean, again, I love casual dating and if it works for those women, great! But I’ve seen it often leads to disappointment for them, and never disa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:12 AM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.But then the same should be true for men, and it’s not. In the end, it’s the physical access that gave women a false hope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:08 AM |
| 2 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Again………. I don’t care who they date and who they don’t. It’s observation. Not something I take personal offense to. I date just fine and don’t worry about those women. But LOL, ok now you’re either being intentionally dishonest or have a 3 person social circle. It’s extremely common especially in places like LA and OC. Mid tier women go on dates with high tier guys all the time out here. Just sit at any bar in Newport, Malibu, Laguna etc. and just observe. Of course those same men also have acc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 12:59 AM |
| 0 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Why would women in SoCal not have average looks? Across 24 million people, average is average. It’s not like people born in one state are inherently more attractive. And I’m not referring to 19-21 YOs, I’m talking women deep into their 30s still “dating with intention” and have yet to have had any serious relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 12:51 AM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Delusional standard example (based on what I’ve seen): Average woman, 5’2-5’4 / 150-180lbs, average income, maybe has a roommate or lives at home still in her mid to late twenties. Travels and Dates men 30+ miles away in very HCOL area, and is treated to very expensive dates, nice car, nice house, possibly a boat trip, and sleeps with said man. Sent home, either same night or maybe the next morning. Refuses to further date men in her own income bracket or looks range going forward and truly beli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 12:38 AM |
| 2 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.So, you call it just men whining, but you’re acknowledging this type of conversation is out there at least. Women respond all the time defending their “high standards”. So, in essence, yes. There is a debate. This isn’t personal revenge fantasy and I couldn’t care less, as I stated in my first line of my post. Casual sex is awesome for men and women. I love it. It just seems in my personal experience of where I live, that maybe casual sex with high tier men contributes to extremely high standard… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 12:21 AM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.But the delusion had to come from real life access in the first place. A “like” on IG isn’t going to create that level of delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 12:15 AM |
| 2 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Wait, isn’t there an entire debate going on in the dating sphere right now about women having “delusional standards”? Why would I not relate personal experiences (and it’s not one, it’s many) to the online debate? “Not everyone in SoCal has a boat.” THATS EXACTLY THE POINT. The rich attractive men fuck around with all types of women leading many women, who have been fucked around with, to believe that is their caliber of relationship man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 11:41 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Haha! Exactly. Average everyday experience. But I have extended family in the Midwest, South and lower east coast. And while it’s all beautiful, it’s just not the same. I’ll deal with the traffic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 11:18 PM |
| 2 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.No, by a population of 24 million people in Southern California. Many people here know rich, good looking guys have the pick of the litter from all over. Girls drive 2 hours to jump on a boat. Then wonder why they’re not married to a guy like that while still single in their 30s. The online portion just relates to many of our personal experiences. Just look at some of the other commenters from HCOL or Urban areas. It may not be as cut and dry and condensed as my post. But to pretend it’s just fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 11:16 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Yes. Go to Newport Beach sometime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 11:01 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Sure, I can agree with you there I suppose. Nobody should be grinding their teeth through a relationship just to be in one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 11:00 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Yeah, like I said, not rich, and it’s brutal. Beautiful… fun…. But brutal. But overall yes, I don’t think I would move unless I had no other options. The best thing though, is that there’s never a shortage of something to do (if you like being out and about). Not sure where you’d be relocating from, but get ready for the worst traffic of your life also lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:58 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Just to ignore the reality? We’re just stating things we’ve observed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:52 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:50 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.I guess, but it’s LA, IE, OC, SD Central Coast etc. Even the girls from IE and Palm Springs have these experiences. 24 million people isn’t exactly a bubble. I’m not strictly referring to the housewives and Spencer Pratt types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:48 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.I have no complaints here. I’m just not rich. Just observing the world around me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:45 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Oh yeah…. You’re right, this is sus actually. Aura farming rizzlers maxx the queens with their dihh. Tralalelo tralala. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:44 PM |
| 0 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Stuff that happens all over, outside of the basement, Alex. Just because you’ve never seen it, doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:39 PM |
| 0 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.My experiences and eyes are an algorithm? Damn technology took off a lot faster than I thought. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:38 PM |
| 2 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Same can be said for men, who are either only engaging casually or walking away all together. If it doesn’t add value, leave it behind. Men aren’t the ones saying “stop wasting my time”. Even though women claim to be happier single, they are still the vast majority of the dating market who are “dating with intention”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:35 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Just to clarify, I am not rich, or even close. But even many women in my social circles, even ones I’ve been with have had these experiences. I guess that’s why I felt the correlation to online arguments about “standards” and decided to create this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:27 PM |
| 2 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.The guys are, yeah. That’s kind of the point of my post. The women, sometimes yes, sometimes very much no. Depends on who’s free that day I guess. Point is, average looking women are having this experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:25 PM |
| 0 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.But is it though? If average looking women are going through this (at least here), what makes it less likely than an average woman experiencing it anywhere? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:24 PM |
| -3 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Apparently, based on these responses, I am the one out of touch. Because it’s absolutely reality here. The responses pretending like this is revenge fantasy are sending me 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:19 PM |
| 0 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.That’s exactly what’s happened. And the top tier guys still get they wanted, as they always have. And more and more average people are walking away from dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:17 PM |
| 0 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.I never denied anyone agency. Lmao wtf? I’m simply describing personal experiences from people in my social circles and relating it to the current online gender wars and how the effects of casual sex have impacted standards. How am I dehumanizing anybody? Stop trying to be a victim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:16 PM |
| 1 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Newport Beach, Laguna Beach, Dana Point, north county SD, South Bay LA. Just what I’m familiar with. But I would also assume, Miami and other beach areas? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:13 PM |
| 3 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Of course I came up with a very basic scenario, and it’s cheesy as hell. But yes, I’m with you as someone born and raised OC area in SoCal. It’s absolutely real life and I’m just relating it to the recent online content in the gender war sphere. I’m blown away by the responses that are just acting like it’s complete fantasy. Perhaps my post shouldn’t have been about the effects of this, but rather that it does happen all over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:12 PM |
| 2 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Man, I guess I’m really out of touch with the rest of the world. These responses have me scratching my head. This is absolutely real life where I live. I’m relating my own personal experiences with people I know to the online content being seen out there today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:10 PM |
| 3 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.I guess based on the responses I am jaded. Because yes, this is real life all around in Southern California. I’ve personally seen fat women who can’t hold down a bf for longer than 6 months, keep bouncing through rich guys and getting fucked. All because their more attractive friend casually dated these types in the past. And guess who never ends up with any of these guys while these men continue to do the same shit well into their 40s? On more than one or two occasions. It is rampant here and d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:08 PM |
| 0 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Fair enough. Maybe I’m jaded, but out here in SoCal beach territory, it’s absolutely insane. The delusion I see women have after going with their friends to Javier’s or Mastros then getting hit on and boned by some rich dude is off the charts. And it directly correlates with what I’ve seen in the gender wars online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:00 PM |
| 2 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Post ain’t about me. I don’t have any issues, and I don’t have a boat lol. It’s in relation to pop culture and online rhetoric that so often refers to women’s increasingly demanding standards and not finding what they’re looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 09:58 PM |
| -2 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Huh? Guys fuck down all the time. Why is it a guys problem that women all the sudden think they’re relationship material to these men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 09:56 PM |
| -1 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.Maybe recently. But casual sex absolutely exploded after birth control and women’s sexual liberation from societal shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 09:55 PM |
| 0 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.First, I don’t think “women bad” necessarily. I couldn’t care less about women having casual sex. I think more “it is what it is, how can I benefit from it”. Second, it absolutely is a thing. Maybe I’m jaded, but I’m in Southern California beach territory, and the amount of women (of all looks calibers) getting on boats with guys out here is unreal. And they are requested to bring their friends. So it’s absolutely happening. Third, I don’t watch any kind of streamers. The most I interact with an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 09:54 PM |
| 0 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.How would technology have done it alone? Women still needed real life access to top tier men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 09:50 PM |
| 10 | Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphereBut then that’s basically the red pill. They’re not some angelic creature that we should be grateful to even be around and idolize them. They aren’t special. They are the same disgusting fucks many men are, and we should act accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Men can’t say that women are wrong for worrying about their safety and at the same time that it’s dangerous for them.I mean sure, anyone can become a victim of anything at anytime. Still doesn’t make it statistically likely. Pretending like it’s a likelihood is delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 05:12 PM |
| 6 | Men can’t say that women are wrong for worrying about their safety and at the same time that it’s dangerous for them.The “Chances” are absolutely not what you’re saying they are. If they were, popular hiking trails across the world with millions of men AND women on them every week wouldn’t be a thing. Odds are still low that a bear will randomly attack unless provoked, true. But, if you believe the odds are worse that a completely random stranger of a man will harm you, that is pure paranoia and delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 02:25 PM |
| – | It's ok to not want to date someone who had a hoe phase if you never had oneIt doesn’t. It’s simply a comparison of what someone has experienced sexually. I’m not making the exact same comparison as OP, I’m saying the comparison I’m making is “no different” to attempt to relate to the people might not understand why a man would care about a woman’s past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 10:31 PM |
| – | It's ok to not want to date someone who had a hoe phase if you never had oneIt’s no different than a woman not wanting to be with a man who has experimented with other men sexually in his past (even if he doesn’t anymore). Past matters to some people. And that’s ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 10:22 PM |
| – | I think a lot of people going forward have to just get over the idea of sex and relationshipsIt’s a joke from Eddie Murphy Raw stand up special way back in the day. But basically that, yeah, going to another place and bringing back a woman wouldn’t work because they would just become Americanized and be just like the other women here quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 02:11 PM |
| – | I think a lot of people going forward have to just get over the idea of sex and relationshipsEddie, I’m American woman now. I want what’s coming to me. Eddie, I want half! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 01:55 PM |
| – | The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over menGonna need some sources on how many men were “severely affected” by the federal funding pause. No, not how many people these programs serve… but how many people were actually negatively impacted. You keep demanding people give you sources but can’t seem to return sources of your own to back up your OP. We can debate once you have them. Until then, this is just another predictable Reddit TDS post. Yawn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you be upset if your girlfriend got you a subscription as a gift?It’s wild to see the different tastes of what the people of PPD consider beautiful. And I’m saying that as someone who prefers her traits. Still a hard pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 04:02 PM |
| – | Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamicsHuh? Who are you replying to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 06:50 AM |
| 4 | Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamicsThere is so much old lady cope in here. The fact is, it is harder to date younger, hotter women than it is to date older hot women, because the younger ones still have exponentially more options. Yes, older women still get attention. No one is saying they don’t. But the condescension of these ladies always makes me literally laugh out loud. “Oh sweetie”, “oh honey”, “no one my age will put up with that”. Ok, whatever helps you sleep at night. The young ones can still get what you can’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 12:42 AM |
| 9 | The Lily Phillips situation is yet another hit to how men perceive women.selective juggle tart aspiring dinner grandfather spectacular versed caption payment This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | What are some non-mental-health related faults that you think more women have than men?When we say “more direct”, most women always assume it’s only the difficult things they need to be more direct about, then say “well, I’m just being honest”, in disguise for being a bitch. But in reality, that’s a fraction of what we mean when we say more direct. More direct in ways like: Man: “What would you like to eat?” Woman: “A steak sounds good.” Not: “I don’t care, you pick.” (proceeds to not like the options the guy picks) Or… Man: “Hey Lucy, did you happen to finish that report?” Woman:… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 05:19 PM |
| 5 | Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman?My SO is unambiguously straight, so I would have more questions if she watched porn that is focused on women. But, to answer your question, no I do not have an issue with that. But, if I am being honest, (like most modern relationships) I am the one with the higher libido. I would never reject her or prefer porn to her. So I am always available. If I was not available though, I would have no issue with her indulging with her vibe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 07:51 AM |
| 7 | Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman?No. I would be done. As she should be with me if I fucked another woman. What’s your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 07:45 AM |
| 8 | Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman?On a scale of: things that are addictive and extremely unhealthy for certain individuals. Those things should be avoided. For the rest of the healthy population, things are fine in moderation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 07:31 AM |
| 15 | Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman?I mean, sure. So is alcohol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 07:20 AM |
| 12 | Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman?Has everything to do with insecurity. People with this attitude are akin to those on r/loveafterporn . An insane circlejerk that promotes tracking everything your partner does as a form of control instead of just leaving them. If people have a standard of zero porn in their relationship, there is nothing wrong with that. If there are people who are mutually okay with porn in their relationship, there is also nothing wrong with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 07:19 AM |
| 7 | Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman?Yes, for people who aren’t insecure, masturbation including fantasizing with visual or mental stimulation is normal. Addiction to the point of the relationship interference is not normal. There is a massive difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 06:57 AM |
| 11 | Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman?It’s not necessary to have a healthy relationship. Addiction and insecurity are two completely different problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 06:35 AM |
| 28 | Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman?Are you asking a legitimate question or are you just attempting to say porn is bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 06:06 AM |
| 50 | Do conservative men prefer liberal women?gaping tease crawl selective market plant uppity smile amusing overconfident This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"Large penises can absolutely cause tearing and bleeding on vaginas even when fully aroused. You are 100% biologically wrong. Vaginas, internally and the external hole vary in size from woman to woman just like any other muscle, organ or body part on any human body. Women do not all have the same size and able vaginas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"Ok? You’re factually and biologically wrong. A quick Google search asking “do vagina sizes vary?” will tell you that also. No, not all vaginas are equal in size. Many, many women tear and/or need episiotomies during childbirth, even at premature sizes. Others can deliver 8-9 lb babies with no issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 05:14 PM |
| 0 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"Many, including the episiotomy that was done on my ex’s vagina when my premature daughter was born. You keep saying biology then insisting that all vaginas are capable of stretching extreme amounts and not accepting the fact that vaginas come in various sizes. You are factually wrong. A quick google search of “do vagina sizes vary?” would tell you that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"So vaginas never tear or bleed from large penises and all vaginal openings are the same size. Got it, thank you for the very informative lesson in biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 05:00 PM |
| -2 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"You’re awfully defensive about holes being different sizes. Google image search isn’t that hard. Some vaginal holes are smaller than others. Vaginas vary in size. I don’t agree with OP that anyone should be shamed for it, but to say that all vaginas can be like Riley Reid’s is… fucking insanity lol. Not sure how else to mansplain it to you. If you are insisting that all vaginal openings and/or canals are the same size, you are the one ignoring biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 05:00 PM |
| -2 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"No, that’s literally not true. Some penises make women tear and bleed. And that same penis may be fine for other women. By definition, those women have a larger vagina to handle that very large penis. If birth is your argument, then thank you for proving my point. Many, many women tear and/or need episiotomies during childbirth, even at premature sizes. The hole is literally too small, and these are not uncommon scenarios. Others can handle giving birth to 8-9 lb babies vaginally with no issues.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"I don’t have a poor understanding of what it is. Some women cannot fit it. Some women bleed and some even tear, because the hole is literally too small. And majority of women do not take big penises well, and it is not preferred because their vagina cannot handle it. (See average dildo size purchase and self reported surveys for reference) You are trying to do mental gymnastics into insisting average vaginas can still handle large penises. This does not seem to be true, hence why size queens are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 04:23 PM |
| 0 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"I don’t know. I’m simply pointing out that vaginas vary in size. And majority of women are not size queens because it hurts them. So I’d say that whatever most womens size is that prevents them for being able to physically handle, those women would be average. If you’d like to find measurement statistics to verify your claim that the minority of women who are size queens have an actual average sized vagina, be my guest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"I literally replied to it. Just because it stretches does not negate the fact that many women cannot physically fit very large penises. There are men who are actively rejected because they are too large for those women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 03:20 PM |
| 0 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"This isn’t true. There are countless women who cannot take a big dick. It literally does not fit. So, by definition, you have a larger vagina than those women. There’s nothing wrong with that, you shouldn’t be shamed for it and I don’t even agree with OP. But, to pretend like vaginas don’t vary in size is ridiculous. Head on over to bigdickproblems if you don’t believe me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 03:17 PM |
| 6 | Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy?“I’m a nice guy” Proceeds to be an absolute dickface in the comments to people trying answer his question. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Women have nothing to gain by dating men, CMVThose two things aren’t mutually exclusive. Majority of women would rather have a high value man than be alone. Or at least happy to have a HVM validate them and satisfy a sexual urge, even if the woman remains “single”. Majority of men would rather have a beautiful woman…. Than anything really. But it doesn’t negate the fact that OPs implied narrative that women would be happiest being celibate and away from men altogether, is just downright wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 06:38 PM |
| -2 | Women have nothing to gain by dating men, CMVWait, so your argument is women are happiest when completely celibate?? LMFAO yeah, no. Women love men. Just not chumps. which, unfortunately, seems to be more and more prevalent by generation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 12:30 PM |
| 3 | Women have nothing to gain by dating men, CMVI love when this copium gets regurgitated. Please let this be true, so yall can finally stop begging us for marriage, commitment, children etc. and to stop blaming us for “wasting your time” or telling us to “shit or get off the pot”. Let us keep it casual with you all like you’re claiming women like. Please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 04:30 AM |
| 1 | SOLUTION: Men get to ask for a DNA test as long as the GF/wife gets to randomly check his phone/tablet/computer and check that’s he not abusing the child.What database are you specifically referring to? And, that has to do with the baby, and the father. Nothing to do with your personal privacy. Also, I’m not offended. I replied in another comment that I would have no issue with your demands if she wanted to waste her effort to feel better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 04:22 PM |
| 1 | SOLUTION: Men get to ask for a DNA test as long as the GF/wife gets to randomly check his phone/tablet/computer and check that’s he not abusing the child.Many of us won’t ask. It’s not up to you. It’s up to us. Whether you find out or not may bring different issues to deal with. But it’s not an invasion of any sort of your privacy or quality of life. You’re just offended. Most of us can take that risk and manage the outcome of it means ensuring paternity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 03:24 PM |
| 9 | Women's refusal to actively approach men is sexistIt’s not about me or you, specifically. But you started from the premise that women don’t approach men, which is objectively (and subjectively) false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 03:49 PM |
| 18 | Women's refusal to actively approach men is sexistI’m not Chad. I get approached. My girl now approached me first, and so have online dates and real life acquaintances who turned out to be fwb or dates. It’s not 1950. Maybe you have an off putting personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 03:40 PM |
| 0 | Women should avoid inexperienced men.Just curious why you think it’s rage bait? I agree women should avoid adult virgin men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Which woman would you pick?Suzy… maybe. Mina was sounding good until “will need to be reminded to shower”. Disgusting. The other two are a hard no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Question For Men, Which Of These Women Would You Rather Get Into A Relationship With?Susan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 01:18 AM |
| – | Why is being a "bitch" equated to being trendy/popular in Western Culture?Dude, wtf man? We had NDAs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 02:24 AM |
| 6 | A feminist argument against going 50/50?So then it’s normalized for every person on the planet, not women. And specifically more for men. What are you not understanding about this? I don’t know how else to explain that OPs original assertion was factually incorrect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 02:46 PM |
| 6 | A feminist argument against going 50/50?It doesn’t. We should care. I’m pointing out OP is factually, and by definition, incorrect when they state “violence against women is normalized”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 02:44 PM |
| 9 | A feminist argument against going 50/50?I never said women were accountable for the violence against men. I’m pointing out violence is much more “normalized” than it is against women. Therefore, since men and women make up all people, then all violence is “normalized”. The word implies that it’s more accepted for one group than it is the other. Either it’s accepted for people as a whole, not at all, or it’s violence against men that has been “normalized”. But it’s certainly hasn’t been against women. It’s an emotional statement that i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 01:54 PM |
| 26 | A feminist argument against going 50/50?Men are FAR more likely to be victims of violence (even though it is at the hands of other men). So by your own metric of “widespread and common”, then violence towards men is far more normalized than it is against women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 01:41 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who used to simp for, or get friend zoned by, other women?You think men don’t simp? Lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 11:58 PM |
| 5 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who used to simp for, or get friend zoned by, other women?Out of curiosity, why is it a poor choice? He doesn’t regret it, but just doesn’t keep in touch with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 07:41 PM |
| 0 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?There’s nothing unreasonable about saying that the wedding industry is still very well alive and targeted primarily towards women, in marketing and popular culture, while still acknowledging that marriage rates are decreasing. But okay, bye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 08:00 PM |
| -1 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?It’s not bogus. I know all marriage is on the decline, but that doesn’t mean it’s not booming still and primarily driven by women. If obesity were to finally start trending down, that wouldn’t mean people still aren’t fat as fuck. My point was that if “women” as a majority are more okay with being single than with a man, then they wouldn’t continue to be the ones harping for marriage and children and complaining about non committal men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?…okay? I’m not disagreeing with any of that. Add lack of vasopressin to the list then. But less testosterone leading to a less masculine physical stature, less status seeking and less competitiveness (to use your two examples), absolutely less to less socialization and less attention from women which contributes heavily to male loneliness. What is your argument? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?Sure, but that doesn’t negate the fact that less testosterone can absolutely does have an effect on male loneliness. Like I said, Less attraction and attention from women (due to a less masculine physical stature) may not be the only cause of loneliness, but it certainly is part of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?No, I’m not looking for that. Lack of attraction contributes to the loneliness epidemic. I didn’t say it was all of it. The other things I listed cover why men have less male friendships as well. Testosterone increases muscle mass, bone density and various masculine behaviors. Women are not attracted to less of these things. Very simple. And men as a whole have less testosterone than their fathers who had less than their fathers also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:18 PM |
| -3 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?I’m okay with this stance if most women truly felt this way forever. But the wedding industry is still booming, even after COVID. It’s all talk. And we still constantly see posts like “why is he not proposing?” or comments like “shit or get off the pot” from women everywhere. Let us guys keep having the casual relationships they claim to be okay with and stop pressuring for marriage and children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:09 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?Less testosterone, less masculinity, less confidence, too much screen time / video games and not enough social interaction, and being misinformed and inexperienced with women. None of these are women’s faults. Men have the power to revert these things and be just as successful as ever. Women are trying gain more control in society and relationships (perhaps rightfully so depending on your stance), but for most males that attempt to conform to this new western society, there will be a cost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:03 PM |
| 1 | If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them?You’re conflating “disgusting” and “low value”. I don’t know of any men who think promiscuous women are disgusting, yet still sleep with them. They are the group of men who you refer to in the last line of your post who would answer “I don’t”. The other men who say “low value” mean in terms of a relationship or commitment, but would gladly still have fun with these women and sleep with them. For the record, I am neither. I am unusual in the fact that N count does not deter me in casual relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 03:47 PM |
| 3 | If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them?So essentially you understand exactly what guys are saying here, you just have an issue with the verbiage and this entire post was pretty much pointless. Hot women are still hot, regardless if they are high enough value for a relationship or not, according to TRP. You know what these guys are saying and you know the answer to your question, you just want to give them shit about the way they describe said women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?You’re right bro, rich people definitely don’t use tax breaks and personal corporations. They just pay standard income taxes at 50% 😂😂 /s It is absolutely not illegal to claim nanny expenses (not necessarily salary) as business losses. Any smart wealth individual, will set themselves up as an employer to the nanny, limiting liability and tax burdens, just like any other business. Any profits can after the employee is paid will be issued to the owner of the LLC as a K1 come tax time. Not to menti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?Ok first, yes that’s exactly how taxes work. Most wealthy people, especially in those tax brackets, have personal corporations set up. But if they hire a nanny, they 100% become an employer with an employee. Likely filing as an LLC to prevent being sued personally, all nanny expenses become deductible. And no, still no where near 150k. I owned a small automotive business as an LLC, and we only had a few full time employees. And none of them were anywhere close six figure total packages including… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?I understand that, but it’s gross pay. So even if it was 150k, that’s before the nanny is taxed personally. That would still leave you with an additional 100k of income… it doesn’t negate the 250k income. Not to mention, nannies can be had for much less than 80k gross for full time (not live in). Your entire premise is flawed though even if you DO negate the 250k salary, since 1M is far more than enough to pay an employee 80k a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?What fuckin nanny costs 250k pre tax? Lmao Or even 150k? Most full time nannies, are nowhere near a six figure income (unless they are live in). And you could easily get 60+ hours a week for full child rearing and house cleaning for less than 70k-80k a year from most middle aged female nannies. As a matter of fact, most of them would probably leap at an opportunity like that, especially immigrants. I know what you are trying to get at, and I would much rather be wealthy and have a SAHW than have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:57 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who you knew was intimate with other men in the past?No, not if that’s the dealbreaker. I’m Only curious about the sex acts alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 01:32 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who you knew was intimate with other men in the past?Could be lies, or could be a skewed group of women who participated in the question honestly. I do seem to notice more women in real life that wouldn’t be attracted to that, but I could definitely have a selection bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 11:41 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who you knew was intimate with other men in the past?Makes sense! Birds of a feather, I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 11:08 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who you knew was intimate with other men in the past?I have no issues with my current group of acquaintances. I was just stating that it’s not prevalent around me. But, it is interesting to me when people are surrounded by lgbt folks. Given that it is still unlikely and a minority of people are gay, lesbian or bi, it would mathematically make sense to know few lgbt people or be associated with them. Do you search them out to be friends with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 10:37 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who you knew was intimate with other men in the past?Backwards how? (Genuinely curious, not asking confrontationally) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 10:18 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who you knew was intimate with other men in the past?Oh okay, understood. That’s probably true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 09:52 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who you knew was intimate with other men in the past?Interesting. Could be my social circle. I don’t hang out bigoted people and Everyone seems to be indifferent about orientation outside of their own preference. But, I also don’t have more than a handful of gay/lesbian friends. So I could have a selection bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 09:50 PM |
| 4 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who you knew was intimate with other men in the past?lol @ Dad. Yeah, that’d be horrifying. What do you consider “super alpha” (in your own terms)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 09:47 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who you knew was intimate with other men in the past?It’s not just women I’m pursuing. It’s women friends as well. Majority of them are conservative, but many are liberal as well, and they seem to have the same preference. But I’m in California, maybe “liberal” is somewhat different. We seem to especially vain and shallow here. Who knows… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | What is it about cuckolding that so often draws disrespect to cucks?Huh? I mean I’m no fan of cuckholding, and I don’t get it at all. But unless you’re against treating women like they’re your “dirty little slut”, or “whore” or against facefucking them, then you’re a hypocrite. A lot of us guys get off on sexual degradation when it comes to women. Why can’t those guys enjoy being the products of degradation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 05:44 AM |
| – | Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young womenWho said anything about legislation? And no, I don’t tell anyone to “shut up”. But yeah, it’s still a ridiculous thing to try and save a grown adult (especially one in their 20s) from their own decisions. Older women who try and save young women from being promiscuous fall into the same category. It’s cringe. These are fully grown women by their early 20s. They can do as they please. And many, many women live to never regret being in age gap relationships. And that’s an awful comparison, because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 01:03 AM |
| – | Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young womenI’m simply stating the difference between older men “creeping” and an actual relationship. This argument always seems to break down when people act like women in their early 20s don’t have any agency. They have the agency to sleep around, but when they willingly enter into a relationship with a much older man, suddenly they’re victims? Lastly, bad example. Don’t sign the fucking loan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 10:45 PM |
| – | Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young womenBut this post isn’t about older men “creeping”. This about relationships, between two consenting adults. Why do women always sidestep the conversation and/or try to intentionally conflate those two very different things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Why don't feminists just stick to dating male feminists?I mean, I guess? Doesn’t make one anecdote more real than the other, regardless of what slanted articles are being written. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Why don't feminists just stick to dating male feminists?But, so are you. I am in California, not a republican but still conservative!leaning, and have many friends who are staunch conservatives and none of us have problems dating, even here in CA. Most date or are married to other conservative women or apolitical women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 08:39 PM |
| 9 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?Yes. We aren’t drafted or fighting in horrendous wars as much as previous generations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 03:33 AM |
| – | Muscles are more important than height for attracting womenI suppose that’s true. The deviations matter a lot. And probably wouldn’t even be able to be proven given all the variables (how many inches difference, race, facial attractiveness, actual level of fitness etc.). I guess I was just agreeing that fitness can overpower height in terms of attractiveness between two separate individuals. But you’re right, I don’t actually agree with OPs title. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 06:45 PM |
| – | Muscles are more important than height for attracting womenToo short cannot be compensated for. But a very fit 5’10 will undoubtedly pull far more women than a skinny-fat/dad bod 6’1. And it’s not even close. Now if the 6’1 becomes fit, that’s a much different story. But OP has a reasonable point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 06:09 PM |
| 15 | “Nothing is more unattractive to women than low self confidence”Nailed it. /thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Are guys who don't go to college screwed in the dating world?Not necessarily. Plenty of white collar women love blue collar, specifically because they aren’t white collar men. If you include first responders as blue collar, then even more women are attracted to blue collar men, especially office women. Anecdotal source: Current LTR is a firm senior accountant, and most of her friends and female colleagues are either with blue collar or first responders, or searching for the like. The only time they hunt for high level executives is when it’s about money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Are guys who don't go to college screwed in the dating world?Came here to say the exact same. I have a HS diploma and have been working blue collar since I was 17. No issues here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 07:03 PM |
| 4 | If we assume that 20/80 rule is true, how would u describe the top 20% guy (in early 20s)?Over 6ft is under 15% of men in America by itself. In combination with the other characteristics you listed, you’re describing more like top 1% of men. Especially considering most men arent 7+ facially either (by the very nature of being on the 1-10 scale). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Highly unethical advice from a semi retired man whore, that is the true one pillI got excited because I thought we were in Purge Week for second. Then I realized this is an actual post, holy shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 05:16 PM |
| 9 | Men who require paternity tests, are you willing to do multiple paternity tests performed by a medical professional and under witness observation?I’m not insistent on paternity tests. But if I was, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 04:35 PM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Hot, broke, emotionally unavailable men don’t struggle with dating. /thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Women cannot love men like men love womenAhh yes, men going to war, hunting, and protecting while women tended to offspring, is definitely only human and only popped up after the agricultural age. And those physical difference in traits certainly don’t have any impact on mate choosing. You know what? I’m pretty sure we’re just all androgynous beings that don’t actually desire anything in different sexes or genders. /s If you’re going to only respond to OP with pure condescension, at least try to formulate an intelligent response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Women cannot love men like men love womenI mean, I don’t really agree with OP. But holy shit, you actually believe that there is no difference between masculine and feminine gender traits and that OPs basis is just conservative brain rot? Peak Reddit moment, ignoring very basic evolutionary biology. Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Are men more willing to be in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to them?Chill lol, I wasn’t giving you a hard time. Just saying they’re two different things. If you don’t like a guy as much as he likes you, or vice versa, but you still like each other and have some level of attraction towards each other, I wouldn’t see an issue with that. But IMO, nobody should stay with people they aren’t attracted to, or knowing their partner isn’t attracted to them. Whether it’s repulsion or just not showing attraction, either way I don’t think people should be together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 10:12 PM |
| 13 | Are men more willing to be in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to them?You kinda implied two different scenarios. Who likes who more, or flat being repulsed by someone. Those are very different things. I’m a man, but similar to you. Every woman I’ve dated or been in a relationship with has had stronger feelings for me than I have had for them. I don’t seek it out, but I have come to like it this way. I’m not opposed to being with a woman and liking her more.. I guess? As long as she is still invested in me also. But NOBODY, man or woman, should put up with someone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 04:39 PM |
| – | A $20 coffee date is disrespectful for us young women.<image> This made me chuckle as I was scrolling this morning. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyYour reference is anecdotal and not backed up by research. In my case, most of the men I know are happiest single and dating casually or on their own. But that does not equate to most men (or most women in your example). You and I know outliers, not the majority. I’m not digging my heels in anything, if the research shows women are happier unmarried than married, then I’ll reference that. But that isn’t the case currently. Men and women both continuously survey happier married than single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyOf course, there all types of people out there. There is not a one size fits all approach to anything in life. But it’s not the average or the majority. The order of life satisfaction is generally married men (happiest), married women, single women, single men (least happy). Just because some people deviate from this satisfaction rank doesn’t make my statement any less true for the majority. (Ex. Men/women who are happiest when single, women/men who are least happy when married) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:53 PM |
| -1 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyThat doesn’t change any of what I said. The implied narrative most often discussed is that women are happier single and independent of men as a whole. And that’s not the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyBut it’s not implied. The implied narrative is that women are happier single and independent of men as a whole. This is not true. Majority of women would rather be in a fulfilling relationship. But they settle for being happier single than with a low value / shitty guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 04:20 PM |
| 5 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familySure, I will agree that could be the case. Especially for lower tier men. If the only access they have to sex (even infrequent sex) is a bad relationship, those men will accept those conditions rather than be alone with no sex. But it still doesn’t change the inaccuracy of the statement: “women are happier single”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 04:09 PM |
| 9 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyYou would think. But no, it isn’t. There’s an implied narrative that exists that women are happier single and independent of men as a whole. This isn’t true. It’s almost never mentioned that these women would still rather be with or build a family with a great partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 03:22 PM |
| 6 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyI’m not disagreeing with any of that. As a straight man, I don’t date men, but I’ve heard terrible experiences from the type of men that are available to women. If I was a woman, I’d probably be happier on my own as well. I was just pointing out that the claim that “women are happier single” isn’t entirely true. Yes, happier than being with a terrible partner or having kids with a terrible would be father. But the childless women who express regret or the perpetually single women, would overwhel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 03:04 PM |
| 77 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyHappier single than in a bad relationship, or with a bad partner. Not happier than having a great relationship. Every time this subject is brought up, I feel like this needs to be reiterated: Good relationship > Single > Bad relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 02:54 PM |
| – | Are some misogynists just gay?Not sure if I follow who you’re referring to. I often see that misogynists who genuinely hate women are the same as incels. These are the guys I’m referring to. Guys who sleep with women repeatedly but don’t respect them, definitely aren’t gay and aren’t inherently misogynists. I’ve never seen this group of guys hate on women. They just don’t respect them. Why would anyone intentionally go against their sexual orientation and sleep with the opposite sex instead of just abstaining? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 09:38 PM |
| – | Are some misogynists just gay?That’s definitely not men in general. First, most men don’t get all the sex they want. Thats a very small subset of high SMV men. And second, I’ve never known them to hate the women. They tend to be pretty happy and confident and don’t waste time putting women down. They just sleep with them and leave. Maybe your experience differs. But generally speaking, the raging misogynists you see commenting or speaking loudly are guys who get no play at all. Or have a very unattractive gf or wife who does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 09:23 PM |
| – | Are some misogynists just gay?So unhappy marriage or bitter that they weren’t able to live out the life they wanted like other men. Same behavior. Still wouldn’t say gay at all. Just miserable guys. They also hate on men who are with these women, or men who live the life they never could. It doesn’t have to do with sexual orientation, but rather an envy towards these men/women. Women aren’t bitter towards men in general, true. It’s usually a bitterness towards one man specifically, or a jealousy for other women who are with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 09:15 PM |
| – | Are some misogynists just gay?Definitely not gay. Almost all comments from guys like that are bitterness from guys who aren’t getting any or can’t get any. They’re just attempting to knock down someone else to make themselves feel better. A symptom of an unhappy person that’s as old as time. I’m not attracted to the woman you posted at all, however I can see why many men would be. No reason to leave negative comments other than bitterness. I wouldn’t overthink it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 09:07 PM |
| 5 | We hear "women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of relationships." Is this true anymore?Bingo! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a bisexual?But even without the hope of a threesome, many men would not mind. Myself included. It just doesn’t have the same negative effect on men as it seems to on women, for whatever reason that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 03:35 AM |
| 3 | CMV: most women would choose a physically unattractive neurotypical man over a very physically attractive high functioning autistic manWait wut | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 02:05 AM |
| 0 | What would you say are the chances of being falsely accused of sexual harassment by a woman?Username almost checks out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Women are becoming more educated and wealthier because they aren't obsessed with sex.The upside to dying and unfortunate premature death, would be that I would never have to see a post like this again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Women are becoming more educated and wealthier because they aren't obsessed with sex.lol, nice attempt at a dig on me. Fail. I do just fine with women, and they don’t sound at all like what you’re attempting to say. Most women want men too, in case you didn’t know that. Many are staying away from men because being single is better than being with a terrible guy. But that doesn’t mean they don’t want men. And yes, that includes sex with men. This post is either trolling or just downright cringe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Women are becoming more educated and wealthier because they aren't obsessed with sex.Competition for access to pussy literally built the world around you. It’s no coincidence that hyper competitive men and the most successful men are also some of the biggest players. And yes, women are far more emotional than men, and neurotic too…. especially when it comes to sex. If they weren’t, women would have no problem getting pumped and dumped or giving up their bodies for a ONS. They would be using men when they’re horny, just like top tier men use women. But that’s is far more uncommon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenHoly shit, idk why this stat (if true) is so mind boggling to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 02:30 PM |
| – | Q4M: Males, do you experience the "ick"? It so - what? If not, why not?Weird odors at the beginning of seeing each other. The connection between my nose and the way I feel about a person is very odd. You could say I’m extreme about hygiene, but it goes beyond that. Even if she’s a very clean person but I get whiffs of something weird when we are first dating I get extremely turned off. To the point of not wanting to continue to sex. Examples would be: -clothes that have that funky smell like those cheap strip mall fashion stores (at least wash them first or spray p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 03:45 PM |
| 0 | What exactly do RP men want?You asked a question, but then after your 2nd paragraph you had an entire diatribe of what you think is wrong with men. First, you think RP men really want “a stable, loving, deep, exciting relationship with a woman, but they can’t get it.” Why would you ask your question then assume this? You’re confusing what many women want or think is valuable in life to men’s desires. Men don’t think the same way as women and many men want very different things. Second, RP men never said they’ve walked away… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Men are NOT protectorsBut even the ‘protector archetype’ was never about protecting strangers. Men are protectors of their own tribe. Whether that be family, friends or from another country. It was never about protecting complete strangers from danger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 05:23 AM |
| 6 | You ignore the most important thing - the sparkThis post is the perfect example of what it means when TRP and/or the seduction community says “women don’t even know what women want” or “stop asking women what they want, they can’t tell you”. And they would be correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 01:39 PM |
| 3 | Do you think that in the age of equality, we should push for a 50/50 dating culture?TIL that women reproduce with every man they date /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Lol I have no idea what you’re going on about with your argument. My response to your original comment was NOT complicated. You provided a comparison that is not realistic because women are not attracted to domestic abusers. My later comparison was relevant and far more realistic because it was about behavior change that actually happens in the real world. You’re using the word ‘narrative’ simply as a pejorative to attempt to discredit my argument. And I’ll ask again, even if it were the entire … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:06 PM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?No, I’m saying they are not equal. Equal. That’s the key word. No narrative, just the observable truth. Fair enough. My examples aren’t precisely equal (even though they are much more realistic examples of changes in behavior to acquire something, than your example was, considering women aren’t attracted to domestic abusers - but I digress). But my point still stands that changing your behavior to acquire something you want does not make it your entire identity. But on that note, even if it was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 02:09 AM |
| 0 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?Domestic abusers ≠ dark triad type men or toxic masculinity. Literally, false equivalence. Okay, so women are attracted to dark triad traits. Got it. Wanting something and behaving in a way to obtain or achieve it does not make it your entire identity. If I want a motorcycle, and stop buying certain things to save my earnings for a motorcycle, that does not make the motorcycle my entire identity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:56 AM |
| 1 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?No, it is a false equivalence and bad comparison. Narcissism is dark triad. No clue if that’s their entire identity. I’m not them. But if that’s how they can achieve attracting multiple women, then they should, because it works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:47 AM |
| 2 | What's the incentive for men not to be "toxically masculine", if that's what most women go for?You’re answering with a hypothetical that is neither part of the question or observable in the real world (whether anecdotal or studied). Women are not attracted to domestic abusers, so stop deflecting. “It’s not what women go for” - Perhaps in your experience. But in many people’s experience, women tend to go for masculine / dark triad type men, regardless if they themselves are liberal/feminist or not. “Why would you want to be like that?” - Because they want women. Preferably many women to in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:57 AM |
| 0 | Men should choose better womenMany of us men are starting to and it’s awesome. The ones who don’t have options are either MGTOW or looking into becoming passport bros. The ones of us who have options date multiple women if we feel like it, until we don’t feel like it anymore. (Thank you feminism for making casual dating so much easier) Men upping and sticking to their standards does not benefit the modern western feminist woman most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 06:15 PM |
| 12 | 30+ year old women can be just as attractive as a 21 year oldTRP does not tout that women 30+ are automatically unattractive. It states that women in their early 20s are the most attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 12:28 AM |
| 7 | Is your partner's needs not about you?So if my girl doesn’t let me bust a nut on her face everyday at 5pm, then I should just go find that somewhere else? Good to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:09 PM |
| 0 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itWhy yikes? Just curious. Why don’t women attempt to make themselves cum more? Why is the onus always on the man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:42 PM |
| 0 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itFirst, Waiting doesn’t prevent any of the negatives you just mentioned. Those are all possible down the line as well. And second, you might as well get the bad sex out of the way quick so you know you’re not compatible. And how often are women rubbing their own clit or telling men what they like during sex? But my thoughts on women being responsible for the orgasm gap, are a different conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itIt’s a baseless moral “feeling”. No reason behind it. If she’s attracted and feels safe, there’s literally no logical reason why she shouldn’t sleep with him. First date or tenth. Anything that happens after is nobody else’s business. Holding out for the sake of holding out just to have false sense of moral superiority over herself is not logical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 04:23 PM |
| -1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itI don’t lol. And I don’t know any guy IRL that does. And you wouldn’t wanna be with that type anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 04:14 PM |
| -1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itNot logical. Acceptable? Of course. But there’s no reason behind that feeling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itSo? Fuck those guys. You don’t want to date them anyways. Not to mention, I don’t even know any guys IRL that actually obsess over body count. It’s all here online from virgins lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 04:13 PM |
| 0 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itI’m not saying she doesn’t have a right to feel that way. Anyone can do what they want. It just doesn’t logically make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 04:10 PM |
| -1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itOf course. I understand the danger aspect. But I’m talking outside of that… women who wait, just to wait. For moral reasons or waiting for a relationship. I don’t understand it, and there is no logical reason for it. Might as well just have sex, and see where it goes after. If it doesn’t work out, nothing lost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 02:25 PM |
| -5 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itWhy not just sleep with him? and if it doesn’t work out, it doesn’t work out. I’ve never understood why women are so terrified of being “used” for sex. If they’re attracted to him and they’re comfortable, there’s literally no logical reason to wait and it’s not “being used”, it’s consensual. What happens after shouldn’t have to do with the actual deed in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men.Thank you for proving your own post wrong. she (and many others like her) hasn’t left for Chad, when they easily could have already. Looks are not as important for women as they are for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 10:07 PM |
| 12 | Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men.Definitely not equal. Women are still attracted to looks. But a man’s status, wealth and personality/confidence go a lot further for women than it does for men. There are countless examples of this, so I’m not even really sure how this is debatable. Look at Jelly Roll for example. His wife is a very high SMV female. Whether you say she’s a gold digger or status seeker etc, is irrelevant. She’s attracted to him and that lifestyle that is afforded. The same is almost never true in reverse. Some gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 07:53 PM |
| 0 | CMV : A woman can almost ALWAYS find a better option within a couple of months of trying, so why would they settle?To fuck… not commit. /thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 04:34 PM |
| 25 | Does promiscuity get rid of men's masculinity and women's femininity?Then that’s a “him” problem, not a promiscuity problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/23 11:28 PM |
| 38 | Does promiscuity get rid of men's masculinity and women's femininity?Nothing stops a man from being masculine except himself. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/23 11:23 PM |
| -2 | The mockery directed toward's peterson's crying on live Tv is proof of women's loathing of weak emotional men.Literally never “mocked” women for being too emotional lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 05:33 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanSure, I can understand that. But some of us actually don’t care. Just because you don’t understand it, doesn’t mean there aren’t people like that. I would agree that most men (maybe even close to all) don’t feel this way. But the world is filled with all types of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 08:32 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanLol, not bang on. Not even close. I said it because there’s no way you’re going to believe me either way. So why argue that? It’s futile. I understood Patrice perfectly. Back to the same quote for the third time: “why would I give a fuck about what she can give away for free?” But the funny thing is, It’s always the same thing when I share my viewpoint on this subject here. Dudes come in raging, upset and start trying to name call and/or say I’m full of shit. Why does it bother you guys so much … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 08:24 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanI mean, okay. You can think whatever you want about me. Definitely not accurate, but I can’t stop you from believing whatever you want to believe. Not sure if you’ve listened to The Black Philip show, but those 12 episodes were near gospel for me. So yes, I’m very familiar with his feelings on swinging. He just wasn’t going to deny Von wanting some shredded dude, because it’s reality. Doesn’t mean he did it “because” he was insecure… it’s just reality. No man can control women’s bodies. And This… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 08:12 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanNah “chief”, I’m not. That’s a stretch to try and link those two. And he didn’t enjoy it. He believed it was necessary for him to be able get his own needs met. He would say things about his self esteem, but He never said the reason he let her do that was out of insecurity. He would say “why would I give a shit about what she can give away for free?”. Which is exactly how I feel. I literally just don’t care if a chick has had more dick before me. Who cares what she can give away for free? It too… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 07:52 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanFair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 07:01 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanGenerally speaking, no. Not with most women (even though I am in a relationship at the moment). But my usual lack of commitment wouldn’t stem from a body count. I would marry a ho if marriage was something valued. But it’s not, and I don’t see the value in marriage for men. I just wouldn’t take body count into consideration for marriage. Unless…. She was a virgin. Then i definitely wouldn’t marry her. I think guys underestimate the damage womens FOMO can do to a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:55 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanGonna have a real r/ihavesex moment right now but…. I have plenty of options, and not only do I not mind if a chick is a ho, but I actually prefer it over a virgin or super low body count. (Much like Patrice O’Neal) prudes, shy chicks and inexperienced women give me the “ick” (to use a woman’s term). I’m not afraid of a ho’s past and don’t let anything like that hold power over me. And furthermore, it gives me validation when I know they’re pining after me, even after being with other high SMV g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:46 PM |
| 6 | Not many women seek casual sex, but it takes just each of them having a on-and-off with the top % men for 20/80 rule to work.I like this take from OP. Sometimes I think TRP makes it seem like most young western women are just out getting gangbanged and sucking dick in public restrooms. I think this is far from the truth. But, I do believe most young women (excluding religious) have had a high SMV guy or two in their past who they’ve justified as just seeing casually because she’s “working on herself” or “it’s not the right time”. The reality is she’ll willfully ignore that he is likely seeing multiple women at the sam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 02:56 PM |
| 9 | If expecting a woman to cook/clean *because she’s a woman* is misogyny, then wouldn’t expecting chivalry from a man *because he’s the man* be misandry?It wasn’t the right example, but the sentiment was on point. OP should have said “expecting men to solely provide financially and/or romantically” (Valentine’s Day, paying for all dates, vacations etc.). And OP would be correct in this comparison. A woman who expects to be a SAHM or have everything financially provided for her, should expect to provide other things (laundry, cooking, cleaning etc.) in return. It’s either sexist in both directions, or not at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 01:28 AM |
| 58 | Promiscuous women who preach that you shouldn't judge women by their sexual past are the first ones to judge virgin guys for their lack of sexual pastI have been with, and been friends with, many promiscuous women over years. It’s very common where I’m at (California coast). This is not an accurate assumption at all. Most women won’t judge a guy by his previous sexual experience with women. If he’s a virgin, it’s probably because he lacks social skills, is unattractive etc. and that would be the reason they wouldn’t want to sleep with (or even be friends with) him. Virginity wouldn’t be an issue. Correlation does not equal causation. HOWEVER,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Men get accused of being "shallow" and "just wanting sex" but criticizing women for doing it is "slutshaming"Okay, that’s fine. But that wasn’t the subject of the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Men get accused of being "shallow" and "just wanting sex" but criticizing women for doing it is "slutshaming"No. I agree that people shouldn’t be viewed as objects. However, if women this day and age, are allowed want certain men for sex only, then men are allowed to want certain women for sex only. It really is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 04:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: As long as men refuse to call out other men, male issues will never be taken seriously.Yes, through movies that many women relate to (“Mean Girls”, “The House Bunny”, “Legally Blonde” etc.). Movies are just movies and reality TV is mostly garbage I understand that. But, there is a reason they are so relatable to so many women. Yes, I have seen this far more among platonic female friends and gfs than I have among my male friends and peers. Both in being the perpetrators and the victims. First article is a different site sourcing the University of Arizona study. “Queen Bee Syndrome”… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 03:38 AM |
| 0 | CMV: As long as men refuse to call out other men, male issues will never be taken seriously.Gfs, platonic friends, media (especially), oh and the workplace https://www.newsweek.com/women-work-are-meaner-each-other-men-are-female-or-male-coworkers-824990 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 02:49 AM |
| 3 | CMV: As long as men refuse to call out other men, male issues will never be taken seriously.You are correct, men are more violent overall. But it’s not buffoonery… Women are far more petty, condescending, backstabbing and disingenuous towards each other than men are. So in a social context (since we talk about dating and social dynamics in this sub), they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 02:40 AM |
| 4 | CMV: As long as men refuse to call out other men, male issues will never be taken seriously.What TRP are you referring to? They may call women out on their double standards of expectations. But, TRP (or any of the above) doesn’t coddle any man into thinking fat broke losers should be getting women… they’re usually the first to call those guys out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 10:55 PM |
| 0 | CMV: As long as men refuse to call out other men, male issues will never be taken seriously.It doesn’t necessarily. And it’s not meant to in itself. It’s just the harsh truth some men aren’t self aware of. The real world doesn’t care if things are unfair or women have double standards in what they expect of men. If men want results, they are responsible for the change to bring those results. And, competent and confident men don’t treat each other like shit, at least not to the extent that women treat each other. Insecure and weak men do though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 10:51 PM |
| 8 | CMV: As long as men refuse to call out other men, male issues will never be taken seriously.Kevin Samuels, Patrice O’Neal, Rollo, FNF and even just TRP in general basically nullify your title. They’ve all been saying mens dating issues come from not making something more of themselves and being little bitches… and Patrice was doing it 20+ years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 09:18 PM |
| 11 | Would you date these "overweight" women?1 and 8 maybe….. maybe. Not a chance of even swiping on or talking to the rest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Male Delusion Calculator!Ahhh gotcha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 04:47 PM |
| 10 | Male Delusion Calculator!I wonder why your percentage is so low compared to what I got. •Not married •White, Asian, Hispanic •4’11 - 5’8 •Not overweight or obese •Any income •21-35 And I got 14.68% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Do men even enjoy dating women?I’ve had genuine platonic female friendships (albeit only a handful). They had the characteristics of the same males that I enjoyed as friends. They were not women I would have ever dated. OPs question was about dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:53 AM |
| 0 | Do men even enjoy dating women?Why is it sus? We might not value the same things. And most of the men I know are pretty similar. But overall, I enjoy my company with women, even if it’s not for the same reasons you do. You say it’s only because of sex, but I already said I enjoy the dates I go on, even if it doesn’t involve sex. And I didn’t say I couldn’t bs with women, but that’s not the reason I’m hanging out with them. These activities aren’t mutually exclusive to the genders in my opinions… but I’m saying my primary reas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 03:56 AM |
| -1 | Do men even enjoy dating women?I enjoy almost all the dates I go on. Even if I decide not pursue things any further with them (whether it be sex, another date etc.). But men and women value different things. I don’t dislike women as a whole, but I don’t like them for the same reason I enjoy hanging out with my male friends. If I want to laugh, bullshit, discuss career advancements, go do a physically challenging activity etc., I’ll go do that with my homies. When Im on a date, we’re usually drinking, dancing, I’m making her l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Do men even enjoy dating women?I think you’re conflating some different things. I enjoy dating women. It’s fun… a lot of fun many times. Sex is generally the icing on the cake for those dates as well. But dates that are fun never have to do with her dreams and aspirations or if she’s funny or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: How do you feel about taking male birth control?Of course, but my point is it’s still an option for a woman not to become a mother. Once she is pregnant, the man does NOT have the option to not be responsible for that child. There is no opt-out for men, and there should be. As long as abortion exists, child support should be voluntary. This is the only equitable solution to pregnancy and deciding to become a parent, full stop. Obviously this will never happen, so men need to be even more cautious than women about who they have sex and what pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: How do you feel about taking male birth control?I brought that into the mix because men have far less options for birth control compared to women. We have condoms, vasectomy and abstinence. And only one of those is 100% effective. (Obviously, male BC would not be 100% effective either, but it would be an additional layer of protection.) Women have far more decision making power in becoming and remaining pregnant, and child-rearing. From abortions, the pill, the shot, condoms, plan b, all the way up to abstinence. So my point remains… if men (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: How do you feel about taking male birth control?Ok sure. And I agree… but that wasn’t the question posed by OP (almost surely a “gotcha” question). And my answer still stands…. Yes, I’d absolutely take a male BC pill if one was available. But being as I already have a child, I’d probably just opt for a vasectomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 06:29 AM |
| 5 | Q4Men: How do you feel about taking male birth control?Not sure what you’re getting at, but yes, I’ve communicating with partners as well. I have a child with my ex wife.. and while it wasn’t planned, we weren’t exactly surprised due to the circumstances (our lack of responsibility). Of all the other partners I’ve had, I’ve magically (/s) avoided getting them pregnant… whether they were on birth control or not. If male birth control was readily available, I’d absolutely take it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 06:24 AM |
| 16 | Q4Men: How do you feel about taking male birth control?With the current laws on forfeiting rights, fathers’ input on abortion, and child support? Abso-fucking-lutely. …..Or, I’d wear a condom….. like the rest of males and females have the option to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 06:06 AM |
| 3 | Every single plot for women main characters is them getting wet over a bad boy when they dont want toBut those shows aren’t portraying those men as attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.Not sure what you’re trying to say exactly. But my point is that good looking, fit, wealthy and socially and mentally well adjusted men can commit to almost whatever age or type woman they want. They don’t have to wait for a woman to be “ready”. They can be with a woman who wants marriage and family at a younger age, because he has that option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 02:09 AM |
| 4 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.….. exactly my point. Desirable men, who women want to settle down with, are the ones not committing if they don’t want to (and “stringing women along”). They are doing this because it is easier than ever to do so. If women really believe the sentiment of the OP, then noncommittal relationships and not being married to these desirable men shouldn’t be a problem and we shouldn’t hear the complaints of noncommittal anymore then. Loser men will be loser men and get very little. Not much has changed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:20 AM |
| 0 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.I’m not saying the men who want marriage are wedding early. They aren’t. They wed when they want to, and who they want to. That’s my whole point. So men are, on average, already two years older than their female counterparts (31 to 29). But this includes that undesirable group of men who had to wait because they had no other option. The most desirable men can wed whatever age women they want. And, if they don’t want to at all, they won’t. And it’s never been easier for a desirable man to escape … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:49 AM |
| -3 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.That’s my point though. You can read my long reply to the other commenter.. but I’ll boil it down. Desirable men with options will exercise those options. If he wants to marry a 25 year old when he’s 35, he can. If is not as desirable, he may have no choice but to wait for the woman he will marry once she’s “ready”. The longer women wait, the less desirable options they have. Desirable men have a much longer time frame to choose from a much wider (younger) age range. And if he doesn’t desire set… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.If that’s case, then fantastic! There shouldn’t be a debate on this topic then and we should cease to hear complaints about the men that won’t settle down or are “stringing her along”. Feminism and sexual liberation have been a massive benefit for desirable men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:38 AM |
| -7 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.Unfortunately for majority of women though, your experience doesn’t represent historical reproductive success or the biological imperative. It is true that women are no longer marrying men they don’t like out of necessity… and rightfully so. They shouldn’t be. This is something positive feminism accomplished. But, this does NOT equate to women never wanting to get married at all. Women still want men. It’s just that testosterone and masculinity are dwindling and most men are not worth bothering … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:27 AM |
| 4 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.I agree with everything you’ve said…. Kind of. Just don’t go complaining when men don’t want to settle down once you’re ready. So many young women preach exactly what you are preaching here, but then complain that men are not committing like they used to. I say great, let us men have more uncommitted sex than we ever have in recent history. Just don’t complain about it later… after all, this is exactly what feminism has pushed for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Does it not concern men that their low/no body count partner might one day realize "Hey I've only slept with 1 or 2 dudes? I want to see what's out there before I die!"Mostly red here, but this is exactly why I don’t agree with pursuing virgins or super low n count women. FOMO can do just as much damage as a whore mentality. It all comes down to the person and how much she respects and values you as a man, not necessarily her past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Her one question destroys hypergamous women's egoNot gonna lie, you had me in the first half | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/02/23 04:07 AM |
| 50 | Her one question destroys hypergamous women's egoNot gonna lie, you had me in the first half | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/02/23 04:07 AM |
| 2 | You are offered 1 million dollars, untaxed. In exchange, you can never have sex/sexual intimacy ever again. Do you accept the offer?Absolutely fucking not. Make it a billion and I wouldn’t. Last year I was stressed AF, and women were the only thing that got me through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Alpha widow ?Yeah, I was just pointing what I thought might be a factor. Maybe it is, maybe it ain’t. Humans are weird all around. Not just men… not just women. So I appreciate different views like yours. Holy shit, I didn’t even realize it was my cake day lmao. Thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Alpha widow ?Haha fair enough! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Alpha widow ?Aren’t you a sex worker / former sex worker though? (I am NOT using that as a pejorative. I support your lifestyle and have been supportive in my other interactions with you on this sub). Just pointing out that you might have a bias being that you are disproportionately exposed to potentially emotionally damaged men who pay for sex instead of building a relationship with a woman (for whatever reason that may be). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Im a woman who like traditional relationships with masculine and dominant men but there are simply not a lot of these types of men out thereLmao, of all the subs I scroll through, this is probably the most Reddit comment I’ve read today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 07:28 AM |
| 5 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incels… to fuck them? Yeah lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 05:07 AM |
| 3 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?Lol okay. You’re right. Every woman is either just a hoe, or been with 1 or 2 chumps, and nobody is ever as good you. /s You don’t need to participate like others are. You could’ve just opted out lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?Of course you know there’s no studies that confirm that a woman’s only partner was “a total Chad”. That’s just asking for unrealistic statistics in bad faith. There’s no way to answer that. But anecdotally speaking, do you truly believe that the genetically gifted people who get together in their teenage years NEVER stay together and have fulfilling sex lives?? Of course they do! Probably more often than they run off and bang everyone. If she’s very attractive, and has a very low n Count, wouldn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?This isn’t strawmanning either side. I mean, look at how split the answers are. This is a genuine question, and I think a far more common scenario than you’d care to admit. Maybe not exactly like this, but in some form or variation of this scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 11:17 PM |
| 5 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?I get why some dudes have their opinions about A, but how in the world is B trashy? She is pretty much a RPs dream outside of not being a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?I’ll see if the mods can re-flair it to discussion or debate. I don’t mind women answering also, it was just directed at men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?Dammit. Been here posting and commenting for a long time and I never caught that rule. Well, it was good while it lasted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?Yeah I’m a guy. Why would it get deleted though? I was curious to know what fellow men thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?…..yes. There is no error there. As in, the only “Notch” she has (HE) was an amazing sex partner. I.e. Ex boyfriend / ex husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?Okay, point out my error, because I’m not following. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?Okay, apologies. N-counts before you had sex with them. I assume people understand the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?I’m having a hard time understanding why my sex/gender would matter in this hypothetical. Pretend I’m a woman asking the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?I pretty much agree with you. I was going to say, for this hypothetical, both women are giving you their best and/or not denying you anything they’ve given to others in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?Agreed, anything anyone says can be in question at anytime. But let’s assume for this hypothetical decision that both women are honest and do truly care about being with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Men: Would you rather be with a woman who has a relatively high N-count, or a woman who has an N-count of 1 (LTR), but he was an amazing sex partner?Thank you for the well written response. I agree with a lot of what you’ve said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 07:54 PM |
| 1 | What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for.Not most men, you’re correct. But he’s simply pointing out majority of women should get real with their standards. He’s not being critical of top tier women (young, childless and pretty). He’s saying men of value (who are generally older), do not go for “women” - implied as an aggregate, or, the average. They go for top tier women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 12:29 AM |
| 1 | What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for.Sure, but that’s not what OP was implying. He said “women” as an aggregate. And “high tier” when referring to men. He didn’t imply “high tier women” who expect “high tier men” are delusional.. he implied “women” who expect “high tier men” are delusional (the FDS type). And he’s right. Not all women (not even most) are “queens”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 12:26 AM |
| -1 | What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for.It makes perfect sense when you look at places like FDS, or society overall, where the mentality is that they are all queens who deserve a HVM. But they aren’t. They overwhelmingly average - because that is the literal definition of average. And they refuse to accept an average man for their age bracket. Men of value their age are going to look for women of value, who in the man’s eyes, is someone of beauty and youth - not the 30 something overweight single mom. I’m not making the case that this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 10:11 PM |
| 2 | What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for.Sure… but OP said “high tier” men, and his point stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Women need to experience a strenuous job at least once in their livesYou seem to be conflating stress and and labor. In hospitals, you are correct. But including doctor’s offices, dentistries, equipment sales, medical sales and pharmaceuticals, you are incorrect. Teachers and counselors vs. construction workers, factory workers and tradesmen? Are you serious? Never said teachers didn’t work hard at all. But aye, that isn’t even a comparison. Probably the dumbest, most well understood thing I’ve had to source in a while, but women only make up 9% of construction w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Women need to experience a strenuous job at least once in their livesWhat?? I literally already said that and gave credit where credit was due. I never said patient care was easy. And I added that office medical staff (dental assistants, paper pushers in office settings, medical sales / insurance etc.) are definitely NOT labor intensive - because they aren’t. Just because you wouldn’t be an educator, doesn’t make it hard physical labor. I wouldn’t either, because I don’t have the patience to deal with other peoples stupid fucking kids. I respect educators very mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Women need to experience a strenuous job at least once in their livesEducators are not at all considered physical labor at all here, please. And, as someone who married to an RN, only a portion of healthcare jobs are physically labor intensive. Mainly: RNs, LVNs, CNAs, PAs, NPs and some physicians would qualify for what OP is trying to insinuate here. Paper pushing medical/dental assistants, secretaries and healthcare insurance workers are certainly not labor intensive jobs. A better argument might be for restaurant workers / servers, as that can be much harder w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 07:33 PM |
| 8 | I’m surprised they allow purge week on the sub when this week shows how unregulated red pill ideas absolutely stomp all over the blue pillI see this sub as less RP vs BP, and more men vs women, which the memes have made somewhat apparent this week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | PICTURE THREAD - the purge tradition! Let’s see what you look likeHappy new year! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 01:16 AM |
| 1 | PICTURE THREAD - the purge tradition! Let’s see what you look likeSo pessimistic. I guarantee there’s a few 4s in here, maybe even a 5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Reddit women ponder crime statisticsI like how you have a tldr for two sentences 😂 I agree with you, but still made me laugh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 05:34 AM |
| 1 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.What TRP are you reading? Perhaps you’re thinking of the Blackpill mindset which is nihilist and thinks everything is about looks only. TRP is about making yourself better in all aspects of life (wealth, status, fitness, social intelligence etc.), attractiveness is only a fraction of what TRP is about. Based on what TRP is about (reality and what majority of women are attracted to), my point stands and has nothing to do with “making the narrative fit”, even in spite of thinking the blue pill ide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 01:08 AM |
| 1 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.No but he orders her favorite dish from Zanzibar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.So basically, your premise is “you’re wrong, but of course women are attracted to good looking people!”…?? Lol okay? Soooo, TRP is correct then? Let’s face it, any one of those feminine examples you mentioned would end up HR the first time they hit on a girl in an ordinary 9-5 office job. It is their status, wealth and confidence that make them attractive…. So…. Red pill theory is correct there. And to your last point… I’m not looking for any points by being agreeable or disagreeable to women. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 11:46 PM |
| 1 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.For sure. Point taken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 11:39 PM |
| 3 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.You can’t. That’s my whole point of this post. Women being attracted to fame, status and wealth is peak red pill. And, the portrayal of men in even “blue pulled” media or pop culture isn’t really so at all. Women are attracted to fame, status, wealth, arrogance and confidence, ability to get other women, disagreeableness, physical attractiveness, strength and so many other masculine traits. They are not attracted to nice, subservient men who are told to just be themselves. Not even in the most p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.I do. And I am not referring to the men in these roles being red pilled themselves. I am saying the characters they portray only solidify red pill theory, and that the blue bill doesn’t even really exist (even where this sub wants it to exist). BP truly is fantasy, and only in the mind. The red pill is reality… and that reality extends into successful media, even if society thinks it shouldn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 10:36 PM |
| 3 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.Idk about the Harry Styles in a dress thing.. But the fact that everyone you mentioned is famous, fit, conventionally attractive (face shape etc.) and extremely wealthy (in real life, not as a character in one of the movies I’m referring to), proves red pill theory even further. Sure, they may have some more feminine features than say, the Rock. But fame, confidence, wealth and fitness are masculine traits. None of them are overweight shut ins who are being told they will be successful at dating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 10:33 PM |
| 2 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.100% agree with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 09:50 PM |
| 2 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.I’ve never met a woman who thought Jack Black was more attractive than Jude Law, even if only in that movie. lol But I suppose those woman can exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 09:49 PM |
| 2 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.True, but I don’t think these men are considered attractive by anyone except a very small subset of women. They aren’t meant to be. Their roles are written and casted with the intent of being funny, usually at their own expense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.Fuckin A’. On a side note, seemingly one the best dudes that is alive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 08:48 PM |
| 7 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.Lmao, yikes. What about this made you so upset? imagine the butthurt you’d have to have to jump to draw such personal conclusions about someone you don’t even know at all. I do just fine, thank you. Where did I ever come off as butthurt? lol This is a RP/BP philosophy sub, and I was pointing out an observation I made about popular culture relating to exactly that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.What? That’s literally what the red pill is about. Bettering yourself to become more masculine and independent, and breaking away from what women in popular culture have told men to strive for since they were young boys. No, blue pill isn’t just about shy, virgin boys. But, if that movie were to be made, it would absolutely be considered BP by this sub. But there is a reason it doesn’t really exist and least on a popular level. The feminized man has no place in society. Only to be subservient to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.Haha fair point. But to add to that.. what these shut ins often forget is that characters like Neo still had massive balls and confidence. He was physically fit and, he stood his ground and fought when the time was appropriate. He may have been a “nerd”, but was still masculine in every sense of the word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 08:37 PM |
| 0 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.You’re generalizing a very small subset of disillusioned and bitter men with your “shitty with women” comment. There are plenty of well adjusted post-red pill rage men out there. If that is your view, then there is nothing to debate, because you don’t fundamentally understand what traits make a man masculine. The point is, almost no popular media characterizes men as attractive when they are feminine (as many feminists would have you believe (in my opinion, as a power grab in society only, not b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 08:31 PM |
| 0 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.I’m not referring to human behavior. I’m referring to what this sub refers to as blue pill behavior when they try to give examples of it. It’s not even accurate within the confines of PPD. The main point is, the characterization of men in media, even blue pill examples in this sub, are actually overwhelmingly masculine and align with red pill ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 08:07 PM |
| 6 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.Haven’t seen most of those movies, but fair point on Zombieland. However, that is in the vast minority of movies made for men. I only mentioned movies made for women because that is usually what is thought of as blue pilled content. Most movies made for men are hyper masculine and are unquestionably more red pilled: 007, almost any of the Rock’s movies, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.I know it’s only an ideology here in our corner of the internet. What I am saying is that what we project as blue pill in real life, isn’t actually that at all. Characterization of men in popular culture is still very red pilled (our corner-of-the-internet’s term) despite what feminization of culture has led us to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 07:09 PM |
| 3 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.I mean sure, we can debate his beta behavior vs his actual masculine traits (tall, muscular and strong physical laborer, unafraid of adventure/danger etc), but it really wouldn’t change the outcome or the premise of the movie, whether he was completely beta or even if he was dark triad. The movie was based around Anna and Elsa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 07:04 PM |
| 0 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.Of course, in the real world, there isn’t really such classification. I thought that went without saying. I’m speaking in the language of this sub. Popular culture is still very red pilled when it comes to the characterization of men… even in Disney. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 06:59 PM |
| 2 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.The overall premise of the movie is based on sisterhood and not needing a man to save a woman. Both Hans and Christoff are both still masculine, however it really is irrelevant being that it’s not a love story between man and woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 06:58 PM |
| 2 | The Blue Pill doesn’t exist.Being that it was my daughters favorite movie for 3 years straight, not to mention seeing the Broadway musical, I’ve probably seen it enough times to start growing a white strand of my own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 06:49 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] What do YOU consider a high N count?Holy shit your username lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Just because you are a slim man doesn't mean you deserve a slim womenPerhaps, but then the inverse is also true. Just because a woman is lean, doesn’t mean she deserves a lean man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 04:00 AM |
| 0 | [Q4ALL] What do YOU consider a high N count?Fuck that’s super high lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?What imaginary world? You have sex workers in this very thread telling you how they’re misunderstood. It’s very plausible that men ethically solicit sex workers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?In this case, no not an addiction. He would have just used it when he was single and couldn’t get casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 02:23 AM |
| 4 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?Lol wut. So ALL sex workers are coerced and none are doing it by their own free will? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?Thank you for your viewpoint! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 12:12 AM |
| 11 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?Of course not, I am strictly speaking in terms of the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?Interesting. Thank you for the alternate viewpoint! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 12:05 AM |
| 6 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?Status according to who? You? Many sex workers enjoy what they do and don’t subscribe to your hierarchy of status. Many women benefit financially and greatly from sex work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 12:04 AM |
| 9 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?So nobody does something they enjoy for money? Why are you so set that every female sex worker is miserable with every male client they are with? You do realize many enjoy what they do, for the attention and money, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 11:58 PM |
| 9 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?So zero sex workers enjoy what they do? Got it. Lmao, go deflect the conversation somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 11:54 PM |
| 6 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?Yes, she did. Or, are you assuming everyone wants sex for the same reasons? She was wet… whether it was for money or for him, what difference does it make? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 11:52 PM |
| 6 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?I didn’t say he “thinks” she wanted it. She did want it (in this scenario), for money. She’s not interested in him, per se, but she is interested in the money sex brings her. So they both engage happily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?Very interesting, thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 11:24 PM |
| 9 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?I’m intrigued by your limitation of N count. If he had a respectful, but compensated, relationship with a sex worker over a period of months, this would be better to you than multiple short term sex workers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?As a man who has never been interested in sex workers, but does agree with the practice, I’d have to ask you, why not? Is it strictly because the guy “needed” to pay for it (insinuating desperation)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 11:09 PM |
| 5 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?Yeah, I’ve noticed pre-selection bias is definitely a thing. Woman seem attracted to what other women want. If nobody else wants him, regardless of how “objectively” attractive he might be, most women will dismiss him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 11:07 PM |
| 5 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?I have observed this as well. It seems this is their “ick” factor, similar to a many men’s “ick” factor with n-count (not my personal view, just an observation). It’s curious… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?Thank you for providing your reason! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 10:57 PM |
| 6 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?While I’ve never indulged in the offerings of a sex worker, I completely agree with you. But others don’t seem to feel the same. So I was just curious as to some reasons why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 10:56 PM |
| 2 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.I always feel like this mentality, or just guys in general who try so hard to convince others that this is true, just can’t date or get laid and this is a comforting cop out for them. I don’t know a any guy in my social circle that would rather have to go through what our fathers and grandfathers went through. We get laid so much faster and easier now, and it doesn’t cost an arm and a leg to get a gf these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 02:59 PM |
| 3 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Lmfao. We’re both 6 year accounts, we must be the same! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 05:39 AM |
| 0 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Shocker lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 05:19 AM |
| 1 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.If someone gave you enough answers to get a guaranteed A on a test, would keep seeking advice from others? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 05:04 AM |
| 4 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Lol no. You listen to who’s been successful in what you desire to be successful in. In this case, that’s other men. You’re right, it can be hard, and many men don’t want to put in the effort. But it’s not what women are always saying they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 03:44 AM |
| 1 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.The analogy stands. I seriously doubt your relationship building experience in sales. You certainly don’t listen, then “use their own words against them” to maintain clientele relationships long term lol. You get to know the client and sell them what they are actually looking for, not what they “ask” for. That was the whole point of this post. But it is what it is. Take care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 03:09 AM |
| 1 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Well then, guess we’ll just have to agree to disagree. Men can listen to you, and keep directly listening to only what women tell them, and keep failing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 03:03 AM |
| 2 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.LOL. Wut? I literally never complained. I do just fine. It’s a debate forum where I encouraged discussion about where I think men should seek advice from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.I mean, depends what you define as luxury. I don’t. But Acura is marketed as luxury also LOL. You didn’t specify what you did in sales and still haven’t specified if you carry clientele relationships either. Even if it’s “luxury jewelry” (fixed that for you, by the way) in a stand alone jeweler, it’s likely very much the same type of sales tactics unless you’re building relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Okay, sure. I’ll agree with that. And by that measure, all successful men “listen” to women I suppose. What they don’t do (nor do successful salespeople do), is hear “I want….”, then proceed to give the requestor exactly what they ask for without having knowledge of how to sell themselves first. I think you’re missing the overall point of the post. It is not to ignore what women say. You should absolutely know your customer. But you should also know that much of the time, customers don’t even re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 02:54 AM |
| 7 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Ah, very good point. It’s amazing how broad the spectrum of qualities they “like” are, once they are already attracted to a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 02:44 AM |
| 1 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.That sounds like shopping mall sales techniques in America, which is exactly what I was referring to. There is almost zero clientele relationships in that. It is quick upselling techniques. If you’re outside of that realm and in distribution with clients who you’ve built relationships with, then that’s great. But I still stand beside my points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 02:42 AM |
| 0 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Success is subjective. I’m not talking about my personal desires. If a man’s goal is to be married and have a family, he should emulate other men who have successfully done so. If a man wants frivolous sex with as many women as possible, he should emulate other men who have successfully done so. You don’t have to be so bitter about it. You do realize there are many women who enjoy being single with copious amounts of casual sex as well, right? But either way, both come down to emulating other me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 02:36 AM |
| 3 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Precisely. I made a mistake by not mentioning that in my post. TRP is good for those who know how to implement, but I was specifically talking about first hand examples of other successful men. I also believe PUA is garbage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 02:25 AM |
| 0 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Your first three examples literally became millionaires off their sales techniques (as are many others on that list). Not to mention you completely making my point in your last paragraph. I never once argued for morality in my post. LOL so much for destroying my logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Precisely. To claim “lottery” is just resigning to nihilism for those that don’t want to make the changes to be successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.I am skilled in high end wine and spirit sales, both from a wholesaler perspective AND a retailer perspective. But thanks for the advice lol Our “skilled man” responder is talking about telecommunication upselling techniques akin to what you’d see at a swap meet lmfao. Not sales relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 01:24 AM |
| 4 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.I couldn’t agree with you more. You are 100% correct. I should have specified in my post that I am talking about men who are verifiably successful with women on a personal level, or through your own experience. Not online scam artists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 01:15 AM |
| 3 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Who’s complaining? In no way do I complain about my lack of dates on here lol. It’s a relationship discussion forum. And, yes. I get to know the women I date… but I don’t exclusively listen to what they say they want. I learned this from other successful men when I was young. “Listen to what they do, not what they say” is incredibly accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 01:09 AM |
| 6 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Interesting take. But incorrect. I do just fine. But that didn’t come from solely listening to women tell me what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 01:00 AM |
| 6 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Success is subjective. That is successful to the man who wants to be married. To a man that wants frivolous sex from multiple women, the married man does not define success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 12:52 AM |
| 4 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.This is assuming all wealthy people are lottery winners. Sure that would be terrible to take advice from them. But that’s not the case. 80% of millionaires in America are first generation and did not inherit their wealth. They are financially savvy people would should be listened to. Much is the same with successful men in dating. Sure, some 6’5 square jawed, fuckin idiotic simp is out there right now enjoying his life with women. But this is not the norm. Most men who are successful with women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 12:40 AM |
| 4 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.If the successful men are already getting what they desire, what do they need to listen to (regardless it’s being the best husband, father or fuckboi)? A man should emulate other men who are successful at what he desires success in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 12:34 AM |
| -2 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.I’m not talking about telecom upselling lol (even though my point still applies, despite your sidetracking). I’m talking about building relationships with clientele, similar to relationships. Successful men (along with successful salespeople), NEVER take what someone says at face value and gives them that exact thing that they said they wanted. That never provides lasting results. Sure, every man should be able to listen to women. But it should be a skill among a plethora of factors that constru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 12:31 AM |
| 3 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.We don’t need to when we’re having success with women. It’s already working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.I think people are getting confused with the sales analogy by conflating “listening” and “getting to know”. The best salespeople get to know their customers. They don’t just listen to them say “I want…” then proceed to give them exactly that. They wouldn’t be in sales for long if that were the case. Same goes for men dating women. The most successful men know what women want better than women know what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 12:18 AM |
| 4 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Lol no. The best salespeople are more knowledgeable than their customers, and can therefore know what is best for their customers (even more than the customers themselves). There are many different facets to learning about a customer. But any salesperson that hears a customer say “I want…”, then proceeds to sell them that based on that alone, is a shitty salesperson. Same goes for women. Any man that hears women say “I want…” then proceeds to do exactly that, based on that alone, is not going to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 12:13 AM |
| 25 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.From what I’ve seen in relationship advice forums, they’re pretty awful at husband advice as well. ”I did everything she asked and she still cheated and/or filed for divorce!” How many times have we seen those threads? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 12:09 AM |
| 8 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.The best salespeople know what the customers want more than the customers themselves. They determine it from many, many factors. Not by listening the customer say: “I want this…”. That was the point of the analogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 12:04 AM |
| 19 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Thank you. I feel like that response was completely missing the point of what I was saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 12:02 AM |
| -1 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Yes actually. For high end wine and spirits. But that’s beside the point of this post, and I’m not going to debate sales techniques here. If you don’t like the analogy, fair enough. Use the fishing analogy instead then (or one of the other million analogies). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 11:45 PM |
| 9 | If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women.Listening is important in all aspects of life. But listening to the sales professionals is what’s it’s important. If it happens to overlap with what benefits the customer (and it often will), then that’s great. But listening to the customer does not cause direct success with sales. Knowing how to sell does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Confidence, money, personality and status don't matter if you don't have good looks firstPatrice O’Neal proved otherwise. Along with about a million other examples of men of status and wealthy men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 11:33 PM |
| 11 | If you only want intimacy through sex, you don’t actually care about intimacy. You just want sex.Just because it isn’t always love (prostitution, casual sex) doesn’t mean that it is never love. It absolutely can be a form of love, hence “making love”. No, it isn’t the only form of love, but it is an important one. A relationship without sex, is friendship or kinship. Not an intimate relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 08:54 PM |
| 20 | If you only want intimacy through sex, you don’t actually care about intimacy. You just want sex.You had me, until you said “nothing to do with love, intimacy, or affection”. That’s just flat out denial, lying or both. If you’re saying sex is not the only form of intimacy, you’re correct. If you’re saying it isn’t at all, that’s just wrong. Relationships should derive their intimacy from multiple sources, one of those does include sex though. Your post isn’t entirely incorrect, but this feels like a rationalization from someone (usually LL) who is finding reasons why it’s okay to NOT have s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?I have no problem with commitment. I do and currently am, actually. And I’m willing to commit the rest of my life to the right person. Where did I say I wasn’t willing to commit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Children. But that would be my strongest argument. But child custody agreements exist outside of marriage as well. So I couldn’t really give you a super strong argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Of course, they aren’t a monolith, I understand that. But the frustration of women who take pride in not needing a man, but are simultaneously tired of getting chumps and can’t find a HVM to stick around is pure hypocrisy. And it’s not uncommon (FDS, pop culture, etc.). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Firstly, it’s about $400 for a marriage license and courthouse ceremony where I’m at. But regardless of that, the average wedding cost is $28,000 in America. AVERAGE. It has to be taken into account because not everyone might be like you and I doing things the most cost effective way possible. Many, many women would never accept a proposal from a man with the promise of a courthouse wedding. Not to mention, the cost of lawyers drawing up contracts to be settled in the case of separation would st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?You might have a misunderstanding of where I’m coming from. I am not against happy and healthy relationships or even partnering up for life. I’m against forced legal commitment with detrimental consequences if it doesn’t work out… which it usually doesn’t, based on statistics. If it’s only “.1%” and you don’t see why it means so much, then what’s the big deal if you don’t get that part from your partner? I won’t participate in that because it is more of risk than a reward. We can figure our lega… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Fair enough, maybe non western countries still have a valid reason for state involved marriage that I don’t understand. And you’re correct marriage doesn’t necessarily mean wedding. But average is average for a reason, and $28,000 is the average cost of a wedding in America. I point that out, because many women (here in the west) would never accept a proposal with a $400 courthouse wedding, so realistically it has to be taken into account when we talk about the cost of marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Of course, and I’m actually on board with religious marriage. Even if an atheist adopted the lifestyle for the one they loved and married a Christian, Muslim etc. within their respective institutions. I would even participate in that myself. Rings, “Husband” / “Wife”, shared names, whatever my partner would want, minus the state of California telling us how to handle things if it all goes south. There is no reason for that. We stand on our own two feet, and if we decide to take the risk of major… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Yes, I do realize it means more to them than it does to me. And believe me, I’m not as brutish when I explain it to them as I’m being here. I try to convey my point clearly and respectfully. I would be willing to “marry” in a religious context (if it meant that much to them and their religion), buy rings, call each other husband and wife etc. Just no forced legal commitment. But it’s not enough for them, which is fine by me also. Even had someone say “that still makes it too easy to leave”. Yike… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?I have to say, I think that’s what progressivism should be, and not necessarily what it is. But you’re right, hypocrites come in all walks of life. And I 100% agree with your last point… people should be honest about their intentions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Indeed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 11:35 PM |
| 0 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?I mean I agree with most of what you’re saying. And I actually have no problem with religious marriage or even just a celebration of love with vows, and sometimes I believe it to be the appropriate thing to do. Even I would do it. But there is zero reason in todays world to involve the state. Legal actions can be taken on a case by case basis where mediation may be involved, which I would be okay with. But for the state to punish both parties via dissolution, then decide who gets what is not a n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 11:32 PM |
| 4 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Haha yeah. It’s Reddit. But I’m thankful for PPD. We don’t get to have these type of back and forth conversations in many other places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Lol wut? I’m saying these people should have more security in themselves and trust in their partners before making such drastic and stupid life decisions. And, that it’s not surprising that the divorce rate and failure rate of relationships is so high. How is this confusing you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?But that’s the point, you wouldn’t be undoing them if you stayed together. And if you separate, they would just be executed. Divorce is not just an agreement, and is a very costly way out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?I’m actually the opposite of trust, I don’t trust fully but I also don’t take those asinine risks pertaining to my future, like so many people are willingly rushing into because they have “marriage” to back them up. Geez, no wonder the divorce rate is so high. I’m just making the point that if they truly “loved and trusted” the person they were making these decisions for, be willing to do it regardless. Otherwise it’s just security for “if it doesn’t work out, I’ll have an easy out instead of st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?No. Marriage means nothing to me, especially emotionally. There may be an argument for legal benefits but even that’s marginal. It does not represent how I feel about someone or how they feel about me. A healthy loving relationship does not need marriage to ascend it to the next level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Most agreements can be discarded if you really wanted to. But the only time you’d actually want to discard them, is in the event of separation or death, which is exactly what they were intended for anyway. You don’t just get to say “hey, we’re not married anymore! Yay for us, we agree on that!” You go through the government all over again… then the state gets to decide who gets what. Talk about risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Sure, people can do whatever they want. I wouldn’t vote to ban marriage, just like I wouldn’t vote to ban cigarettes. If people see it as a tool, great. That’s the way they want to live their life. My point to this CMV was 2 things: Progressive women are completely hypocritical when it comes to wanting marriage, as I exampled in my first point. If they believed this to really be true, then my argument against marriage would stand with them, and we could all move forward in “harmony”, and unmarri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Divorce costs thousands, even in financially equal relationships. If what you’re saying was true, then we’d be able to leave without consequence, marriage or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Ah okay, that makes more sense haha. Very true. But average is average for a reason. Ask how many women who want to get married, would be okay with a courthouse wedding for $400? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Except when I decide to terminate our business agreement, I don’t get to keep portions of your income and wealth because I didn’t like the way it was working out… unlike marriage. Apples and oranges | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 10:25 PM |
| 0 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?“Wedding=marriage” Huh? I’m saying that taking your own route with certain legal agreements and less risk, is far cheaper than having an average wedding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?What you’re saying is true. We have documents for those things because we DONT trust the people who sold us our cars and homes, because we don’t know them. Some of them would likely clean us out of all of our financial worth if we didn’t have those documents. Furthermore, once I terminate those agreements, I don’t get to penalize the institutions by taking more of their wealth just because my asset might not have worked out the way I’d hoped. It is my loss and mine to deal with. If marriage work… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?All the legal rights (other than tax breaks) can be handled far cheaper and much easier than planning the average American wedding ($28,000), AND without the risk of the cost of dissolution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?I misunderstood you, sorry. I thought you were saying trusting people would lead to psychological disorders later in life. But even with that rare caveat, everyone should be able to stand on their own two feet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?So if the team is equal why should one partner NOT be able to leave without consequence? Are you saying that marriage is basically forced security to stay or pay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?No, my opinion is not irrelevant, because I have been married. It might be a viewpoint you do not agree with, but it is not irrelevant. Interdependency can be managed perfectly fine without marriage, at least in healthy relationships. And unhealthy relationships should be terminated (an unrealistic expectation across the board, I know, but should be is the key). And trust causing psychological trauma is probably valid but not a solid enough reason for marriage. The fact is, many civilized societ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Everything you’ve said is both true and has nothing to do with marriage. What you’ve said has actually made my point that the “shit or get off the pot” mentality is outdated and there is no reason for it anymore. Women do not need provisions from men any more, and they can date and have sex with who they please. If the relationship is standing on its own merit and is a very healthy relationship, There is no reason to get the state involved anymore. It’s not rocket science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Agreement does not mean legal marriage. It means an agreement. I make agreements with my daughter, my friends and extended family all the time. I’m not married to any of them, and I trust them to uphold their end of the bargain. My only point is that major decisions should only be made with the utmost trust, and it shouldn’t require a legal document to do that (having kids, moving cities etc.). If you can’t trust to do those things with them without the forcible penalties associated with the dis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 09:08 PM |
| -1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?That’s great for them then. They would probably agree with me on marriage. But it still seems like this comes for many, many women (not all of course) after asking those commitment questions first (FDS types etc.). As in, they’re only happy to be on their own because they’re not putting up with chumps anymore. But is it what they really want? So that still begs my question then, why is “shit or get off the pot” still a thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Oh okay, I see what you’re saying and I agree. Certainty about exclusivity is important to many people, myself included, so at least we know to see others or not. But I still don’t agree that marriage needs to be involved for any of this. However, best of luck to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 08:46 PM |
| -1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?But that’s exactly what I’m saying, you don’t go and risk all that then, just for the sake of “feelings”. Or if you do, make sure you have a plan out of it. Why should they be on the hook for you giving up your career? If you don’t want to give it up, don’t. They can make every sacrifice just as easily as you can. It would be no different if you were single and switched cities to start a new career, which ended up not working out. Nobody would be responsible for you then, and nobody should be re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Hmm interesting.. I’ve never thought about it like that. Kinda like the whole “insecurities are loud” type of thinking? I’d agree with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?You kind of lost me at the independent and “what are we?” part. I understand not wanting uncertainty, but why would it matter what you guys are if his presence did not affect your independence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?I’m saying that marrying only for a tax break, is shallow. At least if people would admit that, then the whole transaction might be more honest. But even then, the contract that gives a tax break should not include so much penalty for leaving it (for either party). Risk is assumed in a relationship and mitigating that risk through threat of a costly divorce, is wrong. But even everything else you’ve mentioned, is manageable through the individuals’ power of attorney. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?But they don’t need to put up with that if they’re not interested in marriage either. They can provide for themselves and get sex or a relationship whenever they want and that has nothing to do with the forced security of marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?That’s a Bingo! The real reason for women is: HVM>single>LVM. So I don’t believe my examples of contradictions to be coming from different women. But I believe they at two different points in time. The pompous attitude is when they have no HVM (at least more valuable than them) and being a “boss” is better than being with a chump. And the insecurity comes from they’ve found him and can’t get him to stick around . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?-Seeing as I’m sampling most of what I read from here on Reddit, an overwhelmingly progressive platform, it’s not as varied as you think it is. I’m sure many conservative women wouldn’t be touting how they don’t “need no man”, and they’d probably also be the types to ask why someone isn’t committing. But I’m not addressing them, because for the most part, they aren’t here. I’m addressing this crowd and pop culture. -car analogy is a terrible one. A car is a need to do certain things and go certa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?I’m sorry, yes. I’m speaking in terms of legal marriage. Religious marriage I can actually understand, and would even participate in, if it meant a lot to my partner and her faith. But, only within the confines of that institution. there would be no logical reason for me to involve additional risk by involving the state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Ideally? All of them. Realistically? Almost none of them. That’s why I included the part to men. No man, or woman for that matter, should be dependent on another person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Maybe or maybe not, who knows. But the government should not be involved at all. If women can provide for themselves, there is zero reason for us men to legally bind extra provisions to her. We can be equals (if that’s what she really wants) without a contract. Hint: that’s not what they really want though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 07:42 PM |
| 0 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Fair enough. I don’t agree, but that’s why we’re here. It’s not uncertain if two people are on the same page, marriage or not. Making it harder to get out does not make it more certain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Meh. It’s okay. I’m used to it and actually pretty grateful for PPD. We don’t get to have these discussions in many other places, so I’ll take it. And yeah, I know it’s anecdotal, but it’s one of those obvious things we see all the time. I guess I can go dig up some marriage/divorce stats, but I think everyone here is understanding my viewpoint fairly well, haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Oh I’ve definitely noticed it. Especially with progressive women here, which is exactly why this was posed as a CMV and not a question or discussion. But if I hear a genuinely good argument for the government to be involved in their personal lives, I’ll listen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Haha, the hamstering in here right now is real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 07:25 PM |
| 0 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?First, I am responding to you. The only reason why risk is mentioned because it is the risk of the relationship ending, not the relationship continuing. You would only want to protect your assets and finances if it ended. The only real way to mitigate that risk is by forced security or threats. Someone who stays because it might cost them a lot to leave, is no longer in a genuine relationship. Second, no that is not an appropriate analogy. My insurance covers my ass in case I damage someone else… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 07:23 PM |
| 5 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Wanting a logical reason to get married (a massive life decision), does not require autism. I love now and have loved many times in the past. But I am not blinded by it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Right, so you make those decisions based on trust and assume the risk. Same as if you were to move cities or switch careers on your own. If not, then you end the relationship and don’t move. Or they don’t have to move either. You don’t mitigate risk through threats or forced security. The attitude of “marriage should make it harder to leave” is horrendous in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Hm, interesting but incorrect assumption. I have made the mistake of being married and am happily divorced. And as for debate… give me a good enough reason to change my view, and I will. Not feelings. Reason. Until then, it is my POV that marriage is not reasonable, especially now that majority of women in the western world can provide for themselves. (Which is what caused my question why so many women are in distress about non committal partners still). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?I’m not sure what you want to hear. My post was very clear about how I feel. My views on women being hypocritical and marriage being bad for everyone aren’t mutually exclusive beliefs. And both my points were stated very clearly in my post, so I’m not sure how else to help you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?It’s literally a CMV post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?If I have time to waste like that sure, I will show you. Hypocrisy aside, none of that gives any good logical reason for legal marriage. Religious? Sure, within that institution. But not legal. A healthy relationship sure as shit doesn’t require it, and legal decisions can still be made and even tailored to every couples needs, independently. There is zero reason for forced security. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 06:52 PM |
| 6 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?I agree with all of what you’ve said except the last part. And none of those things require an antiquated ceremony or a legally binding contract. In a healthy relationship, those things are done through communication, compromise and respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 06:48 PM |
| 6 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?They’re pathetic too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Well I’m basing of a group of generally progressive women (on Reddit) and somehow these both seem to come up quite often. And that still doesn’t provide any good logical reason for marriage other than how someone “feels”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Okay, well then tell that the modern women around here who tout that there is no reason for them to be married nowadays and all the benefit is with the men. The “shit or get off the pot” almost never comes from men. And beside that, there is still no good logical reason to get married other than how someone “feels” about it (usually the woman). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 06:24 PM |
| 6 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?But being a family doesn’t require legal marriage, only having a loving healthy relationship does. If it a religious reason, that is one that actually makes sense. But then there would only be a need to do it within that institution, and not the state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 06:22 PM |
| 6 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Haha, while I’m somewhat of a fan, I think he’d despise my view on marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 05:57 PM |
| 0 | Why should anyone get married now? And why is the “shit or get off the pot” mentality so prevalent among women, despite their independence?Getting pregnant, cohabitating and keeping a loving partner around because you both bring something to the relationship, does not require marriage. Forced security to keep a family is kind of ironic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Fiction written by women for women proves The Red PillI found it laughable when “Sex/Life” on Netflix came out followed by its immediate popularity with women. Same with “Call Her Daddy”. Then they still try to claim “It’s not like that in reality!” or “That’s not what women really want!”. HA! Watch what they do, not what they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Most women on OLD are low quality.Perhaps you’re right. I think we’re still in the early stages of this Internet experiment we’ve created (based on human history). It’ll probably be a while before we know the true impacts on society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Most women on OLD are low quality.I think you misunderstood me. Im not saying it translates, because you’re right, it doesn’t and I know guys like that too. What I’m saying is, the existence of OLD hasn’t made it any worse for those guys who already do well IRL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Most women on OLD are low quality.It isn’t limited though. Socialization is how relationships have come to be for almost all of human history (excluding tyrants, rape etc.). People who tried to rely on internet mediums as an alternative to dating are the ones who are limited. Dating requires social skill regardless of internet or not. I stand by what I replied to another user, people who had an easy time with dating and relationships before are still having an easy time. And people who had a hard time before are still having a h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Most women on OLD are low quality.We could have a bias, due to population and/or ease of social interactions where we are. I’ll admit I don’t have any experience with small town within western culture and dating. But my logic would tell me those interactions would be even more personal and less app based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 07:22 PM |
| 9 | Most women on OLD are low quality.I agree that it might have made a small portion of the dating market even smaller. But I wouldn’t say it has made it significantly more difficult to date across the board. The people who had an easy time with dating and relationships before are still having an easy time, and the ones who were having a hard time before are still having a hard time, only now they have something to blame their failures on. It is my belief that any big changes we are seeing in sexlessness and dating in general, are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 07:19 PM |
| 25 | Most women on OLD are low quality.This is exactly why I’ve never understood why so many people (especially here on PPD) swear that OLD has changed everything. It really hasn’t. Most attractive or HV women don’t spend a lot of time on those apps. Most of the women I’ve dated or been friends with have only dipped their toes in that water and almost all of them complain what a dumpster fire those apps are. It’s mostly thirsty men, and even if they’re attractive, there’s usually a tell tale marker as to why they’re not pulling women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 06:36 PM |
| 4 | bro the recent posts on the sub are so low qualityI think this sub is itching for a purge… suffering from a little sanity “cabin fever”, if you will. I know I am lol Overall though, the content here is good 95% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 01:55 PM |
| 8 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.This is one of the best ways I’ve heard it put in a long time. So true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:48 PM |
| -1 | Attractive men dating ugly women is proof that love exists?Not opportunism. I’ve always had a theory about “hot girl syndrome”. In a nutshell it’s girls/women who have been put on a pedestal and spoiled their entire lives. They don’t even realize when they project their massive double standards and they’re overtly cocky. BUT…. They are a double edged sword particularly BECAUSE of their options. Because of their treatment their entire life, they don’t know how to react to “No.” or “I don’t give a shit, bye.” It’s almost like a short circuit in their brai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 05:26 AM |
| 0 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Putting up with being single because it’s better than being with a chump ≠ being happy because they’re single. That’s one of the biggest misconceptions around the dating market today in my observation. It’s simply not worth the hassle for many women today, which stems from dwindling masculinity among men. Look around… “where are all the good men at?” Is still an abundant mindset in todays world, because the innate and instinctual desire for most women to find a provider who is masculine is still… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 05:03 PM |
| 5 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?Yeah, but even 3 I think is low. For example, a girl I dated never had a ONS (terrified of new people and the danger associated with that). She had a high school bf who she had sex with, then one at the tail end of high school who she transitioned into hooking up with in first year of college. Then a few 3-5 month flings in her first couple years. And a year long bf-ish. Then a few more 3-5 month flings. Then a 4 year relationship, then two more 3-5 flings, then me… so around 15-20 without any O… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 05:05 AM |
| 2 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?I’m a dude. But a non judgmental one who’s been a fly on the wall with close female friends and FWBs and gfs who’ve eventually felt comfortable enough to open up with past experiences with me….. And I completely agree with your estimate. I can’t believe people here thinking it’s 2 or 3 lol. A few women have so many they’ve forgotten names.. a few women are virgins or had sex once. Most are somewhere in between… low double digits is normal IME | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 04:12 AM |
| 5 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?Exactly. People don’t understand how virgins and non sexually active people bring these averages down. Also, I think you’re spot on with the 10-12. People saying 3,4 or 5 here are out of their minds… probably talking about religious students still living with their parents… not the norm. A few women are racking up 30-50+ in their college years. A few women stay virgins. A good chunk probably have a few hookups or short term FWBs and a few bfs. 10-15 is probably pretty close to the norm nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 04:06 AM |
| 2 | CMV: A woman’s ideal in a man should be a -1/2 SMV and a +1/2 RMV.Oy vey… that sounds terrible. As much as I admire responsibility and making family a priority (as has been proven time and time again that a strong family unit creates a better up bringing for children), I also feel terrible for sexually repressed individuals who live in guilt and dread when it comes to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 06:16 PM |
| 6 | CMV: A woman’s ideal in a man should be a -1/2 SMV and a +1/2 RMV.EXACTLY. From the article writers, not in the actual study AT ALL. Click bait article writing 101. So it seems I’m the only one arguing in good faith at the moment. Im not disagreeing that men care more about looks than women. That’s obvious. But that’s a far cry from “women are happier with uglier men”. And…. Wrong assumption once again… I have no Chad revenge fantasy. If you take a minute and go through some of my comment history, you’d see that I’m actually one of the few RP guys around that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A woman’s ideal in a man should be a -1/2 SMV and a +1/2 RMV.I mean sure I guess anything’s possible. Just going off the anecdotal norm in real life and across the relationship subs on Reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 04:00 PM |
| 4 | CMV: A woman’s ideal in a man should be a -1/2 SMV and a +1/2 RMV.Exactly. “Now that I’ve had my sexual fun, I’ll marry a guy that feel lucky to have me. Then I’ll be happy forever!“ Lmao yeah…. We see how that works out all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 03:54 PM |
| 3 | CMV: A woman’s ideal in a man should be a -1/2 SMV and a +1/2 RMV.I am able to read a few paragraphs in an hour. Not that complicated. I also read the entire actual study that I posted for you. There is nothing in any of the studies or surveys that conclude the reasons for the happiness have anything to do with “men feeling appreciative” or women “feeling secure”, or men performing more chores or acting differently because she is more beautiful. And they actual study certainly doesnt say that women are happier with men uglier than them, as you have proposed. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 03:48 PM |
| 5 | CMV: A woman’s ideal in a man should be a -1/2 SMV and a +1/2 RMV.Read my other reply. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4011637/ Here is the actual study. Nothing to do with “appreciation” or “feeling secure” leading to a better relationship. These were emotional power grabs added by OP and the click bait authors. The study shows that men are happier when their partners are more attractive. Water is wet. It says nothing about women being happier with uglier men or men specifically below them in SMV. It just states women don’t put as much value on t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 03:09 PM |
| 3 | CMV: A woman’s ideal in a man should be a -1/2 SMV and a +1/2 RMV.Here, did the legwork for you. Below is the actual study so you can see what I am talking about. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4011637/ It is saying that men care more about physical attractiveness than women do in LTRs which can lead to happier men. In other words, water is wet. There is NOTHING about this having anything to do with the man doing more out of “appreciation” or the woman “feeling more secure”. Those were things added by yourself and the click bait articles. Things … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 03:05 PM |
| 6 | CMV: A woman’s ideal in a man should be a -1/2 SMV and a +1/2 RMV.Firstly, Esquire and DailyMail are certainly unbiased and not click bait at all! /s But I’ll give you the fact that those “studies” (aka surveys of a few hundred people within almost a sole region) were conducted by UCLA and Florida State. Even with that, neither article says anything about actual levels of attractiveness relative to their partners. It just says men weigh their happiness in a relationship on physical attractiveness more than women do. We already knew this. Men can be more attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 02:44 PM |
| 12 | CMV: A woman’s ideal in a man should be a -1/2 SMV and a +1/2 RMV.This is a nice recipe for a dead bedroom you have right here! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 02:23 PM |
| 8 | CMV: A woman’s ideal in a man should be a -1/2 SMV and a +1/2 RMV.If you can provide an actual scientific study and not some delusional Cosmo article, I’ll stand corrected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 02:19 PM |
| 7 | CMV: A woman’s ideal in a man should be a -1/2 SMV and a +1/2 RMV.It doesn’t exist lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] How would you feel if your SO told you that he didn’t care if you cheated on him? Do you need a healthy amount of jealousy or mate guarding to feel loved?Ahh very well put. Never thought of it that way… For me personally, the respect part is big, so you’re definitely right on that one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] How would you feel if your SO told you that he didn’t care if you cheated on him? Do you need a healthy amount of jealousy or mate guarding to feel loved?In my experience most women are like you. I was just curious as to why. Most men, I’ve noticed, wouldn’t be bothered if their SO told them they didn’t care if he cheated on her. Most men wouldn’t feel unloved by her indifference, and the shitty ones would probably just be happy to have a pass. They definitely don’t share the same need to have their partner be slightly jealous or possessive over them. I’ve never understood why there is a difference in the two sexes on this subject. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 09:41 PM |
| 2 | 10% of people check their smartphones during sex, and 35% of them check their phones immediately after sex.After? Done it a ton of times. During? Never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] How would you feel if your SO told you that he didn’t care if you cheated on him? Do you need a healthy amount of jealousy or mate guarding to feel loved?Haha! At least you’re honest! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] How would you feel if your SO told you that he didn’t care if you cheated on him? Do you need a healthy amount of jealousy or mate guarding to feel loved?No I’m curious. Some have already answered that it doesn’t bother them. For the ones it does bother, I’m trying to find out why. For most of us men, if our SOs told us they didn’t care if we cheated (knowing that they weren’t cheating), we wouldn’t care or feel less loved. As a matter of fact, I’d be willing to bet most guys in here would take it and run with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] How would you feel if your SO told you that he didn’t care if you cheated on him? Do you need a healthy amount of jealousy or mate guarding to feel loved?Not necessarily happy. Just unfazed by your hypothetical cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] How would you feel if your SO told you that he didn’t care if you cheated on him? Do you need a healthy amount of jealousy or mate guarding to feel loved?Hypothetically speaking, let’s say it’s neither of those situations… he actually doesn’t care about you sleeping with someone else. He might leave you based on principle or feeling disrespected, or he might be cool and suggest an open relationship. But in either of these situations, he doesn’t care about you physically being with another man, and experiences ZERO jealousy. Would you feel unloved? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] How would you feel if your SO told you that he didn’t care if you cheated on him? Do you need a healthy amount of jealousy or mate guarding to feel loved?Well let’s say he does dump you simply out of respect for himself or principle…. But you find out he’s just as happy the following day as he was before he found out. Would this bother you? On the flip side, do you think men in polyamorous relationships experience love? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] How would you feel if your SO told you that he didn’t care if you cheated on him? Do you need a healthy amount of jealousy or mate guarding to feel loved?Lol. And if he counter offered with a fully polyamorous relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 08:48 PM |
| 0 | [Q4W] How would you feel if your SO told you that he didn’t care if you cheated on him? Do you need a healthy amount of jealousy or mate guarding to feel loved?What if you knew he loved you? What do you think about men in polyamorous relationships? Or, if you knew he would leave the relationship just based on the lying, but never really cared that you had sex with another man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 08:46 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] How would you feel if your SO told you that he didn’t care if you cheated on him? Do you need a healthy amount of jealousy or mate guarding to feel loved?Gotcha, interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] How would you feel if your SO told you that he didn’t care if you cheated on him? Do you need a healthy amount of jealousy or mate guarding to feel loved?Do you believe men in polyamorous relationships are incapable of love? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 08:32 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] How would you feel if your SO told you that he didn’t care if you cheated on him? Do you need a healthy amount of jealousy or mate guarding to feel loved?Very nice! I find it to be rare these days that a woman is okay with his viewpoint. Personally I’ll leave a relationship just based on the lying/disrespect aspect cheating, not because of hurt feelings though. But most of the women I’ve talked to or been with say they’d feel hurt of their partner didn’t care if they cheated. Somehow they placed value on a man wanting to go to bat for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] How would you feel if your SO told you that he didn’t care if you cheated on him? Do you need a healthy amount of jealousy or mate guarding to feel loved?Not to say he would be good with it… but let’s say he had no difference in emotion and left the relationship and was just as happy the next day. Would this be better or worse than him being hurt by your (hypothetical) actions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] How would you feel if your SO told you that he didn’t care if you cheated on him? Do you need a healthy amount of jealousy or mate guarding to feel loved?Even if you knew he loved you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 08:24 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] How would you feel if your SO told you that he didn’t care if you cheated on him? Do you need a healthy amount of jealousy or mate guarding to feel loved?Would you doubt him when he says he loves you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 08:23 PM |
| 6 | Men would you feel insecure if a girl wanted to incorporate dildos/penis sleeves in the bedroom?Who cares what random people online think… you prefer what you prefer. Congrats. Give it a Fuckin rest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 12:42 PM |
| 17 | Men would you feel insecure if a girl wanted to incorporate dildos/penis sleeves in the bedroom?It is. It’s the same chick from earlier… check her comment history also. She’s been all over and can’t seem to stop talking about how her bfs small 6 inch penis doesn’t satisfy her like her ex’s 8 incher. All the posts have felt like they’re small penis fetish or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Why is everything about females??Because that’s literally the story of human evolution. Males thirst for pussy. In almost any species. Competition to be better so you can mate, and females can be selective about who they mate with. Whether you choose to or have the desire to, is up to you. But this question has a very self explanatory answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Is your current partner the best sex of your life?Yikes lol. Thank you for the honesty though! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 02:13 PM |
| -1 | Is your current partner the best sex of your life?Gotcha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 12:21 PM |
| -2 | Is your current partner the best sex of your life?No offense, but you never mention your current partner in your post. Does he know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Is your current partner the best sex of your life?So, they’re the best? Or you’ve convinced yourself they’re the best? Just trying to understand your response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Is your current partner the best sex of your life?Then what’s all the talk with alpha widows? Either she settles down with BB or she doesn’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Is your current partner the best sex of your life?If anything, and if these women are being honest, it’s the opposite of what people might think as a TRP “gotcha” question. So far it seems the myth of the alpha widow is being dispelled. Of course, only a few have answered so far and/or they could be lying to themselves and PPD. But I certainly wasn’t looking for a “gotcha”. Example: “See, told you toxic exes alpha widowed all you women” type of mentality. I wasn’t going for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 12:10 AM |
| 2 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?This is exactly how I feel also, except as a man. People think that I’m saying there’s no comparison or competition because I must believe PIV is superior, or women are inferior sexual partners… but that’s not the case at all. I just view them as COMPLETELY different sexual experiences, so there is no competition or threat in my eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 12:43 AM |
| 1 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?I literally said one is not better than the other and never claimed PIV to be superior. And why throw in the bit about bi women preferring sex with women? It seems like you’re bothered that a lot of us aren’t threatened by same sex affairs. I literally do not care what type of woman on woman sex happens in the world, including if my gf were to participate in it and cum 100x harder than with me. It does not bother me, and I don’t feel emasculated or degraded by it. I’m Not delegitimizing anyones … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?Good question, never really thought about the point at which I’d be less threatened. But an unusable or non existent penis pretty much removes the male sexual experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 02:06 PM |
| 2 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?I’m not at all. Lesbian relationships are just as legitimate to me as hetero relationships. It just doesn’t strike jealousy in me at all, because sex with a woman and sex with a man are completely different things. There is no competition. Ones not better than the other, they are just not comparable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 11:58 AM |
| 1 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?Ohhh okay gotcha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 11:55 AM |
| 3 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?“Closer”? Meaning what? Who cares? If she’s still having sex with me and the day to day aspect of our relationship didn’t change, yes…. It would still be “hot”. Or at least, not threatening in the slightest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 09:25 AM |
| 1 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?Huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 09:21 AM |
| 1 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?Lol, no. I’m not trying to “change” any woman that is into women more than men. And I definitely don’t believe dick is the antidote for an unfulfilled romantic life. Some women are into women more than men, and that’s 100% valid. Those women aren’t for me. And, if my gf is one of those, she can go and be happy with another woman. It still doesn’t even remotely make me jealous or hurt me though. Sure, I’d miss the relationship we had… but the feelings I’d have if she left me for another man just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 09:17 AM |
| 2 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?What is “something deeper”? A deep emotional connection where she can talk about her work day, her period or her sick dog? Where she can have drinks and discuss the future and her dreams? She already does that with her mom and all her best female friends. Relationships are based around sex, whether people like to admit it or not. A relationship without sex = friendship. Head on over to deadbedrooms and read for yourself. Sure, she could leave me for another woman, and I wouldn’t be cucked. It wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 09:11 AM |
| 4 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?I don’t. They’re fundamentally and biologically different. Doesn’t mean they can’t both be great in their own way and it doesn’t mean one is better than the other. But they aren’t the same.. definitely not homophobia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 04:09 AM |
| 2 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?Hows that? Not being threatened by a same sex affair partner is homophobia? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 04:05 AM |
| 2 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?Same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?Same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 03:49 AM |
| 6 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?Same, but from a man’s POV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 03:27 AM |
| 2 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?Wait, is he automatically gay if he’s still attracted to you but hooking up with guys? Wouldn’t that make him bisexual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 03:26 AM |
| 0 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?To your first point, that is not true. I view same sex relationships as equivalent, just not the sex. I take gay/lesbian married couples just as serious as I take straight married couples. However, with sex, I do not feel any jealousy thinking about my SO with another woman. It certainly isn’t cucking, because that would require some degree of me feeling degraded or emasculated. Another woman could never make me feel this way. I don’t mean for that to be offensive, and I don’t see women as less … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?It’s not. I was going to originally, but thought it would be interesting to hear womens answers also. Thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:17 AM |
| 1 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?Trust broken, definitely. But, would you be jealous? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:00 AM |
| 10 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?Same here. I’d probably end the relationship based on the deception, but not the jealousy. If she came to me and requested an open relationship but only to be with other women, I’d probably go for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:42 AM |
| 20 | Blue Pillers, What Is Your Most Surprisingly Red-Pill Take? Red Pillers, What Is Your Most Surprisingly Blue-Pill Take?N Count. Mostly red, but I’ve seen FOMO do far more damage to relationships than previous hoe phases. It’s even been evident on the relationship subs lately: Women who feel like they’ve “missed out”. That shit is far more destructive than a girl who’s had 20 bad dicks that couldn’t make her cum. Patrice o Neal had this one right. The entire “can’t turn a hoe into a housewife” thing needs to die. Be the best, and don’t worry about her past. Other than that major topic in TRP, the rest is pretty s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 05:21 AM |
| 14 | do women envy men in dating?They envy the top 5% of men with options and pity the bottom 95%. FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather have a loving husband? Or guaranted 2,000 USD a month for the next 18 years?You keep saying that… what “boys” are you referring to?? Socially awkward virgin ‘I’-words who need marriage to have sex? I would take the money and keep dating around…. Like I am now. Most guys I know would take the same. We choose when we want to take things beyond sex and have an actual relationship as it is now… why would we do it any differently if free money was involved? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?Beating a dead horse…. But whatever. It’s either important enough to insist on it only being between two people, in which case there should be an effort to maintain that intimacy and those needs for BOTH people. Or….. It’s not important enough to maintain the relationship, in which case it does not matter if it is had elsewhere. You can capitalize and highlight “monogamy” all you want. But, if one partner is not holding up their end of the intimacy, it is not a monogamous relationship. It is fri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?But you even said lifelong devotion and love don’t require sex. So by your own rationale, someone can have sex with someone else and still be devoted and completely in love with their SO, right? No, of course not. Intimacy (including actual sex) is a key factor in drawing the line between friendship and relationship. And one partner removing it (without any medical need to) and not attempting to fix whatever is causing the lack of intimacy issue, is almost as messed up as the other partner just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 02:16 AM |
| 13 | What’s the best size?Lol wut? It’s literally never been reported that high anywhere. The most common dildo size has almost always been in the 6in length range, according to surveys. https://www.menshealth.com.au/women-are-using-6-inch-dildos/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?Okay…. As to my point earlier:.. If sex isn’t valuable in a relationship, why does it matter if the deprived partner is getting it somewhere else??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 07:31 AM |
| – | Men sleeping around are delusional if they expect to settle down with non-promiscuous womenThat’s what I’ve noticed too. I definitely think this is not the norm in more rural areas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 08:16 PM |
| – | Men sleeping around are delusional if they expect to settle down with non-promiscuous womenGonna fluff some feathers with this one… but Most of the self proclaimed man whores who want young virgins have all been online, in my personal experience. It doesn’t exist in real life from what I’ve seen. I’m in Southern California, so things are very relaxed here (sexually speaking) even among high end corporate finance and real estate type. Many of those guys have wifed up known sluts as well. I’ve slept around and don’t care all that much if my potential gf has either. As long as she wasn’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Men don't owe women friendshipI’m not discussing porn. I have opinions on it as well, but it is an entirely different topic and has absolutely nothing to do with the friend zone. That’s my point, don’t engage in the “friendship” if it is not completely mutual. There’s nothing wrong with removing yourself from a friendship you don’t want to take part in (if you want more than friendship). And yes, I do enjoy their platonic friendship now, even though we’ve slept together in the past. (Assuming that “yeah right” was sarcasm), … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Men don't owe women friendshipPorn has nothing to do with it, because nobody is being exploited in the friendzone (like in porn). Stop diverting to other topics. I don’t understand why this is so complex for you. If someone is not getting their needs met in ANY relationship (platonic, romantic, business), they have every right (and should) remove themselves from the situation. It’s not about making someone else “pay”. That’s a very arrogant and entitled mindset to have about forcing a friendship only because you want it. I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:52 PM |
| 5 | Men don't owe women friendshipNo one is being exploited in the friend zone. Make your intentions clear, and if the feeling is not reciprocated, remove yourself from the situation. Simple. The truth is, guys who are friend zoned do not actually want friendship. They want more than that. So they’re being dishonest to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Men don't owe women friendshipFriendzoning is 100% the fault of the person who wants more (usually the man). It is our responsibility to leave that situation. Want to know why I’ve never been in the friend zone my entire life? Not because every woman I was into, got with me…. But because I refused to only be friends with them if I wanted more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Men don't owe women friendshipNo it’s selfish to insist on someone else’s friendship towards you, when they are clearly uncomfortable and want more than friendship. A man removing himself from the friend zone (100% his fault for even being there), is the least selfish thing for all parties involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | After Leaving A Good Man, Do Women Typically Find Better?If that were true, the tv “Sex/Life” wouldn’t be so relatable and popular for so many women. They eventually leave the non-marriageable men, for more stable partners somewhere in their late 20s / early 30s. The insistence that they’re happy and made the right choice lasts around 7 years… then 70% of them file for divorce when they can’t convince themselves any longer that the sad sack of shit they married, was the right one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?You’re making this about me and/or males. Visit r/deadbedrooms and you’ll see just as many women in this predicament. You aren’t being consistent. If sex is so important thats is LIFELONG DEVOTION, then both parties should do everything they can to commit to that devotion right? If one party (male or female) falls short on that devotion, why should the other keep their end up? If it can’t break the relationship by not doing it, then it can’t break the relationship by finding it elsewhere. Or, it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 03:28 AM |
| 1 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?Okay, so he shouldn’t treat her like a bang maid, I agree. But, going by your own logic of “it shouldn’t matter whether you have sex or not”, then what is the problem if the person who is feeling neglected of sex gets it somewhere else? The LL partner should have no problem with this if they don’t see sex as important or valuable to the relationship. It’s either important… or it’s not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?That’s pretty aggressive. So, a partner (male OR female) who is not having their sexual needs met, is an uncontrollable dog and doesn’t understand that sex is not important in a relationship? And, if it is not important (as you’re implying), then why does it matter if it happens with someone else then? Please help me understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 08:17 PM |
| 3 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?This is exactly what I was getting at.. Sex isn’t a need? LOL you literally wouldn’t exist if it weren’t for sex. The same cannot be said about deep conversation (not all communication, just emotional communication as I was referring to). This shows how disconnected with biology and entitled LLs can be in their relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 06:50 AM |
| 2 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?I agree… leaving should be the first option if a compromise can’t be reached. But many of these LL partners don’t want a divorce either! They want commitment and little to no sex. The sex deprived partner should leave, yes. But many times it is not that simple, especially when there are children, finances, properties and families involved. I truly do not understand, if the LL partner is not interested in sex, why is it a problem if the other person finds intimacy somewhere else? I don’t get it. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 06:33 AM |
| 2 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?No, it’s not abuse to not have sex with your partner. Nobody should be forced to take action in something they don’t want. It’s abuse to not have sex with them, deny them of intimacy AND simultaneously demand that they stay faithful to you and demand they deny themselves of that intimacy because you don’t want a divorce either. That is absolutely a form of emotional abuse. If sex is unwanted from one partner, there’s no harm there. Let the other partner fulfill their intimate needs elsewhere. Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 06:19 AM |
| 5 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?Ok great… so it’s not a big deal if we find it elsewhere then. Thank you for agreeing. And…. That’s a lot of assumptions. Kind of hilarious… Why can’t people (not just porn consuming males) want sex and value it as part of their daily lives? Visit the DB sub.. you’ll find many women who are frustrated as well and don’t want to cheat, but are very close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 05:30 AM |
| 3 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?Not having sex with your partner who is 100% committed to you and only you is ABSOLUTELY a hurtful action……….. this is what the LL’s always fail to understand in DBs. You cannot deprive someone of a basic emotional and intimate need, and tell them they can’t find it elsewhere or their only option is to leave the relationship they’ve invested in. That is 100% abuse. (And I already mentioned we are talking about circumstances outside of medical issues, like cancer) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 05:25 AM |
| 4 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?If it doesn’t have that much value.. then it’s not a big deal if we find it somewhere else. Open the relationship and we can talk about it over dinner, like our work days. It’s either valuable to a relationship or it’s not. Which one is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 05:19 AM |
| 2 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?Okay, so exactly my point then… if you agreed to be monogamous (I.e. only have sex with each other and fulfill those needs), then you could argue that the person not upholding their end of the bargain is cheating, being unfaithful or practicing infidelity. Either sex is something that can break a relationship, or it isn’t. If not having it can’t break the relationship, then having it somewhere else can’t break it either. …And consenting to being choked is not physical abuse. I choke my gf all th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 05:05 AM |
| -1 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?Infidelity or unfaithfulness implies dishonesty. Physical abuse is never okay, honest or not. Sex with multiple people can be acceptable in an honest context. If it’s only about the act of sex itself, then It can be argued that not upholding an intimate agreement of the “monogamous relationship”, is infidelity also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 04:56 AM |
| 3 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?Agreed! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 04:50 AM |
| 3 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?This is the sad truth. After experiencing a true DB, there is no amount of money you could threaten me with to go without intimacy ever again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 04:49 AM |
| 3 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?She didn’t know what to say. I had tried everything she requested, and it never worked. Attraction was gone. We divorced a year or so later. I worked out and very much enjoyed being single for a year or two, got a gf (we’ve had our ups and downs emotionally, but never sexually like with my ex wife). Ex wife wandered for about a year, tried to get back with me (via sex… shocker), then found a guy who married her, bought a house with her, and had two kids back to back all within a few months (seco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 04:47 AM |
| 4 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?I agree 100%. And I eventually did also and wish I would have done it years sooner. But it’s rarely that simple, especially when children, property, and a split finances are involved. Many of their wives don’t even want divorce after hearing them say they want to cheat on them (but haven’t). The wives still want fidelity from their husbands, and don’t want divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 04:42 AM |
| 7 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?To your last point… I agree, a man child will dry a woman up faster than anything. But In a more equal scenario, why is it the man’s responsibility to ensure a woman maintains her sexual function in the relationship? If he can come home from a 12 hour blue collar work day, clean up after himself and still desire his wife physically, then she should pull her weight in the relationship and figure out why she can’t uphold her physical portion of a “monogamous relationship”. It’s not his responsibil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 04:40 AM |
| 2 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?You are correct. It would be harsh, but honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?Of course, and I absolutely agree that breaking up should be the first option if the sexual aspect cannot be resolved between the two parties. But life is rarely that simple. Many of these people have children, a house, one income with shared finances etc. It seems neither party wants divorce, but the LL still wants fidelity. Is it still cheating if the sexually unfulfilled person says “I won’t leave you if you really don’t want that. But, I will have sex… either with you or someone else.” If th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 04:32 AM |
| 17 | Why is it that women's clothing has gotten more and more revealing and sexualized as society got more and more progressive?Please don’t imply that men get away with being more revealing. Other than being able to show our nipples at the beach, that just isn’t true. Go to any office, steakhouse or formal event and see that women get away with showing far more skin than men do and it’s considered appropriate. Dresses with 1/2 inch straps, low cut backs, and skirts that go half way down the thigh are completely normalized and far from slutty this day and age. Imagine if any of us men wore a stringer tank top or shorts t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 02:50 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women?Lol you are 100% correct. It’s insane to see this audacity and delusion in women, yet I’m never surprised. They don’t even know they’re doing it. The double standards and hypocrisy are real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do women often hate men playing videogames?There are a lot of “safe” answers in here, I think for people to feel like they are more accepting than they actually are. However, In my personal experience with women I’ve dated, it is viewed as childish and not masculine. Whenever the topic of video games has come up with these women, there’s been almost a look of relief/slight increase in attraction when they find out I’m not at all interested in video games. I don’t feel like they would outright say that or break things off if they found I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 10:37 PM |
| 4 | Why is the man's interest not as important as a woman's while considering abortion?I already said I think existing children should have CS. I’m talking strictly decisions about financial responsibility while abortion is still a viable option. That’s it. Not physical risks or being an active parent. If the woman has the option, so should the man. And whichever parent willingly decides to be a single parent, they should be financially responsible. Whether it is the mother or the father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 05:46 PM |
| 6 | Why is the man's interest not as important as a woman's while considering abortion?Sure physically speaking there’s obviously more risks to the child bearing party. That goes without saying. However, she is 100% off the hook, financially and from motherhood, once she chooses to have an abortion. A man should have the same option before the child is born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do women often hate men playing videogames?There are a lot of “safe” answers in here, I think for people to feel more accepting. However, In my personal experience with women I’ve dated, it is viewed as childish and not masculine. Whenever the topic of video games has come up with these women, there’s been almost a look of relief/slight increase in attraction when they find out I’m not at all interested in video games. I don’t feel like they would outright say that or break things off if they found I did play… But a similar comparison wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 05:26 PM |
| 16 | Why is the man's interest not as important as a woman's while considering abortion?That’s OP’s whole point. She DOES have the ability to get out of the responsibility, via abortion. If the man opts out while abortion is still a viable option, and she chooses to proceed with the pregnancy anyway (knowing full well she will be a single parent), then she should 100% be financially responsible for the child. Deadbeat dads and fathers who walk out of an existing child’s life are different, and I agree that child support should be imposed on those men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 05:01 PM |
| 3 | would you be in a relationship with someone if sex is off the tableIf sex isn’t a big deal, then it’s not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. I wouldn’t prefer it… but I suppose if I had a life partner that let me sleep around (since sex is not important to them anyway), then I guess hypothetically.. I could? But I’d probably just avoid that situation all together and either sleep around while single, or find someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | What is the minimum standard for a man’s body to be attractive?I understand all of that, and that taller is usually better. But, my point was that you brought top 15% into the conversation when none of the women here gave any specific measurements. They just said “tall”. That almost always means “significantly taller than me”, from a woman. My point was that as long as you are at least a few inches taller, with charisma and other great qualities, you will never be off the table for her. Very, very few women say “I won’t fuck anyone who is under 6’2””, and I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 10:28 PM |
| 13 | What is the minimum standard for a man’s body to be attractive?I know what you’re getting at… and I somewhat agree. But where did any of these comments mention top 15% or over 6ft? They just said tall. When it comes to height, women are about as knowledgeable on that subject as they are on dick size. I’m 5’10” and have never been too short for anyone. In fact, I’m almost always 4-5” taller than women I chat with and date. Sure, they like guys over 6 ft, but most of the time they wouldn’t know the fuckin difference because they’re always looking up anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.I believe in this instance, it was the male ex who sent it to the current bf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.Fair enough, emotions can be strong and manipulative on us all. It’s not always easy to handle things in a cold and calculated way. And I agree, his perspective could change seeing things he didn’t want to see or finding out things he didn’t wanna know. Even if they are the same things she’s doing with him. But yeah… all in all, time to just walk away at that point. Definitely not easy… but necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 03:11 PM |
| 4 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.Different argument, but I’ll bite. Because he’s insecure. Now, if she is clearly settling for him and can’t let go of past sexual experiences, then yeah, he should dump her. But if that’s not the case, then he needs to have some confidence and understand people have pasts. My girl has soaked the sheets with someone else in the past, the same way she has with me. Just like I have taken other women on very romantic dates just like I have with current gf. These things don’t bother either of us, bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 07:19 AM |
| 6 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.That’s my whole point!! She said NO to something he wanted!! Jfc Who gives a shit if she did it with someone else if he didn’t want it?!! That’s the problem!! These guys are staying with women who are saying no to something they want (usually something lame and vanilla as a blowjob), instead of just being with someone who will passionately blow them. Who gives a flying fuck about the exes sex tape! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.What??? She wouldn’t do something she never did? That makes no sense and that’s not the complaint at all. These guys aren’t complaining about seeing their gfs doing something with someone else that they currently do with them. The complaint is that these guys are finding out their gfs DID certain sex acts with exes that they WONT currently do with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.Lol no. Get angry, emotional and condescending all you want. Doesn’t change logic. The whole point of these posts is because these men WANT to do something with their gf, that she tells them she doesn’t want to do…. Only to find out that she DID them enthusiastically with someone else. These men should have never stayed with women who weren’t doing what they wanted to begin with. The sex tapes and later information are irrelevant. Like I’ve said multiple times already, I wouldn’t care if I found… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.Lol no. You’re argument makes no logical sense. If it is important, that is exactly why they should leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:46 AM |
| 4 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.No, these are grown men, not children. If they want to compromise, then they can. If they don’t want to comprise, then they shouldn’t. Not complicated at all. If they are satisfied, then there is not reason to complain. If there is a complaint, they are not satisfied. What are you not understanding about the “complaint” part? That only comes from dissatisfaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.I don’t think they should accept it, regardless of the reason. I don’t date girls who don’t give blowjobs. Don’t care what the reason is. You’re the one arguing the reason is important. But if the reason is that important, then those men should get over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:40 AM |
| 5 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.I mean, I understand it. But it doesn’t relate. I’m an adult. If I want spaghetti, and my mom can’t make it… I’m buying fucking spaghetti. I’m not a child. Also, where is the part that mom was making spaghetti for all the other kids?? Terrible analogy. When I was in 7th grade, I didn’t expect girls to blow me obviously. But now that I’m in my 30s, it is a relationship expectation. This is all just side tracking from a very simple conclusion to a very childish complaint. “She did ‘X’ with Chad, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.Agreed! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:32 AM |
| 3 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.So what is the problem then?? Guys who are completely satisfied with their sex lives are complaining about not getting things they didn’t even want?? That makes no sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.I know, I don’t know why I do this when I have work in the morning, ha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.Why would I empathize with the plight of someone who fully has the ability to remedy his own problem? I’m not assuming they aren’t satisfied with their sex life. That is the whole basis of the argument. If they are satisfied, then it doesn’t matter what she did before. It’s that they WANT anal/oral etc. and AREN’T getting it, only to find out she did it with someone else. If my gf got shit on by her ex, it would probably gross me out, but not make me jealous or sad, because I have no desire to s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.Okay then, there is no room for complaint of what you’re saying is true. This thread shouldn’t even exist if men can just accept this and move on. If they can’t accept it, find someone else. Either way these posts grow old really fast with me. Men who complain that their woman won’t do things with them that their gf enthusiastically did with previous partners, are immature and spineless. They should either leave, or understand that “we are far from a utopia” and forgive that their woman was more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.Not at all. Tragic scenarios happen all the time and I would love to be someone to help if I can. But being with someone because you feel sorry for their past trauma helps no one. Have your standards in a relationship/sexual partnership and keep them. Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:11 AM |
| 4 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.No, I’m really not missing anything. This argument only comes from men who are being settled for and not getting what they want in the bedroom, only to find out that their gf had enthusiastic sex with someone else. If someone is not getting what they want, they should leave. I wouldn’t be hurt or jealous is my girls ex shit on her chest. I’d be grossed out, and probably not wanna hear about it. But not jealous or hurt in the slightest. If she doesn’t satisfy me in the bedroom, I’ll find someone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.You’re rambling again. If a man is set on what he wants, this is a non issue. I do not date girls who do not give blowjobs. If the reason she doesn’t give blowjobs is because her creepy uncle SA’d her (horrible scenario) or because she decided after getting facials from her college ex wasn’t her thing, it doesn’t matter. I don’t date them. Because I love getting oral, and giving oral. Both deal breakers for me if they’re not met. Ffs, how is this even an argument? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.So then she shouldn’t date him if that is her standard. No different. I still don’t understand how any of this is up for debate. If you want anal, and the girl you’re dating doesn’t do it, find someone else. If it’s not a deal breaker, then it shouldn’t be a problem that she did it with someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:02 AM |
| 6 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.Still… his fault. If it’s not “all” he looking for in a relationship, then he should be able to look past it. No? Then leave. This is not complicated at all. There are lots of women who don’t give blowjobs. That’s completely okay. But I don’t date them. It doesn’t matter if they let their ex give them messy facials. It really is completely irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.No, I’m replying to you. I still don’t get what you are trying to prove. A man should NOT be in a relationship with a woman where he is not being fulfilled sexually. It doesn’t matter what’s she’s done with someone else. Why is this complicated? I don’t understand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 05:46 AM |
| -2 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.I read all of it. You just babbled on as to why men should accept women for who they are, regardless of past indiscretions, for societal approval. Not only does that have very little to do with the original topic at hand, but it does not negate what I’ve pointed out at all. If a man is not getting what he wants sexually, he should leave. What his partner has done in the past is of no consequence to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 05:36 AM |
| -2 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.No. You’re way overthinking and overstating it. It is not complicated at all. If a man is not getting what he desires, it is on him to leave and find it elsewhere. That’s it. Doesn’t matter what current woman does or did with someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 05:16 AM |
| -1 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.I mean…. I guess I could give it a try, and see if I’m into it or not. Then when she says no and her ex sends me a clip of them doing it, I could dump her! Yay! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 03:30 AM |
| 4 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.It’s really not complicated at all. If he’s not getting what he wants in bed, leave. If he’s willing to stay with a prude at his own expense, then that’s his own sacrifice, regardless of how she treated her ex. Moral of the story: if you want blowjobs, don’t stay with a chick who won’t blow you. /thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:46 AM |
| 4 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.No.. it only became an issue FOR HIM, later when the creep sent the videos. 100% his fault for not setting up expectations from the beginning. If my girls ex sent a video of him pissing on her face… I’d be grossed out probably, but not at all bothered by it, because I have no desire to piss on her face. And if I did.. I would have done it. And if she said no, I would’ve left… regardless of what her ex did. I don’t understand why this is such a hot topic for guys unless their borderline incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:37 AM |
| 9 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.Okay well then that’s sorry ass Billy Betas fault. Not hers. If he wants something, he needs to grow some balls and make it known. And if those needs aren’t met, leave. Sick of the woe-is-me crowd from the men who aren’t getting what they want in the bedroom. Almost as bad as FDS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:30 AM |
| 6 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.Okay… who cares if she’s done any of those things? If he wants them, and it’s a dealbreaker then he needs to decide that. If he wants head or anal, and isn’t getting it, find someone new. It’s really not complicated. It doesn’t need to be about past actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:23 AM |
| 45 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.Exactly.. I don’t understand this retroactive jealousy mindset. If she’s not blowing you, and you want blowjobs (regardless if she did them to exes or not), dump her. You’re not compatible. Find someone who will blow you. This doesn’t seem that complex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:18 AM |
| 14 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.Does this really happen outside of Reddit?? I mean, I get minor things. But I’ve never been sexually unfulfilled with a girl that actually wants to have sex with me, and neither have any of my buddies (who aren’t Chads either). People usually get what they want sexually, unless it’s the extreme. If anything, women are far more unsatisfied on a regular basis. If I saw a video of my gf getting pissed on by her ex, it wouldn’t do anything to me… because well… I have no desire to piss on her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't realize how hard it is for the average male to find a female partnerIt really isn’t that difficult though. Yes, it is true that we don’t have it as easy as women. But don’t be awkward or overweight and have a decent social circle and you will find a partner. It really isn’t as hard as some of the “i” words want you to believe it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 04:22 AM |
| 12 | Men who believe in RP ideologies and/or believe that men have disadvantages in the dating world, what is your relationship with your mother?As Patrice O’Neal put it:”she’s not a woman, she’s my mother.” “If I were to sit down with any of the men my mother dated, they’d tell me the same thing: your mother ain’t shit.. she’s a asshole!… and then we could have a conversation.” Pretty much sums it up. A mothers love for her son is the not the same as they way women conditionally love men romantically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 03:41 AM |
| 0 | I like Mia Khalifa PussyI thought this was wrong sub at first… but she’s tried so hard to scrub her past and gets extremely angry at people who want to talk to her about it.. she doesn’t want to own that this is the sole reason why she is famous now. This post is kind of PPD in its own way lol | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/04/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme.That’s all good. And I know guys like you exist and there’s nothing wrong with that. Just saying in my personal experience, most guys who’ve been around don’t care, even for relationships. For some reason, that seems to get guys on here really worked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme.I mean, I don’t understand what you’re so a upset about lol. I’m just telling you how it works around here. If it’s different there, cool. No need to get so defensive about it. Most attractive women around here have been through college and/or a serious party phase if they didn’t get wifed up early and have kids. That’s just reality. Accounting firms, law firms, high end real estate agencies and hospitals around here are loaded with sluts, who are eventually wifed up my their male-slut counterpa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme.I’m just telling you what has been my experience of living where I live and how I live. It’s entirely possible it’s different where and how you live. But being as open as I am has red pilled me far more than being cheated on or any forum could teach. Listening to women get comfortable, (whether it be dates/casual sex partners or platonic friends) and open up about how they act with men, is eye opening. Being a fly on the wall really will have to see what life for what it really is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme.And like I replied to the other used, this just doesn’t represent reality. High status men often wife up a woman who has previously dated other high status men, sometimes even in their own social circle. I.e. luxury real estate, accounting firms, Wall Street, media and show business etc. Almost none of those men are going after the cute church going girl next door who would make a good mom. They often marry previous hoes because of their looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 08:06 PM |
| 4 | N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme.If men lie about their standards, it’s very likely a woman who thinks a man will care, will lie also. This isn’t rocket science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 08:02 PM |
| 5 | N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme.Not really. I’d say most high status guys end up wifing down some hoes. They’re not scared or intimidated by past men. Just look around Hollywood, Orange County, New York, Chicago. Women will date multiple high status men, even in the same social circles then one finally marries her. It’s no secret she’s been around… It’s not like the guys with beach houses, penthouses and boats are finally settling down with the church going girl next door who is cute and would make a good mom. That doesn’t hap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 07:21 PM |
| 2 | N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme.I mean… whatever helps you sleep at night. But here in SoCal, the wealthy, fit guys I know by the beach are bedding scores of women. And they almost never care about her sexual past. It’s all about her looks and somewhat about her personality. If they’re not considered attractive, then I don’t know what is. Guess I just live in a slutty place where people are more relaxed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 07:11 PM |
| 7 | N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme.I’m not asking why you’re successful with women. I’m asking where all the double standard guys like you are hiding in the real world? Almost every guy I know who is successful with women where I live, cares very little about her sexual past (excluding OF, prostitution, porn). I’ve never met a guy in real life that beds dozens or hundreds of women and cares if his gf/wife used to be a hoe or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 07:05 PM |
| 18 | N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme.No offense, but where do you guys all hide in the real world? This seems to be an online type of personality only. The male friends and peers I know in the real world who have had a verifiably extensive list of women partners, care very little. I’ve yet to meet any man with the double standard mindset that TRP spews constantly. But of course this is anecdotal, and my experience in Southern California. Pretty slutty place to live to begin with… perhaps it’s different in more traditional or conser… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 06:53 PM |
| 5 | N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme.True to an extent. But I haven’t seen them be as harsh or strict with their boundaries as the opposite. I think they are more generous with low n-count people than low n-count people are with promiscuous people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 06:48 PM |
| 17 | N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme.IME, N-count only matters to those who have low counts. Male or female. And I don’t mean that as a pejorative statement. People who’ve slept with more than just a few people seem to care less and less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 06:20 PM |
| 4 | The logistics of dating as a man.She is helping. Men need to expand their social circles. It’s not complicated. Whether or not a guy wants to elevate himself to be attractive or not and have at least some social presence can only be changed by himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 05:50 PM |
| 0 | The logistics of dating as a man.I’m with you. Majority of women I have dated, and most of my peers who have dated multiple people have all met through mutual friends/coworkers etc. there’s been a few online dating or cold approach outliers, sure. But IME that’s almost always nothing more than casual sex or a few dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 05:47 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of this behavior?Sure thing. Except what women respond to and what they say they want are almost always different in the real world. I’ll stick to what works in attracting and keeping women around… and that rarely involves courting or being a nice guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of this behavior?J is a man that has options. He is having sex first and deciding if he likes a woman enough for commitment later, like majority of men who have options do. This is not surprising or abnormal behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 11:35 PM |
| 0 | What do you think of this behavior?I agree the OP is off point. But, there’s no way I’m listening to fish on how to catch and handle fish. I’m listening to the fisherman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | The abundance of options women have has gotten so out of control that even genuine mutual attraction and chemistry aren’t enough to keep their attentionApologies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 02:09 AM |
| 3 | The abundance of options women have has gotten so out of control that even genuine mutual attraction and chemistry aren’t enough to keep their attentionNo man… the frustration is where the problem is. You’re completely backwards.. I don’t put up with shit to get a date. She’s either interested or she’s not. It’s on to the next. No sweat off my sack. Guys like me are happy, not frustrated and blaming women for their lack of success. For the dozens that aren’t interested in me, there’s a few that are. And it’s awesome. Failure doesn’t bother me. This post has a very cringey angry vibe. Probably the same type of guy that has one sided conversation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 08:47 PM |
| 5 | The abundance of options women have has gotten so out of control that even genuine mutual attraction and chemistry aren’t enough to keep their attention“I bet you think strippers like you too.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | The abundance of options women have has gotten so out of control that even genuine mutual attraction and chemistry aren’t enough to keep their attentionAgreed. I go back and forth between who I have more disdain for… bitter FDS women or bitter “i”words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 07:36 PM |
| 9 | The abundance of options women have has gotten so out of control that even genuine mutual attraction and chemistry aren’t enough to keep their attentionOf course all men, even Chads, experience failure with women. We don’t just get to approach any woman and have them sleep with us. If you’re having any success, then you simply don’t understand this point. Move on to the next one man. If you’re not having any success at all, then the problem is you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 07:08 PM |
| 25 | The abundance of options women have has gotten so out of control that even genuine mutual attraction and chemistry aren’t enough to keep their attentionSeriously. These guys are exactly the kind of thing that pushes me away from TRP if anything. I am by no means a Chad at all, but I’m decent and have my shit together. And I have no problem pulling and staying with good looking women (not 10s, but fit and attractive). When I actually see these type of men (visually) with these complaints, it starts to make sense. Then they open their mouth, and it then it ALL makes sense. I don’t think Chads are actually RP’d at all, because they don’t have to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 06:44 PM |
| – | Hypothetical dating scenario about “women liking older men”No… it’s due to attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Hypothetical dating scenario about “women liking older men”Well, to be fair, most RP guys aren’t interested in relationships with these women. So you’re kind of comparing apples to oranges. Average women would certainly LTR the 25 year old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Hypothetical dating scenario about “women liking older men”Most women? I don’t know. And are we talking dating or fucking? But, I do know that the highest value men (tall, rich, handsome etc) in their mid 30s (both in media and my personal circles) are usually sleeping with the hottest women around the ages of 21-27. So there’s that. The hardest women to pull OLD are high SMV early 20s women who have access to the highest value males. Older women are easier. Average women looking for a relationship would probably take the 25 year old. The highest SMV wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 09:20 PM |
| 13 | Do you think young men are becoming more or less sexist?Your last line is exactly what I tell woman who like to argue that I’m an asshole. I mean, sure. I am. BUT, I merely adopted the techniques woman have used for millennia (subconsciously), and learned how to play their own game better. By their own rationale, if I’m an asshole, then all women are subconsciously assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 06:43 PM |
| 5 | A large percentage of women are undeniably drawn to assholes and men who exhibit toxic, abusive behavior, but lie and say they just want a guy who will treat them rightIt absolutely does. At least for me. But I think many people don’t understand that there is a hard line between “asshole” and “piece of shit” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | The myth of "settling"Netflix show - “Sex/Life” and all the women who are obsessed with it. /thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 09:16 AM |
| 3 | Q4W (30 years old and younger only): would you have preferred to have been born a male?“The patriarchy!” “It’s a man’s world!” “We need more equality, women still aren’t treated fairly today!” ……… “I wouldn’t trade being a woman for anything.” You literally can’t make this shit up 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 05:20 AM |
| 4 | Would you be okay with being a forever girlfriend/boyfriend? Why or why not?Apologies. I rushed through typing it out and noticed the conflicting yes/no answers. Threw in an edit.. but everyone is being clear with their stance, so I’m good with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Would you stay in a relationship with someone who let themselves go physically?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:49 AM |
| 0 | would you be willing to date a woman who did not have sex?Nope. Not compatible. Not really interested in the justification. Not going to waste her time or mine trying to “game”’her either. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 07:20 AM |
| 2 | What's a belief you hold that the ideology you identify with would vehemently deny?I definitely still believe in “watch what they do, not what they say”… I don’t believe any sexually active hot woman that tries to play the innocence card. Hot chicks will fuck if they want to. I call my girl a hoe to her face, and she’s knows it’s true, and she knows I’m not insecure about it. She can’t bullshit me… Also, one factor I’m leaving out about myself is that I’m not getting married. So if she does cheat, she’s gone and I’ll have someone else in no time.. she’s the one that had to beh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 06:17 AM |
| 1 | What's a belief you hold that the ideology you identify with would vehemently deny?Fair enough. The each their own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 06:10 AM |
| 3 | What's a belief you hold that the ideology you identify with would vehemently deny?Again, why does 50 guys matter unless you’re insecure that she’s had better? If she’s bomb and pussy is good with a cool personality, the only reason why you’d care is because you feel inadequate. Be the guy she WANTS to fuck. Not the she’s fucking because she doesn’t know what else is out there. And the divorce rate thing is real. I understand. But there are so many secondary factors… correlation doesn’t equal causation. For example: it could very well be a bunch of sluts settling for guys they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 05:31 AM |
| 3 | What's a belief you hold that the ideology you identify with would vehemently deny?Why does it make a difference if it’s good? Unless a guy in secure that she’s had better, it makes no difference. And also, prudes suck ass honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 04:21 AM |
| 7 | What's a belief you hold that the ideology you identify with would vehemently deny?Nice try what? I don’t really care what a woman asks me to do. It’s whether I feel like having the relationship or not. I’m in charge of that part, not her. “Who’s gives a shit about what she can give away for free? She don’t want fuck.. she want love.” -Patrice O’Neal. And as long as she is gonna be a hoe with her pussy, I’m gonna be a hoe with my time and resources. If she wants something, she knows how to act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 12:27 AM |
| 8 | What's a belief you hold that the ideology you identify with would vehemently deny?I almost completely agree with TRP with the exception on one major topic: Women’s N counts and judging a woman for being a slut. I’m am completely with Patrice O’Neal on this one, when he had his Black Philip show before his death. Men should not be afraid of promiscuity. The whole “you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife” needs to die. The correct saying should be: “jealous men with no frame, sexual prowess or confidence can’t turn a hoe into a housewife”. Prudes suck IMO and will cheat just as e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 09:35 PM |
| 2 | What average man can do to become attractive ?Oh, men definitely can listen to womens emotions. But they shouldn’t dilute themselves into thinking that makes them fuckable / attractive or not… regardless of what women say. She either wants you or she doesn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Pete Davidson is proof most of you guys are wrongOk well then, we’ll go the other way. Dan Bilzerian, at 5’9, would not be swimming in nearly as much pussy as Pete then. Which clearly, is not the case. Either way, black pill loses every fucking time. Those losers just want a reason (that isn’t themselves) why women don’t want them. Every man can do better for himself, period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 07:19 AM |
| 12 | What average man can do to become attractive ?Incoming bullshit: “be attentive”, “be willing to be patient with her sexuality”, “listen to her concerns”… blah blah blah. If she’s not fucking you, you ain’t it. Guys, don’t be an emotional tampon. Be unapologetically yourself. Not a white knight version of yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Pete Davidson is proof most of you guys are wrongNo. He’s still ugly. Sure, height helps… but if what you’re saying is true, then Yao Ming would be swimming in 10x as much notable pussy as Pete Davidson is… which I can guarantee you isn’t the case. Blackpill loses, every time. It’s just an excuse for crying men who don’t want to make anything of themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 06:56 AM |
| 2 | Pete Davidson is proof most of you guys are wrongWhat? That’s redpill. Black pill says the only thing in life that matters is looks and there is no way an ugly man can improve himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Pete Davidson is proof most of you guys are wrongExactly. Status > looks. OP is correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Pete Davidson is proof most of you guys are wrongThis is exactly why blackpill shit is insane. Pete Davidson is ugly AF. It shows that women are not attracted to the same qualities men are. No man would fuck Oprah because of her status and/or charisma. She’s unattractive. MANY women would fuck Pete Davidson because of his status and/or charisma’s. He’s unattractive. Pete Davidson pulls more pussy than Sage Northcutt any and every day of the week. OP nailed it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 05:50 AM |
| 4 | Q4A In terms of dating, do you regret being being born in the here and now rather than another era or culture?33m. Wouldn’t choose any other time (at least in the past). I’m average, maybe only slightly above, and have it so much better when it comes to casual dating than my father or grandfathers. Getting laid is awesome and I completely provide for myself… so the whole looking for a housewife/mom type is pointless to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 04:49 AM |
| 12 | Women only please: Would you stay with a guy who never wanted to get married?K bye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 06:40 AM |
| 4 | Remember Titanic? Remember how all that woman on her deathbed could remember was those few days she spent with Chad when she was young, even though she had been happily married with grandkids for decades? Remember that?Marketed as a romance and consumed by women to the point of rising to #1 for over a decade. To pretend women don’t eat this shit up and fantasize over these narratives, is delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:02 AM |
| 14 | Women that won't do sexual acts with you, but had done with previous partners, isn't an indicator she's not attracted to you enough to do them.CJ walking down the alley in his tank top | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 10:44 PM |
| 7 | She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your faultPretty sure OP is a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 10:03 PM |
| 23 | High value men would not date a McDonald's worker just because she is hotLmao. Yes, please tell me about the 10/10 McDonalds girl that was still working there 6 months later… I’ll wait. This shit is absurd. Highly attractive, low status women are scooped up every day by HVMs. Yes, 7 figure earning men have access to the pick of the litter, which includes high status women who are also attractive. But that is not nearly the majority of HVMs. This post is a feminist delusion that wants female accomplishment to be part of society’s standards for women. Sorry…. It is, an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable AnymoreYou completely just glossed over “cold approaching doesn’t really work”… umm what?? Visit the r/seduction subreddit. It’s a numbers game absolutely… But it can DEFINITELY be successful with practice. IMO, guys need to stop dishing out excuses and do the work. Get fit, be social and learn to have confidence. Those will overcome so many other obstacles. If 1/100 women agree to date (which is extraordinarily low), guys can have a solid date or two a month, AT THE VERY MINIMUM. But of course black p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever met a TRP or FDS person in real life? What were their lives like?This is me, and the few close friends I have who have indulged in some aspects of TRP. We’re pretty vocal online, less vocal in person (but still discuss theory and mindset from time to time), and RP ideology is almost nonexistent conversation with anyone else in our lives. Why? Because the foundation of TRP is about changing/improving your own mindset and behavior, not expecting the world to change. We control our emotions, never blame the women we’re with for their behavior or attempt to contr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 09:39 PM |
| 2 | What birth control method do you use?Pretty mild in my experience. But that could me being naive or them not wanting to share. Current gf gets crazy wet when she misses a few and skips the rest of the month. But it doesn’t seem like her actual libido changes. Haven’t noticed much in other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 06:45 AM |
| 9 | What birth control method do you use?I’m a dude, so I’m commenting under the automod. But every girl I’ve been with (hookup or LTR) has been on the pill (except for 1 who had an IUD). In my western USA experience, the pill is most common. The friends I have who’ve had a vasectomy, are all in LTRs who have kids, but don’t want more. I do not know any women personally who have had their tubes tied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 06:32 AM |
| 3 | Are women "delusional" about penis size?But when’s the last time you heard a woman say “his penis was actually a good size but it just looked smaller because he was overweight”? Never. It’s either big or it’s not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Are women "delusional" about penis size?That’s my whole point. If a heavy guy and a slim guy both have a 7” inch penis (bone pressed), but the slim guy has 6.5” non bone pressed (0.5” fat pad) and the heavy guy has 5.5” non bone pressed (1.5” fat pad), she is seeing, touching and sucking a bigger penis on the slimmer guy. Compound that with the fact that the slimmer guy is much more likely to have more sexual partners than the overweight guy, and womens views on penis size will definitely be skewed. And, if bigger penises do actually … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Are women "delusional" about penis size?Exactly, so their perception of average will be skewed towards the larger end, since average includes all males, overweight or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 06:00 PM |
| 12 | Are women "delusional" about penis size?“Why would men with larger penises have more sex if people don’t know beforehand?” Men with larger penises may have more confidence in getting laid. “Big dick energy” is definitely a thing (even if the penis doesn’t match the energy). Also, leaner men (top 40% in America based on obesity alone) are more attractive for obvious reasons. But, what is never discussed is that a leaner man’s visible penis size will appear larger than an overweight man’s penis visible penis size (even if the BONE PRESS… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 05:55 PM |
| 1 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?lol don’t even know who that is tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 05:58 AM |
| 3 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?Sure, but if you think she’s thinking about the hottest guy she’s been with, then you’re only thinking like a man. I know I’m the best she’s been with (aside from her telling me over and and over and over without me EVER bringing it up, there are very easy ways to tell). Has there been other richer, taller, more hung, more fit guys that she’s been with? Absolutely. And it does not bother me one bit… that in itself makes me attractive to women. Most men cannot grasp this (because this would never… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?Fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 10:28 PM |
| 3 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?Ah, okay, interesting! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 10:10 PM |
| 2 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?I truly believe that men who have rigid boundaries like “more than 3 is too many”, are just very insecure at the end of the day (because I know guys just like this). They are concerned that she’s probably had a bigger dick, or more orgasms with someone else. They’re scared of the chances they won’t be the best. But that is thinking like a male… all about cumming. Once men learn to understand how women truly think and what they are really attracted to (along with being good in bed obviously), a n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 10:07 PM |
| 2 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?Lmfao what?? “If she ain’t had at least 18 dicks in her mouth she ain’t for me!!” -Patrice O’Neal … and I couldn’t agree with him more. I love women who don’t wait, are experienced and are down. As he says “hoe’ing them up” or “hoe’ing them down”. But I think what separates guys like Patrice (like me) and TRP is that we understand a woman’s behavior in a relationship stems from our mentality, not her previous dick count. He always preached that men really need to do away with the “can’t turn a h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 10:02 PM |
| 3 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?Just out of curiosity, would this feeling also include men who are significantly and noticeably stronger/more muscular than you (even if they are a similar height)? Or is it height only? Just wondering if it’s feeling vulnerable in general or if it’s specifically height related.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Women do not want sex as much as men do, otherwise we'd overpopulate the world within a generationLol what?? Where did you get that clearly false information from? You’re saying gay men all have low test? What about gay men on steroids? Do they turn straight? Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Women do not want sex as much as men do, otherwise we'd overpopulate the world within a generationWhat? When did I say estrogen didn’t matter? Of course it also drives libido, but it is not nearly as potent of a hormone as testosterone…. In pretty much every aspect of life, testosterone exaggerates behavior far more than estrogen does. From violent tendencies and aggression to risk taking… and yes, SEX DRIVE. A woman with high estrogen still isn’t even comparable to a man with high testosterone. They are by no means at all, equal but opposite. There is no such thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 12:49 AM |
| 18 | Women do not want sex as much as men do, otherwise we'd overpopulate the world within a generationI don’t even know how this is debatable. It’s in the actual science lol. Men produce 15x-20x more testosterone than women ON AVERAGE. Testosterone is one of the (if not the only) primary hormone influencing sex drive. It doesn’t mean women can’t have high sex drives, and yes, there are some very horny women out there. But on average, it’s not even close… and it hardly has to do with children. The same people who spout this probably also believe natal females stand as much of a chance in a weight… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | If the entirety of Men left the workforce, society will collapse; however, if the entirety of the Female workforce left, society will be completely fine.Meh, fair enough. You’re right, OP is wrong. We wouldn’t be “fine” even if it was only 10% of the workforce that disappeared tomorrow… regardless of gender (like you said). Just pointing out that the burden of upholding societal structure is not equal. As a man, I’m fine with it and not complaining…. just thought it should be pointed out with some of the arguments being made in this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 03:36 AM |
| 0 | If the entirety of Men left the workforce, society will collapse; however, if the entirety of the Female workforce left, society will be completely fine.Okay, I was only addressing your reply about going back in time. None of that changes the fact that men are far more necessary in upholding societal structure than women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 03:33 AM |
| 1 | If the entirety of Men left the workforce, society will collapse; however, if the entirety of the Female workforce left, society will be completely fine.I’m not arguing things wouldn’t be a shit show. They would, and many people would be miserable and some would die unnecessarily (due to healthcare). But the world as a whole could recover. Society would literally collapse without men though. That’s the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 03:31 AM |
| 1 | If the entirety of Men left the workforce, society will collapse; however, if the entirety of the Female workforce left, society will be completely fine.You mean with men doing the hunting and providing shelter while the women took on social and family responsibilities? lol Yeah, we could go back to that with men still being absolutely necessary to a functioning society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 03:29 AM |
| 2 | If the entirety of Men left the workforce, society will collapse; however, if the entirety of the Female workforce left, society will be completely fine.Requires a college education or applicants must have a college degree? HUGE difference. I know because I’m a high school graduate who’s been in management positions multiple times teaching people with degrees how to do their jobs. Most high end education positions (CPA Partners etc) are filled by men anyways. Most reasonably intelligent people can pick up how to be a senior level accountant or an accounts payable clerk without a college degree. But, there physically isn’t enough stature/muscle/b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 03:26 AM |
| 1 | If the entirety of Men left the workforce, society will collapse; however, if the entirety of the Female workforce left, society will be completely fine.Positions which could be fulfilled my males by the next pay period. Females filling oil rig, trucking, welding, and construction jobs? Years to replace the entirety of the work force… that’s the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 03:18 AM |
| 5 | The 80/20 rule is true, one should accept it and move on (CMV)33, divorced, with a kid. Why is it such a shock that people maintain social circles? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 06:45 PM |
| 2 | The 80/20 rule is true, one should accept it and move on (CMV)lol of course, how could I be so naive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 03:57 PM |
| 12 | The 80/20 rule is true, one should accept it and move on (CMV)yawn In OLD yes. Not real and normal life. I’m 5’10” and don’t do shit when OLD because Im too “short”. In person, I (and my entire social circle) have no problem having sex frequently. Next…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 01:54 PM |
| 1 | "You're an incel 'cause you're an obese neckbeard." Meanwhile at the incel meetup:Not any better looking than the far left 3 in the pic.. and i do workout, but don’t have visible abs. But even if i did, that would be a choice to have to maintain that physique. Majority of incels are incels by choice. Bring on the downvotes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 10:55 PM |
| -5 | "You're an incel 'cause you're an obese neckbeard." Meanwhile at the incel meetup:Online dating is such a crap comparison and I don’t see how people keep bringing it up. I don’t do shit with online dating being 5’10”… but in real life and in my social circles I have no problems at all… most of the time the challenge is staying faithful once I have a gf. If these guys aren’t getting laid, it is 100% their fault and, likely, their personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 08:48 PM |
| 1 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!Lol what? Yes exactly, WOMEN consume both shows. The one about competing for Chad and the one about being chased by many Chads. Then turn around and say they don’t want Chad. How is this not understandable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:27 PM |
| 1 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!My point for either show has nothing to do with the actors. It’s about the millions of women who eat this bullshit up (either show). It’s like a man being obsessed with car shows, then turning off the TV and saying “I hate cars, they’re such a waste of time”. Watch what they do, not what they say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 03:23 PM |
| 3 | "Just hit the gym bro!"Ahhh the Average Frustrated Chump.. haven’t heard that term since The Rational Male. Nice to see it making an appearance in PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 05:33 PM |
| 6 | 1Chad of course | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!The bachelorette is also marketed to and consumed by almost exclusively women. It’s just a variation of fantasy. Instead of fantasizing about competing for Chad, they can fantasize about being chased by many Chads. It says nothing about men because men don’t consume it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 04:16 PM |
| 3 | 1Lmfao it took me a second to recognize the shadow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!That millions of women eat this bullshit up. Obsessed with idea of Chad even though they say otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:09 PM |
| 1 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:07 PM |
| 3 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!Not talking about the actors. Talking about the millions of women who eat this bullshit up lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!We don’t act like that. We acknowledge it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!Lol no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:05 PM |
| 5 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!Precisely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 02:56 AM |
| 1 | If you listen to them long enough, they'll eventually tell on themselves.Perhaps he doesn’t. But then that’s his fault, and he is just trapped with a manipulative partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 02:53 AM |
| 1 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!But marketed to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 02:51 AM |
| 3 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!Not talking about the actors. Talking about the millions of women who eat this bullshit up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 01:43 AM |
| 0 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!No real point other than it’s women consuming this and fantasizing about this garbage. It’s not the RP revenge fantasy that PPD females make it seem like it is. They say they want a nice man who will take care of them, then they eat this shit up. No different than Titanic… women genuinely thought the idea of true love story was about a chick who got boned on a boat for a week, and stayed in love with the guy… then kept it a secret from everyone including from her husband and family for 84 years.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 12:53 AM |
| 1 | If you listen to them long enough, they'll eventually tell on themselves.Huh? That’s exactly what I said… if it’s “anymore” or any extended period of time with the intention of getting me to change. I’m getting it elsewhere.. If she stays or goes it doesn’t matter cuz I wasn’t getting it anyway. It’s been my point the whole time referring to the OP. The women agreeing to withholding sex in attempt to get the guy to change his mind don’t have a right to be upset when he cheats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 12:31 AM |
| 0 | If you listen to them long enough, they'll eventually tell on themselves.No, I don’t. If she’s disgusted temporarily, that’s fine. I’ll give her space then we can discuss like adults. If she’s “disgusted” weeks on end in attempt to get me to change my mind about something (like a child)… I’m getting pussy somewhere else. And she can deal with it or leave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 11:49 PM |
| -1 | If you listen to them long enough, they'll eventually tell on themselves.If you withhold intimacy intentionally, you cannot be upset when we find it somewhere else lol It would be no different if a man said “I didn’t like her thoughts on X, so I don’t really feel like talking to her until she is compatible with me”. Of course she will find another person to open up to, even if it’s another guy… and she will have every right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 11:42 PM |
| 30 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!Because this needs to be relatable to the the post-wall Stacies it’s marketed towards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | “WE WILL, WE WILL, FUCK YOU… (boom, boom, clap)”The ambush predator lies in wait. Just because you don’t notice, doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 10:01 PM |
| 6 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!That’s to poke the bootyhole while he’s making them orgasm 17 times before he puts his thundercock in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 09:37 PM |
| 8 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!I mean I could make one for the woman getting chased by all the Chads too, if that makes you feel better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 09:36 PM |
| 2 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!Fucking sexist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 09:35 PM |
| 12 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!Yes absolutely, the Bachelorette! Another show geared exclusively towards women.. but instead of fantasizing about competing for Chad, they can fantasize about being chased by many Chads! And I would have to assume that big Ed is swimming in pussy now… you know, status or whatever. Did I miss anything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 09:34 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Would you rather have a son that is more BP or RP? Why?Hi mom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 09:25 PM |
| 10 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!Who said nobody understood that? And yet, all the post walls still eat this shit up lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 09:16 PM |
| 4 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!Thank you. You’ve successfully CMV! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 09:01 PM |
| 10 | Fuck Mrs_degree, houstoungradengineer, midwestofuhunter, Milkymochi, and lillythofbabylonMe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 08:59 PM |
| 3 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!lol, I haven’t seen it yet, but it looks entertaining | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 08:41 PM |
| 11 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!Of course! But then that wouldn’t sell to all the post wall women who this show is aimed at | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 08:35 PM |
| 48 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!Ah yes, how could I forget? The other show for women where they can fantasize about being chased by many Chads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 08:31 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Would you rather have a son that is more BP or RP? Why?Oh, okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 07:09 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Would you rather have a son that is more BP or RP? Why?I guess so? Not really sure what kind of answer you’re looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 07:02 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Would you rather have a son that is more BP or RP? Why?Huh? They coincide with each other perfectly. If a man is honest, she has no right to be upset when she doesn’t get commitment. That’s her own false assumption. That doesn’t make him a monster and a “you do you” attitude doesn’t make someone red-pilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 06:54 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Would you rather have a son that is more BP or RP? Why?I just told you. I don’t judge women by N counts or obsess over their sexual history. I enjoy them and their company. Other things would include spinning plates or playing the field, which I choose not to do. I serial date, and if I don’t like what I have, it’s on to the next. Both definitely not RP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 06:44 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Would you rather have a son that is more BP or RP? Why?Lol wut? How am I being fake? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 06:37 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Would you rather have a son that is more BP or RP? Why?Appreciated your Ted Talk. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Would you rather have a son that is more BP or RP? Why?Ah okay. Makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 06:33 PM |
| 5 | [Q4W] Would you rather have a son that is more BP or RP? Why?Lol, why are you so angry? I’m not RP. I deviate from some of those incels big time. Such as, not caring about a woman’s sexual past (I love promiscuous chicks) among a few other things. But I will do what I do, and her feelings are her feelings… not really my problem as long as I’m honest. Anyways, back to your point… other than not committing to a woman (which would be her own mistaken assumption), how would the latter be hurting anybody? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 06:31 PM |
| 6 | [Q4W] Would you rather have a son that is more BP or RP? Why?Why are they a monster for focusing on their own happiness? Selfish? Sure… a monster? Far from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 06:19 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Would you rather have a son that is more BP or RP? Why?Why’s that? Men can be raised appropriately, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 06:16 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Would you rather have a son that is more BP or RP? Why?It’s not necessarily. But in RP eyes it definitely is. So that’s why I’m posing the question. Most mothers would care if their son was committed to an OF’er, but perhaps some won’t. Im interested to see who that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 05:45 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Would you rather have a son that is more BP or RP? Why?Fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 05:43 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Would you rather have a son that is more BP or RP? Why?Really? I’ve always considered Christianity to much more RP. Conservative, male-lead relationships that almost never align with modern feminism, especially when considering sexual behaviors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 05:43 PM |
| 4 | [Q4W] Would you rather have a son that is more BP or RP? Why?If he brought home a gf who had an OF, but encouraged you to judge her by her personality and not by any indiscretions shes had, would you be okay with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Would you rather have a son that is more BP or RP? Why?Of course this would be many mothers’ preference. But try and pick one or the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 05:35 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Would you rather have a son that is more BP or RP? Why?Than have a son? Or kids in general? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 05:22 PM |
| 44 | Should a man worry about his GF's exes if they all ended the relationship with herIf you’re talking 2-3 guys, John should come to his own conclusions. If you’re talking 10 men that have dumped Sarah, John should realize the common denominator and trust the judgement of those who came before him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 01:49 PM |
| 6 | If all you want is sex, you will looseSure… but that doesn’t change that what you’re saying does NOT apply to men that do have options. This only applies to LVM who only want sex, but can be trapped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 12:44 PM |
| 5 | If all you want is sex, you will looseThis only applies if she is the only woman he can have sex with. If he has the option of getting sex elsewhere, she holds no power at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Interesting. I hadn’t thought about that… I thought it was LVM/insecure men. But that also seems like it could be true… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]…? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Fair enough. Different strokes.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]K. Have fun out there! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Haha!!! Anything else? Stay mad, please. You’re the fuel to the fire that leads valuable men right into the presence of self secure women who also love sex, so we can ALL avoid your type. Like I said, men were the real winners from sexual liberation. Have fun with those 8000 LVMs! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]She needs therapy because she likes sex also…. Got it. Man, good luck out there finding your commitment. This post was completely meant for you. You got shafted with the sexual liberation movement. Hos are here to stay, and we’re gonna embrace it happily! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]LOL! I really hope people read this far… You are literally what I’ve been trying to tell people about in this thread. You’re making this too easy. Angry, bitter women who can no longer get commitment from men are everywhere… calling out all the promiscuous women and saying they’re emotionally unhealthy because they’ve swept options right out from under your feet. You can’t make this shit up. Hope everyone else is still reading…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]So all women who like sex sooner than later are emotionally unhealthy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]So I’m an abuser because I like sex? Lmfao You FDS types are a special breed! Do you feel the same way about sexually liberated women? This might actually come as a surprise to you and many others here, but I am actually committed to a woman right now. There is no talk of children or marriage. She’s ambitious and has a career and her own house and literally thousands of options. And…. SEX CAME FIRST. The FDS type will always lose to this type of woman. The difference is though, I am not threaten… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]lol hey whatever helps you sleep at night. Hate to break it to you, but OLD is filled with guys not looking for commitment either. The percentage of men willing to sleep with a woman one the first date is far greater than the number of woman willing to sleep with a man on the first date. The more often men get this want fulfilled, especially from the promiscuous liberated types (definitely not PickMes) the less power the vetting woman has in her choice of who to date. A woman can always give awa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]The difference is, incels will always be, and always have been, incels. They just have a place to bitch about it now. Other manosphere subs (TRP etc.) are not bitching as much as they are a ‘how to’ on changing what’s wrong with your life.. However, we’ve never seen the likes of the female version of incels (FDS / loads of women who can’t obtain commitment from a quality partner). This is new to our world, and growing rapidly. Head over there….. it’s ALL bitching about what’s wrong. Except the o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Very true. But if more men can get it without the commitment (for free essentially), why wouldn’t they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]If what you were saying were true, FDS wouldn’t be rounding 200k members. Droves of women, not just on Reddit, are fed up with be treated like a wet hole and either trying to raise their standards (by vetting before sex) or leave the dating market entirely. And I don’t blame them… Chad catching feelings is a female delusion to make themselves feel “special” like they have the option of commitment from a man that they actually have no chance with… when the reality is a true Chad never commits. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]But those things are not easy to come by these days… and certainly not as easy as it was for their mothers. Men are rapidly dropping out of the marriage market and it’s seems even more than ever, relationships are ending because “he won’t propose” or “he’s wasting my time” (though the last is my anecdotal experience). Case in point: the explosion of FDS type females, who are having a harder and harder time getting commitment from valuable men and many are exiting the dating market entirely. Yes,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]I mean some of that might be true in pockets and subsets of certain groups of people. But dating app data is far from reality, and I would even go as far as saying it’s the exception. I’m 5’10” and don’t do very well with women I’m attracted to when it comes to app dating (always get tons of interest from lower SMV females), but this is because my height wont even pass the filter for most attractive women (6’+). But in real life, I have no problem getting laid… and by women I’m very attracted to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 02:58 PM |
| 0 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]80 percent of men are definitely NOT stuck with porn or nothing at all… the very bottom guys are for sure. But I’m not top 10-20% nor is anyone I know (except maybe a few, and they crush it with women), and even most in my circles, including myself, have no problem replacing women and choosing who we want a relationship with. The awkward Reddit incel who works IT tech job or some unemployed bum 30 year old living with mom, is NOT the average man. Those are LVM. The majority of us in the real wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]I know! They’ll be in a rage… I’m good with that though LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Good call. It definitely is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]True. I suppose the unicorn thing is the right path for a lot of guys. And I can see why.. But it just doesn’t suit me I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Touché. But just to clarify, I didn’t mean those millionaires were in my circles. I wish lol I just meant the women we hook up also have access to dudes like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]I see what you’re saying, and you’re not wrong. But we, as men, should really be doing that for ourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]I’m not necessarily making a connection between the quality of a man and his willingness to wait. But of the men that refuse to wait, there are at least some quality men in there. They may not be right for the woman that wants to wait to get to know someone. But she is automatically leaving men on the table that would otherwise be an outstanding life partner to her. This wasn’t the case in the past. Men like myself would have had no choice but to wait, unless we were top tier or really dug down … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Haha your last paragraph made me laugh. But I suppose it could be a false dichotomy. But it seems that it’s not. Women are not worse off in the rest of their lives, but they are worse off in relationships. Sure they can fuck anyone they want, but that’s always been the case. The real incel fantasy is that all women just want to be absolutely folded while getting pounded into oblivion by Chris Hemsworth. Sure, they’ll do it… but no woman is okay with being consistently only thought about because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]A woman who does not want to fuck everyone she has a few dates with, is not a rare woman…. At all lol And your last paragraph I’m very confused by. I definitely don’t think that at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 04:11 AM |
| 0 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Well, that’s the whole point of my post. I’m not Chad at all. Most of my circles aren’t either. I wouldn’t consider any of us top tier men. And yet, almost all of us have decided which women we were going to pursue a relationship with and we are all able to replace GFs/wives/fwbs relatively quickly. Almost all women we’ve slept with have wanted to take things further, and we’ve been the ones to decide which ones we wanted to have a relationship with. Again, not a brag post at all, because we are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]To be fair, that’s my observation. I don’t have any surveys or anything to back that up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 03:17 AM |
| 0 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Because those are incel types to flock to the internet to consistently complain about how bad life is. And I have no sympathy for them. They need to embrace their life and get out and be social. Or…. Accept celibacy. It is a disproportionately skewed user base in those subs. Admittedly, to counter my own point, I guess the same skew could be applied to FDS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Perhaps my viewpoint is skewed/flawed then. But the world I see around me daily, and in media, is nothing like the incel driven horseshit I see around Reddit. Maybe California is just a better place to be an average guy (which I don’t even see how, we’re competing with beachside millionaires at every turn), but in almost all of my circles, no guy has a problem getting laid. And they’ve all dictated which woman they were going to keep around seriously at some point. And, most of the women I’ve da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]I don’t even know what we’re disagreeing about anymore… I never said it was bad for a woman to be single. My point was that women have it made easier than ever for men to access sex, which simultaneously makes women more replaceable. All this makes things tougher for the women that want commitment before sex. That’s my entire point. And the FDS sub has been growing rapidly. It’s not a male fantasy that women are increasingly frustrated that they can’t land quality commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]You said it better than I could, thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Then how do you explain the explosive growth in women with the “where are all the good men at?” attitude and FDS types? That sub is almost entirely aimed at avoiding casual encounters with men, and trying very hard to vet men first. Women are increasingly frustrated at being pumped and dumped and exiting the dating market entirely. They’d rather be alone because they can’t get commitment from a man… not because they’d rather be alone than have commitment from a man. Huge difference. But to your … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]FFS… exactly! BOYFRIEND That is commitment! We’re talking about casual sex taking place before the woman can get him to commit to any exclusivity with her whatsoever. Sex is becoming more and more of a prerequisite to any type of exclusivity. Dating for marriage can require many prospects… and the subset of women who don’t want to fuck every single guy they go on a few dates with, is not small. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Where is that even from?? That’s insane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Not sure what statistics you’re referring to, but a couple half ass studies about how men feel after getting divorce screwed don’t constitute how young men are doing in the dating market. Popular media does not constitute my anecdotes. Women are largely the gender to continue to obsess about marriage. Even in “Sex/Life”, geared almost exclusively towards women, not even 15 minutes into the show Billie is already complaining about men that wouldn’t commit to her and/or ghost her. Majority of wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Sure seems that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 12:50 AM |
| 0 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]I can’t answer for those men. I personally love this time to be alive as a man. It’s so much better for me than my father or grandfathers. But many women I’ve dated and/or been friends with complain about commitment from men. Not ever getting married is constantly a concern of theirs. Seems like they got the short end of the stick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Like I said, that may have been true in the past. But men have fast caught up in finding everything they need, including sex, without a gf/wife. If what you say is true, why do so many women still obsess over getting married? Women dumping men for not proposing is still a very common thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Til;dr Women have never been as replaceable as they are now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 12:19 AM |
| 0 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Party for everyone! Except incels…. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]They may have been true in the past. It would also explain why even many rich old men are faithfully married. But it is just not the case anymore. Only for low value men. Young rich bachelors are hardly ever tied down. And they certainly wouldn’t be crushed if someone left them. Those longevity and happiness studies are the real cope…. for women. Of course men are devastated when children and a large amount of their wealth is stripped from them. But let’s stop kidding ourselves. Look around. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]What does she have to keep him that he can’t get somewhere else? The reverse has always been true for women. But, conventionally, they wanted commitment more than the man. So the man generally had to play by their rules. Not the case anymore… all sexual liberation did was bring men to the same sexual playing field that women have had for generations. Now we can play by the same rules much easier, but all they got out of it was not being slut shamed (who gives a shit what incels think anyway?). D… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Ahh I gotcha. Juice ain’t worth the squeeze… understandable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]No I understand it. I just wish most women had the non committal attitude. That’s all I was saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]BECAUSE THERE ARE MORE WOMEN WHO WANT COMMITMENT THAN THERE ARE MEN. I don’t know how else to explain myself. And I didn’t say marriage, I said many women want to wait until they have some sign of COMMITMENT before they sleep with a man. Do you truly believe that the percentage of women who would sleep with a man on a first date is equal to that of men? No, more women than men want to know who someone is first. The modern access to frivolous sex for men makes the dating game harder and harder fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]I completely agree and wish most women thought like this. Unfortunately, there’s a common trope, especially around here that women are happier alone, don’t want men anymore etc.. I just have to laugh when I see that. It would be great…. But look around in the real world. We need to stop pretending like there’s more men that want to buy a ring than there is women who want to be proposed to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]You’re conflating two separate subjects entirely. Where I’m from (as with many other places around the world), arranged relationships and borderline child slavery were never a thing here. And it’s been that way since long before feminism came around. But with vetting, you’re still completely missing the point that there are many women who don’t want to have sex before there is commitment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]I agree actually. I think many women are able to navigate the casual scene and the serious dating world pretty well. I do feel bad for the women who valued their chastity or maybe wanted to date men before sleeping with them. It seems they’ve been dealt a much tougher hand in today’s world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 09:26 PM |
| -1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Idk why you keep bringing up fathers forcing daughters to do things. It’s irrelevant to this conversation. And forced? Of course not… they would be better off alone. but it still doesn’t change the fact that they wanted commitment and I didn’t. There was a time, when a man could be vetted. He had to at least get to know her, because he didn’t have a choice. She held all the keys to taking things further. Nowadays, women are very frequently limited to 2 options: Put out or let him walk. Because i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]I agree 100%. Forced commitment is bad. Let me reiterate that none of this is bad for me. I love it. Sex is much easier and better for me than it was for my father. However, I’m not sure I can say that the girls I’ve left behind (who wanted to be GFs) can say the same. So many women want more once they sleep with you (not all, I know). Guys just aren’t as eager (at least in California social circles I’ve been in). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]She’s 8. Most girls I date say they’ll never date a guy with a child, but somehow we date. Who f’n knows these days lol I just go for it, take the L if necessary and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 08:41 PM |
| -1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Coping for what?? I a man who loves being a man and this is the best time for me to be alive sexually. I wouldn’t want it any other way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]No no no. I do not want us to go backwards! Sexually speaking, it has benefited my generation far more than my fathers generation. But, it is my experience that has also been far more beneficial to my friends and I than it was to the women we dated who wanted more with us. They are the ones who got the short end of the stick. We didn’t even have to like them to sleep with them. This wouldn’t have been possible decades ago in the days of courting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]I agree. And to clarify I have been married and have a child.. so this is not lack of experience speaking. I am just not looking for that again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 08:35 PM |
| 0 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Wtf? Who said anything about slaves and slavery?? And you really think the number of women who want commitment or marriage is “tiny”? That’s just delusional thinking. Not sure where your entire rant was going, but my point still stands. If men only want one thing (even if that’s only partially true), and a smaller number of men want commitment than women, then the remaining women who want commitment and could not find it (not at all a small number), are going to be left with their dick in their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Men have never been the gatekeepers of sex lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]I assume it because if the number of men who want commitment is smaller than the number of women who want commitment, then there will be more women looking for commitment than men. The remaining women who want commitment will be forced to play a game they don’t necessarily want to play (hence, FDS). But with sex being more available now, men will no longer have to wait through a woman’s vetting process or even get to know her. If the average man doesn’t get what he wants in a short amount of tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Solid point. From relationship standpoint, he’s probably worse off than the clear power advantage he had over a woman in say, the 50s. But it’s been touted over and over that men only want one thing. Even if this is only partially true, then the guy who wants that is far better off today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Of course, and I agree. But, if the number of men who want casual relationships is greater than the number of women who want casual relationships, then the remaining women who are looking for commitment will have a harder and harder time finding it as time goes on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 08:07 PM |
| -1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Again, you don’t see the detriment. There are still many, many women out there who want commitment. I agree with you 100% that nobody should be committed to anyone they don’t want. But what about the women who really DO want that? They are going to be forced to play a game that many have not wanted to play. Ex.: FDS users looking for man to commit without sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 08:05 PM |
| 0 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Of course, feminism as a whole has been beneficial for everyone, not just women. We are a better society because of it. But, feminism induced sexual liberation as it relates to the dating market? A net negative (IMO) for the women who still really want commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 08:02 PM |
| 0 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Best argument I’ve heard today. I had not taken age gap into consideration. Though, I’m not sure future generations of men would still be as keen on commitment as our fathers. But your point still stands. I wonder if we will see a rise in large age gap relationships 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Well they should stop bitching, IMO. I love being a man, and other men should find their purpose and embrace it as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Touché. I guess I should have been more specific in terms of women that are looking a marriageable man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Tinder and OLD are far from reality. I’m 5’10” and don’t do well with women I’m attracted to when I’m OLD. However my friends and I have no problem getting laid in real life from people we are attracted to (social circles etc.). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]It may not be negative for you, but places like FDS will dry up (pun intended) overnight, or just be absorbed into “where are the good men?” type of women. Vetting before sex to avoid the pump and dump will no longer be a feasible option for most women. The risk of sex will have to be on the table if she wants commitment, even more so than it already is. A woman (like a family member of mine) who prefer to wait, are going to have a much harder time finding a guy who’s willing to wait than she wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Not all… the number just has to be more than the amount of women who are looking for casual relationships. As long as more women want marriage than men (regardless of how big or small that number is), this will be a problem for women who are seeking commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Of course, and I’m even in a wedding next month. Marriage and settling down still exists, and will in the future. But finding commitment will harder in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 06:22 PM |
| 0 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Perhaps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 06:21 PM |
| 6 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Actually, I do not consider myself the “right man”. I am not interested in marriage, more children, splitting finances etc. But even if I were a marriageable man, there is no answer for the modern woman, IMO. Even marriageable men have become accustomed to sex. If she’s trying to vet without sex, he may very well bail. This wasn’t an option for most men in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 06:20 PM |
| -2 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Absolutely. But it’s a negative for women who want commitment from a mid-high value male who has many options. She’s powerless in her ability to keep him from straying in the abundance of an openly sexual marketplace. If she’s not interested, great! She’s won. If she wants marriage, it’s only going to get harder in the years to come. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 06:16 PM |
| 0 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Interesting viewpoint. I haven’t given that idea much thought in the past. My ex wife was never the type to try and drain me financially, and still isnt actually. But I could see this being a positive for guys in that situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 06:13 PM |
| -1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Yes! And I love the movement, and shame free sex women are promoting! It’s benefitted me (and many guys like me) tremendously! I’m just saying that in general for women who are actually looking for commitment and to settle down, it’s going to be much harder to get guys to stick around (if those men are looking for sex). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Financially, yes. But men have always been sexually replaceable. The opposite has not been true until recently. A man no longer has to stick around for any reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 06:07 PM |
| 0 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]What information? I’m only stating observations. I am not Chad by any means, and I do not struggle with relationships at all. Same goes for most of my social circle. It’s in media as well. I do not believe men like us would have had these options decades ago. Though, I could be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 05:59 PM |
| 5 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]I should’ve titled this post differently. You are correct, true LVM (incels) are in even worse shape than before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 05:57 PM |
| -3 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]I will agree that each end of the spectrum has become more extreme. The incels are in worse shape than before (if you can even imagine that) and top tier men have access now, even though their access was virtually unlimited before. But I think the “average” guy has more relationship power than ever before. Because he can replace what was once irreplaceable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Believe me, I’m definitely on board with the movement. It’s benefitted me tremendously as a modern man. But for any woman who’s sought out commitment, it’s a net negative. Most guys aren’t waiting for sex anymore. And guys that can keep their jealous egos in check, they’ve won. In the words of Patrice when someone tried to warn him that he better treat his girl right or she’d fuck someone else: “I don’t give a fuck who she fucks.. why would I care about what she can give away for free??” The mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 05:50 PM |
| -5 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]Of course the financial aspects of feminism are a net positive, for everyone actually, not just women. However, it doesn’t change the fact that sexual liberation made many women sexually available to many more men. Men are much less threatened by a woman leaving now. She can be replaced. This has always been true for women. But now that it is true for more men, commitment will become a harder and harder thing for women to find. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 05:44 PM |
| -2 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]But it’s no longer reserved for high value men. Many more men have options these days. Maybe not all men crush it at OLD, but any decent guy who isn’t awkward can sleep with multiple women. This wasn’t true 30-40 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 05:37 PM |
| 20 | Why are single women happier than married women? If so, why do women even bother with men?I hear this claim spouted as truth also. Women here act like dick on demand + self supportive income = no use for men anymore. But companionship will never die. Look around… I know it’s anecdotal, but the women who are past their ‘fun stage’ in life are the ones looking to lock a relationship down. It’s hardly men (maybe LVM who have to rely on a relationship to get sporadic sex). Love is still a powerful idea that many women (and men) hold on to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 02:40 AM |
| 23 | Has anyone seen Sex/Life on Netflix? It seems to incorporate many issues discussed on PPD.Seeing how so many women are obsessed with this show, it really just kind of backs up what TRP has always said doesn’t it? Of course it’s dramatization and life is never black and white. But, there is a fundamental truth to the the feelings Billie has, and that many women share. Listen to what they do, not what they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Male Sexlessness Problem: Is It Still Personality That's The Problem?Lol, Dan B literally has thousands of women in his DMs. Not prostitutes. He posts about them regularly. And Von De Carlo was far out of Patrice’s league in looks alone and was bringing early 20s females home to him for threesomes. You can’t be serious that you think status isn’t the number one attracting trait in a male. Look at any old creepy politician, movie producer or tech mogul. Not all choose bimbos, but all have the option to (which 99% of men don’t have). Whatever helps you sleep at nig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Male Sexlessness Problem: Is It Still Personality That's The Problem?Dan Bilzerian is 5’9”. Patrice O’Neal was north of 300 lbs. Men are much pickier in physicality alone. Yes, women appreciate looks… But, status, confidence and personality go even further than looks for many women (things that would hardly have the slightest impact on a man being attracted to a woman). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 05:46 AM |
| 5 | Most women don't have "different standards for different men". There's different standards for hookups and different standards for relationships.Water is wet lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 01:55 AM |
| 6 | CMV: It's not fair, but a man that "just gets it" is going to be a far better lover than a guy that has to be told what to doDefinitely true as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 11:40 PM |
| 19 | CMV: It's not fair, but a man that "just gets it" is going to be a far better lover than a guy that has to be told what to doEh, maybe. But I believe it to be the opposite. High N count men generally aren’t that great, because well, they don’t have to be. It’s always “on to the next one”. They’ll always get theirs. Every promiscuous girl I’ve been with has the same complaint: guys who get laid easy are quick to stick it in, and wanna go to pound town right away, and somehow they think that’s what every woman wants. They have no clue how to read a woman’s reaction, how to adjust technique etc… Some guys get it, some gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 11:35 PM |
| 35 | Can Someone Explain Why Women Are So Hellbent On Deflecting Responsibility?Goddamn, this answer is probably one of the best responses I’ve seen on askTRP in a long time. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 03:47 AM |
| 6 | Girlfriend thinks I’d move on quick after breaking upPatrice had a caller ask a similar question over a decade ago, and his response was “Great, that’s fantastic.” She knows you’d have no problem replacing her. That’s right where you need to be. Sure, I guess she might be projecting, but it’s much more likely that her insecurity around you will forever keep her from leaving you. It’s up to you if you want to put up with it or not. “As long as you will righteously leave, she will righteously stay.” | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Good friend dating my old plateI agree. Flip side though, might be a good time for OP to prove his RP points and show him (AWALT). Either way though, OP can’t go wrong. He did his part, and can continue on his RP path without consequence. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 04:31 AM |
| 5 | How do you match with HBs on tinder and others apps?No, he automatically eliminated attractive women that may have different political views than him via his virtue signaling. Please don’t forget that TRP is amoral, but also apolitical. If he wants to be BP and find “connection”, then he should stop asking for advice on TRP where the goal is to improve one self and have plates (not moralize). | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 04:07 AM |
| 4 | How do you match with HBs on tinder and others apps?You’re completely missing the point. Whether vaccines are effective or essential is completely irrelevant to this man’s dating profile (from a red pill POV). TRP is amoral, but also, apolitical. The virtue signaling automatically eliminated attractive women that may view politics differently than him. If he wants to make a “connection” with some “like minded girls” (BP as fuck), fine. If he wants to make the most of meeting attractive women, he failed (among many other things). | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 03:38 AM |
| 14 | Dear Michael from Toronto…you need to stop.cries in lack of online validation | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 06:53 PM |
| 14 | Dear Michael from Toronto…you need to stop.Sexed | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Sex just isnt worth as much as some of you think it isNo, this is what YOU perceive people want. The reality is though, there are many high value men who don’t desire deep relationship and really enjoy frivolous sex. Sex, and sex alone, is very meaningful to many men. Women have a hard time grasping this because sex is free to them, and generally not as pleasurable (in comparison to a man orgasming almost every single time). Once I understood that sex is to men what attention and time is to women, it clicked. Generally speaking, inter gender intera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 09:34 PM |
| 2 | NY MAG - Women Are Now Cheating As Much As Men, But With Fewer ConsequencesBut your original comment was that men overwhelmingly benefit from marriage (which isn’t true, only a correlation) and that women are the ones who are often just “maids” or “sex toys”. And the typical FDS/feminist POV in relation to this is that women are better off single, can take care of themselves and can love sex, just like men. Right? So my response still stands, women should stop getting into relationships then. Let us all enjoy the commitment free company we seek and we will all be bette… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 09:37 PM |
| 2 | NY MAG - Women Are Now Cheating As Much As Men, But With Fewer ConsequencesThat’s what I meant though, regardless of “marriage”. Let’s get the rest of women on board with commitment free relationships. Believe me, we’d much prefer that. And, women wouldn’t bear the unequal burden of LTRs or cohabitating. Sounds like a win-win to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 07:38 PM |
| 2 | NY MAG - Women Are Now Cheating As Much As Men, But With Fewer ConsequencesAwesome! So then please spread this message, and let’s get the rest of the female population on board with a marriage free lifestyle! Us men would be much happier. Unfortunately though, women are usually the ones pressing men on the issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 06:10 PM |
| 6 | There is no such thing as a “High Value Woman (HVW)”But even with “power couples”, she almost always more objectively attractive than the HVM she married. What she brought to the table was merely a bonus, not why he chose her in the first place. The same is almost never true in reverse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?It’s not effective dating strategy because, if it is what you say it is, it’s mostly avoiding dating and promotes independence... there’s nothing wrong with that. However, it’s essentially WGTOW then. It doesn’t promote how to successfully date, only how to avoid shitty ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?Then it’s not an effective dating strategy. It’s WGTOW | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?While I still believe TRP is more successful than FDS in terms of achieving their desired goals, your comment is probably the one I can understand and align with the most. I do agree with much of what you’ve said, and that’s a very good point to bring up that both subs are likely to have members that only improve certain aspects and don’t achieve the absolute desired outcome (probably most members actually). And while I still don’t think FDS is actually doing any good helping women lock down a H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?But TRP has nothing to do with finding a fulfilling relationship. Most guys there don’t even want that. And you are correct about FDS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?Absolutely, I agree that women should NOT accept bad treatment from men. And you’re correct, women would be better off being single than in a shitty relationship. But the very nature of it being a “dating strategy” sub implies that they understand that being with a HVM is better than being single. But these women are mostly upset because men want to pump and dump them, aka being “fuckzoned”. Very similar to a man being “friendzoned”. Essentially, I see this sub as a female equivalent to a ‘5 let… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?Sure. But it’s not majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?Yes, that could very well be the case. I am just referring to the actual content posted in the sub from its users. It could be the case also that FDS works very well, but that the only people posting are the ones it hasn’t worked for. But that seems unlikely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?Of course not. There is no sub that is 100% this or that. But in general, TRP is filled with posts about what worked for them and their experience. FDS is mainly filled with posts about what should work for them, but in reality they are still searching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?It makes perfect sense.. because it works men share their success of improving their lives. If FDS worked in the sense of finding their HVM and locking him down, the sub wouldn’t be filled with women who are still searching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?It’s not. It’s toolbox. Use it or don’t, but it’s a series of steps to take to “improve” your life. It’s no more a belief system than FDS is a belief system. They’re both strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?That’s a false equivalence. That’s a belief system not a strategy forum. There is nothing that Scientologists, or even Christians for that matter, can do to become objectively “better” at it. Only what they believe to be better. If an RP man wants to physically increase his N count or make more money, there are tools within TRP that help him objectively achieve those things. No, the level of success will not be equal for all. But many within the community find some sort of success within their l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?Apologies mods, I didn’t realize I actually had a moderately strong opinion about this until I started replying to comments. This should probably be a CMV flair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?True. However, being alone is still far less beneficial for a woman than being with a HVM, which is exactly why it is a dating strategy sub to begin with. They know this, and it is evident, otherwise it would just be WGTOW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?Great analysis and point of view that I hadn’t really considered before. In my personal opinion, males have much more control over their value than females (as you eluded to) which is where I believe FDS falls short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?No. However it can be assumed that most of FDS is still searching, otherwise there would not be a forum. And TRP success has nothing to do with being single. Some vet and hunt for LTRs but many enjoy being single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 11:29 PM |
| 6 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?Haha, well I actually have to agree with you there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:50 PM |
| 7 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?Well the burden of proof would be on the FDS members who have actually attained their goal. I don’t see much of that at all there. It’s what they think should work based on the standards they’ve set for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?No, not everyone would implement TRP because it takes serious self reflection and hard work. Most people will just write it off as bullshit. As for FDS, why would it exist at all if it’s members were landing the high value men they were trying to attain? Maybe I need to dive in more... but there isn’t much of the “this is what worked for me” strategy there. It’s more like “this is what I believe to work” strategy.... aka, I’m still single, searching and vetting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?Fair point. That could be true. But it seems to be highly effective in that particular subset then. I would expect the “former RP” (detox or whatever else they’re called) subs to be more popular if it’s ineffectiveness was widespread though. It seems the guys who stumble across it and implement it don’t generally turn back. They calm down at some point, but never “spit the pill back up” so to speak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?Well this is definitely true in general. But in this particular case, one has proven itself to be effective (excluding mass lying) and one really has proven it’s ineffectiveness simply by existing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:36 PM |
| 19 | People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature".I think only women think dating apps are for hookups because that's their experience, hook up w/ a hot guy fuck him and leave. This is accurate. Women get pumped and dumped on Tinder and Bumble by dudes WAY out of their league because they are picky, then come to the conclusion that these are just hookup apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 02:40 PM |
| 1 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?Yeah, unfortunately he passed away at the start of all this insane deplatforming in 2011. He definitely would have been under fire these days. If you can find The Black Phillip show either on YouTube or Spotify (in the Patrice O’Neal archives) that’s where the gold is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 11:56 PM |
| 1 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?That’s why I enjoy Patrice’s method. It’s not their fault. It’s ours. It’s on us to explain to them what value we bring and what value they bring, outside of their vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 09:19 PM |
| 2 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?Man ain’t that the truth. I realize I’m under 6ft, but I’m 195 with slightly visible abs and blue eyes. Like damn woman..... it’s borderline offensive. Just goes to show the relation between the power of the pussy and their ego inflation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 09:01 PM |
| 2 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?Absolutely. But any ugly dude who thinks his road to getting laid is going to be easy, is better off just joining MGTOW | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 08:28 PM |
| 1 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?Exactly. I don’t know that every man needs to be as savage as he was. I’m certainly not. But the concepts he laid out definitely need to be ingrained in our minds. Basically, not putting anyone up on a pedestal. I think life long attractive men haven’t had to put the thought into any of this. They’re much closer to having the personality of a woman than we realize (i.e. tender ego, using attractiveness to get what they want etc.). Patrice’s theories, when appropriately implemented, virtually eli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 08:02 PM |
| 2 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?True. But most of want to learn how to attract the women we want. Not settle. I have fat girls in my DMs all day, but I never even give it a second glance because it’s not what I want. And yes, he would go after the big girls. But his LTR, Von Decarlo, was beautiful, and brought girls like her, home to him for threesomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:52 PM |
| 4 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?Tall? Sure. But most ugly tall dudes still aren’t getting anywhere near the vagina they want. And he was doing this before he was “famous”, which is a stretch in of itself. He was B list at best, even by comedian standards. He was morbidly obese and conventionally very unattractive. His personality (which also led to his status), is what ended up getting him women. He talks about how he acted when he was younger and how everything was “field research” for him. He and Dante Nero go deep into this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:44 PM |
| 6 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?Patrice O’Neal /thread The problem is, most ugly will never have the charisma, confidence or anything else it takes to attract a woman because, well.... they’re ugly. Can they? Absolutely. Because women are not attracted to all the same things men are attracted to. Do they? Absolutely not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Can't understand why women would tolerate lower than perfectSo, if I’m understanding you correctly, since there’s always someone who has more “alpha” qualities than you (and that is true for EVERY male on the planet), then why bother getting laid? Hey man... you do you. But I’m going to keep enjoying my turns. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Can't understand why women would tolerate lower than perfectBecause there are fewer high value men than there are hot women. Most decent girls can get plated by a high SMV dude. But most can’t get the commitment from them. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. But men (high value men in particular) are the gate keepers of relationships. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Should I reach out to ex-wife’s new boyfriend who lives with my daughter? She’s been insistent about us not meeting.Thank you. I sent a respectful (even friendly) message to him last night. I never heard back. So I guess I have my answer. I never thought about the custody adjustment. I will have to look into that. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Should I reach out to ex-wife’s new boyfriend who lives with my daughter? She’s been insistent about us not meeting.She’s psycho in the sense of being verbally dramatic when gets defensive. But that’s every woman. However, it is unlikely she would take action against me physically or legally just for showing up. He doesn’t come to the door as it is now when I show up. And I don’t think he’s scared (although he might be), I just think he’s just obeying her “wishes”, aka demands. The other night, a gf of mine came with me to drop off my daughter (she’s been amused by this whole thing of course, as women are ent… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Should I reach out to ex-wife’s new boyfriend who lives with my daughter? She’s been insistent about us not meeting.Thank you. I agree with everything you’ve said. Crazy thing is, it truly does not bother me that my daughter has grown attached to him. She knows I will care and provide for her. I have no problem being friends with the guy. But even if that doesn’t happen, I’d at least like to know him. I will likely reach out later this evening. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Is Black Pill full of shit?Hey man, if you want to live with your head in the sand, it doesn’t affect me. Live your life as you please. What am I supposed to do? Create a thread of the nudes I receive and the chicks I fuck, then create a step by step breakdown for you with a car salesmen’s title like “this can be you today! Call now!”? The fuck? You need to put the work in. That’s all there is to it. Do you think we come here sharing our stories and TRP knowledge just to fantasize about something we can’t achieve? No. We … | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Is Black Pill full of shit?Yes, there are red pill ways to get laid. We know that here. That doesn’t negate that looks matter. It’s only one facet of black pill this IS correct. Dudes who won the genetic lottery will get laid. Red pill or not. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Is Black Pill full of shit?What? I was pointing out that black pill does have SOME truths to it, only in the sense that looks do matter. But it’s not the only thing that matters. Women are never going to stop wanting to fuck the tall, good looking guy with good genes. No matter how “alpha” you think you are or how “beta” he might be to you. But black pill as a whole is defeatist, because they think there’s nothing they can do to overcome the genetic lottery. This is false. We, as RP’ers, know that if we put the work into … | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 06:54 PM |
| 4 | Is Black Pill full of shit?IMO, black pill is defeatist and for pussies with no frame and who don’t want to do the work. With that being said, if you think Mr. 5’8” with all the confidence in the world, is going to make his chicks pussy any less wet for 6’4” lean Chad with blue eyes (no matter how BP he is), you’re out of your goddamn mind. Chicks like to fuck hot guys. Wow, shocker. But it’s not the ONLY thing that matters. What sets us RPers apart is frame. That’s why it comes before anything else. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/21 03:25 PM |
| 4 | What non-physical aspects do you value in women?/thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 09:32 PM |
| 2 | What’s your guys take on Trenbolone?(AAS)Anytime. Be safe! | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 05:01 PM |
| 3 | What’s your guys take on Trenbolone?(AAS)They definitely have an impact on how you think. But if you’re able step back, take a breath and remind yourself that you’re taking mind altering narcotics, you can control your mind a little more. Haha As for the EQ, I mainly threw it in because I was in great cardiovascular shape before this cycle (mountain running) and I was hoping it might help offset the dreaded cardio killer that Tren is. Honestly, EQ is somewhat mild in comparison. Tren is the real anabolic. EQ pumps are pretty ridiculous… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 04:36 PM |
| 5 | What’s your guys take on Trenbolone?(AAS)On it right now. 16 week cycle stacked with Sustanon and Boldenone U/EQ. Physically it’s incredible. But as you’ve mentioned, it does change who you are and people need to understand that these things shouldn’t be taken lightly or without prior knowledge and research. Physical side effects aside (which I am lucky enough have none of), the mental sides can destroy relationships and friendships. I’d say the average TRPer should focus on everything else first honestly. With all that being said thou… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 03:58 PM |
| 6 | Just "dumped" plate. Is her respone what you call a beta bait?For me, it would be a simple “Thanks”. The hamster will go nuts cuz you’re not responding to her bait, and you won’t seem butthurt at all. Although, I’m not sure it really matters. If you’re done with her, leave her behind. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 06:29 PM |
| 3 | What are some real ways men can feel they have greater success with women that doesn't involve women changing?tren has entered the chat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/20 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Doubt but no proof“When there is doubt, there is no doubt.” | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 09:41 PM |
| 3 | A 7 or below asks wants you to go down on her, how do you refuse?Exactly. If my mouth ain’t going there, my dick ain’t either. What kinda fucked up scale puts this kinda vagina at a 7? That’s an automatic 5 or below, regardless of face. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 09:37 PM |
| 2 | What in the ever-living fuck am I doing wrong?I disagree. There’s definitely different kinds of opinions regarding good looking. If it’s Aunt Mae and moms best friend Karen telling you you’re handsome from 12 to 18 years old, that’s a far cry from college peers telling you you’re a good looking guy. That’s all I was getting at. I agree with the rest of your statement if he is attractive though. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 12:50 AM |
| 28 | What in the ever-living fuck am I doing wrong?I suspect more it’s like “moms friends told me I was very handsome growing up”. Definitely doesn’t equate to “that college chick over there told me she would fuck me”. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 12:17 AM |
| 1 | BeginnerWas just gonna say... sidebar, if he doesn’t get banned first for the question alone lol | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 09:48 AM |
| 1 | LTR getting lazyWhatever the question... dread is the answer! | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 10:02 PM |
| 5 | Ltr DMing guys behind my back. What to do?Never fails | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 08:02 PM |
| 7 | How to control frame during a phone call with a girl when you're talking random things?You need to seem busier. No ambitious, high value man has time to be sitting on the phone with one woman listening to her feelings. They can sense this too. Ask them to tell you about it over dinner/drinks etc. You don’t have time at the moment, because you’ve got other things you need to do. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 02:46 PM |
| 3 | What is the best exercise to become physically and mentally alpha?There’s no universal path on this one. I will say, try a bunch of physically demanding activities and find what YOU enjoy. I’ve been powerlifting (when our gyms were open), then found out I really enjoyed hiking, then mountaineering. Maybe you will be into cycling? CrossFit? Long distance running? Swimming? You’ll never know until you try. So mix it up a ton right now and find something that you gravitate towards. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 02:41 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys fight emotional investment?I’m no longer emotional about them. Purely pragmatic when it comes to them. As odd as it sounds, I’m happy because I’m cold with chicks. I save my emotions for cool shit, like physical accomplishments or earning and taking a vacation etc. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 02:23 PM |
| 4 | Worst blue / beta movies discussionRUMOR HAS IT with Jennifer Anniston, Kevin Costner and Mark Ruffalo. Was just thinking of this the other day.. and by far the one that sticks out in my head as straight up simp glorification. Costner plays a rich dude who fucks Grandma, Mom AND daughter. All of them were affairs, and all the husbands are made to seem like heroes for taking them back. Straight up AF/BB glorification. I saw it in high school and forgot about it. Then saw it again after TRP exposure years ago, and I was blown away … | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 06:27 PM |
| 2 | There are a ton of completely obvious BP behaviors (taking ex back after cheating, being possessive, being a doormat), but what are some more subtle ones?That is certainly an aspect of mate guarding. However, in my opinion, it’s pretty much any action that screams “I’m insecure about you stealing her away from me.” | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 01:09 AM |
| 1 | There are a ton of completely obvious BP behaviors (taking ex back after cheating, being possessive, being a doormat), but what are some more subtle ones?I believe it. I’m sure many of us have seen it with our own eyes! | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 11:10 PM |
| 2 | There are a ton of completely obvious BP behaviors (taking ex back after cheating, being possessive, being a doormat), but what are some more subtle ones?Lol wut? It’s the definition of mate guarding. Two sides of the very same coin. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 08:45 PM |
| 34 | There are a ton of completely obvious BP behaviors (taking ex back after cheating, being possessive, being a doormat), but what are some more subtle ones?Of course. A man should give his girl a chance to shut it down. A good vetting opportunity. If she doesn’t, she just did him a favor by letting him see. If she does, great. If other guy walks away, no harm done. If he doesn’t, time to assess the situation appropriately and take action. However, that’s not what I’m referring to. I’m referring to the countless “macho” guys that are ready to throw hands for a guy even trying to say hi to his girl, or even worse, just checking her out. They have no … | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 08:33 PM |
| 60 | There are a ton of completely obvious BP behaviors (taking ex back after cheating, being possessive, being a doormat), but what are some more subtle ones?Mate guarding. Too many guys who think they’re “alpha” haven’t figured this one out yet. True abundance = frame. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 06:56 PM |
| 6 | need your opinion brothers, recently nothing brings joy and i feel like a robotYou need a purpose man. Find something you love, learn it, master it and produce results. Happiness does not come from reward.. it comes from progress. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Not to be reductionist, but does it really all come down to frame?Yes. I’ll nitpick certain small aspects of the Rational Male I may not 100% agree with. However Rollo’s Iron Rules are spot on and there is very good reason why this is #1. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 02:39 PM |
| 15 | In case you were still entertaining the idea of being monogamous/marrying and why it’s so important to spin plates.Good post. This was one topic I think fell on deaf ears with a portion of TRP community. Rollo had it right though. We should always be prepared for AWALT actions. It doesn’t mean we need to cheat and fuck plates while in an LTR. But, abundance mentality must be maintained. And, if she senses this too? Boom... Dread/Competition anxiety. Two birds, one stone. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/20 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Would you next your girl if she posted a pic on insta of her sitting on a stripper dudes lap at chip and dales?Sad to see, but the only thing you can do is worry about yourself brother. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Would you next your girl if she posted a pic on insta of her sitting on a stripper dudes lap at chip and dales?Plate? Dgaf LTR? Holy shit that’s a hard next. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | For you RP’ers out there, how many of you follow your morality? (Q4RP)My favorite response so far. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 04:27 AM |
| 2 | For you RP’ers out there, how many of you follow your morality? (Q4RP)Ah okay, I see where you’re coming from. All valid points for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 04:06 AM |
| 1 | For you RP’ers out there, how many of you follow your morality? (Q4RP)Woahhhh lol, I never said I thought the blue pill shit was better. Not even close. The resentment comes from being brainwashed with the feminine imperative by these same females as they get older and raise kids. I want boys and young men to be red pilled as teenagers, so that they don’t have to go what some of us go through in early marriages and relationships and things like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 03:38 AM |
| 1 | For you RP’ers out there, how many of you follow your morality? (Q4RP)Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 01:48 AM |
| 1 | For you RP’ers out there, how many of you follow your morality? (Q4RP)Amoral doesn’t mean wrong. It means it’s lacks any concern for right or wrong. It’s objective, not subjective to opinion. In the same way atheism means lacking theism. But the rest of your post is understandable. I know many men chose this route. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | For you RP’ers out there, how many of you follow your morality? (Q4RP)I definitely understand it’s ridiculous to be upset with the way the world operates. But this is why I’m so adamant about young men/boys learning this stuff early. Flipping your world upside down after a failed marriage at 29 years old because the world isn’t the way you were taught definitely causes some resentment. No, not guilt. More like having a grudge against these chicks because TRP worked and it’s apparent that ANY woman has the ability to be this way with the RIGHT man. My brain says “y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 12:08 AM |
| 1 | For you RP’ers out there, how many of you follow your morality? (Q4RP)Haha. I know they’re out there! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 11:47 PM |
| 0 | For you RP’ers out there, how many of you follow your morality? (Q4RP)So... Red Pill. Not sure we’re disagreeing on anything really. I know the way. But getting there is a completely different animal. I’m still in a slight rage phase because I wish the world was different.. even fucked chicks / used them out of spite (or maybe some twisted form of payback for them simply being hypergamous). That’s what I meant by internalizing has been difficult. I can never go back to blue. But being calm about being red isn’t easy at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 11:45 PM |
| 1 | For you RP’ers out there, how many of you follow your morality? (Q4RP)I agree with the first part. That it’s possible.. but not that all are going to be malevolent. And there’s nothing wrong with her loving a man opportunistically. I just wish it wasn’t that way. If it’s in her best interest, that’s fair. But it’s also fair for a man to expect a woman to maintain her SMV to suit his best interest (aka the woman who gains 50 lbs in her LTR shouldn’t be upset when her partner doesn’t express the same attraction and love towards her). These things are amoral, not bad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | For you RP’ers out there, how many of you follow your morality? (Q4RP)AWALT mainly. It’s hard when you start digging someone, but have to step back and realize a woman will never love a man the way he wants to be loved. She will love him opportunistically and the man must continue to improve and/or be her best option. I lift consistently and can and do spin plates at times, but a part of me still wants the blue pilled movie relationship, even though it’s a fallacy. But, my mentality is pretty much the same as yours otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 09:51 PM |
| 1 | For you RP’ers out there, how many of you follow your morality? (Q4RP)that’s a good distinction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 08:23 PM |
| 2 | For you RP’ers out there, how many of you follow your morality? (Q4RP)I tend to believe “if it’s not me, it’s someone else” also. And I’ve done it before, unfortunately. But don’t you feel any guilt for the other guy in that situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 08:08 PM |
| 3 | For you RP’ers out there, how many of you follow your morality? (Q4RP)Great analogy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 08:04 PM |
| 4 | Trp has depressed me!Definitely. But it’s more than just a distraction. The feeling of progress and accomplishment over time will reshape your mindset and life. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Abundance not helping with oneitis after discovering she’s an alpha widow. Advice please.Currently doing this. Having a hard time squashing the “feelings” though. or whatever the fuck you wanna call it. Gay I know.... If I can stop giving a fuck soon, I’ll maintain. But a cut off might be in order if I can’t. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Trp has depressed me!Lift | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Abundance not helping with oneitis after discovering she’s an alpha widow. Advice please.Got it. Won’t attempt to drop to plate status. I’ll cut her off | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Abundance not helping with oneitis after discovering she’s an alpha widow. Advice please.Understood. Im definitely not a beta provider in terms of finances for her. I do ok, but she could easily find a dude to fill that void if needed. We split things evenly most times when it comes to going out or doing things. But sometimes I do feel like I’ve become the emotional support version of BB for her. This is my concern. We still fuck plenty, which is why I’m hesitant to take the route of cutting her off. What you’ve said regarding confidence though, it’s been noted. I’ll look more intro… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Abundance not helping with oneitis after discovering she’s an alpha widow. Advice please.Definitely stopped the LTR attempt about 6 months ago, and wouldn’t even accept now if she wanted to. Trying to downgrade to plate hasn’t helped much. Should I cut her off? | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Abundance not helping with oneitis after discovering she’s an alpha widow. Advice please.Definitely. Keeping my head on straight and continuing to work on my shit. You’re right, this will pass. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 05:09 PM |
| 9 | Abundance not helping with oneitis after discovering she’s an alpha widow. Advice please.Fuck, you’re right. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 05:05 PM |
| 14 | Sex/female attention is NOT the be all end all for men. Men who get a lot of sex can be just as, even more so, depressed than men who don’t.I agree with your second half. But to be fair, TRP (at least the way it used to be taught) was all about self improvement, so that you can get laid so that you realize it’s NOT the end all, be all. And it’s 100% true. I was dying for sex in my dead bedroom marriage. Thought it would fix everything. After my divorce, I turned everything around in my life and now I could give two shits if I get laid on the regular, because now I’ve proven to myself it’s completely available if I’m feeling the need… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 05:00 AM |
| 21 | [CMV] The majority of women are not principled, they chose what benefits them the mostYou can make that argument for everything, but it is not bullshit. There is no such thing as a selfless act. Not a single thing anyone does is selfless. It’s the world we live in and is not based on sex/gender. The only two types of people in this world are the ones who accept this, and the ones who don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | 80/20 is echo chamber nonsense. Average men don’t have a huge problem getting laid.Not exactly though.. it’s more like saying: “I don’t understand how so many people can claim to make no money at all, just because rich people have the most money.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 02:37 AM |
| 3 | 80/20 is echo chamber nonsense. Average men don’t have a huge problem getting laid.This is true. However, everyone as a whole is having less sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 01:45 AM |
| 2 | 80/20 is echo chamber nonsense. Average men don’t have a huge problem getting laid.“The fact that you mentioned those women's careers (which is completely irrelevant to her SMV) but didn't day anything about their appearance is a pretty solid tell that they are fat and/or ugly. Probably post-wall too. BTW two out of the three career examples you gave (nurse and teacher) are notorious for being mostly low quality but easy girls.” Nope. I should have mentioned that their looks are relatively in line with their male counterparts. If the dude is pretty decent looking, so is she. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 11:50 PM |
| 2 | 80/20 is echo chamber nonsense. Average men don’t have a huge problem getting laid.Maybe I’m misunderstanding 80/20 then. I thought it was claiming that 80% of women are only attracted to the top 20% of men and the rest are virtually invisible to them, regardless of relationship status. But after reading around certain threads and seeing “studies” or “surveys” claiming certain percentages of men that haven’t had sex in over a year and some, over 5 years. I can’t recall the exact percentages, but they were surprisingly high, and I just don’t buy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 11:40 PM |
| 5 | 80/20 is echo chamber nonsense. Average men don’t have a huge problem getting laid.Jesus..... the bar for being a Chad must be pretty low around here. If only the real world worked like Reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 08:24 PM |
| 6 | 80/20 is echo chamber nonsense. Average men don’t have a huge problem getting laid.I completely understand and agree with AF/BB. However, it doesn’t change the fact that most dudes can get laid if they want. Even if it means being Darren Silverman aka the purest form of beta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 08:19 PM |
| 9 | What are your predictions for sex and gender issues in the 2020s?I agree with all of this. But your first paragraph hit the nail on the head. Sadly, monogamous relationships aren’t going to be any easier for anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 07:15 AM |
| 2 | If the poly/hyper traits in men and women are biological truths, why are they such tough pills to swallow for so many? Would the world be a better place if we all played by those rules instead of society’s?I feel like I can’t read this and not at least reply for the amount of effort in this comment. Thank you. I mostly agree. Everything is and will be fine, for the most part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/19 04:26 AM |
| 1 | If the poly/hyper traits in men and women are biological truths, why are they such tough pills to swallow for so many? Would the world be a better place if we all played by those rules instead of society’s?I’m not sure it’s that apparent though. Check out many of the other comments on this post alone. People don’t exactly welcome this type of change with open arms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 02:03 AM |
| 2 | If the poly/hyper traits in men and women are biological truths, why are they such tough pills to swallow for so many? Would the world be a better place if we all played by those rules instead of society’s?I get what you’re saying. But I’m not talking about a tyrannical rule over the pussy, so to speak. Something tells me the women you’re referring to don’t have much of a choice. That isn’t sexual selection. I’m talking about our society as a whole being more transparent about their sexual preferences. Males and females don’t want to stop fucking other people just because they’re in their relationships. They do this because they’ve been taught that it’s morally correct to stay loyal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 01:32 AM |
| 1 | If the poly/hyper traits in men and women are biological truths, why are they such tough pills to swallow for so many? Would the world be a better place if we all played by those rules instead of society’s?I agree with you. And I don’t want to live in that society either. My thought was just that if it’s going to happen regardless, I believe we could function much more efficiently without the distractions and/or expectations of a mono relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 01:05 AM |
| 2 | If the poly/hyper traits in men and women are biological truths, why are they such tough pills to swallow for so many? Would the world be a better place if we all played by those rules instead of society’s?Hm maybe I’m backwards then. I would absolutely compete for women. Even more so than I already do. And it’s not like 100% of women would be fucking only the top 1% of men. People of similar statuses would still be getting laid. Idk that it would be that much different than it already is now that I think about it. Just more honesty about it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 01:03 AM |
| 1 | If the poly/hyper traits in men and women are biological truths, why are they such tough pills to swallow for so many? Would the world be a better place if we all played by those rules instead of society’s?I agree. The two are different. At least for humans. But why isn’t procreating the fittest offspring best for our society? Not trying to argue.. I’m just genuinely curious why or when, we as humans, decided that we needed to stray from our strongest survival instincts in order to be civil. I’m not sure society would cease to be civil if we had hierarchies that were abundantly clear to everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 12:11 AM |
| 2 | If the poly/hyper traits in men and women are biological truths, why are they such tough pills to swallow for so many? Would the world be a better place if we all played by those rules instead of society’s?I understand that. And I think I may have been misleading in my post. I do NOT want this (with whatever shred of hope I have left for relationships). But after reading around, and becoming somewhat red-pilled myself after years of living in fantasy land, it seems like this would a logical approach. Let the best have the best, mediocre have mediocre, and kindly say sorry to everyone else. Survival of the fittest. That’s why we’re here. I mean, isn’t it already happening anyway? People cheat in dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Considering the topic of crying comes up a lot, what's your perspective on women crying?I thought I was the only one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Are alphas bad in bed? Or, are betas having more casual sex?This is awesome and I hope it works out for you guys.. However, I do wonder if this situation is always sustainable. There are so many stories of men becoming "betafied" over time which eventually leads to sexual and even marital problems. There's a delicate balance, I agree. But how does a man maintain that forever? The pessimist in me believes every relationship has an expiration date because of this. Bluntly, women want the alpha asshole, and then want to lock him down. If they can't, they'll… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Are alphas bad in bed? Or, are betas having more casual sex?I don't at all lol More just making a point about self proclaimed sex gods that seem to wander the RP world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Are alphas bad in bed? Or, are betas having more casual sex?I agree with this. There are definitely different types of alphas out there. Especially among those who are self proclaimed. I'd even go as far as to say that some "alphas" or "chads" aren't anywhere close to even being red pilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Are alphas bad in bed? Or, are betas having more casual sex?Never really thought about this perspective. Admittedly, most of the people in general I've talked to about casual sex were past a "phase" of some sort and most of their experiences were younger/ college aged. I could see how that would be a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 12:46 AM |
| 6 | Are alphas bad in bed? Or, are betas having more casual sex?I tend to agree with you. Whatever a 'Chad' might to be to some women, I dont think it is for all of them. As a matter of fact, I'd venture to say it's probably not even close to what most people think it is. I guess that's where I was going with this post. One of my few disagreements with RP ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 12:40 AM |
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