So ..super long story short I've been with my GF for a little over 2years ,both in our mid-20s. I met her during college and we eventually got together after college. Shes clingy and insecure but really attractive and the sex is plentiful and pretty great.

I kindof knew about her past before getting with her and have gotten some more details after getting with her. Im supposedly the 8th guy shes slept wiith (her words so take it with a grain of salt) . To some that may be a little to some it may be alot. What makes this bad for me in particular is i know at least 5-6 of them since they went to our school. I can put names and faces on these guys instead of just writing them off as random dudes I don't know. These weren't boyfriends they were flings lasting no longer than a few months if that.

Now in general the relationship is ok but I can't seem to get the images out of my head and its fucking with me, especially the circumstances knokwing that she was just a plate to most of these guys etc etc ICantDealWithHerPast.jpg same sad story everyone has heard before. Even typing this I feel pathetic for feeling the way I do about since I was active before getting with her too.

What I cant figure out though is what is the RP response to this...

  1. Nexting her and moving on because she doesn't please me and then not getting so emotional invested in the next few girls.

  2. Dealing and accepting it since it could be worse.

I feel on one hand I'm just kind of being a bitch by feeling all messed up about it but I feel like I can't control how I feel about it and if I could I would. I imagine that there are some symptoms of oneitis. I've been with girls with worse histories but I was never so emotionally invested so I just didn't care.

I appreciate any perspectives.