I'm a 29 male dating for over a year a 29 female, i've been feeling like im losing control of the relationship. Since her aunt died she's becoming less responsive to me , not answering my calls or returning them back or even sendign a text telling me she can't talk right now. I'm thinking about soft nexting her, but i don't really want to focus on girls right now so i was thinking about soft nexting her to enter monkmode. do you whink that would work?

I want to focus on my self right now, and improve as much as i can. Ii really don't want to think about meeting other girls or being with mt ltr since i tend to lose sight of everything else when im focusing with girls, i wouid rather improve myself so that girls become a biproduct and not the goal.

Anyone got any suggestions on what to improve or have some kind of plan of themselves that they want to share? What i'm doing right now: strongman trainning 4 days a week I'm reading a lot and learning how to write I'm enrolled into government courses (Facebook adds , etc) I'm starting an hydroponic buisness in my spare time I'm looking getting a couple of interviews for a second job as i'm a salesman that works from home (and i have automatized the process via amazon, facebook and Mercadolibre (kinda like amazon but in mexico)) Was thinking about going on a roadtrip with my dual sport motorcycle to another country.

Any suggestiosn are apreciated, i really need to stop making girls a fucking priority and i really want to become the better me. pelase help me achieve this!