I'm doing great at lining up dates. I've managed to line up 10 in two weeks. I'm late twenties early thirties, have my shit together, dress nice, smart, well spoken, but I'm having trouble escalating and closing in person.

I've managed to get 3 plates out of the 10 dates, but two of my plates just came straight to the house. no date necessary. Should this be an angle to take more frequently?

I've seen some of you guys here talk about escalating the entire time when in person. Are there any better examples or resources I could read on this? Any advice?