What is the best way to escalate with college woman?

Last year I fucked up by escalated too far with one girl in my class. I went from kissing to groping to getting her top off and kissing her the same day. She was hella uncomfortable by the end of the day and ghosted me ever since. I’m extremely scared of having the same thing happen again

Yesterday i was with a girl, kind of of a slut because shes dated many guys and we kissed but she moved my hand back to her face as i tried to grope her breast over her shirt.

Ans why do some people here recommend fucking on the first date? Obviously that will never work in my case... it never worked with the girl from class. We are in a four yr program together. We do not even make eye contact anymore