I honestly don't know what the hell is going on.

I mean I get it (oneitus) but it's strange and would love some advice.

So I've got a plate that's a 7. She constantly gives me shit tests but I connect with pretty well. While I'm with her, she's really into me to the point where she's derpy trying to get my attention and is submissive to a fault in everything but sex. Sex she takes charge which annoys me.

While I'm not with her, I'm with a 9 who is just fucking sexy and I don't need to work to get her to submit in anything bedroom but can't stand her outside.

I'm also hitting up another woman on the side.

I don't disclose this but girl A gets a feeling because she gets jealous and girl B doesn't ask or care.

So normally, I ghost when I start to get side tracked but with girl A, I can't. I've tried and either I'd run into her, she's contact me or something and I'd get derailed.

I haven't been this attached since I was married and even my TRP aware friend is asking me what the fuck I'm doing.

I did take a break from lifting but started it up again and have soft nexted her but find myself missing her.

I know it's not the sex since I'm getting it elsewhere and she's got too many flags in my book for LTR.

So I'm confused as to why I'm this way.

You guys ever get this way and how do you resolve it?