Every "alpha" I know is extremely extroverted. Is that just a coincidence?

CalvinRichland · 2018-08-05T03:42:07+00:00

I am introverted but will act extroverted as needed.

RedLegendx · 2018-08-05T03:23:32+00:00

It can work, being extroverted just makes it all easier.

FearGarbhArMait · 2018-08-05T04:01:13+00:00

"Alpha" is just an idea. You are specifically talking about social dominance right now. You can be socially dominant and introverted however this is earned over a long period of merit. Being extroverted allows you to peacock, introverts don't peacock in a way that yells listen to me.

A few of my introverted brothers control their surroundings with body language with mastery, so much so I was imitating them until I was able to do the same.

Every 'personality' has a way. Just find yours.

RandomTRPan0n · 2018-08-05T04:06:57+00:00

Introvert or extrovert just necessitate different types of game.

As an introvert my game is best done in intimate settings. So my goal is to create situations in which my personality shines. Not put myself at a disadvantage.

How does it play out? I.e. if i meet a girl in a club dance floor i make an excuse to go to the lounge area and relax.

oneorigin · 2018-08-05T04:56:54+00:00

Your definition of alpha requires to be extremely extroverted, that's all. Not all people would call brainless clowns alpha.

TheTrenTrannyTrain · 2018-08-05T03:56:30+00:00

Fake it till you make it, brah.

DownyGall · 2018-08-05T05:07:13+00:00

And super extroverted people can also be very insecure betas. There’s also the stereotype of the strong silent type who aren’t exactly extroverts and are definitely alphas.

Toussant · 2018-08-05T15:22:28+00:00

I've seen quiet alphas but they have a physical presence. Shorter/smaller alphas typically have to be more extroverted.

geturcraptogether · 2018-08-05T20:34:49+00:00

As an only child I've always been extroverted. Couple that with charm and a deep voice, made shit easier (with girls, somewhat) growing up. You adjust as you grow. Now that I'm knocking on 40, it's like shootng fish in a barrel, but now being a father for half my life, I value my time.

Note to the youngins - keep living. It gets easier.

Title	Every "alpha" I know is extremely extroverted. Is that just a coincidence?
Author	TraditionalParty
Upvotes	5
Comments	11
Date	August 5, 2018 3:02 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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