I'm fairly new to the red pill and have been attempting to digest as much information as I can as quickly as possible. Unfortunately, it is all very overwhelming and taking time to completely change mindsets. However, I was wondering if some TRP experts could help me with advice for my ex.

I broke up with her about a year ago, and we had been talking on and off since. We were thinking of working on things this summer but out of nowhere she threw a curve ball and "isn't ready for anything with anyone" anymore (doubtful). I haven't exactly done the best things as I have given her too much attention since that curveball and been attempting to hangout when clearly she doesn't want to more than every now and then. Now, I'm getting closer and closer to just saying fuck it all every day, so please try not to give me the advice for that route (unless that's all there is to do). What would you all recommend to change back the power in the relationship, as I used to be extremely dominant and basically hold her in the palm of my hand when it came to doing anything.

Sorry for the beta-rant. I appreciate all of your expertise and hopefully won't have to ask dumb shit like this soon.

EDIT: For more background info - we've hung out twice this summer and fucked one of the two times. My dumbass told her the first time that I still wanted a relationship and the power switched instantly to her side (stupid).

I was her first time many many years ago.

She doesn't want to continue hanging out at my apartment b/c she is scared she will catch feelings and doesn't want a relationship right now.

She also saw me out talking to another girl and was clearly extremely jealous (tried to interrupt - called me out on it later).

If there's anything else I can add to help please lmk. Thanks.