Girl and i were moving towards exclusivity. But never got there, as I was calling her out for hanging out with another guy - however she refused there was anything sexual (BS).

Anyway, I go on a road trip with the boys over the holidays right after Christmas and we exchange texts irregularly, all the while I see she’s at this guys house on snapmaps.

New Years comes and she hits me with a simple ‘im interested in someone else, we shouldn’t see each other when you get back.’ I just say ‘okay’ and that’s that.

She later snaps me New Year’s Eve (same night), I don’t respond. Sends another saying ‘you left me on read’ and I don’t respond. She then snaps me saying she’s deleting me because looking at my pictures makes her sad. Okay, and don’t respond. Then at 3am she calls me while I’m 20 hours away from home on vacation. I didn’t know it was her since I deleted her number.

I picked up and she asked me what I was doing, and when I was back. I gave her straightforward answers but I was kind of distant and likely annoyed in my voice. Then she hung up.

How can I demote to plate status? Next steps in proceeding? It’s been strict no contact other than the brief phone call.