Gf of 5 1/2 years broke up with me about 6 months ago (I went no contact about 1 week after). We lived together for the previous 2 years. As she was the only person ive loved it was emotionally rough but im grateful for the catalyst it ended up being as I've implemented a lot of changes in my life. Right now the only improvement that is noticeable to other people is my physical self as i have been lifting/boxing/playing a lot of hockey.

Two weeks ago she texted me out of the blue and was kind of all over the place in what she was saying. She was saying things like "we used to be best friends for so long and now don't even talk, does that not make you sad?", then saying how our relationship was toxic and she needs closure and she thought talking to me would help.

I was very confused trying to analyze her motives as she broke up with me so why would she need closure from that? I basically told her "Im not sure why you feel like I can help you, it sounds like something you have to work through yourself." I was very stoic in my responses and the conversation ended when I said "If our relationship was toxic then you should be able to move on easily".

So I can get why a girl would need closure if she was broken up with, but this situation confused me as she left me to go fuck other guys.