Ex putting herself in orbit.

Mr-Blonde123 · 2021-03-28T09:39:46+00:00

She wants attention. Usually if they’ve been dumped they come back just to bait you, if you bite and she rejects you then in her mind you’ve been categorised and put into the little box in her mind that allows her closure

mortalnutshell · 2021-03-28T08:43:26+00:00

To see if you immediately get someone new, to see if you still want them, etc. Some dump you to take you back but have more control.

lifeintraining · 2021-03-28T12:11:34+00:00

She needs to feel like she’s rejected you so she can view you as an orbiter. It’s a power game, she’ll be flirty and whatnot until you start making advances then she’ll treat you like a beta.

Either that or you alpha widowed her. Had this shit happen once and was dumb enough to start fucking her. She intentionally skipped the birth control and I became a dad at 26.

The moral of the story is that neither outcome is favorable. Ignore her.

mortalnutshell · 2021-03-28T08:38:11+00:00

To add on..I am asking what is their goal in doing so?

michael1962-01 · 2021-03-28T10:52:04+00:00

Why'd you care? Thats the only question.

Efficient_Film_149 · 2021-03-28T12:59:16+00:00

The moment a relationship is over that person is dead to me. They’ll never see me again. You let her orbit

kclanton80 · 2021-03-29T19:42:22+00:00

Just to see if you will come chasing after her. DON'T!

Title	Ex putting herself in orbit.
Author	mortalnutshell
Upvotes	1
Comments	16
Date	March 28, 2021 8:36 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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