Hi gents,

I've got an issue. I'm a university student and recently ended things with a girl I was dating for 2 months.

Unfortunately things didn't end well. She called me and said she wanted nothing to do with me (ie. don't call, text me, talk to me in person ever again etc.) and I thought: ok, that's cool with me. 'Live and let live' as they say.

Having known this girl for the time I have, I have heard her chatting a lot of shit about previous ex's. She has called them 'crazy' etc and dragged their names through the mud to anyone she speaks to.

My concern now is that she will begin doing the same to me and turn mutual friends against me.

I was happy with the idea of ghosting/peacefully co-existing with her as we have overlapping friendship groups, but from her recent activity on facebook it looks like she is actively going to try to make my life difficult (No outward/obvious defamation posts so far. Currently it's covert manipulative shit on facebook events).

Would really appreciate any advice you guys can give me. How should I approach this situation?

Thanks