I am very very confused currently. About a month ago I was dating this girl for like 3 weeks - she was previously a very very good friend of mine. We broke up, she withdrew from me and hence I dumped her. She was planning to dump me too. I don't talk to her for like 2 weeks, she then asks a mutual friend of mine to tell me to speak to her. I spoke to her, and she was telling me she withdrew to see if I'd care/chase (I guess she's trying to run some form of dread game?). She suggested we started over.

Basically I told her I didn't give a shit. She starts texting my friends and whatnot and flirting with them. Some guy offered to fuck her, she said no - she is still a virgin. So then we fast forward like a week. I block her, she tells my friends. My friends bargain and plead with me to talk to her. I unblocked her and had a word. She started saying she didn't want me to leave, that she just wants me to fix the relationship. I told her she broke it.

We go to this week. She gets a bit tipsy and starts ranting at me. I tell her to piss off. She then started crying and begging and pleading me to take her back. She tells me she only talked to my friends because she was lonely and she couldn't go through with anything. I then suggested we just meet up for drinks and I'll hear her out.

According to mutual friends of ours, she's not been able to cope with the breakup at all. Since the first week she's started drinking, sometimes even drinking at 6am. When my name is mentioned she gets emotional and goes off on a tangent. She claimed she is miserable, and is very sorry for her withdrawing.

Why on earth is she doing this though? Does this girl actually miss me (we were good friends for a year). I know for sure she hasn't fucked anyone as our social circles are so small.