So I attended my friend's gallery opening yesterday. At the gallery opening, I saw a couple of girls from my highschool (its been 4 years now since we graduated) and one of them was a highschool crush of mine - lets call her Amy. We dated for a month in HS, but eventually I was dumped for being such a puss and having no frame at that time. I've improved a lot since then - got 2 jobs now, have put on like solid 30 pounds of muscle and overall doing pretty fine.

I went up to them and engaged in some banter and overall had a great time by socialising with lots of people at the gallery. Fast forward - there is an afterparty at my friend's house - a lot of people are invited, as well as Amy. Didn't really plan on gaming her, but there weren't a lot of other options honestly besides my friend whom I had already banged a couple of times. On several occasion Amy initiated conversations with me and after a few drinks I thought fuck it why no try and actually do something about the situation. Everybody was having a great time - dancing, drinking and smoking so we joined a couple people on the dancefloor, started grinding, made out and after a while we are at the back of taxi heading back to my place.

We arrive, I show her my place and went for it -threw her in the bed, pulled her hair etc - was being dominant thoughout the night and previous occasions as well. However, as I am undressing her, she says that she doesn't do it on the first night (its her policy - she studies politics yada yada), which is a massive shit test. I laugh it off and continue to escalate and fingering her. After a few attempts Im still unable to bypass this as she persists on not doing it while gasping and being really horny.

So I rolled off, just layed in my bed a bit and as she started to cuddle up to me I told her that she should leave. And she did.

Maybe I didn't hold frame at some point and I shouldn't have engaged with this girl in the first place, but honestly I think I just failed the last part, as she was already in my bed and wet af. Any advice on this?