Feeling bad after bad sex performance

lietruth · 2017-02-05T18:30:26+00:00

Your excitement is probably at a 9, when it should be at a 7. Try taking deep breathes to calm yourself while you're inside her.

Otherwise, just chalk it up to her being "so good at making you cum", and continue to pursue her.

dRePe_Thill · 2017-02-05T19:49:05+00:00

"I could tell she was bummed down"

She should be grateful that you blessed her with your cock, for only she received the prize all women seek.

Feel better? ....Good

Mula-Musa7 · 2017-02-05T22:06:13+00:00

Let's be real, Who cares that she's bummed out. That's her problem for not feeling the sex, IMO. Stop worrying. You can have sex with her again if you want, but if it's not working like last time, find another one who can appreciate.

In the meantime, like the other said, take deep breaths and slow down yourself a bit while during sex.

Peace.

pprstrt · 2017-02-06T03:44:16+00:00

Blow it off like it was nothing for starters. Look self-assured, even if you aren't. It could have been worse, you could have been too much of a pussy to even do anything.

Next time foreplay more. Spend time exploring her body, and when you do stick it in, take it back out when you're even a little close. Drag it out, literally check out her whole body, don't be so focused on PIV sex, spend more time undressing, heavy petting, handling her. It's about the journey, not the destination.
If shit still goes too fast, just go again in 20 minutes. Wake her up in the middle of the night and go again. Go again the next morning. It isn't all or nothing.

Don't stress so much, she's not just looking for a guy who gives a good dicking. She's looking for you to be confident, to lead her, to be socially and financially powerful. So man up, you've got it next time.

Pitchfork51 · 2017-02-06T21:34:08+00:00

So what? Go back to making out and then go for round 2.

That being said I have a really hard time finishing when I've been drinking. I don't lose hardness but can't finish. Suppose everyone is different.

Title	Feeling bad after bad sex performance
Author	Zlatarino
Upvotes	5
Comments	5
Date	February 5, 2017 6:27 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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