Feeling bad when acting dominant

bruiser18 · 2019-01-13T19:34:21+00:00

I was this way too. TRP would tell me how to text women directly, like “my place 6pm don’t be late”. I used to think there’s no fucking way I can say this kind of shit, so I didn’t, and then wonder why I’d fail.

Eventually I just got used to being so dominant and assertive, now it’s just my nature. I no longer feel bad or worry about it and it feels great, the women also love it.

Remember, they want this. They want you to be dominant.

mountainbiker178 · 2019-01-13T19:29:25+00:00

That's right. I don't know how old you are but assume you've lived amongst blue pill teaching most of your life. It can be challenging to undo all of that brainwashing, depending on what your friends and family are like. Keep reading the sidebar. It will eventually click. If it doesn't, try harder.

Shittybillyall · 2019-01-13T20:25:49+00:00

You've been raised and conditioned that way. You'll get over it the more you're exposed to different behaviour

koekoekjong · 2019-01-13T20:53:22+00:00

They love it dude, don't worry bout it

StopGaming1234 · 2019-01-13T20:36:10+00:00

Feeling the same way. Not only with girls, but in general. Idk, it seems hard to undo 20 years of nice guy.

FalconWrite · 2019-01-13T22:48:26+00:00

Dominance can really only be stretched so far while keeping your sanity. Personally I restrict it to being dominant in sticking to my own plans, not controlling women and expecting them to act reliably. I can only invest in controlling that which I know will respond dependably and linearly in a logical fashion, and bitches be too crazy for that

I mean you could still tell 'em what to do or whatever if it gives them tingles, but don't actually get all wrapped up in them not changing their minds at the last second for whatever reason. An alpha who needs women (children) to do things as expected (acting like a man) eventually just becomes a barking beta full of outcome dependence

Maith_fear · 2019-01-13T23:59:02+00:00

You probably will be a bit cringey before you get used to it. Once being dominant becomes something you do naturally it will be a lot smoother and you'll probably be less of a dick too (though that depends on your style). I'd say there's no point worrying as we can't fine tune your game over the internet so just keep moving forward and develop a sense for it.

Title	Feeling bad when acting dominant
Author	cirrusice
Upvotes	6
Comments	7
Date	January 13, 2019 7:06 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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