Date report: Just...WOW

So last night I was working and this THICC black girl comes to the register with her titties and cleavage all out etc.

The approach: I cash her out and then I say “yo, you’re sexy as fuck.” She starts smiling and immediately says I should take her number. We exchange numbers and say our goodbyes. This was like 2 minutes mind you.

Text game: Nothing special here really just more of the same. As far as the texting went it was literally strictly logistics. I texted her to meet me later that day at 5. Now I’m used to getting flaked on so I just said fuck it and kept it about logistics and lead her over text and told her when to come etc.

The date: Ok so here’s where it gets...rigid should I say.

She gets to my house and we’re sitting on my bed. And idk...she’s not opposed to me being physical but at the same time she’s trying to keep a physical distance. In her words she says she’s very old school etc because she comes from a military background.

So we’re sitting on my bed and we’re just chit chatting and getting to know eachother. And eventually I grab her leg and pull her into me and out her legs on top of mines. Then she asks me what are my intentions and why did I get her number to which I repleid “bwcause you’re sexy as fuck”. I tell her im just having fun and whatever happens happens.

Then she asks me If I thought I was getting some pussy and I’m like yeah of course. And then she’s like “well you’re not...but maybe when we see eachother again I’ll see” Now as soon as she said that I was like...ok this clearly isn’t my type of girl but I’ll entertain this for a bit. She clearly is looking for something serious even though I asked her and she said no.

So we keep talking for a few minutes and eventually I try pulling her in for a kiss, I tried turning her head towards me but she like resists and gives me her cheek instead. But it wasn’t a playful resistance like im used to getting. It was more like a “serious no” vibe I got from her. Then she asks me if all girls normally let me kiss them on the first date and im like “yeah most do”

Keep in mind her leg is still on mines and im rubbing it etc. I eventually asked her if she likes massages and she says yeah but I’m not gonna give her one. I told “it doesn’t matter you’re getting one” and I pull her in closer and extend her legs on me. Just to close the gap between us even more.

NOTE: (Honestly this date was just a waste😭the entire thing was me escalating and her constantly giving me No’s and backing away semi-seriously. Like this girl is SERIOSLY old school. Her mom and dad are still together, military family etc.)

So eventually the time comes and I can hear this girls stomach growling and she says she wants to go home and eat etc. im like whatever its cool. So I try to kiss her again and she goes “nooo im not gonna kiss you...but you can get a hug”

In my mind im like this girl really thinks she can dominate me, I just laughed it off and walked her to her door, mentally reminding myself why I never liked black girls in the first place.😌

So she leaves, we hug and that was it. A solid 45 minutes of my life...gone😐. ———————————————— Anywho that was my little date today. What do you guys think? She clearly wasn’t my type but do you all think there’s something I couldve done better?

EDIT: Forgot to add another note. Basically the entire date was her screening me for a relationship and me trying to escalate towards sex😭The energies was soooo opposite. She was asking me all these questions and shit like an interview basically. Just to better paint the picture for you guys.