Maybe not the best place to post this but I would like some advice.

I'm currently seeing this girl I met from tinder, went to coffee and a bar the first time we met. A week later we went to breakfast and for a walk that ended in kissing. Now she said that she's free this Friday to hang out.

Great!

I texted her 'can't wait, I really enjoy spending time with you' . Probably too clingy but whatever I don't think I'll text her again till Wednesday or so.

It's probably my lack of abundance but I enjoy this girls company and I want to have her around. Part of me thinks I should have tried to get more sexual sooner with her and the other part of me thinks that everything is going well (yet slowly) and I need to just be cool about everything. I don't currently have an interest in spinning plates, I see myself as being on the hunt for a girlfriend. Does wanting a girlfriend over spinning plates make me a beta fag? Are girls looking for relationships on tinder or just hookups? How do you find balance between an alpha frame and being yourself?

Thanks guys.