I know a girl who is in her late 20s that has been in a relationship for quite some time. We were having a conversation about relationships in general. She was telling me that she was unhappy and is looking for space in her current situation. She wants to focus on herself and strengthen her spiritual beliefs, which I find nothing wrong with. But its interesting, she used to be a flirty girl who enjoyed the "out life" and now she's more isolated and bitchy. Do women use "finding themselves" as a way to cope with the wall?