All my friends are off at college while I am at home working. Most of the dudes at work are older with families or beta nerds. The friends that are around are also beta. I don't mind my co workers and friends but do not wish to keep adhering to their bad habits just to have a social life. I also do not wish to do worthless activities at home to kill free time (tv, video games, etc). I do believe building yourself up with skills is a good use of time however I do not want 100% of my time spent working and developing skills.

I used to workout in my free time but it was taking up all my time having a full time job + working out + making my meals and draining my happiness in the process.

I have been going to parties on the weekend which has been nice but I still need a social activity for after work. I do not wish to sit at the bar drinking my life away just to socialize either. I am guessing finding a sports group or workout partner would be best?