First (date) in a while, need advice

jjj2576 · 2019-10-30T17:23:27+00:00

Watch some videos on Kino and read “The Book of Pook,” if you are looking to better your game.

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-10-30T18:20:05+00:00

Converse, have a good time and build some sexual tension and get her back to your place. Don't overthink it- you'll be fine.

Tips:

-sit next to her, not across

-greet with a hug

-go for a walk after getting drinks and lead it to your place. When near your place mention something with plausible deniability to get her in(new guitar, music, movie, etc).

-pre game a drink before going if you like

RedSkeller · 2019-10-30T20:05:45+00:00

I’ll help you because recently, I had some shit similarly happen, took close to half a year off and just started getting back out there. It’s like riding a bike, you might be worried that you lost a step or two, but once in motion you’ll find yourself comfortable.

Biggest thing is go into it with the mentality of you are either going to make it or break it, you’re bringing the positive energy, you’re going to have fun and you’re going to fuck like a champ. Or you’re going home and nothing changes. Good now we got that out of the way. That shit motivates me, because women just show up and will be influenced by what’s around them, and as a man you get to shape the experience which is a lot of fun when it comes to dating and the bachelor life. I just had a date with a 21 year old and could tell she wanted to fuck from 1 drink in and was great to control her and slowly ease into a great fuck and it was.

That being said, hug as soon as you get near her as a hello. Be interested but feel free to look around the room, if you find her looking into your eyes make sure she looks away first most of the time. Throw in some touches, grab her hand like you’re going to be sincere then joke around with her. Keep it moving, switch up the location after the first round or take her back to your place. Tell her you have a bottle of wine but you’re going to have to kick her out shortly after because it’s a school night or you have to wake up early. I have faith you’ll be just fine, best of luck.

dingleburry_joe · 2019-10-30T18:18:25+00:00

Despite not having my shit together I have always tried to game. Mission first but doesn't mean u cant get some while building your ship.

Main focus should be having a good time and how she behaves and reacts to you. Tease her and touch her on the date. Dont just sit at the bar and have an interview. Have a plan on what shit your going to do. What do you want to do and the lead the way.

You always go for that kiss at the end to know if shes attracted to you. If shes down to bang go with it but dont be looking for ltr with that.

For example. Went on date and met at the mall, tried on different clothes together. Gave me a chance to show my knowledge and how fun I could be doing plain shit. Went to shoot some pool which gave me an excuse to get close to her cause she didnt know shit and I helped her get her form. Took her to subway and kissed before leaving. Always be escalating!

Title	First (date) in a while, need advice
Author	badaboombopbamwham
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Comments	6
Date	October 30, 2019 4:50 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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