Hey all, so somehow I ended up getting a plate despite numerous major fuck ups, I'm wondering why though or if I should change anything.

This girl in my college class came to asking me to tutor her since I'm good at math. I tutored her for a while in school and eventually I said she could come to my place and during the first time she came I guess I was too forceful with trying to escalate sex.

(Or at least that's what she told me a few days ago; that I came off as a dick just looking for sex. She said it was a turn off and she was conflicted at the time since she would need a new tutor.)

She said she gave me a second chance which she daid she does that for everyone. The second time she came over she grinded on me and that was it, I did grind on her nude but I couldn't manage to get anything of hers off since she kept showing resistance. She eventually said she's on her period and then her parents called so she had to leave.

Third time she was over I managed to get her bra off and she blew me but I didn't get hard immediately and she wasn't too happy about it and she stopped blowing after like 30 seconds. I made a joke about it, we both laughed and I walked her home and that was it. We also talked about our number of partners, I kept dismissing the question, she said she's been with 7 guys.

Fourth (and most recent) time she came over we didn't have to do any homework so we were just hanging out (she asked if we could hangout sometime without the tutoring). She was all over me, and she even escalated to actual sex this time.

I lost my virginity and it literally lasted like a minute (no fap/pmo). She asked if i actually finished and I said yes (she said i showed no indication of actually finishing) and for some reason she seemed proud or some shit that I finished quick lol.

Any idea why she kept coming back? I'm probably like a 7 and she's probably a high 5 so maybe that's it? Or it could be the tutoring, but it's not like I just give her answers, I actually make her work for the answer.

Any tips/advice on what to do as well? I mean I guess it's going well enough but still all advice is appreciated.

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TL;DR: Girl asked me to tutor her, I brought her back to my place and fucked up numerous times.

Fuckup 1) Too forceful with sex, literally had my pants off before taking anything of hers off/roleplay.

Fuckup 2) Grinded on her while I was naked she was not. I tried to take off her underwear but she said she was on her period and left.

Fuckup 3) Had trouble getting hard during a BJ.

Fuckup 4) Finished in like a minute. (Although she didn't seem to care? Idk she almost seemed proud she made me bust so quick)

So why does she keep coming back despite these fuckups? Anything I can do differently? Thanks for all the advice ahead of time.