Flaking girls

HoRaTiO12345 · 2018-12-13T17:57:59+00:00

I recognise this struggle. Your approach is correct. If she doesn't give a counteroffer, it's safe to assume she isn't interested to meet up. Girls who want to see you will suggest another day as they don't want to lose you. All the others you just gotta forget about. They have no clue what's good for them. It's a numbers game.

alphabachelor · 2018-12-13T18:26:07+00:00

All you need to know to deal with flakes:

http://archive.is/SSwGD

RedSkeller · 2018-12-13T18:07:58+00:00

I put all my plates on do not disturb so whenever they text it doesn’t disrupt my day. I plan on women flaking and have an activity already set aside. If I’m set on going out I’ll set up a couple dates. That’s all you can really do. You’re scheduling sex and it’s boring. If you want to do something call a guy friend.

VengefullyY0urs · 2018-12-13T18:44:57+00:00

You said it yourself, girls will always flake, especially now. There was some survey taken from OK Cupid that should the majority of women find the majority of men to be average. Couple that with male beta thirst and you have a princess mentality.

Replying “k” is butthurt so cut that out. Either don’t respond or a simple: “No worries - hit me up when your schedule frees up”. (Most likely not going to happen but by saying this, you are demonstrating that your not butthurt, and you value your time enough to not chase her). Any other massages beyond that are merely trying to put you back in orbit chasing her).

The key to beat this is to have abundance and zero expectations. Game other women, have backup plans and don’t be afraid to flake on them if the need arises.

I once booked two dates at the same time and place because I would certain one of them would flake... and when it inevitably happened I legitimately was ok with it.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2018-12-16T04:22:57+00:00

We've all been there. Outcome independence.

Set up enough stuff in your life, that keeps you happy...and keep telling yourself no matter what happens, you good and can handle it.

If it happens consistently....have a look at how you interact, and see if there is more you can do to build attraction.

Practice zero investment, too. If I make a date...I consciously turn my thinking off whenever thinking about them. They are humans...and no human deserves my thinking, until they've proven themselves. If your game is reasonable...then they just disqualified themselves. You don't NEED them to follow through, do you?

Title	Flaking girls
Author	jatert1
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	December 13, 2018 5:14 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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