I'll try to be as concise as possible. I was pretty much friendzoned by this chick at work (don't shit where you eat, yea I get that now). She's a heavily conservative christian virgin (so she says). She's only ever had a non-serious relationship of 4 months with some guy she met through a mutual friend in Colorado.

I had escalated on her but I fucked up the LMR. I don't orbit her as in I don't give her gifts, do favors for her, buy her shit, seek her attention, validate her, reward her for bad actions etc. I have my own shit I do. However, this past week she went to visit her best friend in Colorado and her ex (who she's friends with, but probably wouldn't be surprised if she has a week of fucking[AWALT]).

She always refers to her and I in the "us/we" form, always is asking me what we're going to do for the rest of the summer, and constantly validates me (no idea why, but it gets annoying). I know I'm wasting my time on this, and just want the best way to get out without going strong cold shoulder; in essence I want her hamster to spin in my favor if possible.

I'm still learning TRP, and yes it's pretty much a noob situation compared to those with experience, but some general insight would be well appreciated.