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What's my move? Depends on whether or not you want to fuck her again I suppose, because it sounds like you could anytime you want. But, if you don't then stay dark and don't worry about it being awkward if you see her in public, its her problem, not yours.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 03:55 AM
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sounds like big time slut regret this is really the best answer. She let her hypergamous nature get the better of her for like a week, then she decided to put it back in its cage.. The hamstering then never stops, " i so am not like that any more.. yaaaaa
/r/askTRP28/06/14 05:59 AM
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"I am equal to you in every way, but i still need you to stow my suitcase and buy my drinks because chivalry.... "- stupid feminist hamsters everywhere
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 05:31 AM
21

This is seriously a perfect example of the woman who wants both equality AND privelage... You know, because she is a woman.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 05:29 AM
2

BUT COMPANIONSHIP WAS A CLOSE 4th
/r/askTRP26/06/14 03:21 AM
16

How does it feel to be living with such a debilitating illness?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 03:50 AM
5

Or, people could go to /r/asktrp, it is this whole subreddit meant for exaxtly what you are talking about..
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 03:48 AM
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My advice to you, not just in this situation, but in all situations is that you have to be outcome indifferent. If it works out and you fuck her, cool. If it doesn't, cut contact and move on. No offense (and I realize you are drunk), but you sound like a little bitch that didn't get his way. Stop analyzing the actions of someone who is clearly not in to you. You don't even know what she actually said to your friend about you, for all you kknow he is just trying to boost your confidence.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 03:52 AM
5

This is quite possibly the worst advice for women that I have ever read.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 03:41 AM
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voluntary act beetween 2 consenting adults True (maybe not two "adults" in bangkok though..), to each his own if OP wants a hooker, then fuck a hooker. Just curious though, do you think that knowing that the only way you have gotten laid is by fucking a hooker is good for your confidence when dealing with women? I don't give a fuck about the morals of prostitution btw
/r/askTRP17/06/14 04:15 AM
3

I can't tell you what you can and can't do, but I would never go buy a hooker for the night. The thing that helped me the most when I was beginning to integrate TRP in to my life is that you always have to put yourself first. You are off to a good start losing the weight and getting a job, howevver, you need to do so much more than that (but seriously, good job losing so much weight). Ask yourself what YOU want from every situation, you simply can't put to much concern in to worrying about peoop…
/r/askTRP17/06/14 03:45 AM
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Ignore it.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 06:42 PM
4

"WHAT ABOUT THE CHILDREN" God I hate this country. Its better to have someone who isn't the father pay alimony for ife and child support for 18 years than it is for women to be faithful and not get knocked up by random dudes.. Makes perfect sense to me..
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 05:29 PM
33

"yes, because I wouldn't want to seem like a complete bitch by just rejecting him, I have to appear to be nice :)" -hamsters everywhere
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 05:25 PM
26

For me, no exceptions. I would never have a relationship with one, I just don't really like kids, but I also think that in general they are looking solely for a provider and will attempt to manipulate you into being one.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 03:16 AM
6

The key is to just keep it playful, don't let her make it too serious
/r/askTRP14/06/14 12:31 AM
3

I think you are overreacting. Its not like she wrote her phone number on the check. I think she just wanted to feel like she was pitching in, but I would need to know more. Tipping extra isn't a crime.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 12:17 AM
4

definitely don't say, "I know some girls who made that claim". I would say, Why are you so fixated on hooking up with me.. Because she was definitely thinking about it if she said something like that.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 12:15 AM
9

Perffect example of hamstering right there.. "It wasn't cheating since I didn't think you had an emotional connection with me". I guess its your choice, but downgrade her to a plate or next her would be my advice.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 05:46 PM
1

If you haven't already seen it, I would put Tommy Carcetti (from The Wire) up there with the most RP of characters.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:30 PM
1

Ok, thank you for the reply. good on you for living your own life.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:25 PM
2

I personally feel like I have some obligation to pass on my family name and genes to the next generation. Do you/have you ever felt any pressure to do this?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:21 PM
1

Do you have a good relationship with your daughter?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:19 PM
2

Yes, that is what /r/pussypass is for. That stuff doesn't belong here (although I find some of it entertaining).
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:14 PM
1

That's what the mods have been trying to do by creating a variety of subs to post in, however, instead of using the proper subs people post those things here.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:13 PM
2

I would say that the only time you should try to outshine your boss in order to get promoted is if there is someone specific standing in the way of your advancement and you need to remove them in order to advance, but that doesn't happen until the upper eschelon of successful companies.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 05:12 PM
3

Yu don't need free weights or machines to work out. There are plenty of excercises you can do without them while you are on the road. Work on your abs on the road too. Do cardio on the road too. The only problem with this is you aren't going to get significantly stronger (if that's your goal) by only lifting free weights every other week
/r/askTRP13/06/14 04:57 PM
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I work in the corporate world and personally I feel like you need to do whatever it takes to show your initiative to your bosses. They are the ones making decisions about promotions, raises, etc so you need to show them that you care about every facet of the job, not just what you deem "important".
/r/askTRP13/06/14 04:54 PM
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Are you working everyday or just M-F?
/r/askTRP13/06/14 02:57 AM
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Many more women will confirm the things we talk about in this sub than refute them.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:50 AM
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I will say this, if the child isn't his, then the answer is obvious.. Fuck that bitch. If she is lying and the child is his, I think that he has more than a little incentive to try to make it work and not act like such a pussy. He may not be mentally stable and that is another issue, but part of being a man is lying in the bed you made.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 01:05 AM
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LITERAALLY DOZENS OF TWEETS. Holy shit, I could probably say that I wanted to reinstate the slave trade and not get noticed.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 10:33 PM
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The court's reasoning that a mother is more important than a father is so fucked.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 09:04 PM
1

It feel good to talk about man, but you have to wake up and realize that its over for good. If she comes back to you in two years like you said, have the fucking self respect to kick her to the curb. Girls say shit like that pill thing all the time in order to rationalize their mistakes to make themselves faultless. You probably learned a lot from the relationship, don't be mad at her because she did you a favor, and move the fuck on
/r/askTRP12/06/14 04:11 PM
1

so they begin their period the day that they take it?
/r/askTRP12/06/14 04:30 AM
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Yep, fuck all the guys you can before finally finding the one who can't do any better than a 30-35 year olf cum dumpster
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 03:05 AM
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I'm saying that in America today, the feminist movement is struggling to find ways to stay relevant because men and women are equal in almost every regard, yet they still push and push to grab more power (which is perfectly rational for their point of view). But, like it or not, the institution of marriage is a shell of what it once was due to "fair" laws pushe for by these movements. I personally feel like because of this, I have no incentive to get married an have children because the game has…
/r/askTRP11/06/14 11:29 PM
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I'm a little confused about the point you make about feminism. How would survival of the fittest destroy your economic potential? Personally (and I cannot speak for everyone here) I am not necesarily anti-feminist, but I am an American that is concerned with how the movement has affected relationships in the country. The "strategies" that we have been told all our lives as men no longer work, TRP merely seeks to find new strategies that work in this new world overflowing with "feminism". Women e…
/r/askTRP11/06/14 11:11 PM
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I think of frame as a state of mind where you are so confident in yourself and your actions, that nothing done by others rattles you in the slightest. A girl rejects you? No big deal, you move on. Your LTR starts bitching at you for no reason? It's no big deal, she's just like a little kid acting out, you don't react. You are approaching a girl? Don't be nervous you do this all the time, it is just something you do. Things start going well with the girl? this isn't a big deal, I have been here b…
/r/askTRP11/06/14 10:13 PM
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I would love to see the backlash if this was ever proposed. "ITS INTERFERING WITH MY RIGHT TO PRIVACY!!!!!"
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 09:57 PM
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In a similar situation where the girl was crying actual rape as opposed to a blowjob, they would have done a rape kit and fihured out that the woman had not in fact had sex with the guy.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 09:49 PM
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Like anythng it takes time. There isn't a quick fix, it takes practice. Consciously try to hold frame all th time. Yes, there are going to be times when it breaks down, but its really one of those things where it just becomes part of your personality after a bit of time.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 08:03 PM
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What I have come to learn from TRP during my time here is that you need to find what you want to do, then get out and fucking do it. If you want to talk to/hook up with a lot of girls, go out and start talking to them The reading helps, but it can only take you so far; to get women, you have to talk to women. If you want six pack abs to increase your SMV, hit the gym until you reach your goal. Do you want to be a MGTOW? Cool, go out and find your passion no matter what it is and do it, you don't…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 08:00 PM
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Yes, the truth should always matter more. But it doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 06:16 PM
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Ever since taking TRP I have been trying to find a reasonable argument why the man who is not the father of the child should be forced by his government to pay thousands of dollars to a cheating spouse and bastard child. None of the arguments that this article articulated really makes sense to me. Ya, its sad that the child will have trust issues, but a man shouldn't be forced in to involuntary servitude because his ex-wife is a cheating slut. Another argument that the article brought up is that…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 05:53 PM
3

You're digusting
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 04:23 AM
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I think that the larger takeaway from the post is that if you aren't getting what you want, don't give up what she wants for free. If you want sex, then go after sex. If you want something else than go after that. Don't be an orbiter is OPs main point. It isn't rational from a guys standpoint to give so much and get nothing in return, simple economics.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 04:08 AM
3

What's the name?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 01:08 AM
1

Well there isn't really a quick fix for social skills. You have to begin talking to a lot of people until it just becomes something you do. You will feel better if you try and get rejected than if you don't try. As far as the text messages go, just think to yourself, what is the worst playing that could happen if you send x to some girl? They will reject you. If they are interested already it won't be a turn off. It'll be easier to meet a lot of new people once you go to college since there will…
/r/askTRP10/06/14 11:26 PM
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To get girls you have to talk to girls. No one is just going to come up to you, throw themselves on you and have sex with you. Yes, being good looking is part of it, but you need the social skills to express your status to potential lays. I'm not really sure what your actual question is though, if you want general advice, read up on game and get use to actually having a conversation with a girl
/r/askTRP10/06/14 11:16 PM
0

I think it is sort of borderline fat.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 10:20 PM
4

Holding frame is an acquired skill (I still struggle with it sometimes). The only way to get better is to practice. Keep going out and talking to women and don't orbit this girl you are talking about and you will be fine.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 10:07 PM
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First, no offense but she didn't "drop your ass hard" she effectively told you she wasn't interested in a non confrontational way. Next, if you genuinely feel that your friend is wronging you, then consider removing him from your life. If she is genuuinely not comfortable around you, that isn't your problem. If you show up someplace she is, then she can leave. I guess it sounds like you are also worried on getting invited to things because of her, again, if your friends are picking her over you …
/r/askTRP10/06/14 10:02 PM
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It is a size 8 in the US. Source: Just looked up a dress size coverter
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 09:54 PM
2

What is my best course of action? Move on. I don't understand why (if you want to go to the festival), that you wouldn't go. Don't let any girl dictate what you can and can't do, let alone a girl you aren't fucking. Go and have fun, meet new people, and definitely don't orbit your new "friend" for the whole time, as that is what she probably expects. On a side note, don't get pissed at the girl for the LJBF talk; be angry at yourself because you are the one that failed (there is nothing wrong wi…
/r/askTRP10/06/14 09:45 PM
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Don't shit where you eat. Keep ignoring her.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 09:12 PM
2

This should be in /r/asktrp. But, it isn't important at all. If you want a nice phone, buy one. If you can't afford it or don't want one, don't buy one.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 08:50 PM
1

Thanks for your reply. Could you go a little deeper in to what constitutes a common law marriage?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 08:41 PM
1

Personally I don't think there is much difference between facebook and texts, especially if you already have her number (which I am sure you do).
/r/askTRP10/06/14 05:51 PM
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I would preface this with a warning that if you want to pay great, but don't pay so much that the girl has an expectation that you pay for everything. You may want to pay everytime (if that is your nature), but you have to express that you aren't going to be the complete provider for her. In an LTR you may have a little more leeway in this, but you have to ask yourself, do I really want to be spending hundreds of dollars on a plate?
/r/askTRP10/06/14 05:41 PM
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The guy is a complete dunce. I just want to take a second to point out the wife's strategy in this argument. she locked herself in a car and called the police on her husband because he wanted to drive.... Does that sound like the actions of an adult to any of you? I hope not because those are the actions of an angry toddler. The guy is at fault for allowing this sort of behavior from his wife, but I am always amazed at the depths women will go to in order to win a petty argument. She made this g…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 05:20 PM
1

It's all fine and dandy until kids that have been pampered their whe lives grow up and realize that there are certainly losers
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:07 AM
1

I don't think she is gonna feel like shit if you reply "ok" to a text message. But in the end you're gonna have to do what you think is right. All we can do is give you advice based on successes and failures in the past
/r/askTRP10/06/14 02:16 AM
2

Just curious, when do you typically begin to have feelings for girls. I meet girls all the time that I feel like I have somewhat of a connection with
/r/askTRP10/06/14 02:14 AM
1

You may want to bang her again, but she (at least right now doesn't). The worst thing you can do for yourself is fight for her because you just come off looking weak
/r/askTRP10/06/14 02:09 AM
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No one says that you have to have sex all the time. Being a mgtow is just fine. Also, I personally find that you don't have to be in a relationship to have an emotional connection with a girl. The key is just do what makes you happy, not wanting to bang random sluts doesn't make you less of a man
/r/askTRP10/06/14 02:08 AM
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Just say Ok and leave it at that. The key is to be outcome indifferent, she is expecting a reaction out of you that involves you apologizing and catering to her needs. Hold your frame and keep spinning plates. She's just one of many girls, and it sounds like this girl Sophie is a good option, but keep talking to other girls all the time. When you spin plates, some are bound to fall off, you just have to find another one to start spinning. Who knows, she may even come back to you after you don't …
/r/askTRP10/06/14 02:02 AM
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Some girls are more insecure than others. But the shit tests come from (imo) the fact that girls ingeneral do not care what you have done for them in the past (passed previous tests), they are more concerned with what are you doing for them in the now, which is why she keeps throwing them at you, more than likely it is just a quirk to her personality and cannot really be changed.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 12:17 AM
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Then, move on if it bothers you. Theres nothing wrong with staying if you feel comfortable passing the tests and talking to her, etc etc as long as you are getting what you want.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 12:08 AM
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You can still join discussions by commenting, there is a waiting period before you can post. Read the sidebar to learn more.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 12:07 AM
2

Yes, and?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 12:05 AM
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True, I don't think the issue was that she was heavy, the issue was that she stopped caring about her health among other things.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 11:53 PM
3

Have you had sex? If you haven't she may just be stringing you along. You just gotta ask yourself if you would like to continue interacting with her in that fashion. If it has been a while, and she hasn't given it up yet (and that is what I am assuming you are looking for), move on.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 11:51 PM
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Honestly man, if she is so insecure to the point that it is ruining your relationship with her, I think you should move on. Behavior like that doesn't tend to stop or improve. Maybe she can go to therapy for it (I am not advocating this), but even that is a 50/50 or worse shot at best.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 11:48 PM
3

Yes, that is true. I guess by listing it first and with a comma she thinks it is her most important attribute?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 06:17 PM
0

All we are doing is commenting on how the woman in the story and the people commenting think. I think that when people post online they tend to state how they really feel as opposed to real life where they would maybe mask their feelings. I find posts like this interesting because it shows how people think about situations they have experienced. Obviously you can't get the whole story from a few paragraphs of ranting, but I think that you can safely say that she expressed her true feelings. And …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 05:35 PM
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Ya, it's ridiculous. I just don't understand how you can be content with being obese (which she was at 5'2 200+ pounds). I also thought the part about how she and he husband fight about what to eat for dinner was funny. She wants to eat fatty foods all the time and criticizes him for trying to eat healthier. The fat acceptance movement is poison.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 05:27 PM
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I lost it at "I am beautiful and smart and could have anyone I want".. Apparently not, she can't have her fiancé. The dude was lucky that he broke it off before the marriage. It always amazes me how it seems like they can't look at themselves for the answers to their problems. In their mind they are all special little snowflakes and the problems in the relationship must be the guy. She got knocked up by some dude years ago and failed out if college (btw if you are smart and hardworking, you don'…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 05:23 PM
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That was really hard to read all the way through. The lady was 5'2" and over 200 pounds, and she wondered why her husband no longer found her attractive. It was the classic case of "you need to change what you find attractive"... It is really sickening.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 03:33 AM
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I am always amazed that common law marriages still exist (I live in Colorado), you can still get fucked even if you never ceremonially marry.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 03:23 AM
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It's good that you are trying to adopt new strategies, I would say that you were trying to pressure her in to saying yes, as opposed to making her want to say yes, but that's just my assessment. Also, things that work on tinder probably won't work in a real conversation because people on tinder are on there specifically to meet people and get dates
/r/askTRP09/06/14 12:48 AM
2

Act like nothing happened. Don't ignore her, but don't try to cozy up to her and ask her out again. Focus on the job (like you should at work).
/r/askTRP09/06/14 12:41 AM
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Kick her the fuck out, if she can't take care of herself without you, she shouldn't have cheated. She's gonna fight to stay, you just gotta hold frame and show her out. Just accept that you were on the wrong side of afbb and get over her
/r/askTRP09/06/14 12:39 AM
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You were too pushy, the key is outcome indifference. You were not outcome indifferent and resorted to insulting the person that she had plans with .She said she had plans, you should have suggested one more time and left it at that. When you go back to work, don't act any differently than you normally do.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 12:30 AM
3

Just goes to show you that women never grow up, she is in her 40's and is still playing with dolls..
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 06:51 PM
5

i think that it is rational to be worried about STD's a little bit. During my college years, I knew (or heard about) plenty of girls that had STD's. Gonnorhea was the main one that I heard about. That being said, as long as you wrap your dick the first time you bang some strange, you're probably alright.
/r/askTRP08/06/14 06:29 PM
1

So a common law arriage means what exactly, you don't actually have to be legally married for there to be a divorce?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 06:14 PM
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Sexual Market Value
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 06:01 PM
2

Oh, my mistake. Glad everything worked out for you man. Holding frame is always the right way to go
/r/askTRP07/06/14 06:09 PM
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It is the tendency that women have to use rationalization to avoid mental conflicts when they say one thing and do another. Picture a hamster running on a wheel as a woman's brain, constantly spinning in order to make sure that she doesn't feel guilt for her actions.
/r/askTRP07/06/14 05:40 PM
1

Explain what the term means, or why it is called hamstering?
/r/askTRP07/06/14 05:29 PM
2

I am a big supporter of golf as a hobby. It is pretty easy to get halfway decent at (bogey golf). It is a good way to spend weekends, and you are able to hang out with a mostly male crowd for a while.
/r/askTRP07/06/14 04:37 PM
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I think you played it right. It's better to stay out of drama like that. I would be a little concerned about why she lied about the date her event was occurring on though. You did the right thing by not reacting to it.
/r/askTRP07/06/14 04:35 PM
2

Yes, this is a good thing.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 05:41 PM
9

You just have to remember that she is your girl, and after he said this, he drove her to your place so you could fuck her. You have nothing to worry about. If he starts to say things like this to you habitually, more action may be required.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 05:35 PM
2

No problem. You'll get better and better the more you do it, it may seem awkward at first, but that is when you'll improve the most
/r/askTRP04/06/14 06:48 PM
3

I read somewhere that by age 18 people have programmed responses to most of the "small talk" questions that you are alluding to. The trick to keeping interesting conversations going is to break the person you are talking to out of the programmed responses and getting them to actually tell you about themselves. For instance, a common small talk question is, "what do you do?" They tell you, " I work for x company in x capacity.." Then you say, "oh well what do you like about working there?" Or som…
/r/askTRP04/06/14 06:44 PM
1

Stand up straight, don't lean forward (that is why your butt sticks out). Walk slowly but with a set path. If you find it hard to stand up straighter, think about it often and it will become second nature. Also, I found that deadlifts at the gym helped me correcct my posture issues.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 06:30 PM
1

I tend to just brush stuff like that off. Make it seem like it is just who you are. you don't have to brag oranything, just accept the compliment and move the conversation forward. It is a good thing if you are the center of attention
/r/askTRP04/06/14 06:27 PM
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"thanks"
/r/askTRP04/06/14 06:04 PM
0

You should post screenshots, I can't read the article.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 04:50 PM
1

I just wanted to add that I find Louis C.K hilarious and he does have some red pill material. That video is sort of taken out of context. One segment of his comedy shouldn't turn people off to him (if you haven't seen him before).
/r/askTRP04/06/14 04:24 PM
1

Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, I would definitely go to A 4 yr school. Engineering is great, mechanical is the way to go IMO.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 02:00 PM
4

I'm not sure it would be worth it if I succeed What do you mean by this? Either you want to begin working to improve yourself in order to become a better man, or you don't. It is that simple. Why would you do anything if you aren't going to do it right? That is what TRP is. You don't have to be purposefully rude (not sure what you mean here btw), you just stop letting people walk all over you. YOU are the most important person in your life, everyone else (except family) is replaceable. Why would…
/r/askTRP04/06/14 04:05 AM
2

My dad owns a web design firm. Times are tough now for small businesses and advertisiing (especially expensive personal websites) is one of the first things to get cut from a budget. He makes up for it by doing CRM and other database management things if you know anything about that. Once the economy turns around, the outlook will be better, hopefully that is soon
/r/askTRP04/06/14 03:32 AM
1

Perhaps, but if someone confronts you and asks if "daddy bought that for you" you can confidently say, no, I do x and make a comfortable salary, not everyone needs their parents to buy them things. What do you do? If you don't mind me asking
/r/askTRP03/06/14 11:46 PM
2

The clothes you wear, the car you drive, the watch you wear, etc. The places you hang out could show this too (expensive health clubs, restaurants, and bars).
/r/askTRP03/06/14 11:35 PM
5

Next her man. That was a cop out so that she didn't have to tell you the real reason that she wanted to sto seeing you.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 11:17 PM
6

There are a few questions that you need to ask yourself before you make that decision (Only you can make it). First, will your parents/family pay for you to go to a 4 year college to study? Or will you have to take on a ludicrous amount of student loans? Second, if you choose to go to a 4 year school, are you willing/able to put in the work to get at least a 3.5 GPA (Its considerably harder than high school , especially in the fields that I will recommend)? Third, are you willing to spend all th…
/r/askTRP03/06/14 11:07 PM
1

That she is only telling you part of the whole truth.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 10:05 PM
18

How can he even be considering going to couples therapy with her, it would be a huge mistake. She has shown him her true colors and no amount of bullshit therapy is going to change her. She has cheated on him not once, but twice. Tell him to GTFO, but beyond that its his life and if he wants to ruin it, its a free country. Tell him also to thank his lucky stars that he didn't find out about this after the wedding.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 09:36 PM
1

Depends what you mean by "successful in life". When you don't have money, it seems like a worthy goal to make a lot of money (although it isn't as easy as it seems, especially today). Some of the happiest people I know aren't terribly wealthy, but live modestly and spend a lot of time with their families. Personally, I think you are going to be miserable if the "money" is your goal and motivator and not what you do.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 08:57 PM
24

Ugh, I guarantee you if that was the actual Sports Illustrated Swimsuit cover they would lose half their subscribers overnight. Why the fuck would I want to pay to see three fat women in swimsuits when I could go to my local pool.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 03:30 PM
3

I don't necesarily think that you told her no. More like, "not tonight". If you want to try again go for it. I think you are rightabout the "that's mine" syndrome.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 02:37 PM
3

keep going up to strangers and talking to them, the only way you are going to overcome your anxiety is to do it so much that it becomes just another thing that you do. There really is no shortcut. Sounds to me like you just get way too nervous when walking up to strangers, think to yourself when you walk up to a group that they have 5 minutes (or less) to impress you, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 02:21 PM
10

Why do you think that you did the wrong thing? I think you acted perfectly. Who knows if you would have actually gone home with the bartender, you are just speculating that you would have. There is no sense questioning it when you succeeded in taking the other girl home.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 02:17 PM
1

Ok. I see what you mean. So where lust is unlimited, there is necesarily at least some possessiveness exhibited by one party?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 03:46 AM
1

you could still eat it
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 03:44 AM
6

The analogy of the apple doesn't really hold up. If someone eats the apple you can't. If someone has sex with some girl, you can as well. You can have lust without attachment.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 03:26 AM
2

The Misandry Bubble is my personal favorite. It takes a while to digest, but is a must read.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 03:22 AM
2

Hire the best divorce lawyer you can afford and gear up for a battle.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 03:16 AM
5

Exactly, I don't know your preferred method of smoking (Bongs are my thing atm). Just take one or two hits. Chances are the girl you are smoking with is going to be even higher than you are after a few hits. It isn't like you need to smoke a full blunt with some girl (especially if neither of you are regular smokers). One thing I will say as well (although I wouldnt recommend it) is that if you begin smoking oil semi regularly, your tolerance will go through the roof and even a whole blunt won't…
/r/askTRP02/06/14 09:53 PM
5

Well, I smoke pretty regularly (and live in a state where it is legal). I don't really have a problem maintaining frame unless I start taking dabs. The trick isto know your limits, don't get so high that you lose the ability to control your "frame".
/r/askTRP02/06/14 09:44 PM
3

First, how well do you know this guy? I would be a little put off by someone asking me to stick my neck out at a job that I like in order to try to advance their career. If he doesn't know you that well (or even if he does), how is he supposed to know that you won't make him look bad in front of his bosses? I think that your best course of action is to get to know him better, and begin to show him how qualified you are in your field. I don't know much about the video space, but I assume that you…
/r/askTRP02/06/14 09:37 PM
1

I think that the key is to just realize they are kidding around. Is the problem that you sometimes think they are being serious? Never get offended by A JOKE, which is what it is.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 05:57 PM
2

Then I think you are doing the right thing bu ignoring them. If they want to be pussies by yelling at you after you walk by instead of saying something to your face if you have a problem, they aren't worth your time. Turn around, laugh at them and walk away.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 05:50 PM
1

What do you mean by "challenging"? Like pushing you around, or just yelling things at you?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 05:29 PM
2

Personally, I think that I exhibit the traits stronger when I am drunk. I focus more on what I need and what I want to do when I want to do it. I think that this rubs some of my male friends the wrong way sometimes, but I have a lot more success with women after a few drinks.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 01:02 AM
1

Good luck
/r/askTRP02/06/14 12:51 AM
3

Go out and talk to women? It doesn't matter if you are great every time, it's about learning from your mistakes. I read somewhere that you have to talk to something like 1000 women to really be able to maintain your frame, it's up to you if it takes 3 months or 3 years.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 12:17 AM
2

I think that you are on the right track, you just have to have the emotional intelligence to realize when you are slipping back in to your old ways. The more time you spend in your "alpha mode" the easier it will be to maintain it. Practice is the only way.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 12:13 AM
3

I think that you should shoot her a text tomorrow, then if she doesn't respond again, wait a week. Make sure the text is not accusing her of anything.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 10:26 PM
1

Especially the Paternal Surrender.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 06:06 PM
1

I was just reading an article about this on Chase Amante's blog. The way to save yourself from dying conversations is to keep the conversations shorter. After a few minutes of talking to her, begin trying to get her number or escalating in to a hookup if you notice signs that she is interested in you. Stop the introductory conversations after you either notice that she is interested or not interested.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 02:26 AM
8

0/10 should never troll again
/r/askTRP31/05/14 06:48 PM
7

Suggest another time. If they dodge it. Walk away and next them. It is a "nice" way of blowing you off
/r/askTRP31/05/14 06:47 PM
1

Yes, I bet you are right. I have never attempted to read the Quran or other texts, but they have to be similar. Good for you. I stopped playing video games after my freshman year of college. I still watch a little too much TV, but I am working on it.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 06:30 PM
2

That is true. I guess maybe that is what he charges any other client for a consultation. Since she is taking up time that could be used to serve another customer (that you would charge), it shows her she doesn't get any special treatment
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 05:58 PM
2

At this point, a being a ref would be great experience IMO. Like I said, it doesn'treally matter what the job is because you can spin anything to sound impressive on your resume. For example, "Made descisions that were respected by customers of YMCA" or "interacted with customers of the YMCA in order to ensure their satisfaction" (Just examples, but those may stick out on a resume). Having a variety of job experience could also give you a leg up when applying to medical school, especially if you…
/r/askTRP31/05/14 05:56 PM
1

Definitely get a job. It doesn't matter what it is because you are in HS still. Having a job now will allow you to put it on your resume when applying for internships in college (this is a must). I have tons of friends that just sat around every summer, now they are a few years out of college and can't get a good job. The reason why it doesn't matter what type of job you get is because it is fairly easy to make any job sound like valuable experience if you know how to express your responsibiliti…
/r/askTRP31/05/14 05:44 PM
9

The bible (yes, even the bible has RP wisdom) A bunch of people overlook this book. Just because you don't necesarily believe in the story, doesn't mean that you can't learn from it. I was in the camp that never wanted to read the bible because I thought that it was religious BS, but I took a Roman History class in college where we had to read excerpts from the different books. There are TONS of things to be learned.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 05:38 PM
3

An art commision business is different from an art gallery. The customer tells the artist what they want, and the artist voices any concerns he/she has and the price they will charge. So it is more like a consultation than just walking through an art gallery and deciding what they want.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 05:29 PM
2

I think that maybe she got a little freaked out after you asked for her address. Shoot her a message asking if she would meet you somewhere. She has never met you and may be concerned about giving her address to someone she doesn't even know. If she blows you off again "ditch her bro forget about her".
/r/askTRP31/05/14 04:39 PM
2

What specifically strikes you as misogynist?
/r/askTRP31/05/14 12:35 AM
4

Read the sidebar in /r/theredpill and decide for yourself
/r/askTRP31/05/14 12:27 AM
3

Are you fucking retarded? You cannot just cold approach a girl, begin the conversation by talking about sex, then asking for her phone number without a little comfort building. She obviously knew the only reason that you were talking to her was to hook up with her (not that that is automatically a problem) and shut you down because she didn't feel comfortable.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 11:47 PM
3

Hit the gym. Don't masurbate excessively. Figure out a way to get more education for a better job. Hit the bars in your city. The only way to get out of a funk is to put yourself out there. Read up on game in /r/trpgame. Work on approaching and escalating (the only way to do this is to actually do it). You will hit some bumps along the way, but stick with it and you will look and feel better. Your motivation has to come from within yourself, the only way that you will ever change is if you want …
/r/askTRP30/05/14 11:42 PM
2

First, there is nothing wrong with having a new friend. It didn't work out for you this time, but hopefully you can learn from your mistakes and correct them next time. Ask her to introduce you to her friends and try to hit on them, or ask her to wingman for you at bars.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 11:19 PM
2

This is an interesting analogy. It holds true in most cases with one notable exception. For men who are in HS or just beginning college, there isn't a whole lot of options except the "arsenals" you alluded to. There isn't any in a high school senior trying to go after a 23-24 year old in her prime. This demographic is better off sticking with their own age group, and honing their game to be ready later on. Also, I don't think there is anything wrong with talking to women on either side of your s…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 10:33 PM
24

I will direct you to the last paragraph of /u/archwinger 's comment. You are saying essentially that women should be afraid of every man that comes up to them at a bar because of an isolated incident committed by an obviously mentally ill man. This doesn't seem very rational to me..
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 05:33 PM
18

He is certainly expecting to get laid.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 04:45 PM
3

A few of my friends and I are considering a move out of the country.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 03:23 PM
145

"OH NO!! A creepy guy is talking to me in a public area with tons of people around! I am scared for my life!!"
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 03:14 PM
2

Get her over to your house/go to her house. Talk to her for a little bit, then start hooking up. Or, alternatively, if you don't want to stay at a house, go somewhere else that you can be alone and hook up. If she doesn't want to, next her. It isn't rocket science
/r/askTRP30/05/14 12:19 AM
3

go to /r/trpgame and read all the stickied posts on text game
/r/askTRP29/05/14 09:28 PM
1

Ok. I know a lot about having a shitty car, I had a 98 Oldsmobile that was a POS. I always tried to play it like the car had major sentimental value to me. I could afford better, but loved the car since it was my first, or some special event happened in it, etc. That sounds sort of gay but it is a quick way to shift the focusoff of thecar and on to something cool. Congrats on the raise, keep it up. And agian, I would just keep working on your game. Its all about that. If you do it right and hold…
/r/askTRP29/05/14 04:02 AM
2

I thin that the differences between the two are mainly the focuses of the "movements". TRP is a very individual thing, whereas feminism seeks a societal change.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 03:57 AM
2

My stance is, if the fact that you make 34k per year is a deal breaker for these girls, then they are certainly not worth your time. The question that I have for you is, why does your salary come up when you are trying to game women? Avoid talking about it (like you already do), and if the girl brings it up for some reason, confidently say that you prefer not to discuss that subject with women that you have just met. Also, continue trying to advance your career.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 03:46 AM
3

"Dad's, Just be there. Just be present. Be a part of your family's life!" Of course there are a bunch of deadbeat absentee dads out there, but more often than not, the dad isn't there because he leaves for work before anyone wakes up, and comes home after everyone has finished their activities. That's how it was in my family at least. My dad was always running around all day managing his business while my mom was sitting around at home (until recently when she got a job) and my brother and I wer…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 04:38 PM
11

/r/personalfinance , /r/changemyview , /r/fitness
/r/askTRP27/05/14 02:01 AM
1

Ok. That makes sense, but if you go out to parties while you visit friends there should be a good amount if people there that you don't know.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 01:33 AM
1

Do you have friends that are going to a college close to you? If so, visit them on the weekends.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 01:07 AM
2

Usually I would completely agree with you, but I think you can make an exception for 17-18 year olds
/r/askTRP27/05/14 12:58 AM
0

Tell me what you think that all of us believe, and I will tell you how much of an idiot you are
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 10:30 PM
47

Wow. If someone cheating on you isn't a deal breaker, I don't know what would be. It is a blatant betrayal of trust. Hearing people try to defend this girl is crazy. If it was the guy who cheated, that subreddit would be up in arms calling for a breakup.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 10:07 PM
2

Ya it's never a flaw with them. It is that they can't resist something. Just learn self control
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 08:34 PM
2

Exactly, people don't realize that it hurting it in the long run. They've had so many rights and privileges a given to them, yet did very little to actually deserve them except bitch about it until men caved in.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 07:19 PM
4

Good point, and there is certainly evidence of that happening among groups of men who think they stand to gain by appeasing feminist groups. A bunch of men cave on the debate because they are simply not willling to deal with a woman's "arguments"
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 06:25 PM
2

You are probablly better off not saying anything. If you voice your concerns and you are wrong, you look like a huge asshole. If you voice your concerns and you are right, then you don't really know ho he will react and it could alter your relationship. It is their business, worry about yourself.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 06:21 PM
1

Varying response times coupled with a short line of texts is really the way to go. The longer you text a girl for, the longer you have to fuck up.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 05:45 PM
1

Oh, for sure. I get that. I personally would have a problem going behind some dudes back and hooking up with his girl (I know, I''ve done it before). But at the same time, If you didn't feel bad for the dude, I don't think there is anything inherently wrong with what you are doing.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 04:42 PM
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The problem isn't that they want to change men IMO, the problem is that that women have no sense of self reflection, they don't see anything wrong with them as being their fault, but something caused by the world around them. "I wouldn't be fat if all cake didn't taste so good"... You sort of alluded to this in your post.The more I hear it, the more I can't help but laugh at it. This loss of accountability for their actions is a result of a variety of forces telling them their whole lives that m…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 04:39 PM
3

That is a moral dilemma. The question is does it bother you? It sounds like it does. Morality is relative. If it bothers you then quit, if it doesn't keep it up. Nobody can tell you whether or not something "should" bother you.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 04:22 PM
9

The only way that you are going to improve your social skills is to put yourself in situations that require you to be social. There are probably a ton of events around your city that would be good for this. I think that you should go back to some form of school. If 4 year university isn't for you, look in to getting your associates degree or going to a trade school for something that you enjoy. As far as interviews go in the present, craft your resume and cover letter (always use a cover letter)…
/r/askTRP26/05/14 03:06 PM
2

Classic shit test by the girl. Check the sidebar for various ways to deal with them. Best response here is to ignore it though.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 03:49 AM
3

I guess the question I have is, do you think that she cheated on you with one of the guys? If yes, then obviously next her. If you don't, then I don't know what you are looking for. Do you want to tell her that she can''t hang out with other guys if you aren't there? Confronting her about something that shouldn't even bother you is gong to make you look possessive, paranoid and weak.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 12:14 AM
2

My mistake. I think that it is a very fine line to walk. If women begin to believe that your best trait is your money, then you have a problem. But, if you can legitimately maintain frame while interacting with women that see you as a well rounded man who also has money, then you will be OK. Just know that most of the women that you meet may try to get you to buy them things, take care of them etc. As long as you don't put up with that shit, you've got nothing to worry about.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 12:03 AM
1

My initial thought is that as soon as you feel that you are giving a woman more than she is giving you, break it off. You obviouosly don't want a LTR that follows you across the atlantic predominantly for your money. If this girl fucked you every night as well as cooked and cleaned, then there might be a reason to financially support her in London, but that isn't what it sounds like. Also ask yourself where you would be with this girl if you weren't making as much money but maintained your curre…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 11:34 PM
2

Well, seeing as the main reason for this subreddit is to discuss male sexual strategy (which you would know if you read the sidebar), it should come as no surprise to you that a lot of the discussion is related to how women think in terms of pickups and relationships. I am positive you are a troll and don't care about a single word I am typing here, but maybe a little of it will take hold and you will actually do your research before asking for a debate on a subreddit where all of our core belie…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 05:18 PM
5

If you feel that you have lived a very successful fulfilling life without adopting anything that people on this sub do or believe in, then power to you, and I am sincerely happy for you. But more likely than not, you subconsciously use many if the same techniques that we do. For example, trp is pretty big I self improvement, if you have worked hard to get here you are today, good for you. Second, I am sure that you don't let women walk all over you. Contrary to popular belief, trp is not about h…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 04:59 PM
-1

No, I must have missed it. Though I must admit, it sounds both hilarious and sad. Do you think you can find the link?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 02:25 PM
42

Even worse than the 36% of American women that are obese, is the percentage of that that are teaching the same habits to their sons and daughters. It is truly disgusting how some people live in this country. These people can't even be trusted to take care of themselves, let alone the next generation. Knowing how to cook healthy meals used to be a core competency for women in America, but now they can just go to McDonald's or throw another pizza in the oven when they or their children feel hunger…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 04:01 AM
10

I think that he is obviously trying to make himself look better in the eyes of your friends. Just ignore him. I guess it depends on how close you are with him/how often you see him in social situations, but I would abort friend
/r/askTRP23/05/14 11:55 PM
10

Sounds like you are deep in the friend zone. Get over her and move on to better things.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 11:27 PM
1

I think that the best ting to do would veto Kreme up regular contact wth your siblings and if they tell you about something that raises a red flag to you, discuss it with them.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 08:30 PM
1

Okay that makes a lot of sense. Thanks for clarifying
/r/askTRP23/05/14 06:41 PM
2

I don't think you can really just show it to your siblings and expect them to accept it. Trp seems to be something that you have to stumble upon yourself in order for it to be meaningful to you. If someone for me all of this when I was 16 I don't know how I would have reacted.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 06:13 PM
1

What is the difference between an ultimatum and a choice? "If x then y" just sounds like a different way of phrasing it.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 06:09 PM
3

Very true, I got a pay raise when I completed my CPCU, and also got a sweet paid vacation with a +1 to the national confrence. There is really no downside to taking these courses if the employer pays for them. It shows your employer that you care about becoming better, fast tracks you for promotions and the extra money isn't bad either.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 07:26 PM
20

Good post. Never stop improving yourself and your qualifications. One of the most valuable lessons that I learned from my father is to never be comfortable with where you are. Keep moving forward. If you are on break from college, get an internship and work out during your time off. In the professional world, like you said, find out about every certification and title that you can feasibly get. I work in insurance and it amazes me how many people won't take the time to get their CPCU or any othe…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 07:18 PM
2

I agree that you should break it off immediately if she studies abroad. If you don't, you are asking for trouble. I think that you have already handled it right. You gave her the ultimatum that if she goes, then you go. Only you can decide iff you want to immediately next her. I wouldn't try to convince her not to do it. Personally, I would next her immediately because she has already shown an inability to understand why you wouldn't want to be committed to someone in another country for like 4-…
/r/askTRP22/05/14 06:39 PM
1

Any chance that you can get a fake id?
/r/askTRP22/05/14 12:42 AM
1

Well, next time you see her in person I would straight up ask her out. If she sends mixed signals or rejects, next her and move on to better things.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 10:30 PM
2

Honestly, I would forget about the tic tac toe thing and straight up ask her out in person if you see her before/after the final. That way you will know the answer.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 10:27 PM
1

No offense, but you need to chill out. If she isn't texting you back, she is either busy, or she wants you to leave her alone. Either way there is nothing you can do. Texting her repeatedly just makes you look more desperate. Have you fucked this girl?
/r/askTRP21/05/14 10:24 PM
1

I think that telling the guy is the wrong way of approaching it, even if you attempt to make her do it. You never know how people will react to this news. If he is beta enough, he may not even give a shit.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 10:20 PM
1

Good catch.You are right, my example way of asking her out is too complimentary now that I look at it. I just thought is was a good way of leading in to the request based on OP's scenario.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 10:18 PM
0

In that scenario, I would next her like /u/gekkozorz said. If she is fucking you behind her LTR's back, who knows how many others are in the equation too.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 10:11 PM
1

Fair enough. I am glad that it worked out
/r/askTRP21/05/14 10:07 PM
12

I don't think it is old fashioned to expect and demand faithfulness from your partner at all. Faithfulness is critical for a successful relationship. I would happily debate someone who disagrees.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 07:45 PM
40

Personally, I think that if I willingly enter a LTR or a marriage, then I have a responsibility to be faithful. Now, I don't know if I will ever get married, or when my next LTR will be; but I would treat it like any other contract. It has certain provisons that need to be met by both parties and if those provisions are violated, then the contract should be terminated. I think that it is wrong to cheat because of my personal beliefs. But, I don't give a shit if another man cheats on his LTR/wife…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 07:23 PM
3

I don't think agree and amplify is the best course of action here. You are overreacting to this. If the dude is really a beta orbiter then you have nothing to worry about. A text like "okay, have fun" would be fine.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 06:55 PM
2

I have a couple pieces of advice. 1) Don't use the smiley faces. I feel that they make men seem less masculine, which is not what you want at all. 2)I think that you should start the convo with something like "Hi (name here), I really enjoyed catching up with you the other night. Would you like to join me for dinner (or lunch this Friday at 7pm at (restaurant)?" You don't have to phrase it exactly like this, but use proper grammar and get straight to the point. If she responds and says I can't a…
/r/askTRP21/05/14 06:47 PM
12

While I think that limiting masturbation will help you in the long run, the guys at nofap tend to go a bit overboard
/r/askTRP21/05/14 03:56 AM
2

Agreed, never lend money like that if you aren't prepared to lose it
/r/askTRP21/05/14 03:53 AM
2

Yes, at one point he was. When he lived in Harlem, he basically did what he needed to survive. Fun fact, he also had sex with men for money.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 10:35 PM
1

What views of his changed? In my opinion the changing of opinions is the mark of a truly great thinker.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 10:32 PM
1

Interesting argument. I have to agree with what you are saying. Let me ask you a question, if I may. Do you think that monogamy began in human cultures because men who were working all day couldn't afford to spend time chasing women throughout their lives in order to reproduce?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 10:26 PM
1

Ya, I agree
/r/askTRP06/05/14 12:37 AM
1

My opinion of the ending immediately after seeing it (and this was before i subbed to TRP) was that forms of media like porn (that JGL watches) and Romcoms (that SJ watches) are both one sided means of sexual gratification. The men that watch porn want a purely one sided means of sexual fulfillment, and that women who watch romcoms just want a man that can fulfill their own view of what they have been led to believe a real relationship should be. Neither view is better or worse than the other, b…
/r/askTRP05/05/14 08:08 PM
1

This is a pretty good answer. I think the overarching message was that porn and romcoms create warped relationship expectations for both sexes, but I agree with everything you said in your post.
/r/askTRP05/05/14 04:52 PM
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