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friendzone or comfort?

the_darklance

July 16, 2017
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Title friendzone or comfort?
Author

the_darklance

Upvotes 1
Comments 7
Date July 16, 2017 5:33 PM UTC
(9 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6nnfpf/friendzone_or_comfort/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/friendzone-or-comfort.94210
https://theredarchive.com/post/94210
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Comments

[–]sand1415 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

This an excerpt from a book but it applies to your situation:

Insist that, “No. I don’t want to meet up with friends with you. But I do want to meet you at X place, at X time, on X date. Just the two of us.” Only one of two things can happen:

  1. She’ll realize that you’re assertive, know what you want, and are confident enough to walk away from a win-lose situation, which could trigger her attraction for you and make her want to take you up on your offer, or…

  2. She’ll reject the offer and go about her business being your on-again-off-again light flirting friend of a friend who obviously just likes getting attention from men.

[–]the_darklance 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I am hesitant to do this because she is only around until Wednesday, then flies back home

[–]sand1412 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

If you're trying to have sex with her then try it, what do you have to lose?

If you're trying to have a relationship then it is best to move on, LDRs do not work.

[–]the_darklance 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

its a pretty fucked up situation, her friends are also my friends

[–]sand1417 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like you're just making excuses rather than taking action.

[–]Pitchfork51 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So what.

If a friend says "i hear you're trying to hook up with ___" then you can say "yeah."

[–]anusbleach111110 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Shit test, reply with the following,

"Send nudes"

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