Froze on date

KAWA_TOY · 2020-01-13T04:10:46+00:00

I think you're overthinking this. Worry about you and just have a good time. Connect with her on an emotional level. For example...if she brings up something that you also like dont just say "I like that too!" Tell her WHY you like it. Sit up straight and make eye contact. Throw in some flirts when the opportunity presents itself. Be natural and she will see that.

audiotrack · 2020-01-13T06:56:37+00:00

What do you like to do other than eating? Figure out and invite her to do it together. Dinner is so shitty date

RacistMuffin · 2020-01-13T02:40:58+00:00

Teases are unappealing when there is virtually no sexual tension present. Meaning, if the female is not comfortable and you created no verbal escalation and just teased, you just come out as too creepy/displaying too much intent(allows the girl know that you are interested in her, but makes it a man vs. women relationship).

Besides that the main point is you want the female to invest back into you/the conversation first by creating more rapport. Displaying similar interests as her and having a conversation that allows you to DHV/compatability(if she's looking long-term commitment) allows for this investment to happen. But, if you just go straight to teasing with no investment, there will be no emotional impact.

Quick tips with building rapport and then teasing after for sexual tension:

1) Standard question gaming: asking questions about her, etc etc (beginner)

2) Create a list of a perfect female you want: Ask her questions based on the list and see if those experiences apply to her.

Example: "Oh, you give me the impression that you travel a lot" This is rapport.

Also, you want to make sure the female is comfortable to a stage where you can tease and pull it off successfully. Therefore to teasing, it's always a ladder to test how far you have verbally escalated/seduced her which allows for higher compliance.

The format is statement --> tease --> flirt

Statement: "I think girls with blonde hair have a crazy backstory."

Tease: "Are you parents disappointed in you because you have blonde highlights?"

Flirt: "I think we might not be compatible because I have a really history with crazy blonde girls".

It all follows a ladder and you will see more socially calibrated and socially aware if you tease properly.

MasculineRP · 2020-01-13T01:52:03+00:00

It'll come back don't worry.

I'm assuming this was a first date? Don't do dinner for first dates if it was. Coffee or drinks usually do well. Somewhere where you can sit close to them and touch.

I tend to turn stuff they say into little teases. It's very situational to be honest.

Title	Froze on date
Author	TRPThrowawayAgain
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	January 13, 2020 1:49 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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