Here's the scenario. College on the east coast, I've run into a ton of girls on campus, but the vast majority of the ones I'm actually interested in have boyfriends. A lot of these boyfriends live on the other side of the country. Now I'm not a fan of making girls cheat on their boyfriends, but in my mind I can be of more positive influence in their life than a dude 1000 miles away.

With that being said, how do you game around girls with boyfriends. Obviously there are different degrees of how serious these girls are with their bfs, like if I learn about it after I made out with her at a bar vs. she told me about it fairly early on in the interaction and frequently brings the point back up. Does anyone have any general advice or have any previous posts archived about approaching situations like this? I know a lot of you will say there are a ton of girls without boyfriends, but I honestly find that the vast majority of interesting attractive girls already have boyfriends because there's a low chance she'll be single for more than a couple weeks without one if she's the dating type. Not really looking for counterpoints, honestly looking for some blackhat ways to show I'm the better choice than someone who's just not around.