Hey guys, it's been a little while since I've properly gamed girls while out. There's a number of reasons for that which don't matter. The dating apps are absolutely shit for meeting any girls nowadays, at least in my area - every single girl on them is some combination of fat, a single mom, or old.

The last time I would say I was properly going out, approaching women, and so on was back in 2015 and it feels very different now. I don't know how to put my finger on it, but the bars around here have a different feel and the girls that go to them act much more hostile. I would say that my SMV is roughly the same, because while some things went down others have improved markedly, so I don't think the reason for this difference is just me although it may be part.

The one major problem that is as true today as it was in 2015 is that I almost always have to go out alone. My best friend lives 2 hours away, and while we used to tear it up he's since gotten married so even when I visit I get dragged to these shitty bars that his wife likes. Bottom line is, I always end up going alone. This seems a little more intimidating than it used to.

So with all that out of the way, how do I update my game for 2020?

About me: 27, 6', 177lbs, triathlete