Getting Numbers, No dates... Solution?

TryQuality · 2020-10-11T19:20:29+00:00

This happened to me a lot when I first started approaching and at first I thought it was a text game problem. Something I was saying over text had to be wrong if none of my numbers are converting to dates right? So I spent hours reading about text game, value adding texts, etc. but eventually I realized that when a number doesn't lead to a date it has nothing to do with text game. In fact, text game doesn't even exist. If a girl was down to go on a date with you when you approached her why would you need to convince her again over text? That doesn't make any sense. The problem was that the girl never wanted to go on a date with me in the first place. Girls will give you their numbers for a lot of reasons - to get rid of you, get attention from you, etc. but that doesn't mean they want to go out with you. The solution to this is that you should be screening the girls for attraction and availability through kino escalation during the approach. Touch her and be more physical during the approach and see how she responds - if she responds positively she is attracted to you and sexually available. Chris from Goodlookingloser talks about using screening to avoid wasting your time on girls that are not interested/available and specific ways to screen girls. I can DM you a link to his blog post if you're interested.

Mrhobo888 · 2020-10-11T19:47:54+00:00

When going out, know your limit when it comes to drinking and drugs. Get a good buzz on, enough to have that liquid courage. I got shit faced way too many times, that I couldn't talk to girls.

Also just building that confidence. Baby steps. Start by talking to everyone( cashier's, that guy behind the counter making your sandwich), and it'll go into your dating life as well.

This last one comes down to you. Make more money. Girls don't want no boy, they want a man that can wine and dine them, fuck em good. Everything. More money will help with everything

gracienoob · 2020-10-11T22:32:29+00:00

Haha, how many approaches are you doing?

Go approach more, and then some more, then add some tinder, then approach more

michael1962-01 · 2020-10-12T06:39:46+00:00

Don't go for numbers.

Direct suggest coffee

Title	Getting Numbers, No dates... Solution?
Author	TryQuality
Upvotes	1
Comments	22
Date	October 11, 2020 6:57 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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