Allow me to preface this by saying that about a year ago I was a major slut. My kill count was crazy high and I was spinning 6 or 7 plates at a time. Following a moral crisis so to speak, I decided to cut out sex for a little bit and then narrow my focus down to one girl.

Things developed and she eventually turned into a gf. However sex always seems to be where we don’t share the same view. She’s not had anywhere near as many sexual partners as I’ve had which i view as a good thing but the sex she has had has all been vanilla so it’s been an uphill battle trying to bring out the inner hoe in her.

Our biggest issue right now is that she makes me fuck her with a condom on. She’s so afraid of getting pregnant that she won’t even try to entertain the idea of raw sex. It’s driving me a little crazy because I can understand not wanting to fuck a stranger raw but I’m her bf and have been for a while. Every time things get hot, she stops me to put a rubber on, and I consequently lose my immersion. I also can’t stay hard with a condom on for very long so in the end I end up being frustrated with the situation (she gets off just fine and ends up dripping wet).

I dont know how else to get her to ease up a bit without getting into an argument about it. She’s talked about getting an iud but those are irritating for me and it’s been nothing but talk all this time. She’s also not open to other forms of bc which makes this even more of an issue for us. I’ve tried anal with her but she’s the type of girl to make me shower right after it which is also mildly infuriating. Seeing as I’m trying to live a more moral life, It also doesn’t help when old plates hit me up from time to time begging me to fuck their brains out.

Wondering if anyone here has been in the same position and can relate if not offer suggestions or advice. Thanks gents.