Long story short I had oneitis for a girl. However I have managed to ghost her and have managed to cure it . Recently today I messaged her regarding her language ( she's polish which is a language I must learn at a basic level since I work with a lot on non English speaking pols ). I kept it short and simple. However now she's asking why I asked. I'd like to know the best way to respond as I'd still like a one night stand/ride from this chick Cheers lads :)