girl in relationship

hmsthinkingmeat · 2019-11-28T09:01:33+00:00

"She sends me nudes....then says ooh nooo I have a boyfriend."

1) Anti-slut defence.

2) She loves attention.

3) Is a drama queen with a personality disorder.

Take your pick, but if she's told her boyfriend and he's now after you then I'd go for (3) and possibly intermingled with (2).

Eric Berne in his book "games people play" identifies a group of women who behave in this way called "now let's you and him fight" - where she creates situations where 2 dudes will fight over her.

You can read his diagnosis of them and their motives but I wouldn't bother, I'd just avoid her like the plague.

Blackhawk2479 · 2019-11-28T11:02:34+00:00

Why the fuck would you tell her you’re tying to fuck her? That sort of direct, overt communication leaves no wiggle room for her to operate in the grey areas.

Give her a reason to be alone with you with plausible deniability
Escalate non-verbally once alone
She either continues the ASD or fucks you because “it just happened” and she gets to hamster it away as not cheating
???
Profit.

hoopingblob · 2019-11-28T09:22:15+00:00

That's why you shouldn't fuck with people in a relationship, even if she is the one chasing you.

Unnecessary drama.

smgtn · 2019-11-28T09:28:45+00:00

I had a few of those in the past. They were eager to go on a date with me, but then were suspiciously resistant during the date, then afterwards their boyfriends started messaging me to stay away from their girls. It's fucking hilarious and pathetic, just block them and move on.

Those chicks do this shit on purpose to dread their betas, they don't even hide it which is the whole point. I've banged many chicks that had boyfriends and husbands, but none of them contacted me, because when they want to these bitches can be stealth as fuck.

dirkberkis · 2019-11-28T09:32:57+00:00

Yo theres entirely too many identical posts here.

this girls sending mixed signals and has a boyfriend, what do?

Stop fucking around with girls in relationships. Theyre just trying to play games and all that happens is problems. Sure you might get some pussy if youre into low hanging fruit but ffs you guys are ALLL about girls who are already with a dude lmao

RedLegendx · 2019-11-28T10:33:43+00:00

Attention seeking, trying to lure you in to being her orbiter by using nudes as bait, simple shit.

Title	girl in relationship
Author	KFCLonesomeranger
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	November 28, 2019 8:44 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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