Hello members of TRP,

I have been seeing a girl for past two months and I really like her. She is pretty, funny, has some brains and a personality to go with it. I enjoy spending time with her. Besides that, she has been doing stuff for me very few girls before have done (Domestic stuff + generous in bed), which I think I have TRP to thank for.

Ten days ago she joined a dance class to learn a new form. She insisted I come with her but I didn't have time due to longer working hours than her. Anyway she joined and became 'friends' with one of the instructor there. I have been out of town this week and there was an event to which she was interested in going. For some reason, she asked this instructor if he could arrange tickets for her, To which he said he already had two, if she wanted to join him. And she replied with a yes.

Later on, while talking on phone, she described how excited she was to go on an event and how she wished I was in city to go with her. And I asked her who she is going with now (I was expecting friends from work) and she replied she is going with the instructor she became friends with, where she goes to learn new form.

I played cool and said "So you're going out on a date" To which she replied "It's not a date, we are just going to hang out"

I explained her why I thought it was a date. I told her, no guy, who knows you only for a few days, would offer to take you out on an event like this, without considering it a date. She was reluctant to agree that it was a date but she finally did and apologised and said she won't go with him.

I didn't talk to her the next day and she called me to apologize again and I told her it's a red flag to me, that you could consider going out so easily with someone else, while telling me how much you love me. She asked me not to leave her for this mistake and tried to assure she wouldn't repeat such a thing again.

I really like her and enjoy her company and I am more of an LTR guy than a plate spinner (because I like the emotional connection) , however this event has left a bitter taste in my mouth and I don't know whether it would be right for me to continue. Also I am not comfortable with the fact that she is very comfortable being around guys and has many guy friends she could hang out with. But she says she never feels anything for them, besides friendship. Any advice?