Hey Asktrp,

before I ask, I just want to say I know there's more fishes out there and that I know can get them.

Girlfriend has been texting her ex of two years almost everyday, and I'm not really tripping because he's in LA and we're in SF, so nothing physical can happen but it's starting to get to me. She tells me she loves me and we have sex 2-3 times a day, but I'm not really digging the ex shit. I want her to stop texting him. In addition, she keeps telling me how much of a spiritual connection her and he had.

I didn't want to type this down because it makes me feel like a chump, but fuck, I really want advice. I've told her that I don't want her texting her ex before and she's flat out told me no because that's her best friends even before they became bf and gf and some other story of how he saved her from committing suicide.

What I've been trying to do is ignore the fact that she communicates with her ex and I've started talking to other girls and communicating with them in front of her.

What should I do about her ex and her?