Going nuclear

WheresMyNeckbeard · 2017-06-25T15:44:25+00:00

take a deep breath, take a step back and look at your relationship as if it were someone else's. 8 months of acting weird towards you isn't a hiccup, it's a trend, meaning she no longer sees you as one of her top priorities in her life anymore: aka she's getting ready to branch swing if she hasn't already cheated.

Remember, awalt and she's not yours, it's only your turn

since you already went the nuclear option, it's time for you to keep being stoic, keep improving yourself, and continue being flirty with other girls. If you really want to keep the relationship then only do so so long as she continues to act like how she used to but most would agree to permanently put her in plate status. But that's their boundaries, not yours. Do what works for you. Just always remember that she's not yours and awalt

vandaalen · 2017-06-25T17:37:22+00:00

Usually when women suddenly act off, especially if it is on a way that should provoke a negative reaction from you, it means they already have cheated on you or are seriously considering it.

They need your negative reaction to their behaviour to provide them with the necessary amount of plausible deniability. "He is suuuuuch an aaaaasshoooole anyways!"

It might also mean that they want you to spare them from having to end the relationship.

Anyways you should start looking for a plan b right now. I predict that this won't be going on much longer.

As a sidenote a relationship of eight months is not a long term relationship.

[deleted] · 2017-06-25T16:01:22+00:00

LTRs stop being LTRs when you stop seeing each other.

She should've been downgraded to a plate last month and you shouldn'tve continued texting her.

You did good not taking her shit, but now it's time to break off and go fuck other girls.

If she wants back in, she's gonna have to work extra for it. Mandatory apology BJ, etc.

7Fig · 2017-06-25T22:09:25+00:00

Ultimatums are a dumb idea. Texting should be for logistics so seeking any other validation through text is also a no go. Her not treating you like a "loving girlfriend" should is usually your fault and due to a lack of attraction.

If you were really serious about how think a women should treat you; you would have been confident in your decision to part ways and then communicate that to her in a alpha like manner. Then move on to the next.

You have oneitis and lack a good foundation in the basics of male leadership. Getting pissy with her and demanding her to choose either option of your ultimatum will definitely drive Chad's throbbing cock down her throat.

Advice: Sidebar bro ------->

IronMonk48 · 2017-06-25T23:30:23+00:00

You can't negotiate attraction. At this point you need to be stoic, act aloof, and look for new prospects. Wrap your junk up if you continue to fuck her bc it's likely she has already cheated on you. OP, you are the prize, do what's best for you my friend.

DanG_ptsss · 2017-06-26T07:16:41+00:00

Same thing happened to me last 2 months, LTR all the sudden acted weird, for a few days we did not talk as much as we used to be, one day I took a step and ask her, she said we should stop and didn't give me proper reason, "Just my feeling" bullshit. Just like that we ended for a month now. Feel like a loser, but that is before i discover trp, now im focusing on increasing smv.

Title	Going nuclear
Author	cinaxi
Upvotes	22
Comments	19
Date	June 25, 2017 2:45 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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