Going well... Ish

tombreck2 · 2014-10-17T14:01:55+00:00

Here's Hugh Jackman when he was 29 and now when he's 46

http://ll-media.tmz.com/2014/10/09/1009-hugh-jackman-good-genes-docs-launch-3.jpg

sparta126 · 2014-10-17T13:12:19+00:00

It's not horseshit. If you've been applying principles since your early to mid 20's your 30s should be extraordinary . It seems like you've just started. You still should have an advantage given you've had over 30+ years experience. You need to understand that starting out progress will be slow as it should. Trp men are like skyscrapers. You need to spend a lot of time at the base before you can build the floors. It's great that you started working out. It's great that you have hobbies. You need to understand that working out and hobbies don't get you women. It's the person you become from them that gets you women.

For example weight lifting. Yes if you do it hard you'll get an amazing physic. But weight lifting is about more than physic. It's meant to teach you persistence and perserverance as well as self confidence.

It gives you the confidence to take those shit tests the girl throws at you, it gives you the perseverance to keep talking when a girl rejects you and it gives you the persistence to keep on going out and talking to women.

I encourage you to give it time and good things will happen for you if you stay on your path. Getting laid is not what it's all about. If you want validation by getting laid your not red pill. Getting laid is just a perk of the man you have become. At 32 if you spend 2 years developing yourself you'll dominate all the competition. Stay the course.

vandaalen · 2014-10-17T15:51:34+00:00

The Red Pill is not a recipe for a wonder potion that will magically change the world around you.

Your post screams neediness and although there isn't much that women can sense outside their solipsistic world, neediness is something they can sense with their anti-beta radar.

I am 38, I started bettering myself when I stopped drinking 2 years ago and it took me a dry spell of over a year to get laid.

The first is the hardest, it get's better afterwards because you've got a plate who you can turn to if you need some relief, which again gives you confidence when gaming other women. I wouldn't exactly call it abundance mentality, but it's like having at least three months of expenses covered instead of having to live from paycheck to paycheck.

Lower your standards, bang that fatty, who isn't a complete landwhale but has a nice face, make her addicted to you. You will also learn how to apply all the various things you read here about how to handle women, and you it will be easier with her, because you won't be too affected if you will have to next her.

Just keep on improving yourself and things will work out in your favour.

Edit: Take a step back and observe all the small things that changed to the better in your life since you decided to take it in your own hands. Getting pussy is just a small part of it and it will follow the rest.

dreckmal · 2014-10-17T14:19:41+00:00

Seriously man, keep with it. I turn 32 next month, and I been on the pill for about 7 or 8 months. It will get better, you just gotta keep at it.

There may be weeks or months were you will feel stagnant, but you are making progress. I just cleared a couple plateaus in lifting and bass playing in the last couple weeks. I had been hung up on that shit since I started.

mbillion · 2014-10-17T17:13:00+00:00

One thing I always preach is that location influences execution. So you have a bunch of friends who are family guys - yeah that is going to give some hot little tart knee buckling orgasms. Nope, you need to change your context. You live in the suburbs right? where all the married dudes live.

Well its not going to happen there unless that is what you are looking for. The reason I say location influences execution is because you need to go, be, live, work etc where you want to make things happen with the demographic that you find desirable.

In the strictest most fucked up way of talking about it you need to find target rich environments. In some boring suburban bar the one hot female in there knows she could take any of those lonely bored house-husbands home. She is in the target rich environment not you. You need to flip the scenario. I have found that you need to find the posh area where responsible twenty and thirty year olds congregate but are widely single and still looking to have fun.

Lastly, I know it sucks to hear, but your married friends are dead weight. If they cannot hang when you are looking to accomplish your goals - i.e. to get laid, then they are not helping you accomplish your goals

Title	Going well... Ish
Author	CircleOfO
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	October 17, 2014 12:34 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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